"Hmm...... Wait, wait, wait......"

Everyone was drunk and I woke up, and while everyone else was still in a daze, Zhou Chengli, a member of the Mensa Club (self-proclaimed), held his temples and gritted his teeth to break through this collective unconscious state that made people involuntarily want to give up thinking.

"You don't want to change the subject randomly. Although what you said seems to be very reasonable, as far as I know, it seems that there is still a science specializing in love.

Moreover, you didn't prepare these props to adjust ~ teach the members of the SOS group, right? If you really think so, then I can only think that you have read too much yellow~sexual~ novels.

Compared with tuning ~ teaching, the success rate may be higher if you directly use the money to smash it. ”

In the face of Zhou Chengli's questioning, Chu Xuan pushed down his reflective glasses expressionlessly, and replied in a consistently smooth and uninhibited mechanical voice:

"Indeed, the study of love cannot be a science alone.

However, as one of the most important psychological activities of human beings, the study of love is an important project that cannot be ignored in psychology.

You know the 'drawbridge effect', right? ”

"Yes. When a person sees their sweetheart, their heart beats faster, and conversely, the rapid heartbeat can also be mistaken by the brain for liking.

For example, when two people stand together on a suspension bridge suspended in mid-air, their hearts will beat faster because of fear, and it will be easy for them to have a good relationship with each other.

But in fact, this kind of feeling has little to do with love, it is just an illusion brought by physiological reactions to the psyche. ”

"That's right, the 'drawbridge effect' can be explained by the two-factor theory of emotions.

Contrary to common sense, an individual's emotional experience is not spontaneously formed by one's own experience, but rather a two-stage process of self-perception.

In this process, people first experience their own physiological feelings, and then they will look for a suitable explanation for their physical arousal in their surroundings.

In addition, there is an explanation for the 'drawbridge effect' called 'activation theory'.

When emotions are aroused, such as laughter, anxiety or fear, people are more likely to find attraction in others. Any physiological 'activation' can be heart-wrenching.

The theory that dangerous or irritating situations can promote mutual affection has many practical applications in relationships. For example, riding a roller coaster together, watching comedy and laughing together, or escaping a burning building together, can cause emotional swings that can trigger 'feelings' for each other.

So the next question, do you know 'Stockholm Syndrome'? ”

"You know, that refers to a phenomenon in which the victim has feelings for the offender, and even helps the offender in turn.

In Stockholm, bank robbers tried to rob a bank, and after failing to do so, they took several bank employees hostage and confronted the police for several days.

When they were rescued, they didn't hate the robbers, but a female clerk fell in love with the robbers.

This phenomenon shows that there is a fragile bottom line for the fear that people can bear.

When a person encounters a fierce robber who can take his life at any time, the hostage will gradually entrust his right to life to the robber.

After a long time, the hostage ate a mouthful of food and drank a sip of water, and with every breath, he himself felt that the robbers were tolerant and merciful to him.

The fear of the hostages for their own robbers will first turn into gratitude to the robbers, and then into a kind of worship.

In the end, the hostage also subconsciously thought that the safety of the robber was his own safety. ”

"Yes, Stockholm syndrome is an important example of the role identity defense mechanism, which shows that people can be domesticated.

In evolutionary psychology, it is believed that newborn babies form an emotional attachment to the nearest powerful Maeto in order to maximize the possibility that the surrounding Maihito will become his ideal parent, or at least allow him to survive, and Stockholm syndrome may have developed from this.

Taking hostages as an example, the following conditions need to be met for the occurrence of Stockholm syndrome:

The first is to make the hostage feel that his life is threatened. The threat does not have to happen, but it must be clear to the hostage that he believes that his perpetrators will not hesitate to do so at any time.

The second is that the abuser must give the hostage a little favor or, for example, in various desperate situations, give the hostage water to drink - this is the most critical condition.

The third is to completely isolate the hostages from the outside world, and no other information can be obtained by the hostages except for the information and thoughts controlled by the abuser.

Fourth, it is necessary to make the hostages feel that there is no way to escape.

Although the severity of Stockholm disease is related to the mental strength of the victim, as long as the above conditions are met and there is enough time, the vast majority of people cannot escape this symptom.

As can be seen from the two phenomena of the 'drawbridge effect' and the 'Stockholm syndrome', the so-called love does not have to be obtained through one path.

Although the emotions obtained by using these psychological principles are not love in the traditional sense, their essence is no different from love, and it can also be called deformed love.

There are many masters of tuning ~ in this world, but there are few masters of love, because from the actual point of view, all the steps and behaviors in the training are scientifically guided by psychological theories, so using this method to obtain love is more feasible.

For a time-limited task like ours, the method of tuning ~ teaching is the most effective, much stronger than a normal relationship that is full of uncertainties and almost impossible to calculate.

Even if we don't prioritize this abnormal approach for ethical reasons, it never hurts to be prepared in advance. ”

Chu Xuan ended the "scientific exchange" with Zhou Chengli, and at the same time, he fooled the men present with his impeccable theory. And the two women could only hug each other and tremble, for fear that the fate of being manipulated ~ would fall on them.

"Rest assured, we are companions. Even if you need a test sample, you don't have to use both of you. Moreover, it is not only women who can be adjusted~ but also men. Preparing well in advance will be equally helpful for both of you in your quest. ”

Even when he saw the pitiful appearance of the female college student Wang Qin and the little nurse Zhao Xiaojing, Chu Xuan did not show even a little pity.

He just sat back down in front of the computer with a blank face, and reassured them very indifferently. But for some reason, the two girls immediately showed a grateful look.

What is this called? "Drawbridge Syndrome" or "Stockholm Effect"?

ps: Thank you for the 5 evaluation votes of the dungeon rats~ Thank you for your support, it's ten oceans at once - although only the money for the evaluation votes The author can't get a point.

In addition, although the theories in this chapter are true and effective, please apply them to the normal, pure love strategy, don't make a mistake! It is hereby declared.