72:Marriage (1)
In the evening, Su Yuting came to the fortune telling shop to meet us, and the little couple had already called, told me the address, and asked us to take a taxi to go over, and reimburse the road expenses when we arrived. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
When I came to the woman's house, the little couple was counting the things they had prepared for today, and after confirming that they were all ready, I began to decorate.
First cut the red cloth and cut two small pieces for hijab.
The names and birthdays of the two are written on the hijab. The woman's name is Wang Xiaoqin, and the man's name is Sun Jun.
Let the two of them cut their nails, Wang Xiaoqin's nail color has been restored, cut off the nails of the ten fingers of the two of them, and then let the two of them cut a handful of hair and wrap it in paper with the nails.
Arrange the god case, place the statue of the old moon god in front of the table, then place fruit and meat offerings, light incense and red candles, prepare three wine glasses, and pour them all in front of the statue.
Taking out the bergamot model, the little couple couldn't find a ready-made bergamot model for a while, so they took plasticine and pinched one, and then fixed it with some thin pieces of wood.
I stuffed the photos of Wang Xiaoqin's parents under the Buddha's hands, which meant that the Buddha would suppress the negative emotions of the two, so that the two would no longer have the heart to restrain the young couple.
The Buddha's hand is facing the statue of Yue Lao, which means that Wang Xiaoqin's parents are facing Yue Lao, so that what her parents are thinking about is how to promote their daughter's marriage, rather than disturbing their daughter's marriage again.
Take out the black beans, wrap them in a small piece of black cloth and put them at the bottom of the Buddha's hand, the black beans have the effect of absorbing aura, and also have the effect of channeling and warding off evil spirits, which is to strengthen the communication between the Buddha's hand and the statue of the old moon.
At this time, let the little couple kneel in front of Yue Lao, cover their heads with red cloth, so that they can't see each other, and their middle fingers are tied up with red thread soaked in cinnabar, and then a knot is tied on the red line, and the other end of the line is wrapped around Yue Lao's body.
Put the remaining red cloth on the two of them, and sprinkle the remaining black beans on the two of them one by one, so that the aura of communication hits the two of them, so that Yue Lao can receive the message that the two want to marry.
After the black beans were sprinkled, I began to read to the old man: "Today, there are earthly infatuated men who complain about the queen Xiaoqin and Sun Jun are willing to become husband and wife in this life, and the old man will be perfected, and the two of them will have a happy marriage, and the two of them will bow down and thank you!" ”
The ceremony of kowtowing for young couples should be consistent with the ceremony of marriage of the ancients.
First, they worshiped heaven and earth, and the two kowtowed to Yue Lao.
Then there was the second worship of the high hall, and the two kowtowed to the photo of their parents.
In the end, the husband and wife bowed to each other, and the two kowtowed face to face.
After that, I began to drink a glass of wine, I first sprinkled the wine of respecting heaven and earth and parents in front of the statue and the Buddha's hand, and then poured two more glasses of wine for the two of them, and only after drinking the glass of wine could I remove the hijab.
The effect of covering his head and eyes with a red cloth and covering his entire body with a red cloth is to allow Yue Lao not to go directly to see two real people, but only two red puppets.
The puppet represents the two young couples at this time, and the name and birth date on the hijab can intuitively let Yue Lao receive the information.
If Yue Lao is directly allowed to see two real people, then the information received by the idol will be more chaotic, because people's minds are more chaotic, and God can see many things that people can't see. If you see some negative information, it will also affect the outcome of this marriage.
The preliminary ceremony of the marriage is completed, and then the stitches are removed, and the red thread of the middle finger of the two people is removed, and the hijab cannot be lifted at this time, and it is necessary to wait until the old man is sent away.
After removing the red thread, let the two still kneel in front of the idol and worship, without raising their heads.
In this process, you should also pay attention to the last glass of wine left in front of the god case, if there is no movement in this glass of wine, it means that Yue Lao was not invited, and this marriage is also a failure.
When the wine in the cup decreases, it means that the old man has come and eaten the tribute wine, then the marriage will be successful.
When I saw with my own eyes that half of the wine in the glass was missing, I was overjoyed that the marriage had been successful.
I cut another piece of black cloth, made a square cardboard box, hollowed out the cardboard box up and down, covered it with the statue of the old moon, and then covered the whole box with a black cloth.
My hand reached under the cardboard box, carefully took out the idol, and in the process I couldn't let the idol be exposed, I had to hide it under the black cloth, and when I was about to take it out, I had already prepared the satchel with my other hand, and stuffed the idol into the satchel, so that Yue Lao was sent away.
After that, I took off the hijab and the red cloth on the two of them, and let the two of them hide in the bedroom, and I didn't tell them not to move when they came out.
Actually, it's not that there is any special taboo for them to hide, but that I'm going to burn their hair and nails for a while, so that they can't see it.
When I came to the kitchen, I found a bowl, put some dark paper in it, threw the hair and nails of the little couple into it, and set it on fire, until all the hair and nails were burned thoroughly and burned into powder.
When I was done, I mixed the wood chips I scraped from the coffin with the powder of my burned hair and nails, put them aside, and then started cooking.
Wang Xiaoqin's house usually no one lives, yesterday or I told to cook on the fire before they went to prepare some ingredients rice noodles, opened the refrigerator I found lily, red dates, longan, lotus seeds, my heart was very happy, so I first burned a hundred years of good soup.
The name of this soup alone contributes to a successful marriage!
After the soup was cooked, I filled two bowls, poured the mixed powder into the two bowls, and let the young couple drink it for a while, which would increase the affection between the two of them.
This method cannot be known to the two young couples, and if either of them knows, this method will not have any effect.
After I was busy with this, I called the young couple out and asked them to drink the hundred-year-old good soup first, and then said: "The two of you exchange photos with each other, wrap a small piece of red cloth into a triangle, and wrap nine black beans in it, put it in your wallet or pocket and carry it with you, so that you have me in your heart and you in my heart, which can further enhance the relationship between the two." ”
The two complied, and then the entire marriage ceremony was completed.
The next thing to pay attention to is the Buddha's hand on the desk and the remaining black cloth-covered cardboard box, these two things must not be moved, and must be kept as they are.
A stick of incense is lit every day, red candles are constantly lit without being burned, and a bowl of water is also needed as an offering, and the rest of the offerings such as fruits, meat, and wine are no longer needed.
Because the old moon god has been sent away, all that remains at this moment is a trace of its remaining breath, and the offering with incense and water is just to show respect, and the offering table cannot be withdrawn as soon as the god leaves, which makes people feel that there is a desolate feeling of people walking away from tea.