The second is Chapter 50: The Matter of Early Love
As mentioned above, the three fathers of Deng Ziming, Mao Zuwang and Ma Guiyuan are very open-minded, in fact, it is not difficult to be an enlightened parent, as long as you have enough wisdom. This chapter is just for those readers who have children, and I hope you can learn a little bit of this skill.
I remember when I was in high school, there were classmates in the class who fell in love, and in my time early love was a big deal, although every class had it, but teachers and parents did not allow it, and often students who fell in love were secretly doing underground work.
Which is like today's children, elementary school and even kindergarten began to have people who liked, to paraphrase the words of today's children, early love is a display of ability, a symbol of status, only handsome and rich people have boyfriends and girlfriends, and those who do not have early love are dicks. To put it simply, five words fell from the sky: it's nothing.
Therefore, in my time, some parents wanted to avoid their children from delaying their studies because of early love, so it can be said that the eight immortals crossed the sea to show their magical powers. One of the things I remember most clearly is that the wheel is with Xiaomei, these two people are big stuffy gourds, and both of them are masters who can't beat a fart with three sticks on weekdays, but I didn't expect these two people to talk about every day since they were at the same table, and this Nima is definitely negative and positive, it's just too bloody.
There is no impermeable wall on Shijie, not to mention that Da Zhou still lives near the wheel's house, and he somehow let the wheel's parents know about it, you say that Da Zhou is not bad, the whole is thankless - Bai is happy. But the approach of the parents is really clever, they are worthy of being the party secretary, and they are definitely talents who came out of the struggle.
These are all things that Wheel told me when we went out for a drink after graduating from college, and when we found out about Wheel and Xiaomei's relationship, Wheel talked to Wheel, and if the reader thinks that you speak those educational languages, then you are very wrong.
"Wheel, why haven't you seen Xiaomei come to our house to review your homework recently?" Wheel asked knowingly, "I don't know, maybe I'm not available." The wheels replied cautiously.
"It won't be that our family is not well entertained, this is not good, after all, you two are classmates, this has to be picked by the family, which means that we are not good enough as parents, you are like this, from this week, on the weekend, I will ask people to come over to review their homework together, ask what people like to eat, and Mom will let your dad make it for others." Wheels said in a serious way.
"Then I'll ask her." Wheel was confused, and he didn't know if his mother found out about his early love affair with Xiaomei.
"What do you mean by asking, you have to take it home, this is called sincerity, understand?" The wheel said categorically, looking at that jiashi, he definitely didn't achieve his goal and vowed not to give up.
"Okay." The wheel was unwilling to get too entangled in this matter, so he just borrowed the slope to get off the donkey and change the topic.
That's it, every weekend and holiday in the future, the wheel will lead Xiaomei to the house to review homework, sometimes, there are other classmates who go over together, mainly the wheel family cooks, his father's cooking is absolutely first-class, because I have tasted it myself, hehe! As a result, the young shoots of Wheel and Xiaomei, who were ignorant at the beginning, were ruthlessly strangled in the cradle under the supervision of Wheel's parents.
You think, instead of letting the child do something unsafe outside, it is better to put the child under your nose, and you can see every move clearly, what could have happened is basically no play at home, and under the supervision of parents.
Speaking of this, the wheel drank the draft beer in his hand, and I felt "what a painful realization!" ”
It wasn't until last year that the wheel got married, although the wedding was very magnificent, but I know that this failed first love is definitely a pain that the wheel will not heal in his life, and my conclusion is: first love is definitely not a trivial matter.
There is an even funnier thing, when I was in college, the eldest had a girlfriend, and the proud, as if he had won five million, showed off everywhere, and then it was time for the holidays.
Because I had a falling out with my old man at that time, I had nowhere to go, so I had to hang out with these roommates. At first, he was in the third child's house, but his house was very uncomfortable, and there were too many rules, so in desperation, he went to the boss.
I was going to surprise the boss, but I didn't call Ya before I went, and I bought a ticket to the north and killed him. After arriving at the station, I took a taxi and rushed to the boss's residence, but when I got downstairs, I found the boss's father squatting on the flower bed and smoking.
I was very strange, thinking that my boss and his father had lost the key, so I went to say hello to my uncle, but when they saw me appear, they hurriedly snuffed out their cigarettes and trotted at me.
"Jia Shu is here?"
"yes, why is my uncle smoking downstairs? Did you lose your key? ”
"Ahem, no, I was going to go to the street, isn't it windy, so I'm going to think about it."
"Oh. Is Tian Jian at home? "In the winter in the north, squatting outside to smoke, Nima is really a three-year-old child, I don't play like this. But I'm not good at exposing the other party's lies, after all, it's the boss and his father, forget it, let's find the boss and ask the specific situation before discussing.
"What, Tian Jian is not at home now, and we haven't seen each other for a long time, let's go, accompany my uncle to drink some wine." After that, whether I wanted to or not, he grabbed my bag and dragged me to the tavern on the street.
After arriving at the tavern, my uncle also called the boss's mother, which meant that she should go to the tavern first after getting off work, saying that I was coming, and I didn't hear what was said over there.
That's it.,I stayed in the tavern with the eldest father until it was dark.,Until the aunt came over.,Pinched the uncle out.,The two of them muttered outside for a long time.,zuihou actually came in together with a smile.,I made the second monk confused.,I don't know what kind of medicine is sold in the gourd of the eldest parents.。
It wasn't until after eight o'clock in the evening that the old couple took me home with them, and as soon as I entered the door, I realized that Nyima was an enlightened parent. In addition to the boss in the living room, there is also a girlfriend of his, this Uncle Nima is definitely the best place for others.
It's too bad for me to come here, give me a tangled feeling, so I can't pump my own mouth, my parents know that it is not a light bulb, you say I actually plugged it in, it's not that I don't know how to do it.
That dinner was so depressing, as if the air was condensed, that night the boss slept in the living room with me, his girlfriend slept in his room, and his parents slept in a room. Mom, one by one, they can really pretend to be serious, as early as at school, I knew that these two people had done everything they could, Jiao, I was really an idiot.
So the next day I made an excuse, and I went back to the imperial capital, this time I would rather live in the dormitory than go to the other roommates' houses, and the ghost knows what embarrassing things will happen.
However, compared with these high-IQ parents I contacted, in the era of the Ming Dynasty, there were really not many parents who could be so enlightened, it can be said that Deng Ziming and the other three did very well, but what happened next was a little too tragic.
to be continued