Chapter 729: Friends go together for a lifetime
Duan Tingting thought that if this child was a daughter, she must tell the child from an early age to study hard, and she could no longer have the idea that it would be enough to marry a good man in the future.
That's too bitter.
She herself is married to a good man, but what?
If you don't have enough ability, you can only mix in the general position of the general company after graduation, let alone any career, even if there is a good opportunity in front of you, you yourself are not able to seize it.
Duan Tingting sighed, in the same dormitory, the gap between Liu Qianzhou and the rest of them is getting bigger and bigger, and now she needs to look up.
No girl will have no worries about marrying after graduation, even if she marries a rich second generation, she needs to constantly enrich herself and improve herself. Otherwise, it will be eliminated.
Like her, a girl who marries into an ordinary family will have such a stretched life if she doesn't work hard.
After dinner, Duan Tingting and Ji Hanliang took a walk in the community.
Duan Tingting talked about Jin Chendan's desire to hand over the child to Liu Qianzhou to raise.
Ji Hanliang sighed when he heard this: "That classmate of yours is really true, his own children are still raised by others, and he has the ability to raise them when he is born, so why bother others." The children are all raised by others, so what's the matter? To put it bluntly, what does Liu Qianzhou owe her? Now that you have made up your mind to let Liu Qianzhou help raise your children, will you have to make up your mind to let your family give your adoptive parents in the future? It's really a shame that she can figure it out. ”
Duan Tingting couldn't help but look at her husband, her husband was notoriously fair.
Hearing what her husband said, I felt that I was still thinking about persuading Liu Qianzhou to help Jin Chendan, and now I began to feel that I was too much.
"I thought at first, isn't the child adopted by Qianzhou just three years old and in kindergarten, and Jin Chendan's daughter is four or five years old, so she should find a playmate for Qianzhou's own child. Liu Qianzhou's family is not like our family, you don't have to worry about eating and drinking, the house is so wide, there is food and accommodation, and you can give her daughter as a companion, the age is not much different, just look for the same food and clothing as her own daughter. What a convenient thing, but Liu Qianzhou refused. I said a few things that meant something similar to yours. Probably that means that she will help anyone she can, but there is a degree of helping people, and raising children is a big deal, so she doesn't agree. ”
Duan Tingting's words fell, and Ji Hanliang immediately said: "People are right, to be a good person is to have a degree, and you can't agree to any unreasonable request just because you are a friend." ”
"At first, I thought Qianzhou was unkind, but think about it, people are right, why should they raise children for others? That's not her obligation. Later, listening to Liu Qianzhou's words, I think I can understand. Duan Tingting said.
Ji Hanliang looked at his wife: "Among your friends and classmates, Liu Qianzhou can carry it clearly." You too, such a thing, what do you advise? If you think about it yourself, what will be the situation if we go to raise other people's children, and you will know why people should refuse. In the future, don't talk about these things casually, you persuade others to raise children, why don't you want to think about taking them back to raise? ”
Duan Tingting opened her mouth: "Our family must have that condition, and I will raise it, but Jin Chendan's family named Qianzhou to raise it, do I still rob Qianzhou?" ”
"I mean, don't you have something wrong with your brain? Are you still thinking about raising a child with someone? Can you think about it normally? Even if you don't have children, you can't support others, do other people's children have anything to do with you? Are you going to offer that courtesy? You're a person who never thinks seriously about things. Ji Hanliang couldn't help but say angrily.
Persuade others to raise other people's children, she still thinks about taking them back to raise them herself.
That's a beauty difference, huh? Do you still want to grab it?
Duan Tingting immediately became angry: "Aren't I not raised?" Qianzhou said that Duoduo's family has grandparents, biological fathers, and grandparents. The child has been following his grandparents since he was a child, and people are reluctant to follow others. So, I can only think about it, it's impossible. ”
Ji Hanliang said angrily: "You are so bored that you have nothing to do every day, don't even think about it!" Do you think raising a child is to lead the dog back? That's a lot more than the responsibility of the dog, it's really whimsical! ”
"You ......" Duan Tingting looked at Ji Hanliang and didn't want to talk more: "I'm too lazy to tell you." ”
"Wife, I'm very serious about telling you, don't listen to your friend named Jin Chendan in the future, she is a good person. tossed yourself in, and pushed the rest of the on the friends around you, why? She has a family of her own, so why bother with her friends. If she really treats you as friends, will she be embarrassed to trouble you? A true friend would be willing to let his own affairs trouble the other party? ”
Ji Hanliang's words woke up Duan Tingting.
If you really want to treat someone as a friend, you won't want to let your affairs bother your friends at all.
Friends can be busy, it's enough to listen to your complaints, and you still want to annoy each other with your own?
She has a good relationship with Liu Qianzhou, she is not desperate, how can she let Liu Qianzhou worry about her own affairs?
"However, Jin Chendan is indeed desperate, she believes in us, she has no choice but to ask us for help. No one else, she didn't believe it. She has parents at home who can educate their children, and of course she believes in Liu Qianzhou more. ”
"Does she believe Liu Qianzhou? She is the living conditions and economic ability of Liu Qianzhou, who is a popular family. Thinking that his daughter grew up in Liu Qianzhou's family, she could enjoy the same treatment as Liu Qianzhou's daughter. She was selfish, and she thought the whole world should serve her. Ji Hanliang chuckled.
Duan Tingting looked at Ji Hanliang in surprise: "Why do you know Jin Chentan so well?" ”
"Your friends, after all these years, can tell from your mouth what kind of people they are. Although Jin Chendan is a bastard, he can still treat you, at least he hasn't harmed you, which is still okay. Ji Hanliang said.
"Alas, I can only say that in fact, a few of us are not bad, of course, Qianzhou needless to say, since she went to school, she has been the most upright person. Others, do you say how bad can Wang Yuwen be? Actually, it's not that bad, it's just vanity. But she offended Qianqian, so Jin Chendan and I must be on the sidelines, so I have nothing to do with her. It's not bad, it's just that the life experiences of each of us are so different. Although Wang Yuwen's life is not so satisfactory, fortunately, she does not have to go out to make a living. Jin Chendan found it by herself, and she has lived a lot of good lives. I'm the most mediocre of the four, and even though we don't have much money now, I'm happy because I have a husband who doesn't have them. Qianzhou is good at everything, but the personality is too strong. Duan Tingting sighed softly.
"It's good that you can figure it out, and I'm very happy that you can think so. I've always been afraid of wronging you, as long as you don't dislike me, I will never betray you in my life, we have always been so good. Ji Hanliang said in a low voice.
Duan Tingting choked up and hugged her husband.
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Liu Qianzhou didn't see Song Pearl until it was dark, and when she appeared in front of Song Pearl with a smiling face, Song Pearl's face was already completely black.
"I'm too big for you now, and I can't please you anymore. What do you mean? If you don't want to come, you can make a call in advance, no one will delay anyone, you are dragging me on this side, while letting me wait, while I am happy and happy? Song Pearl asked coldly.
Liu Qianzhou smiled: "No, sister-in-law, I explained to you, my big-bellied friend suddenly felt uncomfortable on the way back, just when I went out." She called me and asked me to come over and pick her up. She is pregnant, and she is about to give birth, so I really dare not be careless, so I can only get pregnant first. ”
"She's not feeling well on the way home, why did she call you? Isn't it all the people who are related to you, and when something happens, you call you? Song Pearl said coldly.
Liu Qianzhou sneered: "No, no, it's different today, my friend came out to see me, if something happens to her outside, do you think it has something to do with me?" On the way back to see her off, I was worried to death, but I was able to send her back. So I came over again, and it was blocked until now, I'm really sorry, sister-in-law, I know I've kept you waiting too long, I didn't hope to see you again, I thought with your temper, you would have left a long time ago. ”
Song Pearl snorted lightly: "You are you?" ”
"No, no, sister-in-law, you have always been trustworthy, and what you say will definitely be done. It's my villain's heart, let's eat? Liu Qianzhou asked Song Pearl flatteringly.
Song Pearl said: "Okay, you can order it." ”
Liu Qianzhou peeked at Song Pearl, as if his interest was not very high, and he was obviously still angry.
"Don't be angry, I'll have two drinks with you tonight, it's a big deal to find a substitute driver, and then you go back with me, how about it?" Liu Qianzhou asked with a smile.
Song Pearl looked at Liu Qianzhou, "Okay, how long will it take to come back this time?" ”
"I came back for some days this time, but it was for a purpose, and I wasn't in Yundu, I went to other places to collect wind." Liu Qianzhou said.
Don't hide her itinerary, let her go out first, she is in China, but not in Yundu, so she doesn't make an appointment.
"You still want to collect wind?" Song Pearl looked at her: "Aren't you just going out to play in disguise?" ”
"No, I need to improve my knowledge and sublimate my thoughts, so I have to go out to collect wind and feel the most primitive humanistic spirit and natural style, which is also a charge, I feel that I have only been immersed in creation in the past few years, but I have been gnawing at the old book, I need to recharge." Liu Qianzhou said.
Song Pearl nodded: "Well, that's right, live to be old and learn to be old." We must continue to innovate, otherwise we will be complacent and narrow our own road. ”
"So, I need time to recharge, and the most primitive humanistic spirit is the best teacher." Liu Qianzhou said: "Art comes from life, life is always the teacher of all creation, I have to respect life and this objectively existing society." ”
"Don't tell me about those fake things, that's what you artists think about, I don't think about it." Song Pearl waved his hand.
Liu Qianzhou smiled: "Okay, then let's not talk about this, sister-in-law, what do you want to say?" ”