How should I live in this life?

In short, who doesn't have any regrets in their lives? In addition, because I am naturally smart and learn everything quickly, I will always be the first to be praised by the teacher at the beginning - don't think this is self-praise, because! It is precisely because he can get started quickly when he learns anything, so Lin Xiaoxiao will not settle down and study seriously in a certain aspect at all!

Let's not talk about those extracurricular things, even studying, because she felt that it was simple when the teacher first started the class, which led to a habitual wandering of her mind in class. As a result, since elementary school, her academic performance has been ranked in the top three - bottom.

This is also a typical case of being smart but being mistaken by cleverness, right? Good children in front of the computer, don't learn from this girl!

"It's really a failed life......" After saying this, Lin Xiaoxiao wanted to pose with one hand on his cheek.

But a sentence that was obviously full of vicissitudes came out of the small mouth that couldn't control the vocal cords normally, but it became "Ahh......h

Because the child is too young, she is afraid that she will scratch her face with her little hands, so the children at this time are "tied". In addition to being afraid of scratching his face, it is said that tying the child in this way can also prevent the child from becoming a loop...... Fortunately, Mother Lin was more wise and didn't tie her whole person into a zongzi, but her hands were still firmly wrapped in the small quilt.

moved, the stiffness on the body made Lin Xiaoxiao cry and laugh, fortunately, her mother and father understood the matter, that day she hazy heard the visiting neighbor say that his child was tied, and the legs were tied together, and suggested that the Lin family do the same, saying that this can prevent the legs from looping.

If Dad Lin and Mom Lin tied her up, it is estimated that she would suffer from hesitation at a young age, right?

Before she was reborn, according to her friends who had already given birth to children, the children at that time would no longer be tied, although the hands had to be wrapped in a small quilt to prevent scratching, but the leggings were simply nonsense, where did the lap legs come from?

"Yo, this little stinky girl is still thinking about something?" A big black and white face came over, it was my aunt.

Lin Xiaoxiao frowned, whose child is good-looking before the full moon? Isn't it just as ugly when the little brother in your belly comes out?

"What do you think? Where would such a little girl think about things? "Grandma Lin's anger is still not smooth.

The eldest son got married late because he went to the countryside, and although the younger son got married very early, he gave birth to two girls in a row. I thought that my eldest daughter-in-law had a child, so why should I have a son? But it's a daughter again?! Does God want to kill the queen of the Lin family?!

Although this is a city, although it is not as prosperous as a first-tier city like Beijing and Shanghai, it can be regarded as one of the best second-tier cities. But despite this, and even though Grandpa Lin was a high-level intellectual before his death, Grandma Lin was also an old lady from the countryside who married from her hometown, even if she knew a few words, she couldn't help but look forward to her grandson. Especially after the second son gave birth to two daughters in a row.

"Alas, if you give birth, you will give birth, and now you will be fined for giving birth to more." My aunt sighed, although she was persuading her mother, but she didn't have much emotion in her heart.

After all, she is already a married daughter, and whether the Lin family has anything to do with it, for this aunt and grandmother who has gone home to eat and take it from home for three days even if she has been married, she doesn't care too much about it.

Anyway, her mother-in-law's family has several brothers, and the family that should have a son already has it, and she doesn't have this lot of pressure on her.

Mother Lin, who was taking a nap in the confinement inside, heard the words outside, her face darkened suddenly, she got off the bed, walked to the outhouse and picked up Lin Xiaoxiao and returned to the inner room - to introduce, the Lin family lives in a small rectangular bungalow of fifteen square meters, with a partition erected with a wooden board in the middle, a double bed inside and outside, and the small couple plus Lin Xiaoxiao slept inside, and Grandma Lin slept outside with Aunt Lin, who was about to give birth.

"Hmph, I like my daughter, my daughter is my mother's little padded jacket!" Mother Lin's "bar" kissed Lin Xiaoxiao's face, but her voice was not loud - who wants to quarrel with her mother-in-law during confinement? What's more, when Grandma Lin scolded her, she was quite like a rural woman.

Hearing her mother's words, Lin Xiaoxiao fell silent, blinked her big eyes, pretended to be sleepy, yawned big, and pretended to be asleep.

For as long as she can remember, Lin's mother has often said that "my daughter is my mother's little padded jacket" and "I wanted to give birth to a daughter when I was pregnant". At that time, she only thought that Mama Lin really liked her daughter before she said so.

But when you think about it, maybe...... Mother Lin heard her mother-in-law nagging and wanting a grandson before giving birth, so she subconsciously gave birth to a rebellious heart, right? Although there are also factors such as liking daughters, it is inevitable to deliberately cause anger.

Mom and grandma have lived together for more than ten years, although grandma likes to nag, loves to be careful, cooks unpalatablely, and occasionally bullies mom......

But I have to say that grandma actually hurts herself. At least, in her memory, her grandmother never complained to herself that she was a girl, and from birth to her death in junior high school, it was her grandmother who took care of her.

Lin Xiaoxiao knew that she had just been born, and her grandmother must be a little uncomfortable with this matter; My aunt is now about to give birth to a younger brother, but she lives in her own house for her grandmother to take care of, and even after she gave birth to her cousin, she sits in her own home; Grandma loves the second uncle in the father, aunt, and second uncle, and all of this is the source of the conflict between the mother and the grandmother.

I remembered that in my previous life, my mother cried because of my grandmother's inconsistency, and my grandmother was lying on the bed and couldn't move when she got older......

Born again, can't she do something for both parties?

No matter how big the contradiction is, there are ways to solve it, and in the final analysis, the contradictions between the two sides are caused by each side in its own interests and not considering the other party......

I seem to have finally found what I want to do in this life.

Slowly opened her eyes, Mother Lin next to her lay down to rest again, and Lin Xiaoxiao's big eyes that gradually opened revealed a look that was not what a child of this age should have.

I want to spend this life peacefully, those regretful things when I was a child, hobbies that I wanted to learn but couldn't learn for various reasons, in this life, I have to work hard to make up for it.

You don't have to be too rich, but you can't let your family not get the happiness they deserve because of poverty. I can't be like the invincible heroines in those novels, or I can't become rich or rich, but I will never let my family be like in my previous life, entangled in illness because of lack of money.

All you need is a little happiness, as long as you experience everything you want to experience, and walk through this life without regrets.

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Baskets of red eggs, in the eldest aunt, second aunt, old aunt, aunt...... Under the carriage, it was delivered to the house - it was said that it was a red egg, but Lin Xiaoxiao's eyes were still gray, and the word red egg was heard by her. At this time, what she was most worried about was that she was afraid that she would become colorblind inexplicably in her life.

The already small house, which had been divided into two parts, became even more crowded.

Fortunately, in addition to the fifteen square meters inside, there is a small room of only four square meters connected together - built by home. The side food, rice and noodles, and the gate leading to the courtyard are all here.

The people who came were all relatives of her mother's family, and Mama Lin's face finally showed a reassuring smile.

Inside the outhouse, Grandma Lin and Aunt Lin kept their eyes spinning around the big baskets. In this day and age, eggs are a good thing!

If it weren't for all the brothers and sisters in Grandpa's family who loved Mother Lin's little sister, who would be willing to send so many red eggs? These days, not only does it cost money to buy these things, but you also have to exchange them for food stamps!

With his eyes wide open, he glanced back and forth at the people who came in, and the relatives who were already familiar with him were all circling around like rejuvenates at this time.

And those cousins and cousins, they are all just teenagers at this time, and I can't imagine that they will be different when they grow up.

It's just that one big face after another appeared in front of her in turn, and Lin Xiaoxiao, who was already a little sleepy, was almost unbearable by the harassment one after another - don't you have anything else to do but tease me?! Be careful that when I grow up, I seek revenge on your children!

finally looked forward to the group of people who harassed her to sleep, and it didn't take long for a pair of big hands to pick her up.

Dad Lin, who had just gotten off work, laughed and said to Mother Lin with a smile: "It's better to be our daughter, there are so many families in our alley who have children, which one doesn't howl in the middle of the night every day?" Our family's smile is the most well-behaved, never crying or making trouble. ”

Smash it, smash it, smash it, Lin Xiaoxiao decided to stay silent and continue to play stupid.

How could she, a girl who was nearly thirty years old, really cry like a real child?

So, hungry - smack; Diapers are wet - smack; It's uncomfortable to lie down - smack.

In short, everything is based on the ability to wake up adults. It's not as noisy as crying, but it can achieve its goal, and it can save your voice, look, how cost-effective?

As he was talking, there was a faint cry outside the window, and I knew which child was arguing again.

82 is the peak period for the production of newborn babies.

Most of the educated youths who returned to the city, as well as the marriageable men and women who were originally in the city, have married in the past two or three years, and now it is the peak period for this group of people with a very large age gap to concentrate on childbearing.

For example, Lin Dad, when Lin Xiaoxiao was born, he was already thirty-two years old, and although Lin Mama was a few years younger, she was also close to thirty. However, some neighbors at the door, who obviously also gave birth to children, were pregnant, and among them were the "old Three Realms" who were a few years older than Lin's father, and the newlyweds who were just in their early twenties.