Forcibly pretending

"What did you just say to that colleague, he was so happy." Vivi, who was wearing a seatbelt, asked casually.

"Want to know?" Li Ting got the answer he wanted from Meng Qing, and he was naturally in a good mood, he glanced at Vivian with squinted eyes, and said with a smile: "Kiss me, kiss me, and I'll tell you!" ”

"Okay." Vivian was not pretentious, loosened the seat belt that had just been buckled, pulled the other party's collar and kissed it.

"Uh, you ate garlic, didn't you?" Li Ting turned his head to the side in disgust while controlling Vivian who was leaning over, "I just told him, 'The oil stains on Meng Qing's hands are obvious'. ”

"Grease stains? Ah, I understand that if Meng Qing is telling the truth, there will definitely be his fingerprints on the money he touched. Vivien returned to her seat, buckled her seat belt again, and suddenly realized: "As long as you find the large-denomination banknote with Meng Qing's fingerprints left in Xiaofang, this case can be solved." ”

"It's not that simple, the money with fingerprints can only be used as evidence, implying that Xiao Fang may have mai yin behavior, of course, Xiao Fang can also defend herself, saying that Meng Qing forced it to herself afterwards, but no matter what, as long as this evidence is real, even if Xiao Fang conceals the details of the case, in that case, the outcome of this case will have a high probability of becoming a private adjustment." Li Ting also buckled his seat belt and sighed, "But do you think Xiaofang will leave such obvious evidence for our colleagues?" ”

"Who knows? By the way, looking at Meng Qing this time, have you gained anything? Vivien was clearly more concerned about the issue.

"Yes, and it's big, but you'll have to drive back to the city bureau first, and I'll tell you on the way."

"Okay." Vivian Lisuo's ignition started, and as soon as she drove out of the gate of the police station compound, she couldn't help but speak, "You asked so much nonsense, what do you want to know from Meng Qing?" ”

"Do you remember the old village chief's grandson with a scar on his face?" Li Ting looked at the side and looked ahead and drove seriously, and Vivian, who didn't forget to nod in response, continued: "The scar on his face, according to the old village chief himself, was caused by Fan Shen. ”

"Does this have anything to do with Meng Qing?" Vivian took advantage of the red light and glanced at Li Ting, who was halfway through the conversation, this guy should not be too obvious.

"Of course, I was just guessing, but after hearing about Meng Qing's father, I can be sure." Li Ting ignored Vivien's disgruntled eyes, followed her question, and said, "However, first of all, I want to show off to you some of the imperfect results that I have summed up through life experience. “

"Not perfect, what do you say he does......" Vivien said speechlessly.

"Actually, it's not that I want to say, it's the author who wants to say that he always feels that his time is running out, so he asked me to do my best to pretend!" Li Ting was equally helpless.

"Okay, then please continue your boring pretending!"

In fact, in my opinion, people's personality can be roughly divided into initial character and acquired character, and character basically determines a person's way of life and behavior.

People's initial personality will generally be stereotyped before the age of 12 to 15, this character is mainly affected by the family environment and growth environment in which they live, after all, children before this age limit have a strong ability to imitate, so they will also show a part of the way of life and things from imitation, that is to say, people's initial personality will be affected by the way of life and style of the elders who usually get along with them day and night. And because of the different growth environment, the child's behavior will get different external feedback, this feedback seems to be ordinary and simple, but it also directly affects the child's awareness of the society in front of them, thus affecting their future life and style of life.

The sum of the above two is called the initial personality of a person, which tends to follow the person's life, but in adulthood, it is more common in people's reactions and states when they cannot control their emotions well and when they encounter unfamiliar things for the first time.

After the age limit of 12 to 15 years old, or when children have a certain self-thinking ability and more objective self-awareness, they will continue to improve and change their existing way of life through learning and practice, and they are also subtly or forcibly changing their initial character, which is actively or passively changed after the character, I call it the acquired character.

There are many factors that affect the acquired personality, such as book knowledge, life experience, people in contact with people, blows suffered, etc., all of which affect the personality of the person, and sometimes completely replace the initial personality.

Suppose an example related to the facts of the case, for example, in the small social collective of the class, the teacher is the invisible default social judge, and he is constantly judging the right and wrong of any behavior of the students he teaches, and the students are also practicing in this social collective with their weak ways of doing things and doing things.

According to these, let's take a look at the grandson of the old village chief, Meng Qing and Fan Shen.

In that remote mountain village nine years ago, such a thankless position as the village chief was generally elected by the villagers spontaneously, so what kind of people would the villagers choose to sit in this position? Naturally, it is prestigious and fair in their minds, so the position of the old village chief is not a trick. As the grandson of the old village chief, he must have borrowed a lot of light from his grandfather in the township, so it is inevitable that he will be a little domineering. Children of his age either can't beat him, or they are educated by their parents at home and don't provoke. Therefore, it is not incomprehensible that the grandson of the old village chief is 'king and hegemon' in the class or even in the village school.

On the other hand, Fan Shen, according to the old village chief, the reason why Fan Shen's grandfather got mentally ill was because of Fan Shen's grandmother's sudden departure, as for whether this departure was eloped with someone or a thin life, let's not delve into it, in short, Grandpa Fan has become abnormal since his wife left. At that time, Dad Fan was only five years old, and Dad Fan, who had finally eaten a hundred meals, grew up and married his wife with his skills, but he didn't expect that his wife died during confinement, which made Dad Fan even more desperate for this family, and at this time, Dad Fan, who was desperate, made a decision that affected Fan Shen's life. It is also because of this decision that the young Fan Shen followed his grandfather, who was sick from time to time, lived alone in the countryside, and over the years, the old village chief helped and frightened, and the neighbors did not let the two of them go hungry, but after a long time, everyone inevitably had gossip and complaints, but it was limited to their own pits. As for the fuse that put everyone's hearts together, it was also the culprit who threw down Fan Shen's grandfather and grandson in the first place, when Fan's father drove back to the village to see his son and father, it completely gave everyone an outlet, and from that time, Fan Shen and his grandfather officially changed from poor people eating hundreds of family meals to public pastimes in the streets and alleys of the village, after tea and dinner. This kind of life made Fan Shen's initial personality mixed with a lot of timidity and uneasiness. And his classmates imitated the emotions that his parents put on him, which also made him completely become the object of ridicule by his classmates in the class, and became the lowest victim of the class, a social collective.

We can know from Meng Qing's words that after Fan Shen arrived in the city, his situation in the class was not much better at all. Meng Qing, as a repeater, originally had an inexplicable sense of oppression for the fresh graduates in the original class, and the reason that he was not good at studying and was deliberately ignored by the teacher also further encouraged his delusional thoughts of 'doing nonsense' in the class, but Liwei needed a certain amount of 'sacrifice', at this time, Fan Shen, who was usually silent and came from the countryside, naturally became his preferred target. ”

"Stop, stop, stop, mutter? What do you mean? Vivien parked the car and turned to look at Li Ting.

"It means that where there is oppression, there will be resistance, whether it is the scar on the face of the grandson of the old village chief or the case nine years ago, it is not an accident." Li Ting unbuckled his seat belt and approached Vivian: "Also, it's not that I want to say so much, it's the author who forced me to say so much." ”

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