Family affairs, national affairs, world affairs, how can it be remembered in the past?

The old age asks for the blessing of children and grandchildren, who pities the loneliness when there is no one?

Gossip is not beneficial, and it is lonely and comfortable to be old;

From the moment he entered the door and saw the old lady sitting gracefully on the sofa, Wen Shuo naturally had some thoughts and a touch of sympathy in his heart-old man, sitting alone, recuperating, old, listening to music, stroking cats......

Wen Shuo couldn't help but think of the last three years of Old Han Tou's life, and at this moment, he half-schemingly and half-sympathetically "chatted" with this old lady.

In the hearts of the vast majority of the elderly, there is a deep loneliness that is difficult to be understood by relatives and inconvenient to speak.

In fact, many things in the world are common.

For example, ordinary people's understanding of the mind of the elderly, you are not at that time, not in that position, even if you know how to put yourself in the shoes of empathy, you can't fully understand the psychology of one or another old man.

In daily life, we have probably experienced that many elderly people have a problem, that is, they have turned over and over a lot of things about old sesame seeds and rotten grains, and said it over and over again, which makes people annoying- There are two reasons, one is that they are old and forgetful, and the other is that when they are old, their physical strength and spirit are insufficient, and they have seen too much, and there is a lack of fresh things in life that can make them passionate, and they will become more and more nostalgic, and experience is the greatest wealth in life, so they will always miss how they used to be, especially some wonderful past. They also know that they have repeated it many times, but they can't help but repeat it, they know that it will be annoying, so they can only endure it, so the loneliness is getting stronger and stronger.

Of course, there are many people who can understand the loneliness of the elderly even if they can roughly understand some shallow loneliness, and there will be many filial and intelligent people who take time out to accompany the elderly, chatter with them, and listen to their chatter.

However, as the so-called "there is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness", adults have a lot of small affairs and can't spare time, and occasionally want to rest quietly alone, young people are greedy for play and pleasure and don't have that patience, and the elderly, and understand that children don't want to trouble them, and they are annoyed by talking too much, and they don't want to be annoyed, so this has become a difficult problem to solve.

The old lady of the Huang family, due to her identity and many other reasons, is usually inconvenient to go out and chat with those elderly people, and she can't listen to the gossip of those who are either sycophants or parents.

I never thought that today's most beloved granddaughter, Skullcap Zhi, the youngest of the grandchildren, brought back her boyfriend, is so sensible and so likable......

Originally, after the old lady knew that her little granddaughter had a boyfriend, she was quite angry with the kid named Wen Shuo, who dared to cheat the old granddaughter away, she was only twenty years old, and she hadn't graduated from college yet! However, because she loved her little granddaughter, the old lady couldn't see that her youngest son Huang Shen and daughter-in-law Zhuo Huilan were thoughtful, and she was not willing to let Qin Zhi worry in every possible way, so in order to make her little granddaughter happier, she made such a kind and kind grandmother image and met Wen Shuo, a poor boy.

I never thought that this kid was really popular.

He is honest, smart, and seems to be very timid...... Most importantly, he was patient and pure-hearted—the old lady could see that Wen Shuo's eyes were clear when she talked to her, and although she was scheming, she was more sincere and respectful.

It's hard to find someone who hasn't heard your own story in the past and is willing to sit down and listen.

And, well, not an outsider!

So the old lady happily chatted with Wen Shuo.

It seems that the image of the old lady is kind and kind, and her kind attitude infects Wen Shuo, this little fat man, who was still a little restrained and nervous at first, slowly let go, listened to the old lady's narration with great interest, responded with two sentences from time to time, and occasionally inserted three or two sentences, a moment of admiration, a moment of surprise, and a moment of silence......

But the old lady is too beautiful.

When the topic was quickly told from the old lady and turned into an inquiry, Wen Shuo was keenly aware of the old lady's thoughts, but he pretended not to know, and according to the old lady's inquiry, he briefly answered his family background, some interesting things about his childhood, suffering, etc.

The old lady was obviously moved, and shed a few old tears, and when she looked at Wen Shuo again, she liked it more and more.

At the corner of the stairs, Huang Shen, who was frowning, looked at his wife, who was like frost, sighed lightly, shook his head and walked upstairs.

Zhuo Huilan raised her hand and pinched her forehead, and followed her husband upstairs.

Just now, when the two of them were about to go downstairs, they heard the cheerful laughter of the old lady coming from the living room, so they couldn't help but stop and listen quietly to the conversation in the living room.

The more they listened, the more surprised they became.

No one knows the old lady's temperament better than them, of course, smart people like them can also understand and know the loneliness in the old lady's heart, so Huang Shen's three brothers, two sisters, and a large family will always take time to accompany the old lady to chat and have a meal every once in a while, and often let grandchildren and great-grandchildren come to the house to make the old lady happy.

But the family knows that the old lady, who is already eighty-three years old, is definitely not confused, on the contrary, she still maintains an extremely shrewd mind, coupled with the advantage of age, and most of her life has been in contact with high-level people, knows countless people, and has come into contact with all the people.

Who can deceive this old lady?!

But Wen Shuo was able to coax the old lady into high spirits during the conversation, and she was much more talkative than before, and her mental condition was much better.

In the study, Zhuo Huilan said lightly: "What should I do?"

"Alas. Huang Shen smiled bitterly and waved his hand, "Listen to the old lady, if she is satisfied with Wen Shuo, we won't say anything more." Actually, Wen Shuo's kid is still pretty good, huh. ”

"Not bad?" Zhuo Huilan frowned and said: "Cunning as a fox, even the old lady has been coaxed by him, Qin Zhi will suffer a big loss in the future! Not to mention, he, he is still ......"

Huang Shen frowned and said, "Don't talk nonsense. ”

"That's almost certain. Zhuo Huilan suppressed her voice and said: "Why don't we find out to him and see what he means and whether he has any intentions!"

"Why should you question it?" Huang Shen shook his head and said, "It's good that you know and I know." ”

"Lao Huang!" Zhuo Huilan said with a pleading tone: "You should know very well that even if Wen Shuo is really as we hoped, there is no malice, and he is really good to Qin Zhi, but he is ...... This kind of person himself is very dangerous to others, and he himself will face all kinds of unpredictable dangers in the future, in case something happens in the future, what will Qin Zhi do? Besides, he is good at thinking about people's hearts, the city is extremely deep, and he is cunning and thick, and his personal ability is extremely strong, will such a person cherish Qin Zhi once he becomes famous in the future?"

Huang Shen waved his hand, he was not qualified to question this kind, and he was embarrassed to talk to his wife.

Because he knew that whenever his wife mentioned such topics, even if she was talking about others, she was telling him and warning him.

This is a small braid.

Seeing a flash of embarrassment in her husband's expression, Zhuo Huilan snorted softly, got up and walked out, and said, "Okay, let's go downstairs and meet this strange person, after all, it is the first time for people to come to the door, and they have to meet them out of politeness, otherwise, don't say that our baby daughter will be angry, and the old lady who is coaxed to be happy will also scold us." ”

Huang Shen sighed, got up and walked out.

Seeing Huang Shen following behind a middle-aged woman with high hair in a bun, exquisite makeup, beautiful and elegant temperament, and walking downstairs to the living room, Wen Shuo hurriedly stood up, and his face instantly became a little more worried and nervous: "Uncle, aunt, happy new year." ”

"I'm sorry, we were talking about work upstairs just now, and I didn't notice you coming, so sit down. Zhuo Huilan raised her hand elegantly.

Huang Shen also smiled at Wen Shuo and nodded, and said, "I haven't seen you for a long time, Wen Shuo, I have heard that your company's new software has been successfully developed and is in the testing stage, so can Huayuan Network be the first to see this software?"

"Of course, of course. Wen Shuo nodded in agreement, and only after Huang Shen and Zhuo Huilan sat down did he sit down respectfully.

For her son and daughter-in-law to go downstairs so late, the old lady looked obviously a little dissatisfied, and at the same time there was annoyance when she was interrupted when she was chatting to the end, she glared at Huang Shen and Zhuo Huilan, and then smiled and stretched out her hand to pull her little granddaughter to sit next to her, holding her hand and saying with a smile: "Okay, very good, my granddaughter has a vision, and she has picked a good young man!" It's just that people are a little more honest, and it's easy to suffer losses outside, Qin Zhi, you girl is shrewd and tough, you can't bully the little fat man in the future, ah!"

"Grandma'......" Skullcap couldn't cry or laugh, and in addition to being surprised in her heart, she was also more and more confused - grandma's performance today is indeed different from the past.

seems to have completely lost the prestige and shrewdness of the old lady in the past, just an ordinary grandmother next door.

The old lady showed her attitude first, and Zhuo Huilan didn't want to ask anything sternly in person, so she had to maintain an elegant demeanor, her expression was gentle, but she looked at Wen Shuo with a touch of fierceness in her eyes, and said with a smile: "Wen Shuo, my father and Qin Zhi's father don't have any stubborn thoughts, and we have an open-minded attitude towards young people's love problems, but you are all college students now, and the academic pressure is heavier, and love is the easiest to distract yourself. Unconsciously it consumes time and emotion, and it is easy to hurt others, so I hope that you can treat emotions more rationally, arrange your time reasonably, and focus on your studies at present. ”

"Yes, yes, I understand, I understand. Wen Shuo nodded hurriedly.

"And your career......" Zhuo Huilan said half a sentence, and when she noticed the old lady's gaze, she paused and smiled: "Good job." ”