Chapter 588: I Don't Accept Him (9)

Kou Xi saw the figure on the wall, and the corners of his mouth curled up slightly.

Kou Dewang didn't know what was wrong with this, and he was still chatting with Kou Xi seriously.

"In the past, she always said that she was heartbroken by a man, and it was enough to guard her daughter alone in the future. Why is it changing so quickly?"

Kou Xi was embarrassed to say that it was because she was in love with Gu Shen, which stimulated her for a while. Now I am working hard to buy a house and be inspired to be a strong woman.

can only say: "It may be that one person is too hard, and I want someone to share it with me." ”

Kou Dewang nodded, sighed and said, "Yes, it is indeed not easy for her to be a woman with a child. Life is too hard for one person to resist, you need someone to help you!"

Speaking of this, Kou Dewang's chatterbox opened: "She is considered to be a good one now, and the women of our era are more miserable than you two." Anyway, Huo An left you money, and you have made a lot of money over the years, and your sister still has you to help you. At that time, what did we have? The children had to eat all of them, and they had to do a lot of the work in the house. If a man dies, there are still in-laws who have to be served, you say that this is called what should not be done every day and the earth should not be ordered?"

Kou Xi nodded: "It's true, at that time, every family relied on men to earn a living. It's the same now, my sister is a little better than others, and what I give her is dividends that are better than earning a dead salary. ”

"That's it, I told you before, your sister has helped you all these years. You two sisters don't say anything else, life is the same as bitterness, you pull me and I pull you, don't care about money. To put it mildly, if your sister's condition is not pulled by our family, she will have to be forgiven in three years at most. How difficult it is for a woman to earn money to support her children by opening a stall in the market. If someone else had changed, he would have found a man to marry, at least someone could share the burden and help him raise his children. If you have a headache and brain fever, is someone in charge? Someone has to understand those words in my heart!"

Kou Dewang finally concluded: "When a woman like you remarries, she is different from the little girl who has never been married. What people pursue is how this person treats me, what I want, whether the family conditions are good, and how my parents are. What about you, the main thing for you is whether you are good for my children or not, whether you can raise them for me. ”

"You don't see many widows with children, there's really nothing you can do. Find an old bachelor in the countryside who can't marry a daughter-in-law, and you have to let someone come to live at home. The conditions have to be explained, you have to work with me to support my in-laws, you have to help me raise my children, and you have to help me plant the land at home. I don't want anything, just come here. What's the difference between this and a son-in-law!" Kou Dewang sneered: "But as long as a man has a little ability, who can live such a life?"

Kou Xi nodded: "Is this just called a gangster?"

Kou Dewang took a sip of tea to moisten his throat and shook his head: "This is not called a gang, this is a normal marriage between a man and a woman." ”

"Ah, isn't it a gangster?" Kou Xi's eyes widened: "What is that?"

"It's even worse for those who pull the gang, at least they go to others innocently. The daughter-in-law gave birth to a child and passed incense to herself. Lagang is a live animal, and if a man from any family is paralyzed or blind, he can't do any work. There are a lot of children in the house, and no one does the work in the fields. You have to find a man to marry in and work for the head of the family. It's called a gang!"

Kou Xi was taken aback: "And this is the case? The man is still alive, so he will go to the house to get someone?"

"Or the child will starve to death?" said Kou Dewang angrily, "I don't have to go if I want to, I have to write a note with the man in the house." What kind of child has to have the same surname as the man in charge, the children can't change their words to call the man a father for the rest of their lives, and their own women have to be in the same grave as themselves when they die. You know, it used to be hard work. Several children in a family have to be raised, sons have to marry others, daughters-in-law and daughters have to marry others. When you get old, you have nothing. ”

Kou Xi was dumbfounded: "Then who did it!"

Kou Dewang sneered: "Some people do it, and there is no way to be poor in the past, and they can't eat." The man in the main family gave a sum of money, took the money and gave it to his parents to support the elderly, so he went to the house to help. You're young, and you're just in time for the time you were born. But it wasn't uncommon for us to do that back then. ”

"So, it's not easy for people to live in this world. If your sister really wants to find a partner, you have to check it well. Yu Daming is enough to choke, another bastard, your sister will not be able to turn over in this life!" Kou Dewang said earnestly: "Your sister's temper is too bad, and she will be even more violent after the divorce." This is what our two men said at home, don't you think your sister has become more and more special and lonely in recent years?"

"You remember, your sister has to find a good-tempered man when looking for a man. If you can tolerate her, it's better to find someone to work. It's best to have an iron rice bowl, pay wages every month, retire and have a pension. is more promising than Daming, but you can't find someone who is too rich and too shrewd. Otherwise, the two of them will definitely have to fight, and your sister is now more and more able to pinch the sharp. Find someone with a strong personality, and two people have to fight for a lifetime. There has to be someone who is soft on her and a little softer to her!" Kou Dewang reminded Kou Xi, and Kou Xi did not forget to tease the old man: "Then what am I suitable for?" Why don't you remind me!"

"You?" Kou Dewang looked proud: "My daughter can be happy with whatever she is looking for, you have a spectrum in your heart." I don't have to worry about this, and I don't want anything more than I want you to have someone by your side to accompany you. After all, children always have to grow up, and they can't live with you for the rest of their lives. You always have to have someone around you to take care of you, talk to you, and go out to exercise together. Someone who has a headache and brain fever takes you to the hospital. ”

Now that he had said that, Kou Xi tried to persuade him again: "You understand everything, why don't you find yourself an old wife?" I also hope that there is someone by your side to talk about your heart and go out to exercise together. ”

Kou Dewang waved his hand: "You are different from my situation!"

Kou Xi raised his eyebrows: "What's different, our situation is exactly the same." Didn't you look for a partner back then because you were afraid that your stepmother would bully me? Now that I'm so old, you should have your own life. ”

Kou Dewang exclaimed: "I am different from you. It's enough for me to have your mother alone in my life, and the two of us have grown up with different feelings. We are husband and wife, friends and confidants, and no one will understand me in this life except her. The memories of our years are enough for me to survive this life. ”

"Child!" Kou Dewang looked at Kou Xi deeply: "When you get married and find someone who is good to you and good to your two children, I will rest assured that I will go to your mother." Otherwise....... I'm so sorry for your mother!"