Too many young people are poisoned by Korean dramas, and the real Korea is completely different from what Shu Ya thought, which she only realized after she got married.

After getting married, Shu Ya followed Park Kyung-so back to South Korea, and she thought that she would live a life in the TV series from then on, but the reality gave her a blow to the head.

The first is that the family concept of Koreans is completely different from that of China today. Do you know how mothers-in-law treated daughters-in-law in the old society? That's what Korean mothers-in-law look like.

After the current Chinese girl marries into her in-law's family, it is said that she does not dare to pick the moon if she wants the stars. You don't need to do the cooking, laundry, and tidying up the room yourself, either the husband does it, or the parents-in-law do it. In South Korea, once you marry into the man's family, as long as you live under the same roof as your parents-in-law, your daughter-in-law has to do all the dirty work at home. Not to mention, if you don't do it well, you will be scolded, and when you meet a particularly strict mother-in-law, you will even beat people.

Shu Ya was unfortunate that after marrying into Park Jingxiu's family, she lived in a big house with her parents-in-law. Fortunately, her mother-in-law was quite reasonable, and she embarrassed Shu Ya if she didn't come up, but even so, Shu Ya still obviously felt that the other party was not friendly.

Moreover, there are a lot of etiquette in Korea, which is more excessive than the red tape of the Qing Dynasty. Every morning, I have to get up before my parents-in-law, and then make breakfast, and when my father-in-law and mother-in-law get up, I have to say hello to others, and after they take the answer to ignore the children, I am also responsible for sorting out the clothes for my husband's travel, etc., in short, everything that happened to Shu Ya is basically heaven and earth.

What made Shu Ya feel even more uncomfortable was that she first came to South Korea and did not have a stable job, Park Kyung-so's mother always complained that Shu Ya was too easy and hard working, and put the responsibility of supporting the family on her son's shoulders.

But South Korea, which is already overcrowded, how can there be so many jobs left for Shu Ya, a foreigner, but after looking for half a month, he couldn't find any job. Seeing that the money she brought from China was about to run out, Shu Ya was anxious.

Not to mention, going to Korean barbecue to eat barbecue was Shu Ya's biggest hobby (a foodie), but when I actually arrived in Korea, I found that all I could eat here was kimchi. That's right, it's kimchi! If you want to eat meat, it is more difficult than ascending to the sky, because the price of meat is extremely expensive.

Through chatting, Shu Yacai sadly discovered that living in South Korea is expensive, eating is expensive, and using it is expensive, but labor is not expensive. It's no wonder that the country doesn't have any resources in the first place, most of them rely on imports, and then sell them all over the world after deep processing, so it's normal to be expensive.

Even mothers who have given birth to babies use cow thigh bones to boil a pot of soup at home, which is considered a very high-end tonic.

Eating fruit is cut and eaten, have you ever seen a pear, you have to cut the pear into several pieces, and then everyone eats one piece?

To eat the most common long bean sprouts on our side, you have to pick the sharp tips on the top, and then make bean sprouts rice, which Shu Ya can't accept no matter what.

As for food such as dumplings and steamed buns, unless Shu Ya makes it herself, if she buys it, she can eat Park Kyung-so's salary for three days in one meal.

What is Happiness Index? Personally, I think that if you can afford to eat, dress warmly, sleep soundly, and have good security, you will be considered happy. But if you look at Shuya, in addition to eating kimchi, she still eats kimchi; Although the clothes are okay, they are only the ones I bought when I got married, plus the ones I brought from China; As for sleeping soundly, I was reprimanded by my mother-in-law every day, and whoever I was, I couldn't sleep steadily; Then there is law and order, there are many poor people in South Korea, how good can law and order be?

So here's a reminder to those girls from Ha Han, wake up, don't take Korean dramas as the real state of South Korea, to put it bluntly, Korean dramas are advertisements, and reality is the curative effect.

One day, on the way to find a job, Shu Ya met Park Kyung-so drinking with his friends in a tavern. The other party also saw him, so he invited himself to come in and sit down.

Through the introduction, Shu Ya learned that Park Kyung-so's friend is called Kim Cheol-ji, who is currently running a company, and he can be regarded as young and promising. It's just that the other party looked at her with a strange look, and Shu Ya couldn't say what it was like.

Kim Cheol-ji looked very gentlemanly, pulled the chair away and invited Shu Ya to sit down, and asked Shu Ya what she was going to eat. Not to mention, in the process of talking to each other, the other party's energetic Kwashua is very temperamental, and I don't know how many times stronger than those Korean women who rely on plastic surgery.

Maybe it's because Kim Cheol-ji's words are very good, Park Kyung-so drank a lot of liquor that day (Korean dinner, usually drink some soju, but their soju is very low, similar to our beer). Drinking and drinking, Park Kyung-so yelled and rushed to the bathroom, it seemed that he was really drunk, and he vomited there.

Just after Park Kyung-so left his seat, Kim Cheol-ji immediately changed his cynical expression and said to Shu Ya very seriously: "You shouldn't come to South Korea, you must know that Korean daughters-in-law are very difficult to do." ”

Some people just have this ability, and every word can hit the weakest part of your heart.

Looking at Shu Ya's helpless expression, Kim Zhezhi continued: "You shouldn't marry Park Kyung-so, let alone go back to South Korea with him. Speaking of this, he quickly took out a business card from his pocket and handed it over, "This is my business card, you can keep it, if you need anything, you can call me at any time." ”

Perhaps it was the other party's concern and thoughtfulness that made Shu Ya, who was far away from home, feel the warmth that she had not seen for a long time, so Shu Ya did not refuse the other party's kindness, but put away Kim Zhezhi's business card, and then waited with the other party for her husband to come back.

It's been almost half a year since she got married, Shu Ya still hasn't been able to find a decent job, Park Kyung-so's mother didn't give Shu Ya a good face, and always warned Shu Ya every day to find a job as soon as possible to support this big family and the like, and Shu Ya's ears were calloused.

It is said that happiness and misfortune are not a single line, and with Shu Ya spending all her savings, her mother-in-law is becoming more and more difficult for her.

Early that morning, before dawn, Shu Ya got up to make breakfast, woke up her parents-in-law, greeted her, and then began to iron Park Kyung-so's clothes for the day's work.

I don't know what kind of wind her mother-in-law smoked that day, stood beside Shu Ya and sneered, and began to curse and curse as she spoke, and even how lazy the Chinese were, how the people of your woman's family did not understand etiquette, and so on.

to be continued