The following statements are only my personal position and are not guaranteed to be correct.

Yesterday a cousin of mine was admitted to a university.

The concubine said let me pass on the experience.

I pulled this kid over, and at first this kid was quite honest, with a good face in high school.

As a result, I poured 3 bottles of beer, and then told him in a loud voice, "I'm happy if you're a high school student, but if you're a college student, then you're vulnerable!" Then put his arm around his shoulders and asked him if he had ever been in a fight in high school. In high school, I often got into fights with people, flipped the table when I had nothing to do, smashed the bench, and was often slapped in the face. Finally, the topic slowly opened.

First of all, college is not the same as high school! What is a university? College is a wonderful place where you still attend classes like a good child in your freshman year, start to ask your roommates to help roll call in your sophomore year, only come to school a few times in half a year in your junior year, and disappear in your senior year and no one cares about you! (It is mentioned here that Tingting's university is relatively good, and it can be ranked in the country.) ）

You can live like this in college: attend classes every day, get the top few in the year-end exams, apply for scholarships, graduate and graduate school, and continue to study.

You can live like this in college: find a part-time job outside, make money every day, and add more than 2,000 living expenses at the end of the month, you can get away with it, and you can send it home.

You can also live like this in college: the Internet café is your home, you can play freely for four years, and you can graduate no different from others, and you may even be able to find a good job.

You can also live like this in college: when you are in an important position in the student union, you can see who is not pleasing to the eye, you go to check their class dormitory every day, and you will hardly fight in the university, the student union is black mapping for many people!

You can also live like this in college: you are busy with all kinds of communication every day, from the student union to the Youth League Committee, from the Youth League Committee to the Party Committee, there is almost no time to attend classes, and your grades are a mess, but at the end of the year, as long as you don't fail the course, as soon as the comprehensive assessment results come out, the top few in the class will still graduate as party members.

In conclusion, university is a no-holds-barred place.

Tingting won't say anything here, it's not easy for your parents to raise you, because people are lazy, especially in college, a place where no one cares about you.

Ting Ting will not say that you should not do your job every day, because many of Tingting's classmates who do not do their job have a good home, but those who study hard can't even open their mouths during the interview.

Seeing the guest officer here, if you really want to study hard and take the postgraduate entrance examination, then please leave, Ting Ting did not despise you, Ting Ting has several classmates, and many relatives, graduate students, doctors, professors, and now they are all abroad, taking the subsidies given by the state to study all kinds of things they like.

But Tinting didn't do it, so he can't give you good advice, and there are very few people who have this kind of perseverance.

Tinting would like you to take out a piece of paper and write down some of the following words:

First of all, college is a blank slate, which represents your new life, it is possible that you are often beaten in high school, or it is possible that you are often ridiculed in high school, you have low self-esteem, and you are helpless. You want to resist, but the foundation is already like that, and you can't go back.

However, no one in college knows you! So hold your head high and be confident, here, you have one more chance to reset your life!

(I have to mention here that Tingting is short in high school and is often bullied, whenever Tingting is bullied, he picks up the bench and smashes it, resulting in the result that the people around him are more reluctant to pay attention to me, if it weren't for Tingting's 3 good brothers, Tingting may have a distorted personality directly.) And after smashing, it is possible to suffer more violent retaliation, Ting Ting can only choose to accept it at this time, life is so helpless.

But college is different, and few people in college fight. Everyone is a "civilized person", and in the leisurely life of the university, a fight may alarm the counselor, the director, the vice president, and the probation! Therefore, people who are oppressed by violence, who are not physically strong, but who think they have brains, your opportunity has come. ）

Ting Ting is asking his younger brother to learn Mandarin first, and then go with me to advertise on the street to exercise his cheeks, and then go with me to talk to beautiful women and exercise his eloquence.

Make a list of the things to do for your cousin:

1. When I arrive at school, the first thing I do is to find a counselor and ask if there is anything I need help with.

The counselor must have said that it was okay, and many people gave up at this time, right? Or embarrassed to speak again. Then you might be missing out on your university!

At this time, you should tell the counselor very sincerely that you want to know more about the university, and you are not afraid of being tired, so ask the counselor to give you a chance!

2. If you get the permission of the counselor, try to ask other seniors questions when helping, don't worry that they will get bored with you, this is the time for seniors to show their superiority, the more you ask, the more cool the seniors will be. Remember to show a look of adoration and say, "You know so much." You have said this sentence dozens of times, and people are also very cool.

3. Wander around to learn about the surrounding terrain, interesting places around the university, and distinctive restaurants. This is the capital of your conversation with your new classmates.

4. Report as soon as possible. Even if you come a day earlier, you can talk to your new roommate. Article 3 comes into play

5. Arrange the first dinner party in the dormitory, find a good place in advance, and then after the dormitory arrives, you should take the initiative to propose a dinner party and explain that you have arranged the hotel. Article 3 comes into play.

6. Actively greet other students in the class, don't worry about people paying attention to you, think about the feeling that you have just arrived in high school and are anxious and want someone to talk to you, it is possible that the first person to talk to you in high school is still your good friend, right? Article 3 comes into play

7. The point is that the first time the class gathers, the counselor will generally ask if anyone is willing to be the class leader? At this time, you must stand up, and you are familiar with your roommates in the dormitory, and there are many classmates, and you are likely to be sure that you are the class president. Remember, be sure to stand up!

What is Squad Leader? The squad leader is a party member! The squad leader just doesn't fail the course! The class leader is the class teacher! The squad leader is a jack of all trades who can solve a lot of problems!

(Speaking of which, Ting Ting has already said the same thing to 6 people, only 2 people have stood up, and now they are party members, and the chaos is booming, and the remaining 4 people began to regret not standing up at that time.) ）

8. If the class leader is elected, then you should pay attention to the following people, the Youth League Committee and other class cadres, the people who apply for various student unions, and the people who are sleek to the point of being annoying.

9. If you don't choose a class president, then the student union should have a purpose to participate, the dormitory management team is a freshman team with a lot of power, if you can enter, then it means that your freshman classmates will be the first to think of calling you and asking you to check the dormitory when they don't return home at night.

10. Squad leader, no one told Tingting at that time, and Tingting had no experience. So I don't want to talk about it, I can only say that you have chosen a class leader, and you must learn to hide from the counselor, coax the subordinates, and deceive the league secretary.

11. When entering the student union, you must show your face more. A lot of people do a lot of things, but at the end of the day, they don't have anything.

12. Don't fail the course no matter what.

That's all, if you do this, you probably have two-thirds of the time left, and you can play as you want to play these two-thirds.

Finally, you need to understand a few things:

1. In your eyes, the senior or the person who has a stake may actually know a little more than you, but it is this little bit that will make the family step by step, so you have to be the one who knows a little more than your classmates.

2. Don't be self-confident, when you hesitate how to talk to others, you can think about whether you want someone to talk to you? Then someone else is not a fairy, and he is also full of expectations waiting for you to talk!

3. Don't underestimate your appeal, every group wants to have a leader, even if the leader is bad, so don't be afraid of anything, go and be that leader! Speak with confidence, but don't be proud.

4. Even if you feel that your senior is not as good as you, then don't despise him, after all, people are more than you for a year. The consequences of belittling others are serious.

5. Don't think that if you move very casually, it means that you will have a good relationship. Some people are very affectionate with people, and they feel that it is easy to get closer to each other. I'm telling you, wrong! Either way, please keep your respect!

6. Everything must be positive, or that sentence, there is not necessarily a fight, and there is absolutely no fight.

7. Don't underestimate yourself and think that your weight is too light. If you have any concerns, suggestions, or grievances, go to the counselor, the president of the student union, and the Youth League Committee. Don't feel useless, when I was the vice president of the student union, there were dozens of people below, some people didn't know what the road was called, some people were wronged and left dimly, and I didn't know the reason for the road until half a year later. If anyone had come forward at that time, then I would have taken it seriously. When I was campaigning, I went directly to the Youth League Committee and told the teacher what I would do if I became a club! Who do I want my subordinates to be! In this way, I easily became the vice president and appointed my subordinate, who was my girlfriend from the university.

8. If you are looking for a girlfriend, don't be your own image spokesperson! What is an image spokesperson? is to act every day, playing the role of a man who you think is good, not yourself, but you can't hold on to it after the worst, you know what pain is. Remember, go to your girlfriend with your true personal image. Ting Ting himself was single in his freshman year, and successfully ran for vice president in his sophomore year, and was directly promoted to his girlfriend, who was the secretary of the Youth League and barely came to the student union, as the minister, and his girlfriend gained love under the admiration of his girlfriend. Ting Ting has delivered breakfast every day for three years, and has seen countless men and women break up, many of them are helping to make hot water bottles for a month or two, and then they slowly thin, and then they quarreled, and then they separated. Why bother? If you don't have the perseverance and character to do so, don't force it. (Speaking of which, I have to say that Ting Ting waited under the dormitory building early in the morning every day for 3 years, and when I graduated, almost half of the people in the girls' dormitory knew me, and I was often borrowed by beauties on my shoulders, and almost all beauties were there, my boyfriend was just like you, Ting Ting said lying down.) ）

9. Life cannot be perfect, and there are definitely times of helplessness. It's the same as having your girlfriend and mother fall into the water at the same time to save that. However, life will not be such an extreme choice, learn to allocate according to your needs. For example, whether it is studying or surfing the Internet, there is no such thing, but I can spend 30% of my time studying and 70% of my time surfing the Internet.

10. Saying so much, if you think it's good after reading it, and then throw it away, Ting Ting still wants to say that you really missed an opportunity to rewrite your life. If you're going to do what Tinting says, are you sure you can really stand up and say I'm going to be the class leader? Do you dare to get up early tomorrow and say I love you to your parents now? Or now open the window and yell outside, XXX (your own name) is the best? Or confess to the goddess you have had a crush on for many years?

That's all, it's a bit confusing, I hope to give you some good help.

Finally, if you still have any questions about the university, you can add me and ask for it, 909074774.

And most importantly! Beg! Harvest! Hide!