Chapter 36: Detachment from the Self (1)

At this time, Yang Jian and Zhang Hanbing also leaned forward, putting their arms on the back of the chairs of the two, originally there were only plastic stools for players to sit on in this game hall, but because Yi Xuan was soaking here all day long, in order to make his butt more comfortable, he bought four office swivel chairs that are often used in offices.

"Why am I losing too? Why can you still turn the tables with only that trace of blood? Why can't I beat you once? Yi Xuan asked the three most doubtful questions in his heart.

Yang Jian patted Yi Xuan on the shoulder, as if to comfort him, although he was also obsessed with games, but Yi Xuan's serious energy towards games, the three of them sometimes watched his performance, and suddenly understood the kind of sympathetic and worried expressions on the faces of others when they were obsessed with games, and now Yang Jian's face looked at Yi Xuan with this expression.

Wang Xiaotian seemed to be a little entangled when he heard this, sometimes he really wondered if he would simply lose to Yi Xuan once, otherwise it was really unbearable to see his expression that seemed like the end of the world every time he was defeated by himself.

"That ......" Wang Xiaotian seemed to think hard, how to explain the supernatural events that he couldn't understand, it was clear that Yi Xuan's current strength could defeat himself, although he had been playing arcade for a long time, and his specialization was more thorough, but to be honest, Wang Xiaotian felt that his talent was average, but Yi Xuan was different, although he was completely abused by himself at the beginning, but after his own point, the speed of improvement of his strength can be said to be a thousand miles a day, If you have to say that he has any problems now, it may be that the play of strength is a little unstable, but this instability is much stronger than the instability he had at the beginning, at most it is just a small mistake.

"I think it's very likely that you have a psychological obstacle to fighting against Wang Xiaotian." At this time, Zhang Hanbing, who was behind him, pushed his glasses and said.

Yi Xuan immediately turned around and looked at Zhang Hanbing: "What does this sentence mean?" ”

"It's a habitual movement, and there seems to be an example of this in psychology, and I think you've heard of that case of an elephant tied with a rope, right? That's a very typical habitual action. Zhang Hanbing is usually relatively quiet, so although the contact time is not short, this is the first time to have a formal conversation with him, and I didn't expect that as soon as he came out, it was very commensurate with his appearance as a scholar.

Rope to tie an elephant? Yi Xuan has indeed heard that this is a very famous Internet philosophical story, and the more common version is that a circus abroad is performing, and people see an elephant tied to a small tree with a thin rope, obediently grazing with its big nose, and not far away is the forest that elephants dream of.

People asked the head of the circus, would the elephants be willing to perform?

The leader replied that the elephant had never dreamed of returning to the jungle.

Then they asked, "Why don't the elephants run?" You know, its strength is so great, if it really wants to run, no one can stop it.

The chief said, "Well, no one can stop the elephant, and if it wants to run, no one can do it."

People wondered, why didn't the elephant run?

And the chief said, Don't you see the rope? It's tethered to an elephant!

And they laughed and said, How can this rope be tied to an elephant? As long as it pushes hard, such a thin rope will break immediately, and the elephant will be able to return to the forest!

And the chief said, Ye are right. But the elephant never breaks free from that thin rope. It knew it couldn't break free from the rope.

Everyone was puzzled, saying that your rope is made of special materials? It looks ordinary!

As he spoke, he walked over and looked at the rope carefully. Indeed, this is a very ordinary rope, not to mention the strength of an elephant, even a stronger person can break free from this rope.

And the chief said, Yes, this is an ordinary rope. But you know, it was tied to the elephant from the time it was a very small calf.

People still wonder, what does it matter?

The leader said meaningfully, the crux of the matter was here. When the elephant was a calf, it was tied to this rope. It tried to break free from the rope countless times, but failed. Over time, the baby elephant knows that its efforts are in vain, that it cannot break free from this rope, and that it will no longer make such useless efforts.

Therefore, when the elephant is still a baby elephant, it is a rope that ties it, and when the baby elephant grows into an elephant, it is actually a habit to tie him.

"Are you saying that I have become accustomed to losing to Wang Xiaotian?" Yi Xuan also seems to have some difficulty understanding the citation of this theory here.

"That's right, when you first met Wang Xiaotian, you were impressed by his King of Fighters' fighting skills, in your psychology, Wang Xiaotian is like a measure of things, in your heart is an insurmountable obstacle, want to win him brings you a very heavy psychological burden, this burden will put pressure on you, this pressure is like the rope that binds the baby elephant, every time you want to break free, the invincible impression he initially left you will appear in your subconscious, and then produce pressure, The pressure makes you make mistakes, just now Yang Jian and I have been watching from behind, several times you have a chance to turn defeat into victory, but you let the opportunity slip away in vain, on the surface your defeat to Wang Xiaotian seems to be an accident, in fact, this is an inevitability, as long as there is such an obstacle in your heart, you will definitely not defeat him. Zhang Hanbing's mouth was like a river, and he talked eloquently, which sounded like there was some truth, and Yang Jian and Wang Xiaotian next to him also nodded vigorously when they heard it.

"So what should I do?" Yi Xuan asked Zhang Hanbing sincerely.

"I think if you're going to break out of this pattern, you're going to have to break the rope once."

"How do you break it?" Yi Xuan came to the spirit.

Who knew that Zhang Hanbing, who was still serious just now, shrugged his shoulders: "Defeat Wang Xiaotian once." ”

"Damn, that's not the same as not saying it." Yi Xuan was immediately deflated when he heard this, and leaned back in his chair heavily, Wang Xiaotian and Yang Jian listened to what Zhang Hanbing said just now, and they both listened attentively, and they all laughed when they heard Zhang Hanbing actually give such a suggestion.

Wang Xiaotian also patted Yi Xuan's shoulder to show comfort: "Okay, as long as you are ready, I will accompany you." Yi Xuan waved his hand at them helplessly.

Break free from the shackles? Break free from the shackles?

All day, Yi Xuan's mind was full of this word, although Zhang Hanbing said it was evil, but the meaning Yi Xuan still understood, it was obvious that he was a little too unconfident, and the main reason why he couldn't defeat Wang Xiaotian was not that he was not good at his skills, but that he was limited by his own psychological barriers, but although he knew the crux of the matter, but how to surpass the past, it was Yi Xuan, he was not a psychological master, if he saw others encountering this situation, he might be able to give some advice recklessly, But now that I'm a fan of the authorities, I don't know what to do.

Although he was confused, but in the afternoon, he still came to the fight club as scheduled, in addition to letting him carry out basic training, Kai recently added the two of them fighting actual combat training, on the one hand, it was to improve Yi Xuan's fighting skills, on the other hand, Kai was to let Yi Xuan use his leg skills, so that he could figure it out, but Yi Xuan never used his own family leg skills, but tried his best to fight with the fighting skills taught by Yang Kai, which made Yang Kai a little anxious.

Today, when he and Yang Kai were training in martial arts skills, they were still thinking about the problems in the morning, and the two practiced for a while, because they were absent-minded, Yi Xuan really suffered several times, Yang Kai also saw that Yi Xuan was no longer in love, and after fighting for a while, he really couldn't continue, and said helplessly: "Let's take a rest first." ”

The two sat on the rest chairs, wiping their sweat and drinking water at the same time, "Something on your mind?" Yang Kai asked seemingly casually.

"Alas" Yi Xuan sighed, if he discussed the game with Yang Kai, he would probably get a big roll of his eyes. So he was a little reluctant to say it.

"What's wrong? Got a problem? Say it, even if it can't help you solve it, it's good to give you some advice, otherwise you are so absent-minded all day long, how can we continue to practice our boxing? Yang Kai used to be a soldier, and he liked to go straight when he spoke, and when he saw Yi Xuan sighing, he immediately asked out a series of questions.

Yi Xuan took a sip of water, thinking in his heart how to express his meaning as tactfully as possible, "Have you ever had a psychological disorder?" ”

"Psychological disorder?" Yang Kai seemed to have some doubts about the topic that Yi Xuan said.

"That's right, there is one thing, obviously you can do it, but there is an insurmountable gap in your heart, so that you can't always do it at the last moment." Yi Xuan's expression on his face was twisted by the entanglement as he explained, it seemed that what he was talking about was a very serious matter, indeed, the game was a very serious thing in his psyche.

But in Yang Kai's eyes, it was far from the case, and after thinking for a few seconds, he suddenly showed a knowing smile: "Are you sure you're talking about psychological barriers?" His eyes were like Yi Xuan's lower body.

Yi Xuan looked at Yang Kai's inexplicable strange smile, and his eyes, and suddenly understood, "Hey, you're not so evil, are you?" There's no obstacle on my side. ”

"Haha, just kidding." Yang Kai laughed when he saw Yi Xuan's reaction, "I understand what you said, let's put it this way, everyone may encounter it, but some things may be stronger, and some people may be easier to surpass in some small things in life, I also had it when I was a soldier before." He raised his head and took a sip of water.