Chapter 864: Planning
Seeing that this was about to quarrel and take it away, Ji Mu immediately stepped forward and persuaded: "Okay, okay, don't say anything, don't say a word." ”
Duan Tingting leaned directly on the sofa, "I don't want to talk about him, Mom, you have also seen it, every time people treat us well, he is unwilling to do it, and he doesn't look down on others, do you have a little gratitude?" ”
Ji's mother hurriedly said: "Okay, you also know that Han Liang is this kind of character, he has not been a talker since he was a child, he can't speak sweetly, he originally said that he is smart and good at learning, but he is not as likable as those talking children." He's like this, it's not because of this temperament, he's afraid he's the same as those fancy men. He is such a tendon, and he is single-minded to you, don't you say? ”
Duan Tingting paused, agreeing in her heart, but did not nod.
This relationship should be single-minded, but they are adults, they are social people, and if they want to mix in this society, they have to be flexible.
Maybe you can talk with your mouth, and you can't get promoted to that position?
Duan Tingting didn't want to say more, every time she quarreled because of this and hurt her feelings.
But he still couldn't help muttering: "Friend is a thousand boats, you want to change someone else, which one is not in trouble, the friend immediately disappeared without a trace, and sent you money and things?" Who are you, you? I have friends like that, and I feel like it's worth it for the rest of my life. ”
Ji Mu hurriedly said in a different way: "Then, should these things be returned, or retained, and how much should be returned?" Which ones to leave behind, has it been discussed? ”
"Whatever, you go back, I can't afford to lose that face." Duan Tingting entered the room angrily.
Ji Hanliang immediately shouted: "Don't go to eat barbecue?" ”
"If you don't eat it, you're full of gas!" Duan Tingting slammed the door angrily.
Ji Hanliang looked at the bill again, it was indeed the English spelling of "Nora", and it wasn't their family's money that was spent, so keep these things?
Ji's mother asked, "Do you want to return?" Be sure it's Qianzhou's money, her friend, really, really good, no one else. ”
Ji Hanliang said: "It's okay, just invite her friends to dinner another day." ”
Ji Mu said: "People at that level of the family still have one less meal to eat?" If people really want to agree, if they ask to go to a big hotel like Century Mansion, can we afford it? ”
"It's too much for the lion to open his mouth like that, we are ordinary office workers, where can we afford to invite the Century Mansion?" Ji Hanliang snorted lightly.
Ji Mu said: "But for people, eating there is normal consumption." If our family wants to invite her to dinner, is it possible that we have to lower the grade of others? The kind of small cake that people bring to Tingting every time is taken out from Century Mansion, and people buy a cake and go to a big hotel for a cup of tea. ”
What Ji's mother came into contact with Liu Qianzhou was only superficial, and what she knew was only the tip of the iceberg.
Of course, what she said was there, but Liu Qianzhou was not such a luxurious person, but was exaggerated by Duan Tingting.
Ji Hanliang's face darkened, "Then I can't hold a month's salary, our family doesn't eat or drink, just invite her to a meal, right?" In that kind of place, there are already thousands of yuan for just opening a bottle of wine, do you think we can afford it? At most, invite her to a seafood restaurant for a meal, not more than a thousand. If she wants to go, even if she gives face, if she doesn't give face, forget it, I will save money. ”
"So Tingting always scolds you for not being long-hearted, you are usually anxious and want to maintain your connections, you don't need to maintain your ready-made connections, you just need to keep them as they are, but you don't cherish them, what do you say I should say about you? Do you know that the Song family also has a home appliance subsidiary? You said that if you have a good relationship with Qianzhou and can speak, you can mention it casually, saying that you want to do it in a different place, and the current company can't see the prospects. If you want to change the environment, for your future career plan, want to change jobs, etc., just mention it, then she won't find a way? Let me tell you about my son, if you are the son of the Song family, the benefits and treatment will definitely be a hundred times stronger than your current one. And the relationship between your wife and the boss's wife is best friends, who in the company dare not look at you properly? ”
Ji's mother's words, Ji's father quite agreed, "This is a good way, in the Song family, it can be regarded as having a backstage support." ”
Ji Mu raised her eyes: "Ah, that's what I thought." Qianzhou, that kid is very talkative. But left and right this is you going to change jobs, it doesn't require you to know people very well, but at least you have to be able to talk to people a few words, and make a few jokes, right? Otherwise, why should people help you? Just because every time you help your wife, that stinky face you put on? ”
The bedroom door suddenly opened, and Duan Tingting walked out.
Ji Mu was startled, and at this moment, she recalled in her mind whether she had said anything inappropriate just now.
looked at Duan Tingting, and didn't know what to say for a while.
"Tingting ......"
Ji Hanliang was also a little embarrassed, because he couldn't remember if he had said anything bad just now.
"Let's go, eat first, Mom and Dad go together, and we'll return the things after eating."
Duan Tingting clasped her hands to her chest and looked at Ji Hanliang: "Why do you bother to change the topic?" Did you hear what Mom said? It's you, if you have a brain, you're only getting this money for a month? ”
Ji Hanliang paused slightly, "Don't talk nonsense, it's impossible for me to change jobs." Changing jobs to a new environment is not stable enough, and in case you have to face layoffs, it is most dangerous for the new employees to have no grades. ”
Duan Tingting said: "You are so satisfied with the status quo, so you don't want to fight anymore." ”
Ji Hanliang said: "Can I not want to fight?" Of course I want to fight again, but what if I change jobs casually, the new company won't last long, and I can't return to the current company? Isn't that empty? Now the salary, six thousand five, plus bonus performance and various subsidies, is also more than seven thousand. In Yundu, the salary of more than 7,000 or 8,000 is not low. That is, only our old employees have this treatment and will get a raise. If you go to another company, this salary requires employees to have strong professional ability, do you think I can do it? I'm staying in the company now, why should I leave? ”
Ji Mu said: "But if Qianzhou is willing to be introduced, you go to the Song family, and the treatment will definitely not be bad." ”
"Mom, the treatment will not be bad, people will directly give you a department manager, department head, department manager, have you done it? Are you doing it down? Without that ability, you can't sit down if you are given a boss position. I have a very stable job now, such a stable job, I am familiar with the content of the work, and I can arrange my own time. The salary is seven or eight thousand, plus the sports car, I get back home a month less than 10,000 or more than 10,000 yuan, and it is still less? If you really change jobs, you wait and see, maybe the probation period will not pass, and you will be eliminated directly, and I will have no job at that time, what will I do with this family? Ji Hanliang spoke eloquently and excitedly.
Duan Tingting snorted lightly, but she didn't say that her husband was cowardly, he was content with the status quo and refused to fight anymore.
Ji's mother said to his son worried, "So serious? ”
"Those high-paying companies, they are very strict with their employees. I'm used to being in a petty bourgeois enterprise, and their work model is different from ours. And there is a lot of overtime in large companies, and you can't do a lot of things at all. You say I'm working steadily now, so why bother? ”
Ji Hanliang said that everyone was excited, and Duan Tingting was silent.
In fact, Duan Tingting had already discovered that Ji Hanliang was a man with little fighting spirit, when she first fell in love, Liu Qianzhou was still abroad at that time, at that time, Liu Qianzhou's career had just started, and his reputation abroad had just risen.
Liu Qianzhou asked Duan Tingting if she wanted to go to New York to fight together, but Duan Tingting had already had a boyfriend, and Ji Hanliang obstructed all kinds of things, saying that the two of them were both locals of Yundu, had a car, a house, and a job with a decent income, so what to fight. In a foreign place, the money is so easy to make? Parents don't want it at home, don't want feelings?
Duan Tingting didn't go to New York, and she had been in the company for two years, and the company didn't give her a promotion or a raise.
Ji Hanliang persuaded that it is risky to change jobs, although the company has not given you a salary increase, but the money is still given to you every month, and you have nothing to lose? After the key jumps, after the workload increases dramatically, you can't do it, is that facing unemployment?
Duan Tingting worked as a graphic designer in that company for four years, and the juniors who joined the company two years later than her were promoted and raised, and she was still an ordinary designer.
Although she has increased her salary by virtue of her qualifications, she feels that she can get by with 5,000 yuan a month.
But if she doesn't change jobs, she doesn't complete the workplace skipping, this company has been pressing her, she can only be an ordinary designer for the rest of her life, and the two senior graphic designers can't mix, is it interesting?
If she changes jobs at the right time, the entry requirement is a senior graphic designer, and she can also have new requirements in terms of salary, she has completed her workplace upgrade, even if she is pregnant at home now, she can raise her requirements a little more when she re-enters the workplace after two or three years.
However, everything was ruined in Ji Hanliang's kind words and persuasion.
His reasoning seems to sound very reasonable, but if you think about it carefully, it is simply a decadent policy.
At first, she felt that Ji Hanliang was right, she should cherish what she has now, don't toss around, it's her own, and one day it's her own.
Now, I have listened too much and seen Liu Qianzhou's life trajectory.
She suddenly realized, yes, people don't work hard when they are young, and when you want to fight, you have already lost a lot of good opportunities.
Do you think that the opportunity given to you back then is still waiting for you in the same place? That's a lot to think about.
But Ji Hanliang's rhetoric obviously persuaded his in-laws.
Duan Tingting was silent: "Do you want to eat meat?" If I don't go, I'll cook noodles and eat them. ”
"Go, go, I've got some rice in the kitchen, let's cook it tomorrow morning." Ji Mu Dao.
The family hasn't eaten out for a long time, and it's rare for the daughter-in-law to think so much about the family today, in general, it's a happy day, and she should eat out to celebrate.