And today is a smooth day, Yuan Yin watched the evening news while eating the first meal of the day - instant noodles. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info didn't eat breakfast because I woke up late in the morning, and I didn't get to eat after a day of running around outside during the day.

As for why I got up late, it was because I had an awkward fight with my girlfriend when I was shopping last night, so I had to keep handing over small words, and then I was dragged to watch two night movies in a row to serve this aunt and grandmother. And the reason for the quarrel was that he was nearly half an hour late for a date yesterday.

And why is he late, that's because, yesterday was Qixi Festival, he was holding a handful of red roses as a holiday gift, the car to the station was very crowded, he was afraid of crushing the flowers, so he had to wait for the next car, and the next car came five empty cars in a row, but the time was half an hour later~~~

The long-term life experience has honed Yuan Yin's nerves, and he is very good-tempered, without any complaints, without any dissatisfaction, and went to see his girlfriend.

And like now, he is very comfortable eating today's only meal on the TV, reminiscing about the smooth experience of the day~~~

Yesterday I made an appointment with the bank to reconcile, sign in in the morning, deal with some chores, and was about to set off, Mr. Huang shouted a few words to tell me, let go and go back quickly, last night's lack of sleep made the head like a lump of paste, groggy, carrying the bag and leaving, and when I arrived at the bank, I found out that I forgot to bring the financial chapter, and I called my colleagues and my colleagues were also outside, so I had to go back to the company first.

The company to the bank was originally a twenty-minute drive, always let him walk for an hour, today between the company and the bank, four round-trips, all encountered traffic jams, on the road for more than 4 hours, if you count the time on the way to and from work, he almost stayed on the road for more than 6 hours today.

A little thing about reconciliation was made by him for a day, and he was counted down by the leader ~~~

I almost messed things up again, so let's just say a few words. Since calling the company, I have been piggybacking on the company to take some bad luck, but Mr. Huang can always do things and not people, Mr. Huang is really a good person~~~

The customer's invoice must be sent out as soon as possible, why hasn't the courier come to pick it up, I have been waiting for several hours~~~

Finally waited, finally could go home, starved to death. Catch up with this traffic jam again, hurry back.

Only now do I realize that I have something to eat, and I really feel happy. Yuan Yin happily finished eating the bowl of instant noodles with a satisfied smile~~~

The tribulations of life, no, the tribulations of Yuan Yin's life made him have contentment and happiness early, small blessings are safe, and plain is the real life values.

Just like when we compare the differences between mainlanders and Chinese in other regions, we often mention that mainlanders have more utilitarian and competitive consciousness, while Chinese in other regions who have more access to religion have more peaceful outlook on life.

Yuan Yin is an outlier in the standard. He was always so easy-going and undemanding, to others, to things, and to himself. And his optimistic personality of being good at leaving any troubles and bad moods behind him also makes him popular in the company.

My father often said that the proudest thing in his life was to give birth to a son with such a good character and attitude towards life. And the motto that Yuan Yin often uses to encourage himself is not "A gentleman should strive for self-improvement!" His motto is a very ordinary vernacular, or a declarative sentence, and the end of the sentence is not an exclamation point - I'm really lucky, I'm not the most unlucky ~~~

I have to say that Yuan Yin's father's pride is not without reason, since he was a child, Yuan Yin, an unlucky child, has been loved by the neighbors because of the smile with small dimples that he often wears on his lips, and in school, he is also the only one who can be accepted by all kinds of different small circles.

And Yuan Yin, with a sense of satisfaction after a full meal, climbed into bed and fell asleep. What he didn't know was that there was going on in another place, and the intense topic was the discussion around him~~~

"He forgot to bring his financial stamp, this criterion is personal reasons, if you go back in time, what happened to him all day today is entirely due to the fact that he did not choose to take the more crowded bus in the first place. And in the middle of this, he has an infinite number of ways to avoid today's unlucky situation, for example, he saw that the bus was crowded yesterday, and he could choose to take a taxi to go on a date, so that he would not have an awkward relationship with his girlfriend, and he would not watch two night movies in a row in order to coax his girlfriend, and he would not be sleep deprived, and he would not forget to bring his financial seal, and nothing would happen after that. ”

"I agree with Director Wang's point of view, since yesterday when he took the bus, Yuan Yin's bad luck today is entirely because of personal choice, and the reason why he chose this way is determined by character, and character determines fate. For example, he is more patient, tends to be at ease with the situation, and has insufficient willingness to actively seek change, and when doing things, once a decision is made, he will run along the track of the development of things, and the inertia is too strong and the variables are insufficient. Like he waited for the bus yesterday and didn't take the crowded bus in front of him, this decision is not necessarily wrong. After he chose the bus, he kept waiting, and in the process of waiting for the bus, he also looked at the time several times, and found that when it was almost late, he did not choose to take a taxi, but felt that if he waited, there might be a car immediately, which was caused by Yuan Yin's consistent linear behavior habits. ”

"I would like to add that if you are a little more vigilant in the morning and have a good work habit at work, you will not forget it. Isn't this not that character determines choice, and choice determines fate? ”

"I think Director Wang and Dr. Li's views are a bit biased, because we are sitting here discussing now, and there is a bit of hindsight, after all, we are discussing the process with the results, and if we look at Yuan Yin's choices in real time, when we can't see the consequences of these choices, we will find that his series of choices from yesterday to today are understandable. For example, when he was waiting for the bus, first of all, there would be no traffic jams, and secondly, the buses would not be very scarce, and it was a normal choice for this bus to wait for the next bus. ”

"I am inclined to Sun Bo's point of view, putting aside Yuan Yin's choice, just take a look, the things he encountered, first of all, the problem of public transportation. According to the investigation report just got, yesterday's bus should normally be a trip every 8 minutes, and yesterday Yuan Yin waited for the time period, when the usual fleet scheduling arrangement, it will be arranged more intensively, and the explanation about the situation that happened yesterday was that the cars at the terminal were sent out during that time period, and the cars that should come back on time were blocked together because of the road construction in the upward direction. This incident was a standard accident, but it happened to be caught up by Yuan Yin. Then let's take a look at what happened to him today, the matter of the financial chapter, let's not talk about personal choice, let's take a look at his experience of taking the bus several times today. During the time when there should be no traffic jams, Yuan Yin encountered four traffic jams in a row, which is obviously a small probability of concentrated events. ”

"That's it, what Professor Shan said is so clear, Yuan Yin has encountered many small probability events in less than 24 hours from last night to this morning, and he also encountered a car accident in the middle, in fact, car accidents should also be counted as occasional small probability events. So I don't think today's events can be attributed to internal causes. ”

"To say that character determines choice, choice determines destiny is also right, Yuan Yin in the face of choice, tends to be conservative, most of them will choose the way of behavior that ordinary people will generally choose, the logical coherence of the behavior mode is good, the jumping is poor, and there are not many times to take the initiative to break the inertia of existing behavior, and it is easy not to jump from one choice direction to another choice direction, that is, the linear characteristics of thinking and behavior are very strong. So, when he didn't have a car yesterday, he would have insisted on waiting instead of looking for a new solution. ”

And in the longer run, for Yuan Yin, why not fate determines character, character determines choice, and choice in turn determines fate. Because of various unfortunate things for a long time, Yuan Yin's fear of accidents has been shaped, and he tries to be conservative in his behavior and habits. Let's just say that when I waited for the bus yesterday, ordinary people waited for the bus for half an hour, and their emotions must be more irritable, but Yuan Yin didn't have this performance at all, and such patience was caused by long-term bad luck. So this kind of personality is manifested today, that is, he will wait for half an hour when others will choose other methods after waiting for 10 minutes. ”

"Old Qian, according to what you say, if he suddenly becomes a completely different person one day, will it change his bad luck to a considerable extent?"

"I don't know this, isn't it now that we are studying to determine whether his doom exists completely for him as a person, and will not be affected by personal choices, or will it interact with his behavior, and the difference in choice will affect fate to a certain extent?"

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