Chapter 31: Teach You How to Pick Up Girls (2)
"And what's the fifth?" Wang Peng looked at Lin Hai and asked. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
"Don't worry, let me eat a few bites of food first, I just drank a big glass, and now the wine is up, a little dizzy." Lin Hai sandwiched a piece of beef, put it in his mouth and said while eating.
Meow Xiaoxin, who was silently silent on the side, heard Lin Hai say that the wine was coming up, so she immediately made a bowl of soup and put it in front of Lin Hai. said: "Drink more soup, you can cure hangover!" β
Lin Hai saw that Meow Xiaoxin was so well-behaved and sensible, so he couldn't help touching Meow Xiaoxin's head and said, "Xiaoxin, so good!" β
After drinking a bowl of soup, Lin Haicai continued to speak: "Fifth, breaking the convention: Generally speaking, girls' lives are uneventful, and they have a strong desire for change, hoping that something unexpected will happen to make some changes in their lives. Therefore, they do not like rigid, conventional men. Of course, before catering to women's psychology of seeking stimulation and change, you must first let them intellectually confirm that you are a person with a steady style, and then you can skillfully break the rules, create new ideas, and make them full of fun. Otherwise, it will be self-defeating and give women the impression that you are frivolous and procrastinating. β
In other words, don't be stupid, be flexible. You have to make girls feel like you're an interesting person, right? After Wang Peng listened, he asked Lin Hai.
Lin Hai nodded and said: "Yes, if you are a stupid person, it will only make girls think that you are stupid, you will not know anything, and you will not have any interest in you." β
"Now let's talk about the sixth point, the first role: the speaker's emotions can contag the audience. If you understand this psychology, you will understand that one of the ways to move a woman's heart is through skillful conversation. When talking to the female **, you should always permeate your personal feelings about the event, strengthen the subjective color in the narrative, so as to increase her concern for what you say. Therefore, when talking to women, men should take the lead, take the initiative, mix their own emotional likes and dislikes in their subjective consciousness, and enthusiastically create a conversation atmosphere. Remember not to suppress your inner feelings and extinguish the flame of passion. β
After listening to this, Wang Peng nodded: "I understand this, it is to find a topic, get along with a girl, and if you don't say a word, you will definitely be blocked." β
"Yes, find a topic, but also find a suitable topic, let the girl follow in your footsteps, and can't help but be interested in what you say. So that I will continue to talk to you and have a good impression of you! Lin Hai said.
Seventh, sincerity is spirituality: women like sincere thoughtfulness and courtesy, and men who behave excessively diligently will have a feeling of "bad intentions" and "no intentions". Therefore, a good way to open a woman's heart is to be kind and sincere. β
After saying the seventh article, Lin Hai asked again: "I don't think I need to explain this, right?" β
Wang Peng shook his head, I can't understand this, so haven't all these books been read in vain?
But how can this be enough? So, Wang Peng asked Lin Hai: "Then when I interact with them, I can see from those things what they are thinking?" β
Lin Hai looked at Wang Peng and said, "This is simple, since you asked, I will give you a few examples!" β
"1. Talk to women who are different and love their side (crooked) heads. Many girls tend to tilt their heads sideways and lean over when listening to lectures or talking to others. This action may mean two things: first, she may have a crush on the person she is talking to, or she may have a strong interest in the conversation itself; Second, if she is alone with the opposite sex, it is safe to say that this is a very typical expression of coquettishness to the other party. β
2. Women who bow their heads as soon as they come into contact with the gaze of the opposite sex. In general, this action can occur in two situations: first, it shows considerable trust in the man and has a great sense of self-security; Second, when she lowers her head and closes her eyes, and then she starts to look up at the other person again, not only is she not afraid of you, but she respects you very much, wants to know you more clearly, and is willing to get your attention and make an impression on you. β
"3. Women who hold pets and talk to the opposite sex. When a girl is alone with someone of the opposite sex, if she puts things on her lap and plays with them back and forth, it may indicate that she is not interested in you and your conversation, or does not want to accept you; And if that's not enough, she'll talk to you with her pet in her arms like a puppy, to tell you, "I'm not interested in your conversation, so you'd better leave it at that." β
"4. Women who love to tidy things up for others. Girls who tidy up not only themselves but also other people's things are always very popular. However, this action may hide the girl's deep loneliness, she may be more eager than ordinary people to understand, communicate and friendship, she expects people to express their affection for her, so that she can get an instant sense of happiness, so as to dispel the loneliness in her heart. β
"5. Women who are with the opposite sex and always pull the corners of their skirts. Behind this action, there may be a violent psychological conflict, that is, a strong psychological conflict between shyness, yearning, and seduction, and defense. Girls who have this kind of action are subconsciously eager to attract the attention of others, especially the opposite sex, but they are very worried that they will be misunderstood by others as frivolous and unserious, and they feel embarrassed. β
After listening to this, Wang Peng nodded and said: "I understand, the first and second explanations have a play, and the grasp is still very large, the third one is completely out of play, and the fourth and fifth explanations can be tried to see it, there is hope!" β
Lin Hai nodded, the children can be taught!
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[Having said so much, I don't know if there are any female readers, will they send me blades, but for boys, in the process of two acquaintances, acquaintances, and lovers, they are actually playing psychological games all the time, if you can use your mental tactics well, whether it is now or in the future, the initiative will be in your hands. γ
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