Chapter 433: Heart, Heart, Heart

I may have been too stressed in recent years. I feel like I have primary schizophrenia. I feel like to talk, talk a lot, and I regret doing things, and I always feel that everything I do is wrong.

I feel that my mind can't control my mouth, and I know something in my heart, I can't say it, it's someone's privacy, but as long as I know, I can't control myself, and I regret it when I say it. There is also an idiom in China, which can only be understood and not spoken, but if I see that other people's minds are always told to others, it will make them and me very embarrassed. I know that I am a good friend if I see through it, let alone say it thoroughly, but I can't control this mouth with one word.

I also have a strong inferiority complex. My husband often scolded me for this. My words children learned, "My family is very poor, very poor," so that the in-laws are not happy, and the neighbors are not happy. My husband and I both have jobs, and we are still in business. But there is no big money either.

I'm not social, and people often say I'm a loner. Looking at the neighbor's eyes is not right, all day, nervous. I always feel like people are saying bad things about me.

So I went to the psychiatric department to see a doctor, and the doctor said that I should ask my family to go over and ask about the situation. My husband said that I was not sick, and he said that I was not sick and that I was well fed. He didn't want to prove that people couldn't prescribe medicine.

Do I have menstrual illness, and if so, how can I manage it? Please let me know. Thank you for that.

Netizens replied

First, let's take a look at what kind of symptoms characterize schizophrenia.

Schizophrenia is mainly manifested as irritability, paranoia, depression, fear and anxiety, auditory hallucinations, sensitivity and suspicion, obsessive-compulsive impatience, disordered thinking, gibberish, throwing things, impulsively hurting others, and not being able to control oneself by the type of schizophrenia. When you are sick, you may have an unfounded misconception

Early manifestations of schizophrenia

1. Neurasthenia-like state

Headaches, insomnia, dreaming and waking up easily, loss of concentration, sperm loss, menstrual disorders, fatigue and fatigue, although there are many discomforts, but there is no painful experience, and they do not take the initiative to seek medical attention.

2. Personality change

A person who has always been gentle and quiet suddenly becomes quite unreasonable, loses his temper over a trivial matter, or is suspicious, thinking that everyone around him has trouble getting along with him, and when he sees someone talking, he suspects that he is talking about himself, and even when others cough it is suspected that he is directed at him.

3. Abnormal mood

Laughing for no reason, becoming indifferent to relatives and friends, distancing, i.e., not caring about others and not paying attention to other people's concern for him, or being nervous, anxious, and scared for no reason.

4. Decreased will

Contrary to the original positive, enthusiastic, and studious state, they become sloppy in work, irresponsible, and even absenteeism, academic performance declines, do not pay attention to lectures, do not hand in homework, and even skip school; Or life has become lazy, uncultivated, not enterprising, getting by, and often being high and not being able to afford it.

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First, let's take a look at what kind of symptoms characterize schizophrenia.

Schizophrenia is mainly manifested as irritability, paranoia, depression, fear and anxiety, auditory hallucinations, sensitivity and suspicion, obsessive-compulsive impatience, disordered thinking, gibberish, throwing things, impulsively hurting others, and not being able to control oneself by the type of schizophrenia. When you are sick, you may have an unfounded misconception

Early manifestations of schizophrenia

1. Neurasthenia-like state

Headaches, insomnia, dreaming and waking up easily, loss of concentration, sperm loss, menstrual disorders, fatigue and fatigue, although there are many discomforts, but there is no painful experience, and they do not take the initiative to seek medical attention.

2. Personality change

A person who has always been gentle and quiet suddenly becomes quite unreasonable, loses his temper over a trivial matter, or is suspicious, thinking that everyone around him has trouble getting along with him, and when he sees someone talking, he suspects that he is talking about himself, and even when others cough it is suspected that he is directed at him.

3. Abnormal mood

Laughing for no reason, becoming indifferent to relatives and friends, distancing, i.e., not caring about others and not paying attention to other people's concern for him, or being nervous, anxious, and scared for no reason.

4. Decreased will

Contrary to the original positive, enthusiastic, and studious state, they become sloppy in work, irresponsible, and even absenteeism, academic performance declines, do not pay attention to lectures, do not hand in homework, and even skip school; Or life has become lazy, uncultivated, not enterprising, getting by, and often being high and not being able to afford it.

5. Abnormal behavior

Contrary to the enthusiasm and optimism of the past, the expression is silent, hesitant to move, expressionless, or standing, sitting, staring, alone and does not like to socialize, or shouting and scolding in the air, muttering to himself, or doing some inexplicable movements

This is a manifestation of this disease, and the phenomenon against you is not very obvious, so you can't blindly assert yourself because of some of your uncontrollable verbal manifestations.

But you can go to see a psychiatrist, I always feel that you are too stressed, the depression in your heart is not released in a proper way, and the understanding of your family is not too much, which causes some of your stress reactions in the outside world to be an abnormal way for you to release psychological pressure.

Therefore, I recommend that you go to the psychiatrist to see a psychiatrist, if you are equipped with drugs to regulate mental stress, you should have a good view of your current state.

Usually you can listen to more music, read some happy books, so that your life in addition to business, there is a civilized and upward level, instead of listening to gossip, parents are short, gossip, so that you can not only stay away from the environment that makes you unable to control your speech, but also develop the habit of restraining your behavior.

With active psychotherapy, you will definitely find your original self in life in no time!

Netizens replied

You have a psychological burden.

Netizens replied

Smile more, talk less nonsense, and you'll be normal

Netizens replied

You are a very normal person. It's just that the speech may be straightforward and fast-talking. No scheming,

Netizens replied

Confidant, I should call you sister, I'm not married yet, our two personalities are almost the same, I didn't like to talk at all before, but in the past two years, I have become very good at talking, and I don't care if it's good or not, like you said, some shouldn't be said without going through the brain, and I regret it after saying it, and I offended people who shouldn't be offended. And I'm also very inferior, others say that I look very beautiful, but I just look at people better than me, we are not what you said about neurosis at all, it's just a matter of character, too pessimistic, to learn to be optimistic, a little more confident, in fact, as long as the people around you understand your character, even if you say something wrong, they will understand you, let's work together, make yourself a cute little woman that everyone likes, come on, sister!

Netizens replied

Everyone has a mental disorder to a greater or lesser extent, and regardless of age, this kind of disease is difficult to distinguish at present, including those so-called psychiatrists, but one thing is that they know what they are doing, what the consequences will be, or they are very aware of their behavior and thoughts, and people who control their behavior and thoughts, are basically normal, and they will be controlled by themselves for a period of time, and they can adjust their mentality and behavior, and to improve, and it does not involve harm to themselves or others, which is normal The so-called decompression behavior in society is a kind of release, it is an active way to adjust one's thoughts and behaviors, it is very beneficial, each state will have different adjustment methods, according to your description, you just need to be optimistic and cheerful, adjust your way of dealing with others, do not need to pay too much attention to what others think of you, what to do, without those so-called pressure, there is nothing

Netizens replied

You are a character, don't worry too much, try to put yourself in a natural and relaxed state, over time, there will be improvement, I wish you health!

Netizens replied

According to what you say, it's not like psychosis and it's not neurotic. It is decided by personality and thinks

Open, socialize with people more, relieve worries, and be in a good mood.

Netizens replied

It's a common psychological problem, just adjust it yourself, communicate more with people and take care of your mouth, it's best for people like you not to talk, when you have something to say, for example, when you talk to a lot of people, you'd better listen to others, and then think about whether what you want to say is the opposite when you exit later, so that you will regret less.

It's okay to talk less in your own home, think more about it, don't talk without going through the brain (haha, mom often uses this sentence to say mine)