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Chapter 126: Pandora's "Meaning" XVII

At this time, Gu Xiaolong's heart had inexplicable fluctuations such as anxiety and impulsiveness, just like two Gu Xiaolong were fighting a life-and-death battle in their hearts.

Gu Xiaolong couldn't help but tear up his chest, he couldn't wait to tear open his chest, and pulled out the two big battle Gu Xiaolong and threw them out of the clouds.

A pair of soft and warm hands hugged Gu Xiaolong's broad, turbulent chest from behind at the right time, like a boundless warm current, which instantly woke Gu Xiaolong from his restless impulse.

Those soft and warm hands hugged Gu Xiaolong tightly, and the whole person, the whole face, and the whole body were tightly pressed against Gu Xiaolong's back, and a shudder that couldn't help herself rose from her heart and spread to Gu Xiaolong's straight back.

At this time, Xiaolongnu Bingxue saw that Gu Xiaolong's love had a huge fluctuation, and it was also out of control that Gu Xiaolong had never known, so she used the love and pity from the bottom of her heart in a timely manner, and the water-like tenderness like the sea in her heart in time to appease this strange person in the odd and even space, and wanted him to calm down and calm down.

In fact, at this time, Xiaolongnu Bing Xue also felt inexplicable and very puzzled about Gu Xiaolong's feelings at this time.

However, the meticulousness of the peculiar woman of the little dragon girl Bingxue, as well as the unique big-picture view of the intellectual woman. Characteristic calm composure. There is also a deep love for Gu Xiaolong. The timely shot soothed Gu Xiaolong's manic heart.

At this time, Gu Xiaolong's manic and impulsive heart gradually calmed down, and at the same time, he also felt the deep tenderness in the heart of the little dragon girl Bingxue, and also felt the deep trembling from the heart of the little dragon girl Bingxue.

Gu Xiaolong blamed himself for his loss of control, and his reason once again returned to his brain like a spiritual light, illuminating his mind, and immediately turned back, with his strong arms. Gently hugged the little dragon girl Bing Xue, and stopped the little dragon girl Bing Xue's heart trembling and the trembling of her body.

The biggest difference between the Blue Planet intelligent humans and other creatures is that the Blue Planet intelligent humans have the highest level of "human emotion".

Emotion is a part of the whole of attitude, which is in harmony with the introverted feelings and intentions in the attitude, and is a more complex and stable physiological evaluation and experience of the attitude. Emotions include two aspects: a sense of morality and a sense of value, which are specifically expressed as love, happiness, hatred, disgust, beauty, and so on.

From Blue Planet Psychology defines emotions as follows: "Emotions are people's attitude and experience of whether objective things meet their own needs".

At the same time, the general psychology course also believes that "emotions and emotions are both people's attitude and experience towards objective things, but emotions are more inclined to the attitude experience of individual basic needs and desires, while emotions are more inclined to the attitude experience of social needs and desires".

If the mood is moved: Han Wangcan's "Willow Fu": "The branches are sparse and the cloth is sparse, and the stems and tips are excited." People are attached to old things. The heart is melancholy to increase the worry. ”

Song Fu Liang of the Southern Dynasty "Asking for a Gift to the Song Gong to Give Liu Qianjun Watch": "The difference between Jinlan and righteousness is deeply emotional. It is to offer it to the bosom, and the cloth to listen to. It is the best portrayal of the mood.

Psychological reactions to external stimuli, such as joy, anger, sadness, fear, love, hatred, etc.

Jin Luyun's "Books with Lu Dian": "And the analysis of relatives, emotional complexion, and lamentation." ”

Tang Bai Juyi's poem "Tinghuai": "Life has emotions, and things are thoughtful. ”

Wei Wei's "Oriental" Part 6, Chapter 2: "But this emotion is also dominated by admiration for heroes. ”

The definition of psychology holds that "emotion is a person's attitude and experience of whether objective things meet their own needs".

At the same time, the general psychology course also believes that "emotions and emotions are both people's attitude and experience towards objective things, but emotions are more inclined to the attitude experience of individual basic needs and desires, while emotions are more inclined to the attitude experience of social needs and desires".

But in fact, on the one hand, this conclusion excludes the more personal and unsocial feelings of happiness, beauty, and affection, which are recognized by everyone, from emotion.

On the other hand, it obviously ignores the intersection of joy, anger, worry, thought, sadness, fear, and surprise in emotional feelings, as well as love, friendship, and team emotions in the process of social emotional feelings.

For example, in the process of pursuing the social emotion of love, a person will also have a variety of feelings with the change of the behavioral process, and the stability of love feelings and the unstable feelings of love obviously show that there is a difference between love and related feelings.

Based on these two points, it is obviously inappropriate to distinguish between emotion and emotion as basic needs and social needs, or to confuse emotion and emotion with the two.

Emotions are the body's evaluation and experience of the possibility and even inevitability of the success of the behavior, and the physiological response, including seven kinds of joy, anger, worry, thought, sadness, fear, and shock.

For example, joy may be dancing, anger may be gnashing teeth, worry may be tea and rice thoughts, sadness may be heartache, etc., these are the reactions of emotions in body movements.

In order to prove this, psychologists injected adrenaline into psychopaths who do not produce fear and avoidance behaviors, and as a result, these psychopaths, after being injected with adrenaline, developed fear and learned to avoid tasks.

Emotions are the same, for example, there will be no love without sexual desire, and when people take aphrodisiacs, with the exuberance of sexual desire, the possibility of love at first sight will also increase.

Therefore, the behavioral processes triggered by different drug stimuli also show that emotions and emotions are obviously different from two inconsistent psychophysiological processes.

In essence, the difference between emotion and emotion in the attitude in the process of behavior is that emotion refers to the physiological evaluation response to the goal of the behavior, while emotion refers to the physiological evaluation response to the behavioral process.

Let's take love as an example. When we generate love, there is a purpose. Our love. It is a physiological evaluation and experience of the corresponding goal, and at the same time, when we follow the ups and downs of the behavioral process of the pursuit of love, we will have all kinds of emotions.

Generally speaking, the important role of emotion is mainly expressed in four aspects: first, emotion is a psychological tool for people to adapt to survival; 2. Motivation that stimulates mental activity and behavior; 3. Be the organizer of psychological activities; Fourth, it is also an important means of interpersonal communication.

From the perspective of biological evolution, we can divide human emotions into basic emotions and complex emotions.

Emotions play many roles in social interactions, such as the variety of emotions commonly used.

People are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless? Everyone has emotions in their interactions, and different emotions will have different effects on interactions. Understanding the role of emotions in communication is conducive to obtaining the emotional information of others and grasping one's own emotions in communication. Use your own feelings to analyze the feelings of others.

When your behavior arouses the emotions of the other person, you always wonder if you have gone too far. At this time, you should pay attention to distinguish whether you are really too much, or the other party is allergic, or the other party is pretending to be excited, etc., and then adjust your behavior.

Anger can often make the other person give in. In social interactions, anger often makes the other person back down.

Tears can be exchanged for sympathy from the other party. This is the case when communicating between men and women in logarithms, and girls often get sympathy or concessions from the man once they shed tears.

Fear binds people's hearts together. This is especially true in stressful environments, especially when everyone encounters an accident together.

Intense emotions that erupt on others can be dealt with without being alarmed. Calm and often respectable.

Emotional apathy often discourages the interlocutor. As a rule. "It's okay to come and not be rude", but in some cases, when such a relationship is not needed, a cold attitude is the best way to stop the relationship.

When the relationship is the same, it often resonates with both parties. As the saying goes, "sympathy for the same disease" is the case, in a narrow sense, people suffering from the same disease are easy to talk about medical history and what medicine is better to use when they are together; Broadly speaking, when people have the same feelings, they can quickly find a common language and fall in love at first sight.

Honesty and confession can gain human sympathy. In social interactions, honest admitting mistakes is better than strong words, and quibbles are annoying and complicate matters. Mistakes are undisguised and often forgiven.

In multiple rounds of negotiations, it is easier to achieve the desired goal by singing black face and then white face by one first. If the blackface singer first puts forward some tough conditions and demands, and after many rounds, the whiteface singer makes some "relaxation" and "concessions", the opponent will think that it is better than the blackface plan and finally accept the whiteface plan.

Like the principle. When you like someone, you automatically remove obstacles, approach them, love them, praise their opinions and actions, or respond to their requests. Instead, you will hide yourself and build barriers away from people you don't like.

Laughing and scolding often achieves the goal, making it difficult for the other party to resist and surrender without a fight. It is commonly used in business negotiations and debates. For example, when grasping the weakness of the other party or hesitating, choose the unexpected problem of the other party, attack from all sides, true and false, false and real, and make them succumb.

If you are wise and foolish, you can often get more concessions from the other party. It is common in shopping and business negotiations, pretending not to understand the rules of the market, asking silly questions to bargain, and the opponent feels clumsy and cute and makes concessions.

Blue Planet Intelligent Human Emotional Maturity refers to a psychological state in which people can consciously adjust their emotions to make them moderate when their personal needs are met or not.

If the need is satisfied, there is no ecstasy, and if the need is not satisfied, there is no anger or humility. Emotional maturity is a sign that a person's psyche is healthy. If everyone wants to socialize, they should make themselves "affectionate", cultivate their sentiments, and mature their emotions as much as possible.

According to Herlock, a well-known Blue Planet psychologist, emotional maturity consists of four aspects:

1. Be able to stay healthy. You can manage your health and exercise unremittingly for a long time, which can effectively prevent emotional instability caused by physical fatigue, lack of sleep, headaches, indigestion and other diseases. When there is a disease, have the optimism to overcome the disease.

Second, be able to control the environment. Personal behavior should be constrained by the social environment, and overcome the self-doing way of thinking of doing whatever you want; Individual interests should not contradict collective interests, and individual behavior should conform to the norms of conduct. Do not hurt people, swear words, jump at the touch of a button, fights, petty theft, etc.

3. It can dissolve the tension into a harmless aspect. Human emotions are polar. Bipolar emotions don't just harm one's health. Negative emotions such as anger and irritability can hurt others. It is necessary to enhance the regulatory role of sentiment, dissolve and prevent excessive emotion, transform suppressed emotion, and make emotion have a sense of social and responsibility.

Fourth, be able to perceive and understand society. Insight and understanding of society can enable people to grow intellectually and accumulate social experience. Society is not self-centered, but everyone-centered, centered on collective interests. Insight into and understanding of society will make the self more self-disciplined, more tolerant, and more integrated. Emotionally mature, breathe and share the same fate with the collective.

In a nutshell, emotional maturity requires psychological maturity. It requires every young person who is about to become or has become an adult, bid farewell to the lifestyle of relying on his parents at home and completely relying on his parents, gradually enter the society, rely on self-independence and self-cultivation, beat himself and exercise himself in the big classroom of social ups and downs, learn to manage himself in work, study and life, and also learn to manage others (such as letting you be the leader of the department), organize the establishment of a family and educate his children well. From a single consumer of society, become a qualified member of society who is truly integrated.

From the definition of emotion in psychology, we can understand that emotion is a subjective experience, subjective attitude or subjective reflection. It belongs to the category of subjective consciousness, not to the category of objective existence.

Philosophers believe that any subjective consciousness is a reflection of human beings on objective existence, and emotion is a special subjective consciousness, which must correspond to some special objective existence, and the key to the problem is whether this special objective existence can be found.

It is not difficult for us to find that "whether people meet people's needs for objective things" is actually a typical value judgment problem, "meeting people's needs" is the value characteristics of things, which is an objective existence, and "attitude" and "experience" are people's ways of understanding or reflecting the value characteristics of things.

In this way, the psychological definition of emotion can be expressed as: "Emotion is the subjective reflection of the value characteristics of things". The objective existence corresponding to the emotion should be the value characteristic of the thing. From this, we can get the philosophical essence of emotion: emotion is a subjective reflection of the value relationship of the human subject to objective things.

Human emotions are complex and diverse and can be categorized from different perspectives. Since the core content of emotion is value, human emotion should be classified mainly according to the different characteristics of the value relationship it reflects.

According to the different directions of positive and negative changes in value, emotions can be divided into positive emotions and negative emotions.

Positive emotion is the emotion generated by the increase of positive value or the decrease of negative value, such as happiness, trust, gratitude, happiness, etc.;

Negative emotions are emotions produced by the decrease of positive value or the increase of negative value, such as pain, contempt, hatred, jealousy, etc.

Depending on the intensity and duration of the value, emotions can be divided into mood, enthusiasm, and passion.

Mood refers to the emotion of low intensity but long duration, it is a weak, calm and long-lasting emotion, such as tenderness, sullenness, lingering, etc.;

Enthusiasm refers to an emotion with high intensity but short duration, it is a powerful, steady and deep emotion, such as elation, rejoicing, tirelessness, etc.; Passion refers to an emotion that is very strong but has a short duration, it is a violent, rapid outburst, and short-lived emotion, such as ecstasy, anger, fear, despair, etc.

According to the dominant variable of value, emotions can be divided into desire, affection, and affection.

When the dominant variable is the quality characteristic of the person, the emotion that the person produces about things is desire;

When the dominant variable is the quality characteristic of the environment, the emotion that people have for things is affection;

When the dominant variable is the quality characteristic of things, the emotions that people have about things are feelings.

For example, a dirty, messy, and poor working environment makes people feel unpleasant;

When the body lacks food, people will have the psychological experience of hunger and form a desire for food;

When children grow up to a certain stage, they will spontaneously develop a desire for "independence".

According to the different types of value subjects, emotions can be divided into individual emotions, collective emotions and social emotions.

Personal emotion refers to the emotion that an individual has about things;

Collective emotion refers to the synthetic emotion that collective members have about things; Social emotion refers to the synthetic emotion generated by members of society towards things, and national emotion is a typical social emotion.

According to the different types of basic values of things, emotions can be divided into three types: truthfulness, sentimentality, and beauty.

True sense is the emotion that people have for thinking things (such as knowledge, way of thinking, etc.);

Sentimentality is the emotion that people have for behavioral things (such as behavior, behavioral norms, etc.);

Aesthetics is the emotion that people have for physiological things (such as means of subsistence, means of production, etc.).

6. According to the different goals of value, emotions can be divided into four categories: emotions towards things, emotions towards people, emotions towards oneself and emotions towards special things.

Affection for objects includes liking, boredom, etc.;

Feelings towards people include hatred, jealousy, love, etc.;

Feelings towards oneself include feelings of inferiority, pride, etc.

According to the different periods of value, emotions can be divided into retrospective emotions, realistic emotions and expected emotions.

Retrospective emotions refer to people's emotions about past things, including regrets, happiness, nostalgia, etc.;

Realistic emotion refers to people's emotions towards real things;

Expectation emotion refers to a person's emotions about things in the future, including confidence, trust, despair, anticipation, etc.

8. According to the characteristics of dynamic changes in value, it can be divided into deterministic emotion and probabilistic emotion.

Deterministic emotion refers to people's emotion towards things that are certain in value;

Probabilistic emotion refers to people's emotions about things whose value is uncertain, including confusion, mystery, etc.

9. According to the different levels of value, emotions can be divided into four categories: food and clothing, safety and health, personal respect and self-esteem, and self-realization emotions.

Emotions include sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, hot, cold, hungry, thirsty, painful, itchy, stuffy, etc.;

Safety and health emotions include comfort, comfort, happiness, fear, worry, and anxiety.

Emotions of personal dignity and self-esteem include self-confidence, self-love, pride, admiration, friendliness, longing, self-blame, loneliness, deception and humiliation.

Self-actualization emotions include a sense of ambition, a sense of mission, a sense of achievement, a sense of transcendence, a sense of loss, a sense of frustration, and a sense of sinking.

Gu Xiaolong's emotions at this time were more or less sinking, and Gu Xiaolong's emotions at this time were more or less impulsive, manic and other negative feelings. (To be continued......)