Mi Le couldn't listen anymore, and blurted out: "You're just getting married for the sake of getting married, who are you fooling? Are you fooling yourself? Who do you think you are worthy of? Have you completed the task given to you? This is what you call marriage a child's play!"

Kou Xi looked up and shook her head at Millet, motioning for her to stop talking. But she didn't want to be stimulated by Miller's words, she raised her head full of resentment and grievances. She choked up and complained, "Why am I a child's play? How can I be sorry for anyone? I just want to have my own home, I just want to live my own little life." I don't want anyone to interfere in my life anymore, I want to be my own master, can't I?"

Miller was frightened by the sudden outburst of emotion and took two steps back. Gao Yinan, who had been quietly listening to a few people on the side, stood up. He walked up to Millet, grabbed her waist and whispered in her ear, "You come upstairs with me, I have something to tell you." ”

Miller frowned and muttered, "I don't, I'm going to listen here." ”

At this time, Doudou realized that Gao Yinan had been listening all along. When she saw Gao Yinan, she felt embarrassed, stood up with a red face, sat next to Kou Xi, and stopped talking.

"When husband and wife quarrel, they always say some cruel things. You are still young and don't know enough about emotional matters. If you can't figure out something in your marriage, let our mother help persuade you to analyze and analyze. Gao Yinan smiled and persuaded Mi Le, turned his head and said, "In the past few days, I have been in contact with Wan Xing, and I can see that he is a very picky person. Pickiness itself is not a disadvantage, and a picky person indicates that he is capable and has a high vision. ”

Doudou bit his lip and couldn't help but raise his head when he heard Gao Yinan's words, and muttered a little dazedly: "What?"

Gao Yinan smiled gently: "My aunt has had two failed marriages, and because of this, she will be very picky about your marriage." The relationship between you and Wan Xingyi is far from being as bad as you say, if there is no emotional foundation, if you don't understand each other, how can you easily set foot in marriage. ”

As he spoke, he turned to look at Millet, and saw that she looked confused and innocent. I thought it was funny, and couldn't help but reach out and pinch her nose: "You, you just like indignation too much." When a couple quarrels, how can they praise each other? What she says herself doesn't make sense, and you are still adding fuel to the fire. ”

With that, he pulled Mi Le upstairs, leaving the quiet environment to Kou Xi and Doudou.

Mi Le was pulled upstairs by his brother angrily, and looked at Gao Yinan with an unconvinced expression: "Did I say something wrong? Wan Xingyi is a scumbag, how can he be as good as you say? You have to be realistic to praise people." What a vision is high and capable, I bah!"

Gao Yinan frowned and looked at Mi Le, his expression becoming more and more serious. Mi Le, who watched it, straightened his hair and muttered timidly, "Did I say the wrong thing?"

"You have such a frizzy personality, how can you be a diplomat? You have to remember that the really good people are often not the ones who compete with each other over the word. And there must be room for doing things, how many times have I told you, there must be room for talking and doing things. If you drive a dog into the alley, you are forcing others to become your enemies. ”

Miller pouted unconvinced: "I remember, you've said it many times. I've never been like this in front of outsiders, so I'm not angry with my sister today. ”

"Then what do you think you can do?" Gao Yinan's question made Mi Le stunned for a moment, and blurted out without thinking: "Of course, it's time to stop the loss." She has such a low opinion of this relationship, and getting married is all about coping with errands. You can also see that there really doesn't seem to be any affection between the two people. My sister dragged it inside, and in the end she will be depressed and have mental problems!"

But they were already married, not only did they have a banquet, but they were also legal couples with marriage certificates. You know, marriage is not a matter of two people. It's not just a simple thing like you love me and I love you, it's a matter between two families. Just came back for a divorce on the honeymoon?What do you let others say about our family?" After all, Gao Yinan is how old is Mi Le, and men and women have different ways of thinking.

He asked the question so sharply that Miller didn't know how to answer. Mi Le was dumbfounded, and asked Gao Yinan with some disagreement: "What do you mean that I love you and you love me? Isn't the background color of marriage love, not because I love this person, not because I want to join hands with him for a lifetime, why do you want to get married?"

Gao Yinan nodded: "You're right, the background color of marriage is love." But this is only the basis of marriage, and the word marriage does not mean two people. You have to think about it, she decided to divorce alone, but what happened after that? in terms of her current situation, her thoughts, her values, and her ability to deal with problems. Do you think divorce will solve the fundamental problem?"

Mi Le nodded clearly: "That's right, the biggest problem here is actually that my aunt is too involved." Growing up, her desire to control was simply terrifying. I know that my sister understands my sister, and my aunt really suppressed a lot of things for my sister in the name of love. ”

"Auntie is indeed not easy!" Gao Yinan shook his head and sighed. His sympathy and understanding made Miller angry, and blurted out: "What does my aunt's difficulty have to do with my sister? And it wasn't caused by my sister? The hardships she suffered were because of her own husband, and her two marriages were unhappy, was it all because of her sister? Who caused my sister's hardships?"

Gao Yinan raised his eyebrows and looked at Mi Le: "What?"

Mi Le sneered, and hugged Doudou: "Isn't it? Auntie said that she has suffered a lot for her sister in this life, so hasn't my sister relived for her aunt in this life? Because my aunt thinks that the teacher's industry is guaranteed by drought and flood, glamorous and respected, and it is not hard at all if the wind blows and the sun does not shine. So I forced my sister to go to normal school and then come back to be a teacher. ”

She felt that her two husbands were from rural areas, and her two mothers-in-law were rural women, so her marriage was very unhappy. So she is particularly disgusted with people from the countryside, and she likes Wan Xingyi just because they don't have a mother. Does this make sense?"

Gao Yinan saw that Mi Le was so excited, and hurriedly stopped her and said, "Be quiet!"

"These things can be clearly stated on the table, so why don't you let me say it? Mom knows it in her heart, and you know it in your heart. Do you think my sister doesn't understand? But why didn't anyone persuade my aunt? Can my aunt still watch my sister depressed and unhappy?" Mi Le was puzzled: "Auntie is not an unreasonable person. ”

Gao Yinan looked at Mi Le's serious way of arguing with himself for a moment, and then smiled bitterly: "Mi Le, you remember." Home is not a reasonable place!"