There are always some people in the world, whether they are rich or poor, who will maintain their self-esteem and maintain good upbringing and living habits, such as the home environment and clothing, whether good or bad, must be tidy, or their work, whether it is farming, or hygiene, ordinary staff, they will never be vulgar in their words and deeds, and they will be honest in their own ways......

These come from self-cultivated conduct.

In layman's terms, it is upbringing.

For contemporary society, there are not many people in the lower echelons who can maintain such an attitude and habits of life.

Because since the founding of the People's Republic of China for decades, those who can have a good upbringing seem to be destined to come from a family environment, and they do not need to live in the bottom social environment to show that their upbringing will not be polluted by the harsh environment.

In ordinary society, there are more good and bad habits, words and deeds that the general public is accustomed to.

We can euphemistically say that this is life, which is called grounding.

But it is undeniable that many vulgar or even vulgar habits of life, words and deeds are not good - at least, in many public places, some habitual words and deeds that they think are habitual, ordinary, and nothing, will have a very bad impact on people, and will also lower their impression in the minds of others, in other words, they are called self-respect.

Some of these people, with their personal growth, experience, and different social circles, will slowly become aware of some bad habits of words and deeds, so as to change for the better.

There are also some people, although they realize that this is not good, but they only think, "I'm like this, who can do anything to me?"

Well, this is not self-respecting, self-inferiority.

The above are some of the personal perceptions of the fat man at present.

The reason why he has such a feeling is because the fat man is drinking, chatting and farting with his best buddies in Dongyun.

Zheng Wenjiang, Liu Ji, Hou Jinqiang, Li Yanbiao, Zhan Chuanhai...... There was also Ma Xiaobin, an honest student who was once bullied by Wen Shuo's cousin Li Congwen many times, and later forced Ma Xiaobin, an honest student who opened Li Congwen.

In addition to Wen Shuo, among the brothers present, only Zhan Chuanhai and Ma Xiaobin are studying in college.

The place where they met was at the Shinonome Fortune Hotel.

It is also the only hotel in Dongyun, a relatively remote and backward county, that is open as usual during the Spring Festival to undertake Chinese New Year's Eve dinner.

Wen Shuo's previous perceptions came from discovering the changes of these brothers.

Nowadays, the business of these guys is getting better and better, and by the way, they have also opened four of the largest Internet cafes in the county, three small Internet cafes, and two branches of Shuoyuan fast food restaurants - the first batch of franchise stores after the Beijing Shuoyuan fast food chain officially began to attract investment and join, as long as you hire people who can do these fast food to work in the store, you can make delicious fast food with the special secret sauce distributed by the Beijing Shuoyuan fast food chain, as well as two other types of new condiments.

It's 2002, and four young men who are only 22 years old each have a fortune of hundreds of thousands, nearly a million.

Young and vigorous, they are the most good-looking, with a mobile phone hanging around their waists, and they drive a car when they go out......

In Dongyun County, it can be said that it is prosperous and famous.

With the growth of wealth, they come into contact with more and more people, and gradually more than most of their peers, have broader cognition and experience, and think more, so they begin to pay attention to their image, speech and demeanor, intentionally or unintentionally.

It's not just a matter of good face, but it's really affected by the environment and social interaction.

Before the waiter finished serving the food, poured the first glass of wine for them, and then respectfully said I wish you a happy meal, if you need to call at any time, and then when you were about to turn around and leave, Wen Shuo saw very clearly that Zheng Wenjiang, who had the most hot temper and rudeness, actually smiled and nodded and said to the waiter: "Thank you." ”

It's simple, it's ordinary, it's ...... A trifle that doesn't seem to be worth mentioning!

However, from the mouths of these brothers who Wen Shuo no longer understands, especially Zheng Wenjiang, and on this occasion, they say it so casually and habitually......

But it was deeply shocked by Wen Shuo.

Looking at the clothes of the brothers, when they hold chopsticks to pick up vegetables, and when they hold a cup of wine, they don't have the appearance of shouting and climbing wine indiscriminately in the past, even if they are smiling and climbing wine, there are no exaggerated movements and expressions.

Wen Shuo even felt that these brothers were a little restrained, was there some conflict between them?

But after three rounds of drinking, listening to everyone's small talk, Wen Shuo was sure that the brothers had really changed.

Even if they drink and chat, the topic will often talk about the operation of Internet cafes, the business of purchasing and selling waste products, and even talk about some current policies in Dongyun County, how Linguan City is doing, how the province is doing, what is the country's economic trends, etc., and so on, what impact will be brought to their business.

Depend on!

These guys, they can't be pretending to be in front of me, are they?

Wen Shuo was shocked and surprised, but he was inevitably full of emotion and doubts-people will become bad when they have money, and in the same way, they will also become better and better after they have money, and they will pay more and more attention to their image in front of outsiders?

Just as Academician Song said when he was chatting at the beginning, after the material wealth reaches a certain satisfaction, people will pursue spiritual satisfaction even more.

However, the so-called pursuit of spiritual satisfaction does not seem to fully explain Zheng Wenjiang's changes.

Wen Shuo openly raised his questions at the wine table.

Zheng Wenjiang and the others were strange at first, and then after thinking about it, they didn't feel that they had any deliberate changes, as for the example given by Wen Shuo, everyone felt that there was nothing to say, it was normal.

"Brother Yi is right, the brothers have indeed changed a lot compared to the past, more and more real businessmen, bosses, and more and more in line with the identity of Dongyun's well-known young entrepreneurs and promising young people. Ma Xiaobin opened his mouth and said: "But compared with Brother Yi, there is still a big gap between each of us, and we can't do it in all aspects." For example, the first brother will find that he will seriously consider these problems and summarize them, and he will be able to carry out an analysis of the changes in social and human nature, and an elaboration of material and spiritual wealth...... Therefore, each of us still has a long way to go, and there are still many places to learn from Brother Yi......"

"Stop, stop!" Zheng Wenjiang hurriedly raised his hand to interrupt Ma Xiaobin's words, raised his glass and said: "Xiaobin, don't say it, brother toasts you with a glass of wine, ah! I kind of understand, our brother has changed, then, just like Brother Yi just said, we are getting better and better, all of them are stained with your Ma Xiaobin's light, thank you very much!"

As soon as he said this, Liu Ji and the others immediately reacted, and immediately opened their mouths to echo, and toasted Ma Xiaobin with a glass to express their gratitude.

But at the same time, everyone also said that Ma Xiaobin said a few words.

Wen Shuo looked confused.

What's the situation?

After toasting Ma Xiaobin, watching everyone toast to Ma Xiaobin happily, it seemed that they wanted to get him drunk, Zheng Wenjiang pursed his lips with a wry smile on his face, and said to Wen Shuo: "You proposed to let this kid mess with our brothers, and guess what?"

"What?" Wen Shuo was more and more surprised.

"This guy is, just like ......" Zheng Wenjiang thought for a while and said, "Have you seen the big talk about Journey to the West?"

Wen Shuo nodded: "I've seen it." ”

"Ma Xiaobin is a Tang monk!" Zheng Wenjiang seemed to have a headache when he said it, and said with a bitter face: " He can keep babbling endlessly, the biased people are still reasonable, and every sentence is for our good, and he will move you out at every turn, let us think about how you do it, how and how to learn from you, and strive to surpass you, it's not good to talk too much, it's not good to fight with people without reasoning first, don't try to make up for it afterwards, it's not good to prepare in advance, it's not good to be detailed enough in the business account, the service of the Internet café is not thoughtful enough, our clothes are too dirty, there is no boss, and people will look down on when they go out to talk about business......”

Wen Shuo listened to Zheng Wenjiang like a Tang monk, more like a resentful woman babbling and complaining, and his whole head was a little big.

Look at the people who were surrounded by a few people to persuade them to drink, but suddenly they began to tell everyone that the habit of climbing wine is not good, it is not good to persuade friends to get drunk, and it is not good to drink too much......

Wen Shuo suddenly wanted to drag Ma Xiaobin out and beat him.

At this moment, the door of the private room opened, and Liu Maohe, who was wearing a brown leather coat and looked like a big boss, walked in with a spring breeze on his face, and apologized when he entered the door: "Mr. Wen, brothers, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, it's been decided a year ago, I'm going to go to the lonely old man in the village for dinner on the night of the first night of the new year, so I'm a little late today, I'm really sorry, I'm sorry!"

As he spoke, Liu Ji, who was sitting on the left side of Wen Shuo, had already given up a seat to the side, Liu Maohe politely thanked him, but he did not sit down, picked up the wine glass on the table and said: "Then, no matter how many reasons there are, it is always late, I will punish myself with three glasses!"

As a result, as soon as he picked up the cup, Liu Maohe seemed to have just noticed Ma Xiaobin sitting opposite him, and immediately looked embarrassed, and said with some embarrassment and panic: "Yes, Xiaobin is also there?" I know, I know, ah, punish one glass, just one glass, you can't drink more, you can't drink fast, drink slowly and talk more...... Right?"

After that, Liu Maohe seemed to be afraid of what Ma Xiaobin would say, so he drank the cup and signaled the empty cup to everyone before he sat down with a smile and said to Wen Shuo: "Mr. Wen, do you think it's okay?"

Wen Shuo nodded with a smile, but his eyes were fixed on Ma Xiaobin, and said, "Xiaobin, can you do it...... It seems that everyone is quite ...... Well, I'm scared of you. Even Village Chief Liu has to act on such an occasion by looking at your face. ”

"Brother Yi is serious, everyone let me, and everyone has been learning from Brother Yi in the past, and they are very reasonable. Ma Xiaobin said a little embarrassedly: "I'm just talking a lot, I love to nag, and sometimes it's quite annoying, but I always can't control myself, because every time I see what they are doing badly, I will think of the first brother, and think of what I would do if it was the first brother, and then I can't help but say it." Of course, everyone just annoys me, doesn't want me to nag, and also makes me not have the same knowledge as me, so I will occasionally listen to my persuasion, compared to the first brother, I am too far behind, because everyone is really respectful to the first brother. First brother, in my mind, you have always been a role model, I ......"

"Stop!" Wen Shuo was a little big-headed, and said with a smile: "Come on, come on, let's go one!"

"Okay, Brother Yi and I have a glass of wine, I really have a special ...... in my heart"

Wen Shuo drank the wine in one gulp.

Ma Xiaobin hurriedly swallowed the words that came to his mouth, drank the wine in the cup, and suddenly blushed a little: "I actually ......"

"Eat vegetables. ”

"Oh. ”