Chapter Seventy-One: Seeing the Parents, the Storm is Coming
Ji Xiaochen's parents have been obstructing it in every possible way before, and the reason is because of the Xu family itself...... Xu Shaobai is a soldier and this cannot be changed, but the relationship between the two is no longer said to be broken up, if you really want to arrange a marriage for your daughter, I'm afraid your daughter may not be happy.
If one of them runs away from home, they can't do anything.
simply agreed to their engagement first, after all, Xu Shaobai was just a little thick-skinned, and he was not annoying, and the main reason was that although the Xu family was not so easy to get along with, and the Xu family still had a bad mother-in-law, this was the reason why Fan Qingmei didn't want to marry her daughter.
And in this matter.
Xu Shaobai has also already expressed his position, and he has almost no contact with the Xu family after this, even if there is contact, it is also the Yan family, otherwise the old man Yan and Uncle Yan would not be invited when he sees his parents.
The place of meeting on this day was a high-end club in the imperial capital that was not very conspicuous, and the club was located in the suburbs, but the people who came had some status.
When you come in, you must have a membership card or invitation card, but this high-end club is considered the property of the Yan family, so Ji Xiaochen's family has already said hello when they come, but it is nothing.
"Miss Ji, Mr. Yan and Mr. Yan are already waiting in the box, and I will lead the three of you directly over?"
Although Ji Damin was fortunate enough to enter some high-end places, but it was only a high-end hotel, and he had never been to this place, he was somewhat restrained for a while, and he secretly whispered to his wife and daughter, "I'm really not used to being in this kind of place, Xiaochen, have you really thought about it?" I'm not against it, I just think it'......"
The door is not the right one, what if there is a ...... in the future
Ji Xiaochen knew it in her heart, but before she came or as early as when she had a showdown with her parents, she had already thought it through, how could she regret it now?
"Oh, you man...... Anyway, go first to meet your in-laws, and if you have anything to say, you'll talk about it later. Fan Qingmei lives with her daughter, so she knows what her daughter thinks.
When the three of them entered, someone had already opened the box door for them, Xu Shaobai had already stood up at this time and introduced the three of them, the old man sitting in the right seat was the old man Yan, although he was a little old, but he looked very good, and his eyes were not only sober, but also shrewd.
And sitting under him is Uncle Yan in military uniform, Uncle Yan is a major general in the army, and now he is the rank of Zhongjiang, and he may have to be promoted to another level in a few years, and when he sits there, he can feel the terrifying momentum.
Even if Uncle Yan has reined in the momentum around him, the Ji family still feels a little uncomfortable, Old Man Yan knows what his grandson is anxious about, he has a feeling of debt and guilt towards his grandson since he was a child.
The youngest daughter married Xu Jianhong at that time, he actually didn't agree with it, the kind of man who has no sense of professionalism and responsibility, just wants to rely on his own woman to eat soft rice and want to make a difference? Is this possible, impossible.
But because the family is full of sons, and finally has a little daughter, he and his wife are in pain in front of their hearts, who would have thought that their daughters would suffer when they came to other people's homes.
In the first few years of marriage, Yiru was quite happy, and after giving birth to a child, the problem was gradually exposed, and later, after Xu Jianhong and the woman of the Zhang family seduced together, Yiru has been depressed, replaced by depression, and later ......
Old Man Yan also blamed himself, but the deceased was gone, and it was useless to think more, so he could only transfer all his previous love to his grandson, but his grandson did not let himself down, nor did he give hope to the entire Yan family.
It's just that his grandson is also a little older, and marriage is in the first place. Since he is not interested in other women, but only in one, that is, ordinary people, what does it matter?
As long as the family background is innocent and ordinary, it is actually a hundred times better than those wealthy families!
Old Man Yan couldn't be clearer, which of those young ladies of the family is not a belly of bad water, bad hearts, and temperament is not liked, only a small part, which can be regarded as normal.
It's good that the grandson and the Xu family have severed their relationship, at least they are strict and don't want to use political marriage to harm the happiness of the juniors' lives.
So Old Man Yan also plans to make an exception for his grandson one more time, so on this day, Old Man Yan has always been amiable, Ji Damin was still a little nervous before, and then Uncle Yan, who had a loud voice, heated up the atmosphere, and Old Man Yan asked for warmth, and soon the nervousness was gone.
After two glasses of wine, he had already talked openly and honestly about the two juniors, Ji Damin told some of the deep-rooted concepts in his mind, which are actually some of the concepts that are right in the door, Mr. Yan said: "Our Yan family is not the Xu family, and we don't value the family, as long as the two juniors really like it, there is no problem." ”
"It's what my dad said, and Shaobai's character, you can know it if you look at it more...... Uncle Yan thought of one thing before, and couldn't help but smile and said, "Actually, I know that my in-laws mind Shaobai's identity as a soldier, but in fact, it doesn't have to be like this, our family is a soldier, but not everyone who is a military wife must be hard." ”
"What do you mean about this?"
"As long as he has a home in his heart, he will have it wherever he wants! Like me, except for the time in the army, I rarely spend time outside, and most of them spend time with my wife and children at home, so I am actually no worse than those men who often socialize outside, what do you think? ”
If there are some men who only care about their work and only have their careers in their eyes, it may not be appropriate.
Fan Qingmei was a woman in the end, she thought about it one step ahead of her husband, but nodded approvingly, "No matter what, let them try it first...... Of course, it's good to be together, but if you can't, you can't force it. ”
Xu Shaobai knew that this was his mother-in-law who had not really admitted that he was a virtuous son-in-law, he gave his uncle a look, Uncle Yan instantly understood, and laughed out loud, "That's right, but my mother-in-law, the men from our Yan family are all good, it's not that Lao Wang sells melons and boasts, but the female heads of our family say so one by one, if you don't believe it, I can call my daughter-in-law...... Xiaochen is a good girl, we know that, and I'm sure she'll understand what I'm saying. ”
Isn't this Lao Wang's boasting of selling melons?
Ji Xiaochen finally knew where Xu Shaobai's cheekiness came from, he had such a confident uncle, he was unreasonable if he wasn't confident!
This meal is quite enjoyable, Old Man Yan will not feel too restrained, and Uncle Yan and Xu Shaobai are masters of mobilizing the atmosphere, after eating this meal, Ji Damin was fooled into thinking that Uncle Yan was simply his bosom friend, and many private words that he didn't usually say were put on the table.
This look is a manifestation of drunkenness, Fan Qingmei knows that her husband is this virtue when he is drunk, she is afraid that he will spit out anything, and after she is full of wine and food, she will carry people and prepare to leave.
And Ji Xiaochen is also going to follow his parents, Xu Shaobai watched his daughter-in-law leave in the car with a sad face, and Uncle Yan couldn't help but twitch when he looked at such a nephew.
"I really can't get used to you like this, mother-in-law! I didn't have a woman around me before, and I worried about you, but now that I have a woman, I have to go to great lengths to help you chase the woman, why are you so useless! "Uncle Yan hates iron and does not become steel.
"Uncle, I remember that the eldest aunt was also you who asked your grandfather to take action, so you got the trick on people, right?" Xu Shaobai winked playfully, how much he owed and how much he owed.
Uncle Yan lifted his sleeves and was about to beat someone, his old face turned red, and he was a little sullen when he was exposed, "Hey! You kid is still teasing me! If you dare to say more, believe it or not, I will let your little daughter-in-law not be able to enter the door of our Yan family now! ”
"Uncle, she only needs to enter my Xu Shaobai door, Yan family, just occasionally string strings."
"I said you kid, you're getting better at playing tricks! It's really three days without fighting, and then I went to the house to uncover the tiles, right...... Okay, then let's practice here today! ”
The two simply arrived at the martial arts arena of the club to prepare for a one-on-one fight, Uncle Yan had already dragged his clothes and put on a posture bare-chested, but Xu Shaobai was still chic and didn't move, he raised his eyebrows, "Uncle, your waist is not good, in case this goes back and flashes, my aunt is looking for me to fight, who should I go to to shout injustice?" ”
"Flashing waist? It doesn't matter if you're old, you stinky boy! Hurry up, don't ink, let's have a show! Your aunt is there, with me, he doesn't dare to touch you! ”
That being said, Uncle Yan has always been outside the master, and he is a wife and slave when he arrives at home, so it's not necessarily who cares about whom......
Future.
Xu Shaobai thinks about the future, what kind of relationship should he and his eldest baby have?
……
It's just that such a chic and idle day didn't take long to pass, and the engagement banquet is that both parties eat each other's meal as a family banquet, and then it is settled.
And on this day of joy, Mr. Xu was hospitalized, and his son rarely came to see him once after he was hospitalized, he actually missed his grandson for a long time, but at this time he thought more intensely.
In the end, it is a child who grew up beside him, how can he not care...... Thinking of Xu Shaowen's recent actions at home, Old Man Xu became more and more angry and had a stomachache.
He thought about it for a long time before he called his eldest grandson, and his tone was a little sad, "Shaobai, I know I'm bothering you, but grandpa doesn't know how long he can live...... If you have time, come to the hospital to see me, it was my grandfather who did something wrong before, and I apologize to you. ”
knew why bother at the beginning today, this is the true psychological portrayal of Old Man Xu.
Xu Shaobai was already engaged to his eldest baby at this time, and he did have a grandfather in his heart, but he may have been too disappointed before, and he still had to go to the hospital, but before that, he informed Ji Xiaochen.
For the elderly, Ji Xiaochen can always be more tolerant, she nodded, "I should go, I'm not the kind of person who is not close to people at all." ”
Xu Shaobai scratched her little nose affectionately, hugged the person in his arms, and laughed deeply, "Well, I know, it's still early, why don't you go with me?" ”
He also wants his grandfather to know that the woman he wants to marry must be the best, and he has no regrets now and never will in the future.