Chapter 1067: Like a man drinking water, he knows his own warmth and coldness
The third aunt said: "Pearl, what about the third sister, the same attitude as your eldest sister-in-law and second sister-in-law." I won't say anything else, no matter what, you are married, our whole family is very happy, we are all happy for you, I hope you don't regret it. Of course, life is getting better and better for everyone, so the third sister also believes that both of you have the ability to live a good life. At least, neither of you will quarrel over financial issues, will you? ”
Song Pearl smiled, "Thank you, Third Sister." ”
The group left before and after, Songzi was going to play at her grandmother's house, Liu Qianzhou thought about talking to Song Meiyan, so she agreed.
Song Cheng sent Li Liyuan and others home, and Liu Qianzhou took Songzi to the compound.
Song Yiling is also there, the two girls are very happy, Song Yiling seems to know what happened today, but he doesn't seem to understand it so well.
But she was still very happy to be able to play with her friends, and she left after a while.
Liu Qianzhou said: "Yiling, your mother is going to travel with Dad Yang, will you be at our house during this time?" ”
Song Yiling nodded: "Okay, okay, that's the best." ”
Liu Qianzhou looked at the innocent child and chuckled again.
Song Yiling said: "Sister-in-law, can I sleep with Songzi?" ”
Liu Qianzhou glanced at Songzi: "If you two are too young to sleep together, both of you kick the quilt at night, and both of you have a cold, so what's wrong?" When your mother comes back, how can I explain to her that I didn't take good care of you? ”
Song Yiling immediately promised: "I will be very careful, we will not kick the quilt." My mom and I wear the quilt on our bodies, so we don't kick the quilts. ”
When Liu Qianzhou heard this, the quilt he wore on his body?
"It's a sleeping bag, right?" Liu Qianzhou asked, this thing is very good, it seems that it is necessary for her to get one for pine nuts.
The eldest lady and the second lady were in the same car over there, and their faces were not very good.
They are all from the Song family, so this feeling is naturally the same.
The second wife said: "Sister-in-law, I thought you wouldn't be able to speak about the fourth room, but I didn't expect you to speak too." I saw that the little lady's face was crooked, and everyone was angry about this. ”
The eldest lady said, "Can you not be angry?" Everyone is angry, people like Yang Hujiu shouldn't marry him, there are more good men in the world, I don't know why Song Pearl has to want him. Do you see his nonchalant, nonchalant attitude? We onlookers can't stand it anymore, can the little lady bear it? ”
"Yes, but the little lady should too, she has a good life in this life and has not suffered anything. Did she raise her daughter for a day after she was born? I always felt that Pearl grew up like a child without a mother, and had to be independent and self-reliant. People have been independent for decades, and today the little lady doesn't agree, where is there a place for her to express her opinions? "Ertai Dao.
When I was a child, I didn't manage when I should have been taught, I didn't teach, and now everyone is dozens of years old, do you still have a position to speak?
The eldest lady had a calm face, and she was also emotional.
"What does a woman want to do in her life? Song Pearl has worked hard for so many decades, and today she finally got married, and if she wants to get married, why should she choose such a man? What is she missing? With money, she can afford to buy what she wants, what she lacks is people, someone who can be by her side. Since she is talking about her status and ability today, she can support any choice she makes. So why can't you find a man who fits your heart? Why can't you find a man who knows cold and warm? Yang Hujiu, it's not that he is not good, he turned the Yang family back up, that is not something that ordinary people can do, people do have the ability. But that kind of man, in ancient times, was that he had the world in his heart, and what he wanted was the world, not a you, not a home. Where can he be restrained? ”
The eldest lady sighed continuously, "Wrong, wrong, Song Pearl chose Yang Hujiu, it was wrong." ”
The second wife couldn't express such a profound emotion, but she also felt the same way.
"I heard that there was a man next to Song Pearl who was pursuing her, and later it was Yang Hujiu, that was more than ten years ago. It's been more than ten or twenty years since two people have acted as men, so why are you waiting for him? You haven't been ready to get married for more than ten or twenty years, and if you propose, the heart of the other party is not in you. Now, I'm probably tired of playing and want to return to the family, and at this time you accept it, how can it be seen that it's all a pearl loss. ”
The second wife said, and looked at the eldest lady again, but the eldest lady did not speak.
The second wife said again: "Moreover, the person who has a wild heart, just like the little lady said, can the habits that people have developed for decades be changed overnight?" That's impossible. How can habits that you haven't been able to break for decades before marriage change for you? ”
The eldest lady sighed: "Forget it, don't talk about them." ”
"yes, we're here to worry about her, and she won't appreciate it at all. So many people are talking for her, and they are upset, what does Song Pearl say? Those words, didn't they say to Yang Hujiu? She couldn't hear the opinions of so many people in the Song family. Alas, a woman, once she is sincere, she doesn't care what the people around her say. "Ertai Dao.
The eldest lady is dressed properly, and it is really cold this winter.
"The good thing is that although she chose an unreliable man, at least the other party will not covet her things. If it had been the previous one, we would have had other worries. The eldest lady whispered.
The second wife didn't react for a while, and looked at the eldest wife: "What do you mean?" ”
"Although you can't give too much care, at least two people are evenly matched. Yang Hujiu doesn't put his heart and soul into Song Pearl, but he won't bargain for anything from her. It's better than ah, a man with a different mind, in addition to eating soft rice, has other plans. The wealth that pearls have worked hard for decades has been taken away from them. Do you think, in that case, is this Yang Hujiu more reliable now? ”
The eldest lady's words scared the second wife a little.
The second wife reacted to it, and what she said was: "Yiling's father?" ”
The eldest lady didn't speak, but the second lady thought about it, and it seemed that what she said was quite right.
"If Pearl had married that person, she would have been more worried. Although that person may put more of his heart on Song Pearl, the situation you said is not impossible. ”
If you really encounter someone with a plan, the whole family will be even more worried.
thought for a while: "Also, at least, Yang Hujiu will not ask for Song Pearl's money." We can rest assured of this. ”
"The two of them, not husband and wife, are more like friends."
"Husbands and wives are like friends, and that's worrying. If you can be friends, then what kind of husband and wife are you? The second wife sighed, "However, in the case of Song Pearl and Yang Hujiu, even if they have feelings, I am afraid they have been worn out in the past twenty years." Indeed, two people who have known each other for so long can still get along harmoniously, and this kind of relationship and relationship should be cherished. It's just that in marriage, a man whose heart is not on him is his own husband, which inevitably makes people feel inappropriate. ”
"If a person knows how cold or warm he drinks, let her go. The relationship and state that we don't understand, maybe they think it's the most appropriate, isn't it? The eldest lady said.
"yes, let's not talk about them, what's the use of us talking about this? The juniors in the family, one by one, are useless. ”
The second wife shook her head gently: "The two daughters of the third aunt's family, Yang Ningshuang and Yang Xuejiao, when the two sisters were first subjected, no one in the family knew about it, and the third aunt did not object. The condition is just to be able to support his daughter and be good to his daughter. Although the two sons-in-law are really incapable, the two sisters are doing well. So, now the children's marriage, let them go to their own affairs, we really can't do anything about it. ”
"Leng Yong and Ying Guoxu are still working in the hotel, right?" The eldest lady asked suddenly.
"Here, why aren't you there, the three rooms and the family are all working in the hotel." The second wife laughed.
Outside, where can you find a job with such a good salary in the Song Hotel?
I'm afraid I won't be able to find a job outside, right?
The family has no place to beg for food, so they are counting on the Song family's family to help.
It's also funny, she is also the young lady of the Song family, but she got married and became what she is today.
The third aunt herself is married to a university teacher, and now she is a hotel director, and she can be regarded as a leader. Ba hopes that he is not marrying well, and he can mention his two daughters more, and he can't let the two daughters go their own way.
And yet?
Yang Xuejiao and Yang Ningshuang are both married in general, and they are worse than the third aunt herself. Yang Xuejiao is also a university teacher, but she is a teacher family.
And now?
In the end, it's not all about working in hotels, it's much better than teaching in schools. How much is a teacher's salary a month?
However, although the three-room is the most money-free and powerless, the three-room life is really comfortable. For decades, I have never heard any quarrels in the third room, no major or minor matters, and the two husbands and wives still pretend to be each other from the beginning to the present.
The marriage of the third aunt, in today's words, is what it looks like to marry love, right?
The second wife sometimes envies the third aunt's marriage, because her man pretends to be himself in his heart, and he thinks about himself all the time. No matter how late I work, I still have the phone hanging up, and I still call a lot at this age.
Yang Gaoming is a teaching teacher and now an external professor at the school.
When he was doing things in the hotel, he had nothing to do, and he studied by himself, and Yang Gaoming was quite respected in the academic world.
Intellectuals, I heard that now Yang Gaoming still writes some words by himself, and he will also write to the third aunt, the two husbands and wives are not rich, but they are really enviable.
The second wife can't look down on the third room, but when her husband can't come back to the house a few times in a year and a half, she thinks that it is better to marry an ordinary man like the third aunt, at least her heart is hanging on her own.
Is it just for money and conditions that a woman gets married? You have to see who the other party is and whether you have a heart for yourself.
No one wants to wash their faces with tears all day long, and everyone wants to marry a man who knows cold and warmth.