This year's college entrance examination essay questions in Hunan are unique, using the comic "Rewards and Punishments" as the material, allowing students to play freely, which can not only reflect the talents of students, but also give students the opportunity to speak their hearts, which can be said to kill two birds with one stone. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

In this era of respect for knowledge and talents, test scores are very important to students, parents, and teachers.

Student A will be rewarded with 100 points in the exam, and student B will be slightly punished with 55 points, which is the normal mentality of parents to "hope that their son will become a dragon", which is understandable. However, Student A was slapped at 98 points, which is indeed a bit excessive. As a parent, it is a bit demanding to require your child to score 100 points on the test every time. No one is perfect, he is a genius, and it is impossible to ask for 100 points in his homework. It is not easy for a child to score 98 points in the test, and he should be encouraged, not slapped.

The method of educating the parents of student B is preferable. Although the child only has 61 points, compared with 55 points, it is progress, and progress should be rewarded, a sweet kiss can cheer up the child and climb new heights.

Throughout the ages, parents are expected to have their sons Jackie Chan's wishes, the former Meng's mother, choose neighbors, children do not learn, broken weaving, can be described as well-intentioned. Meng Ke became a generation of saints, and Meng's mother should be the first to take credit. Each of us as a parent wants our children to get ahead, but their methods of education are different. Some are too demanding, some are too indulgent, and there are too few parents who really educate their children like Meng's mother, and do whatever it takes for their children to study with peace of mind.

Children are the future of the motherland, and every child is looking forward to their children from the moment they start reading. It's just that each child's IQ is different and their ability is limited, so we educate children to teach them according to their aptitude and go with the flow, and don't impose "don't beat, don't scold, don't be adults, and make good people out of sticks" as a wise saying on children. Students at each stage have different psychological characteristics, and educating children should be guided according to the age group, without hurting the child's self-esteem or arousing the child's rebellious psychology.

There is nothing wrong with being strict with children's learning, but it cannot be measured by scores alone, grades are only one aspect, and the all-round development of morality, intellect and body is the most important. Sometimes the questions are too difficult, the average score of the whole class drops, and it is reasonable to lose two points, as a parent, you should be considerate of your child, give appropriate encouragement, and reduce your child's mental pressure.

Sometimes, a few steps back can be the motivation for a sprint. For example, if the vehicle climbs a hill, the slope is too large to rush up, and even the flameout phenomenon occurs, at this moment, the choice is not to rush up, but to take a few steps back and increase the throttle and then rush up, so that it can rush up smoothly. The same is true of reading, and I have personally experienced this. I took the second year of junior high school and ranked first in the class, and the class teacher criticized me and said some ugly things in front of the class, and I was ashamed of myself. When I got home, I asked to quit school, and my father asked me why, so I had to tell the truth. My father was very sad when he saw me, and instead of scolding me, he encouraged me, saying that failure is the mother of success. I was secretly determined to win the first place at the end of the term. In the final exam, I did take the first place in the class, and my father was very pleased, he said: "Learning is like fighting a war, sometimes retreating, just to attack better." The method of only moving forward and not retreating will only cause greater losses. ”

My method of educating my children may be to uphold the legacy of my father, or it may be the personal experience of ten years of cold windows. The age difference between the two children is one year, the same year to start studying, the same year to graduate and be admitted to university, they from enlightenment to college graduation for 15 years, these 15 years, I have never beaten them, scolded them, critical moments, I am still their strong backing. When someone asks me how I educate my children, I just say eight words: guide, encourage, and go with the flow.

Now is the age of the Internet, and many students are addicted to online games, and their grades have plummeted. Seeing that the child is not angry and disobedient, the hatred of parents is not steel, and scolding the child has become a habitual behavior, but everyone knows that the object must be reversed, and the beating and scolding can only arouse the child's rebellious psychology, some run away from home, some work against the parents, some simply give up their studies, and even force the child to a point of no return.

The times are different, the children's inner world is different, as a parent, to educate children to pay more attention to the ways and means, to vary from time to time, choose the children's easy to accept the way of education, both rigid and soft, grace and power, the heart of the child's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, more care about the child's learning, life, so that the child has a sense of happiness in life, and there is a sense of ease in learning.

It is important to educate children, but you can't be like the parents of student A, who demand 100%, sometimes the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. The parents of student B also hope that their son will become a Chan, but they treat their children with kindness and kindness, so that the children can feel the warmth of the family. Parents are role models for their children, and they should educate their children to grasp the proportions, not to use swear words and force at every turn, but to pay attention to their own image in the minds of their children, and to stop in moderation. If the goal of relying on corporal punishment of children to achieve the goal of hoping for a son to become a Chan can only be counterproductive.