ps: I said I want to update, no matter how late it is, I have to code words!

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Marriage, like writing a book, is to make up a dream for others, sweet dreams or nightmares are not mentioned for the time being, there is always a time to wake up from the dream.

Sometimes I wake up from a dream and continue to move forward frankly, sometimes I wake up in a dream and continue to fall asleep, and sometimes I wake up in a dream, but I decide to continue to stay in this dream.

There are always people who go back and criticize how high the divorce rate is now, and how impetuous young people are now, but what about the facts?

How many of those so-called people who have come over are happy?

I'm afraid that there is not even false happiness, it never exists!

Don't say anything about the love of firewood, rice, oil and salt, don't say anything about the support after marriage, don't say anything about going through together, if it weren't for the too many white eyes that you had to endure for the divorce, and too much blame and social pressure to bear, you bad old men and bad old women would have left a long time ago.

As for the current accusations, who knows that there are no certain careful thoughts or dark careful thoughts that cannot be seen freely by others?

Hehe, human.

The times are progressing, and the mind is open. In the collision, the social system and morality will develop to the point of conforming to the group, for example, the current divorce is no longer the thing that will be chewed on the root of the tongue at the beginning, and for example, the "free love" many years ago is not the "words of the matchmaker of the parents" in the longer past.

Perhaps one day in the future, after the divorce, the two parties will continue to raise their children together as friends who are not enemies, and I believe that it will be quite a beautiful situation, which is more gratifying than this novel and that novel.

After all, the problem of children from divorced families is not the divorce itself, but the mutual accusations of both parents, and the crying of the mother in front of others.

These things all the time hint at those children who are not mentally perfect - "You are not happy at all and will never be happy!"

So unfortunate families, most of their offspring are unlucky, after all, children who grow up from "accusations", all they can learn is "accusations", and there is never "appreciation".

It's like a child who grows up in school bullying will only bully others when he is stronger than others.

(The above is the author's personal experience, even if a psychology professor refutes me, I can use a real case to throw him in the face.) ）

These are all emotional and life problems, and generally speaking, these all belong to the category of "feelings".

Especially for the Bloodline, before they get affection, they don't understand all of the above, they will think, study, understand, and even some Bloods can show the right expression at the right time just by relying on analysis, so that they can look like ordinary people.

But in the end, the bloodline will not have any fluctuations, to take the simplest example.

When a mother says, "If you do so badly, you will be as useless as your gambler father in the future!", the average child may be scared, sad, think this and that, and the child will cry instinctively, while the smarter child will hear the deep disappointment and feel inferior.

But in the case of the blood clan, even the young blood clan will simply analyze the two sentences "I did so badly" and "I have no chance like my father" independently, and conclude that my mother is angry, and then ...... It's gone.

The Bloodlines do not show the slightest sign of sadness or fear, nor do they offer even the slightest comfort.

Another example is a mother who cries in front of her relatives about how miserable her married life is, her two children are always looking at their father, and they are not grateful at all for giving them food and clothing, and their dead ghost father thinks how good he is when he gives a few dollars of pocket money.

And all this does not shy away from his two children, two adolescent children.

Aside from the fact that the mother has insufficient EQ and IQ balance, and does not understand that her actions and words are consuming the child's gratitude, ordinary children either don't understand it at all, or they will hide and cry to the side.

To be honest, such a family hurts the child the most, and the reason why mother's love is great is her wordless dedication, and this so-called wordless payment is said in a very utilitarian form, for children with incomplete mental growth, it is undoubtedly implying that they "everything that mom does is to be rewarded from you." ”

This implication may be unaware of both sides, but it does make the rift wider.

But for the young blood clan, such remarks will only make them analyze the mother's anxious and restless heart for the first time, longing for the child's heart to be on their side, feeling that they are the heart of the disadvantaged, and then ...... It's gone.

The Bloods don't comfort their mothers, they don't support their mothers, they don't do anything, they don't cry or make trouble, they just listen and do their own thing.

The blood clan will analyze all these things objectively and rationally in the accumulated life, they will observe the people around them, observe their love, family affection, friendship, observe their interactions, observe their quarrels, among which love is the most touching and couples are the most beautiful.

Then, in the course of that observation over and over again, the Bloods would suddenly have the idea of "if only it could be like this" one day.

The idea is shallow and simple, but after that idea, another idea will surely pop up. - "Sure to Die"

For the blood clan, falling in love is really dead, but every blood clan starts a relationship with the mentality that they will definitely die.

Life is like the splendor of the morning flower, and death is like the splendor of fireworks.

Just like Yu Lei's used box of bloodstained black jade intermittent cream that could never be concealed from Zhao Ling, who was a blood clan, Andrew also had the same mentality to absorb snake venom for his wife.

It's a long, long story, snake venom is just the last chance, they have known each other for decades, and they have only been in love for a few months, but it all seems beautiful.

It is a kind of quiet beauty, even if you know the truth, know that the person you love will leave, but you can still devote yourself to such a love.

Just like a couple who know that they will break up after graduating from college, they especially cherish this moment.

Although their breakup is an irresistible goodbye, they are also in love at this moment, and their faces are filled with that careless, wanton and happy smile.

If the god of fate wants to misfortune you, then sing it with the warmest praise, tell it, tell the god of fate, that even a moment of meeting between the two of you is the greatest luck.

If the god named Destiny wants to separate you forever, then pay homage to it with the most sincere thoughts, tell it, tell the beast of fate that the meeting between the two of you is already the greatest beauty in the world, and every minute and every second is filled with happy laughter, even if the other person is not around, the waiting time makes people want to smile sweetly.

Even if the wait was long, it was only a long, long sweetness.

"Let's raise a glass and celebrate, the beast named Destiny has once again been teased by our newcomer!"

Dressed in a priest's robe like a devout believer, Hitomi sent the most sincere blessings to the couple.

Don't respect the gods, they're beasts, and if you have the chance, punch them straight to the soul!