Chapter 58: How to Change

I looked at Mrs. Li and smiled, "Are you trying to say that when a man is rich, he becomes bad?" "When I heard the words reform and opening up, I knew the only possibility." That's right, according to the master's age, it is really not easy to understand the previous events in such detail. Mrs. Li praised, "I also have a wedding company and other business deals, so these things can often be heard by people, and after a long time, they will be familiar." "I told the other party the reason directly. Mrs. Li nodded, "But the master's memory is really good. In order to win my favor, Mrs. Li continued to hold me and chat.

"Did Mr. Li go to the sea?" I continued to ask, "Well, I started to go south without pay, and after many twists and turns, I finally saved enough money to return to the local area, and then used my old connections to transfer my job to the banking system. At first, I didn't understand it, because if you can survive the work at the beginning, when you retire, it's not too difficult to get a section chief or something, and you can transfer to the bank, which is equivalent to starting from scratch. Mrs. Li seemed to say her opinion, "Your husband is really far away." I said to Mrs. Lee.

"Yes," Mrs. Li glanced at me approvingly, and then continued: "Not long after entering the bank, my husband bought a large amount of land with the funds in his hand, and mortgaged the land to his bank, and used the mortgaged funds to build a factory on the original land, and purchased the equipment to start construction, and then mortgaged the plant and equipment to another bank. Finally had his own business. At this, Mrs. Li sighed.

After listening to Mrs. Lee's narration, I was not surprised, but had a sense of desolation that I was born at an inopportune time. And I found that during the reform and opening up, the vast majority of the bosses who are now in the climate used Mr. Li's method at the beginning, is this considered lax legislation, or is it unfavorable supervision? Hey, for a while, I can't figure out the clue to this problem.

Lao Cao poured the tea for Mrs. Li again, Mrs. Li nodded politely at Brother Cao, and then continued: "Since the day he went to the sea, we have belonged to the Cold War stage, and I have not been able to help him all these years. And every time he came back, not only did I fail to comfort him, but I intensified my temperament, which led to him slowly alienating me in the later period, and gradually began not to go home to live, and even when I was sick, he arranged for someone to send money over, retribution, retribution! Mrs. Li recalled the sore spot and looked a little sad.

"But I think your husband still has you in his heart." I said to Mrs. Lee, "What do you mean by that?" Mrs. Li asked puzzledly, "If you didn't have you in your heart, according to what you just said, with your husband's current strength, you should have divorced a long time ago, wouldn't you?" I asked rhetorically. Mrs. Li was stunned for a moment, and then said with a little joy: "Yes, he still has mine in his heart, after all, I am the oldest and gave it to him." "Mrs. Lee is still living in the dreams of the past, and I don't want to break the dreams of this poor woman, because it seems to me that this woman has nothing but children and memories of the past. But it is precisely because she is always obsessed with the past and unwilling to face the reality that Mr. Li's disgust is exacerbated, in the final analysis, the current Mr. Li is punishing his wife, through soft violence, to achieve the purpose of punishment. But then again, Mr. Li is still a relatively reliable man, at least he should fulfill his responsibilities, he has done everything, he is just not as broad-minded as Brother Hong, or rather, Mr. Li failed to meet his sister-in-law's reliable virtuous help, advance and retreat together, share prosperity and disgrace, time and fate, all together, what Mr. Li is doing now, I can understand.

"Before the talisman, how often did Mr. Li go home?" I asked Mrs. Li, "It's hard to say, but I can come back once or twice a month on average." Mrs. Li said depressedly, "If you want to treat both the symptoms and the root causes, it will take a long time." I looked at Mrs. Lee and said to her. As long as I can make him love me as before, I will give him as much money as he wants. "Mrs. Li heard me get to the point, and immediately expressed her position.

"Mrs. Li, let's not talk about money for the time being, there are at least two conditions that are needed to treat both the symptoms and the root causes. First, you need to ask Cao Jushi to conduct an overall feng shui survey of the place where you live, and after taking it back for research, design a feng shui layout for the place where you currently live, so as to ease the tension between husband and wife. "This time, it was finally Brother Cao's turn to appear.

"That's no problem, I'll ask the driver to come and pick you up and take you to my house in a while, you can just open your mouth if you need anything." Mrs. Li readily agreed to my first request, "Second: you need to learn new knowledge from now on, and you must keep pace with the times in terms of thinking, and the concept cannot stay in your time, whether it is the family, children's education, finance and politics, you have to re-learn." I personally suggest that when you are free, read more books, read newspapers, go on the Internet, and go to shopping malls, do beauty, play mahjong, and have more time, you can sign up to go to fitness, do yoga, and then improve your personal charm index. "Again, I gave the other person a very pertinent suggestion.

"Master, I won't tell you, from piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, to firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, I have been boiling for half a lifetime, and I will retire in a few years. Mrs. Lee answered me very honestly. Mrs. Li's answer reassured me, if she said yes now, I'm afraid I won't be able to do this list, as Mrs. Li said, what I need her to change is to keep up with her husband's pace. Before men and women get married, they have each other's social circles, their own opinions, and their own economic foundations. After getting married, under the influence of China's 5,000-year-old concept of male superiority and inferiority, women gradually broke away from their social circles, began to teach each other husbands and children, firewood, rice, oil and salt, while men continued to expand their social surface, from wine and meat friends to business partners, after a long time, men slowly found that the common language with their wives is becoming less and less, the generation gap is getting deeper and deeper, and what the wife talks about every day is not the same thing as what he currently cares about, and as he grows older, the communication between husband and wife begins to become difficult. And the concept of the husband and wife has also reached a state of peaceful coexistence through a long time of running-in, but generally women change more, at this time, the capable husband will think that today's situation is due to his own efforts, the wife is just doing what she should do, so the change should also be the wife change, and simply cooperate with each other. Zuihou said that in terms of economy, this aspect is from the early days of men to provide women without control, to the joint disposal of property by husband and wife after marriage, zuihou to men gradually control the general direction of money in the family, to put it bluntly, it is just a quantitative to qualitative change, with the previous circumstances, if the man remains unchanged after marriage, it is a strange talk. Of course, this does not include the ostrich men who think they are not talented.

to be continued