Tu Kuoyao was very well prepared, not to mention that he was calculating the time to prepare.

After arriving here for a short rest, all kinds of delicacies from the grassland were served in turn. The most pleasing thing is the roasted whole sheep, and the little girls almost drooled when they saw it.

"Now that you're on the right track, you just came over, although I took a cursory look at it, but I'm very angry." After eating and drinking for a while, Yang Xuantong said with a smile.

"I think it's about the same, otherwise I wouldn't have found myself a place to sleep." Tu Kuoyao nodded and said.

"The boss is responsible for all business matters. Whether it's a loss or a gain, whether it's good or bad, it doesn't matter to me. When Qingya becomes a home, I will walk around, go around for a walk, and return here to retire when I feel that I can't do it. ”

"Lao Tu said this well, how much can we help as parents, it's almost enough." Yang Shan nodded on the side and said in agreement.

"That's not going to work. For the first 30 years, you stayed with your son, and I had to stay by my son's side for the rest of the day. Su Ziqin expressed a different opinion.

"Depending on you, according to you, I can do it anywhere." Yang Shan immediately changed his position.

"Lao Tu, the place is almost chosen, right? Take a little rest today, and we'll go over tomorrow to have a look. However, judging from your face today, the place you chose should not be bad, at least one of them is a good yin house. Yang Xuantong said with a smile.

"Hehe, I'm just a blind choice. I figured out where I felt good, so I asked. Tu Kuoyao said with some embarrassment.

"People pay attention to falling leaves and returning to their roots, but our family's ancestral grave can't continue to bury people, so we have to change places. said that he didn't care about the two of them, and I didn't want to make their lives bad in the future because of me. ”

"It's human nature." Yang Xuantong nodded.

"Xuan Tong, don't be upset, in fact, I think my dad is too early now." Tu Zhengxiong on the side spoke.

"It's really not too early, it's not too early to take care of your own aftermath before you die." Yang Xuantong said with a smile.

"Let's take the simplest example, you see that the emperors of which dynasty and generation did not start to build mausoleums for themselves soon after they ascended the throne, in fact, they were just for peace of mind."

"Maybe one day when I'm interested, I might find a place for myself. However, for us people in the Xuanmen, there are too few places to see them. In the end, most of them chose the path of my grandfather, and scattered the ashes when they saw the right place. ”

Ordinary people's yin house is actually very easy to find, according to your personal luck, plus your children's luck, just choose a similar place. It's not that the better the hole, the more beneficial it will be to your family. If you don't do it, because your luck is too strong, your children won't be able to stand it, and your family will be ruined.

Some feng shui gentlemen, when they give others acupoints, often boast about how good the acupoints are, and how good they are, and how they will appear within three generations. It can't be said that it is not reliable at all, but it is less reliable.

Although the land of the underworld can take care of your descendants, it also depends on the fate of your descendants. If your life is a little worse, you won't be able to bear good luck. It's like if you put an ordinary person in the position of a high-ranking official, it is not a blessing but a curse for him.

The yin house can shade future generations, but the foundation of this family is still in the body of the living. The luck of the living is sufficient, even if the yin house is a little worse, it can affect each other. After all, everyone's luck is different, and the Yin Mansion here generally benefits three generations, and at most one or two generations will be postponed.

What about the people in the Xuanmen? Because you can see more thoroughly, your vision will be higher, and this yin house will be even more difficult to find. Sometimes I see a good hole, but I don't dare to use it. After using it, it will cause trouble for future generations, unlike Lao Tu, who thinks it's okay to be good to future generations.

"Big boy, I heard you, so don't be foolish. You Lao Tzu, I think that although I can't live for twenty or thirty years, I can still live for more than ten years. Tu Kuoyao said with a smile on the side.

"There is really nothing taboo about these things, including the scenes and arrangements of Lao Tu's future posthumous affairs, you can ask Lao Tu's own opinion now." Yang Xuantong said with a smile.

"This is also a misconception that people often walk into, and people often get it wrong. In fact, this aftermath is for the people who have passed away, not for the people who are still alive. ”

"Some people think that after the old man leaves, he will do his posthumous affairs beautifully, which is filial piety to the old man, which is a big mistake. Filial piety is about life, and no matter how big the pomp and circumstance you put on after you have passed, it is also nonsense. It's not for the elderly, it's all about your personal face. ”

"So don't worry about this matter, everything is arranged by Lao Tu. Lao Tu can arrange whatever he wants, to put it bluntly, even if Lao Tu has passed over, invite some little girls to dance in front of the grave, you have to do it. Because it's his wish, and it has nothing to do with you. ”

In the past two years, I have been relatively idle, and I have heard a lot of strange things. There is a family in Linnan, with five old mothers and children, but no one takes care of them. Even if the living conditions of the children's family are not very good, you should always have an old man to eat.

When the old man left, the five children quarreled over who would handle the funeral for the old man. Because the person who runs it has a gift money to receive, which is profitable.

The reason why it is strange is that in the end, these three sons and two daughters held a total of four funerals, and the ashes of the old man were buried for a long time. The funny thing is that on the day of the burial, the ghost cried wolf to show his filial piety.

When Yang Xuantong heard this, he felt a little cold. This old man is a blind eye. And these three sons and two daughters will surely suffer disaster in the family within ten years.

This kind of pseudo-filial piety is unacceptable, and even if you don't do it unintentionally, you can't do it either.

When the old man passed away, what he thought about most was his children and what happened after his death. But after that, this is his obsession. He doesn't think about whether you have it intentionally or not, he just thinks that you are not doing well. So even if you are unintentional, he will make trouble for you.

Yang Xuantong's words were very rough, but this is not rough. Not only Tu Zhengxiong was thinking, but also those who were accompanying him.

Yang Shan nodded with satisfaction. The current son is very different from the past, and gradually touches his true door and has his own opinions.

As far as filial piety is concerned, don't look at his frequent complaints, but he thinks his son is doing a good job. It's not something you often say, it's a matter of how you do it.

Only now did he really feel that he could let go. In the future, what the son can pounce on, that's what it is, and he doesn't have to worry about it anymore.