Chapter 653: Nursery Teacher (3)
With a serious reason, Kou Dewang did not force Tang Jinzhi to follow him to Shenyang. Over there, Kou Deyou had already asked Tang Jinzhi to prepare, but he didn't expect Kou Dewang to privately pull his brother to 'complain': "We are kind enough to be old people, but I didn't expect to do something shameless and skinless." Gu Shen had already ordered two nannies, one to cook and one to take care of the children, and I wanted her second aunt to come over to help. Okay this time, Gu Shen is a hundred unhappy, look at me, isn't it annoying to be old. ”
Kou Deyou frowned: "It's not good that your family can serve, you have to find an outsider to spend that money?"
"We think that we are family, and people don't think so much. People still think that her second aunt is an elder, and she can't say that she can't be trained or trained. It's easy to hire a nanny, so you can scold you if you don't do anything well. Besides, people still think that the nanny professional old lady doesn't understand anything. Kou Dewang made a look of annoyance: "Now rich people use professional nannies, and they don't look down on our old ways." ”
As if he had found an ally, Kou Deyou breathed a sigh of relief and said, "Oh, that's a good thing they told you. If you don't go, people won't look down on you, isn't this causing trouble? ”
He sighed and opened his heart to his eldest brother and said what was in his heart: "Jin Zhi'er is a stubborn person sometimes, and he hasn't said a word to the daughter-in-law of the second family for so long. Our brothers said by themselves, what kind of children can they count if they are doctors. Even Xingyu is not the one who went to his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother, which makes her count like a beast. ”
It seems that Kou Deyou is not a foolish person, but why did he help Tang Jinzhi partially in this matter? Kou Dewang couldn't help but be curious: "When did you become a person who was afraid of your daughter-in-law, if you don't talk about this matter, I can't ask, how can you give such a child to drink incense ash." This is the son-in-law, if the son-in-law has to turn the world upside down? I don't know if both of them have to get a divorce, don't you think she is confused!"
Kou Deyou let out a long sigh, patted his brother's thigh and said, "Brother, home and everything is prosperous." The son and daughter-in-law are living their own lives, and we didn't want to get together with the two of them. You said this, she asked her son to send it back, and when she asked what the reason was, she didn't say anything, just said that she was angry over there. When I went back, I asked Xingyu, where is Gen'er. What can I say, and I can still scold her? She is also in her fifties, how can she get a little sick when she gets on fire? Besides, I don't know about others, don't I still know her? Can she have a bad heart to harm the child? Alas, that home remedy has been used by Erbao before, and the eldest daughter-in-law has not said anything, and the child has not drunk it badly. ”
Only then did Kou Dewang understand that after all, Kou Deyou was protecting his daughter-in-law. He persuaded his younger brother: "It's hard to talk about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but fortunately, we can't always meet when we are far away." But the mother can't be so hard, and she has to give Xingyu a soft word. He didn't feel good in the middle! Why did you call your daughter-in-law and forget your mother, you just need to protect your daughter-in-law, but he can't protect his daughter-in-law. Don't say that people take advantage of it, even if they don't occupy it, they can't do that. Don't you see what the filial sons have become, and Yu Daming is not enough for you to reflect?"
Kou Deyou was chatting with his brother here, and Tang Jinzhi was quietly standing outside listening. It's been so long, and the anger she had at the beginning has also disappeared. Calm down and think about it, that incense ash is not a good thing, and it can't cure diseases, it's really inappropriate to give the child to drink. Fortunately, her son found out about this matter, and if her mother-in-law came to question her, where would she still have an old face.
Hearing Kou Dewang mention Yu Daming, Tang Jinzhi's shoulders shrank. Thinking of this folk, who has known him for decades, it is pitiful to become like this now.
Wang Yazhi could be regarded as a very good daughter-in-law back then, and married him when Daming had nothing. Relying on her, a woman is living a better and better life little by little, and at the beginning, her mother-in-law was kind and her husband was considerate. But slowly after the family has money, life becomes different.
The mother-in-law began to be dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law's absence from home all day long to run business outside, and the husband was even more inferior to his wife. In addition, Wang Yazhi herself is a person with a strong personality, and she used to deliberately live a low-minded life in front of her mother-in-law. But when she became the pillar of the family, the new daughter-in-law would no longer have any scruples. After all, he holds the economic power, and he is the confidence in this family.
Mutual dissatisfaction is certainly not caused by a day or two, and the relationship between husband and wife will not really die because of the strength of the mother-in-law.
Wang Yazhi and Yu Daming divorced, and it is not entirely to blame that Yu Daming is a mother. The problem between the husband and wife is still the most important, Yu Daming values money and has no ability to make money. The two of them want to hold the financial power, and they are both patriarchal.
"A small cake shop can get a divorce, and Yu Daming doesn't have much knowledge. Hmph, the old mother-in-law is now comfortable, the big tile house has also been built, and the store house is rented out every year and there is still a sum of money, and finally has a big grandson. Hehe, I'm happy now. Kou Dewang smiled coldly, the people of the Wang family did not agree to Wang Yazhi marrying Yu Daming. And how Wang Yazhi has been living since the divorce, Kou Dewang can also see it very clearly. Putting everything aside, the current days are something that Yu Daming can't give to Wang Yazhi in his life.
"What's the use of that! I thought that the current daughter-in-law was as easy to talk as Wang Yazhi! I didn't expect that her mother's family was a skin-throwing family, and her daughter-in-law couldn't stand up to her mother-in-law's family. Now, she lives alone in the old house. The son, daughter-in-law, and grandson live in a new house, and they live by watching their daughter-in-law's face every day. If they are unhappy, they will take the children back to their parents' homes. Can Yu Daming still get divorced? Hmph, does she regret it now?" Kou Deyou sneered: "It's not good to be old now! Haha, you still asked me about it that day." She still has a face to carry around. ”
"Doudou is not close to his grandmother's family, and the last time he came back was a few years ago, right?" Kou Dewang couldn't even remember what year Doudou returned home. I only remember that time I wronged the child enough, and since then I have not had a good face for Lao Yu's family.
"This child has nothing to do with the old Yu family from now on. Why bother, you said that the two of them should have lived well, but she stuck a rod and harmed the child for a lifetime. Wang Yazhi didn't look for her in-laws when she led a child, but Yu Daming, a boy and son, ran all over the ground! Can this be resentful and hateful to her grandmother? She also said that even if her grandmother died, she would not come back. Isn't she blaming herself for this?"
Kou Deyou was taken aback when he heard this: "Can Doudou still say such a thing? Oh, her milk is serious and good to her." ”
It's just that toys and pocket money are awkward, which can make a child hate his biological grandmother so much. What would she do if she knew that her grandmother had brought incense ashes for her to drink? Tang Jinzhi outside the door fell into deep thought......