Chapter Thirty-Seven: The Wild Golden Town
"Mr. Yun, in the Congxin School, people's psychological development process is mainly divided into 0~6 years old, 6 years old to the development period, development to adolescence, early adulthood, middle adulthood, late adulthood.
I would like to ask you, did you feel unapproved of yourself, or your self-concept was incomplete, or you felt lonely and isolated when you were 11~18 years old? ”
Fang Wuwei asked softly, in fact, this sentence is an inducing speech in psychology, allowing the patient to choose one of three choices.
Since Mr. Yun does not know much about his own psychological condition, he can only let Mr. Yun choose one of the three most appropriate situations.
Mr. Yun sat on the top of the tree and thought for a moment:
"No, if you don't recognize it, Yun feels more lonely and isolated."
Fang Wuwei thought to himself:
Psychological symptoms corresponding to loneliness and isolation may occur, such as autism and social phobia, which are biased towards people and social-emotional problems.
But Mr. Yun's side hustle is a storyteller, and his social skills must be sufficient, and vanity is not enough to become a psychological barrier.
If you look at Mr. Yun's social aspect, Mr. Yun is actually a very normal social person.
Fang Wuwei quickly dismissed Mr. Yun's loneliness. What if we exclude the personal psychological factors of adolescence and look at the outside? Mr. Yun was beaten up from childhood to adulthood, which is rare.
In addition to the above-mentioned disharmony with social relations, the psychological condition of abusive behavior may also lead to dissociative psychological disorder (unscientifically speaking, dual personality), and if this is the case, then it is an extremely serious condition.
Fang Wu calmed down and said to Mr. Yun seriously:
"Mr. Yun, I want to ask you, have you ever heard someone say that you sometimes suddenly become very different?"
Mr. Yun thought carefully for a long time, and then said:
"Mr. Fang, you're talking about the kind of situation where two souls appear, right? Yun will not. ”
Fang Wuwei breathed a sigh of relief in his heart, choosing between his own misjudgment and Mr. Yun's dissociative psychological disorder, he hoped that his judgment was wrong. But in this way, I fell into a dead end again.
Could it be that Mr. Yun is a normal person, but he is worried that he has a psychological problem, so he has excessive anxiety?
"Mr. Yun, are you anxious that you have a problem? Or do you feel like there's something wrong with you? ”
Mr. Yun thought for a while, stood up, stretched his muscles, and his pure white scholarly robe fluttered in the wind.
"Yun Mou is not anxious, but Yun Mou feels that he always notices some things when he is cultivating, but Yun Mou doesn't know what it is."
Fang Wuwei asked with some doubts: "Subconsciously pay attention?" ”
Mr. Yun nodded.
Fang Wuwei frowned slightly, as if he had grasped some key, he really felt that Mr. Yun had something different, and that point must be the key to Mr. Yun's problem!
The silver-white moonlight shines on the trees, revealing the incomparable beauty of the mountains and forests in the middle of the night. Fang Wuwei slowly floated, carefully thinking about Mr. Yun's bits and pieces, searching for his knowledge in his mind.
After a while, a smile suddenly appeared on Fang Wuwei's face, he already understood what was going on with Mr. Yun.
"Mr. Yun, can you pick a leaf with your hands?"
Mr. Yun looked at Fang Wuwei strangely, and plucked a half-palm-sized leaf from the tree according to Fang Wuwei's request.
"Mr. Fang, is this useful?"
Fang Wuwei smiled:
"It's very useful, now Mr. Yun asks you to crush the leaves with your hands."
Mr. Yun looked at Fang Wuwei with a strange expression, and with his right hand, he pinched the leaves in his hand into crumbs, and the faint branches and leaves in the leaves stuck to Mr. Yun's hand, reflecting a pale green glimmer in the moonlight.
Fang Wuwei looked at Mr. Yun's behavior with great satisfaction, and then said:
"Very good, now Mr. Yun, you touch your face with your right hand."
When Mr. Yun heard this, he was still a little unhappy in his heart, but when he thought of Fang Wuwei waking up Uncle Chen with a murderous method before, Mr. Yun put his mind at ease and believed in Fang Wuwei wholeheartedly.
"Smack." Mr. Yun's right hand slapped directly on his face, and after taking it down, in addition to a faint layer of green on his hand, there was also a small piece of green on his face.
Mr. Yun curiously asked Fang Wuwei:
"Does this work for my question?"
Fang Wuwei looked at Mr. Yun with a green face, couldn't help the smile in his heart, laughed, and then said:
"It's useless! Haha~"
Mr. Yun was stunned for a moment, standing there, originally about to get angry in his heart, but unconsciously laughed with Fang Wuwei.
Like fools, the two of them laughed at the top of the tree for a long time, almost waking Xiao Lian from his sleep in the distance.
It's just that Fang Wuwei smiled and smiled, and suddenly his expression turned grim, and he said to Mr. Yun seriously:
"Now! Mr. Yun, slap your right hand on your robe! ”
Mr. Yun laughed happily with Fang Wuwei, and was about to listen to Fang Wuwei's words and play with Fang Wuwei for a while, but suddenly found that his right hand seemed to be out of control, and there was no way to touch his white robe no matter what!
Seeing Mr. Yun's surprised expression, Fang Wuwei smiled slightly, and said slowly in the night sky:
"OCD, OCD, is a type of anxiety disorder.
It is a group of neuropsychiatric disorders with obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors as the main clinical manifestations, which are characterized by the coexistence of conscious compulsion and counter-compulsion, and some meaningless thoughts or impulses that even go against one's own will repeatedly invade the daily life of patients. Although the patient experiences that these thoughts or impulses are self-originating, they resist but are unable to control them.
In fact, although the definition of obsessive-compulsive disorder is the need to affect real daily life, in fact, if there is a subconscious obsessive tendency, and this subconscious obsessive tendency affects one's behavior, then it can also be called obsessive-compulsive disorder! ”
Fang Wuwei put his hands behind his back, floating in the air, looking unfathomable, and continued:
"Mr. Yun, since I first saw you, the robe on your body has been spotless, I thought it was some kind of magic weapon, or you have a high realm, and you can already remove dust.
But I found that Mr. Yun, your hands and feet will be stained with dust, and when you wake up Uncle Chen by the stream, you use your hands to bounce the water subconsciously, as if trying to make sure that your robe is not contaminated by dirty things.
Combining your experience with what you say and do, I have come to the conclusion that - obsessive-compulsive disorder! ”
Fang Wuwei said this, and smiled at Mr. Yun in mid-air.
Although Mr. Yun couldn't fully understand, he could barely understand what Fang Wuwei meant. He looked at Fang Wuwei with a look of surprise on his face, and then looked at his white robe.
"Mr. Fang, Yun really never noticed that his robe was never stained with dust."
Fang Wuwei smiled again, subconscious behaviors sometimes change people's lives, and it's normal not to know.
"Mr. Yun, don't worry. There are two solutions to OCD, one is adaptive desensitization, which is when you keep getting your clothes dirty until you accept it inside. The second is to achieve the goal of solving the problem through speech therapy (cognitive therapy) and drug therapy from the heart. ”
After speaking, Fang Wuwei paused and continued: "However, now I am not in my hometown. So Mr. Yun, if you want to be cured, you can only go through the first method. ”
In fact, cognitive therapy can also solve some obsessive-compulsive disorder, but because it requires long-term treatment, Fang Wuwei doesn't want to waste so much time at all.
When Mr. Yun heard Fang Wuwei say this, he hurriedly leaned down and bowed hard to Fang Wuwei.
"Thank you, Mr. Fang, Yun has thanked me here!"
Fang Wuwei was overjoyed, he was able to use his knowledge to help others, Fang Wuwei was also very happy in his heart, but Fang Wuwei still said seriously:
"Mr. Yun, don't worry, your past experience is too different from others.
Maybe your subconscious OCD behavior is a relaxing behavior that soothes the symptoms you have experienced in the past, and you have to accept your past from the heart, accept your mind.
Otherwise, if you have been cured of an obsessive-compulsive disorder, you may have other symptoms. ”
Mr. Yun hurriedly nodded again, he seemed to let go of a long-standing knot, his mood felt much more relaxed, and the true qi in his body, which had been stagnant, seemed to be surging again.
"Okay, if Mr. Yun is fine, I'll bask in the moon here." Fang Wuwei breathed a long sigh of relief, and then said to Mr. Yun.
Mr. Yun was also very happy in his heart, and just wanted to find a quiet place to meditate, so he bowed to Fang Wu Wei again and said
"Yun retired, and Mr. Fang dried slowly."
With that, he jumped off the top of the tree and jumped towards a large rock in the distance, ready to adjust his state of mind.
Soon, Mr. Yun sat quietly on the boulder.
Mr. Yun looked at his right hand, and the pale green sap was still present on his right hand. Then he looked at his white robe, which was still spotless and as clean as new, and Mr. Yun smiled bitterly to himself.
"No wonder the second young master of the Xiao family can believe in you so much, Yun admires it."
After that, Mr. Yun sank into cultivation in this rich forest atmosphere.