"Yijun, what Sister Zi can do, people...... People can also ......"

Finally, after a long silence, Emilia hesitated to speak. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

"But, Amelia, you also know that now that Purple is my official girlfriend, don't you mind?"

Seriously, Jian Yi doesn't want to love Milia like this, he is an ordinary person himself, and Jian Yi already feels very lucky to be able to get Jian Zi's heart, he doesn't dare to expect too much.

"People...... People also know that they will care, but do you know Yijun? ”

"People and Sister Alice have lived together for so long, and there has never been a boy who can enter people's hearts like Yijun."

"Although at the beginning, people were a little unaccustomed to Yijun's sometimes lustful appearance, but, gradually, people felt that they couldn't do without Yijun."

These words, Emilia said with tears in her eyes, she regretted that she didn't act earlier, and now she has let Jian Zi take the lead.

But, even though it was already like this, she didn't want to give up.

"But, it's too late, Emilia, I'm sorry, really, I don't know what to tell you......"

Yes, just like Jian Yi said, no matter how many regrets there are, there is no way to do it now.

This may be what people often call fate, right?

If we are destined in this life, let us sing in the spring breeze, cool in the summer night, murmur in the autumn wind, whisper in the winter snow, hold gently, walk the world together, and go to the cape together.

If we are destined in this life, let's go to the snow mountains to step on the green lotus, go to the Great Wall to blow the wind and sand together, ride a horse on the prairie together, and go to the desert to find the green state of life together.

If we are destined in this life, let us ignore the existence of others, travel through time and space, bask in the moon, blow the cool breeze, and enjoy the world that only belongs to the two of us on the night of the Flower Moon Garden.

If we are destined in this life, let us love each other gently, think quietly, love each other will never change, and miss each other forever.

If we are destined in this life, let us hug each other tightly, snuggle gently, love each other stupidly, and be together forever.

If we have fate in this life, let us go beyond the world's gaze, cross the river of time, walk hand in hand in the bright sunshine, and feel the lingering love.

"No, people are demons, so they don't believe in fate!"

"And people think that if you have to talk about fate, when you meet Yijun, it is the biggest fate!"

"So, people decide, even if it is ...... Even if Sister Zi is already Yijun's wife, people, people will still not give up! ”

It can be seen how determined Emilia is to say these words, Jian Yi can understand that the person he likes is with someone else, and Jian Yi has also experienced this, so he can really understand Amilia's current mood.

However, Jian Yi is not as persistent as Emilia, he has given up, and Emilia is now in the same situation as herself, but she has not given up, Jian Yi feels that she is really not as good as a girl.

"But what is Emilia going to do if that's the case?"

I don't know why, Jian Yi suddenly became worried, he was worried that if Emilia suddenly said that she was going to have a life-and-death duel with Jian Zi, if she didn't die, it would be a big deal, if she really fought, Jian Yi couldn't stop it!

"People...... I have already thought about it, and people will marry Yijun like Sister Zi! ”

Taking a deep breath, Emilia said with a lot of determination.

Jian Yi was relieved to hear that Emilia didn't say anything to fight with Jian Zi, but, but Emilia's words also gave Jian Yi a headache!

You say happy, that's for sure, Jian Yi is not a saint or a gentleman or something, just an otaku in the gentleman's world, as a gentleman, no, it should be said that as a boy, he must be happy to be able to hug three wives and four concubines left and right.

However, the most important thing is, can Jian Zi accept it? Although Emilia seems to have made a decision now, can she really accept it in her heart?

So Jian Yi felt a headache, this matter is not easy to handle.

Moreover, in Japan, polyandry in the true sense of the word can be said to be basically non-existent, which does not want to be in China and China, although polygamy is not allowed in the history of China and China, but in ancient China, monogamy and polygamy were allowed.

If you look through the history of Japan, you can see that although there were many dynasties such as Asuka, Nara, Heian, Kamakura, Muromachi, and Edo, the most perfect expression of the unique Japanese concept of marriage and love in Japanese culture is the elegant and gorgeous years when The Tale of Genji was born—a time when the rhythm was slow and relaxed.

At that time, there was a history of marriage that deserves in-depth study but has almost been obliterated------ that is "visiting wife marriage" system in Japan's Heian period.

Since ancient times, the Japanese have been very frank about marriage and love, because the origin myth of Japan began with the depiction of sex and love.

They are often accustomed to giving some other meaning to sex and love, and the worship and fear of this meaning can sometimes even outweigh the importance of marriage. These allegories are often contradictory------ sex is seen both as a depraved path to the region, and at the same time as a contradictory and only channel to the divine and to liberation.

Behind all this, marriage seems to be more of a legal way to obtain sex that only exists within the scope of social responsibility. Many people have a strong sense of family responsibility, but this sense of responsibility does not prevent him or her from cheating on him or her or at least mentally cheating.

In fact, the formation of this concept has a great relationship with the early Japanese marriage system ----- "visiting wife marriage".

The origin of "wife visiting" can be traced back to the age of mythology. Japan's earliest male and female gods, Izanagi and Izanami, two siblings.

Descending from the sky by the decree of the gods, combined with the birth of eight million gods such as the Japanese islands, mountains, rivers, plants and trees, etc., Later, Izanami died because of the god of fire, and Izanagi chased him to the country of Yellow Springs overnight, but because he saw Izanami's ugly state after his death and fled, and attracted Izanami's revenge, and death began to exist in the world.

For a period of time after that, ancient Japanese marriages were once called "divine marriages" with respect because of the marriage forms that resembled this god, also known as "one-night husbands" or "one-night wives".

And there are many taboos and norms------- at that time when a man goes to a woman's house to court, he must stand in the perspective of God, like God, visit at night and return early, and only for one night, after the separation in the morning, their love and sex will end, and often the two people cannot distinguish each other's faces.

Everything must be held on a dark night because the ancient Japanese believed that the time of the gods was night, and that both daylight and moonlight were spells given to the earth by the gods who fell from the sky, and that courtship in the sun or moonlight was absolutely taboo, and that the gods could only be contacted at night, so the love and sex of men and women took place in the dark night.

At the same time, they sang the praises of God's marriage with a mantra ------- "song" that began with God. With the development of society and literature, this kind of marriage, which was both sacred and taboo, finally appeared in the form of poems and waka to demand love, such as "visiting wife marriage" and "son-in-law marriage".

"Wife-visiting marriage" is the original form of "son-in-law marriage" that has been popular in Japanese history for more than 1,000 years. This form of marriage began in the Yamato period and continued into the Heian period, where it flourished.

"Wife visitation" means that the man and the woman do not move in together after marriage, but still live in their original home (usually the mother's house), and the married life is achieved through the man's visit to the woman's home and overnight stay. Husbands either practice a short period of "living with their wives", or they only go to their wives' homes at night to live with their wives and leave at dusk.

In the Heian period, a noble man could have several wives at the same time, but because of the visiting marriage system, it was easy for a man to maintain a marriage relationship with several women, so the distinction between a main wife and a concubine was not so clear.

Similarly, since the husband neither takes his wife back to his home nor moves in with her, the restraint between the two is not obvious. As a result, among the wives, there is only the order of marriage, and there is no distinction between the concubines. They live apart and do not interact with each other, and they are the wives of their husbands.

Generally speaking, after the relationship between the "wife visitor" is confirmed, the wife continues to live in her mother's house, and the room where she lives with her husband is called the "wife's house". After marriage, the husband usually moves between two (or several), while the woman stays at home and waits for her husband's arrival, as before the marriage.

Therefore, for women, there are no major changes in their lives before and after marriage. However, if both parents are dead and the woman does not have the ability to survive on her own, then she can also move into her husband's house.

On the contrary, there are also cases where the woman's family gives up the mansion for the two to get married, and the next two generations live together. Children born in marriage are usually supported by the wife's family, so it is not uncommon for children to have a very strong relationship with their mothers, but there is a great gap between them and their half-siblings.

In the case of "wife-visiting marriage", a man who wants to abandon his wife not only does not have to perform a ceremony, but also does not even need to notify the woman at all, as long as he stops visiting his wife. Of course, the woman can also refuse to see her husband when she is tired of it, or welcome another partner after the man is estranged.

Because the children are probably raised by the woman, it will not be a stumbling block in the event of divorce. All this seems to show that the Japanese value "love" rather than "marriage".

Although Japan later integrated into the global civilization, their local marriage and love customs are extremely peculiar, there is an almost childlike romance and relaxation, which is different from the Western "knight" culture, and different from the Eastern world's wife and concubine system, the union between husband and wife is loose, their feelings are not deep, and they will not bring a lot of hatred.

"Visiting wife marriage" is the only marriage system of polygamy that Jian Yi knows, but if Jian Yi, Jian Zi and Emilia are also allowed to practice "visiting wives", he will never allow it.

"Amilia, to be honest, thank you so much for being able to do so much for me."

"Seriously, I like you very much, but now is not the era when it was possible to visit his wife and marry peacefully, so I have to let Zi know about this matter."

"So, now, until Purple doesn't have a clear answer, Emilia, all I can say is, sorry ......"

Rejecting the taste of a girl, Jian Yi has finally realized it now, it is really very, very uncomfortable.

"Well, people understand, as long as Yijun can promise people, they will feel very happy, and they will go and tell Sister Zi, Yijun, thank you very much!"

Although there was no clear answer, Emilia was very happy to hear Jian Yi say that his personal opinion was agreeable.

"What do you need a reply from the concubine? Husband-sama. Huh? Emilia is here, too? ”

Jian Zi's voice suddenly appeared at the door......