Cheyenne blushed a little, "yes, so, he really doesn't have anything bad about him, everything is good!" I should be very satisfied......" said with a slight change in his expression, "but there is one thing that I have not been able to accept. ”

Luo Li asked, "What can't you accept?" ”

Xia Anhao lowered his head slightly, "As long as there are any dangerous things, he won't let me touch them, and even let the people around me not tell me these dangerous things...... I know that I shouldn't complain about anything, after all, he is also for my own good, and he doesn't want me to be exposed to those dangerous things...... However, I feel that I will be useless if I am so well protected! I think there are some things that he can not hide from me, and I am not a little fool, and I will not avoid dangerous things...... However, his excessive protection made me a little uncomfortable and depressed. ”

Luo Li listened and was silent for a while, "Your husband's attitude is a little strange, protecting a person and keeping you from contact with danger is what a man should do...... But it's too much, and your husband gives me the feeling that it's a bit too much, as if I'm particularly worried about losing you. ”

Cheyenne shrugged her shoulders, "yes, I'm worried about what will happen to me!" However, he himself didn't know that such overprotection would make me feel depressed, and I really didn't like it, such an overprotective ......."

Luo Li nodded, "That's natural, proper protection, we will be comfortable, if it's too much, naturally there will be exclusions...... It's just that I think, what should be the reason for your husband, right? Otherwise, how could he have done such an over-the-top thing? Is it because he encountered something before, because he didn't protect it well, so he lost a particularly important person in his life, and because of this, he was particularly afraid that you would also encounter something harmful, so he was so protective of you. ”

Cheyenne was stunned for a moment......

I also felt that Xiao Hei Hei was a little too nervous about himself, and he didn't want to involve himself in any danger, which felt that Xiao Hei Hei was worried about himself.

But for more fundamental things, Xia Anhao didn't think much about it.

At this moment, after listening to Luo Li say this, Xia An suddenly thought of an important matter.

Xiao Hei Hei is too protective of himself because he suffered before and lost important people?

It's because he lost Li Luo, so he thinks that if he doesn't protect himself well, then he will also lose himself?

Is it because of Li Luo's relationship that he is so protective of himself now?

Cheyenne thought about this so much that her heart twitched a little.

Chu Ze is so worried about his safety because of another woman's relationship?

This made Cheyenne listen to everything...... Some are uncomfortable, and some are even jealous.

Luo Li continued: "Perhaps, because he couldn't protect the person he thought was important, he also wanted to find someone who could make up for his mistakes back then." As he spoke, he became a little worried, "If this is the case, I think your husband's protection of you may be a big problem!" Because, this is not to protect you and nervous you, but because of the tribute to the person in the past, I will care so much about your safety and be nervous about your safety. ”

Cheyenne was nervous, "Is this what it looks like?" ”

Luo Li exhaled softly, "I have done psychotherapy before, and I have seen a lot of such situations...... Your husband may have been obsessed with that person, so he put some emotions on you, and looking at your reaction, your husband should have had someone he cared about before, right? And also a woman! ”

Xia Anhao didn't expect that this Luo Li had done psychotherapy before?

Moreover, he actually explained the matter on Chu Ze's side so clearly?

After hearing Luo Li say this, Xia An's face became a little ugly, "I...... My husband, in the past, had a girl he liked...... But the girl sacrificed to protect his life! ”

Luo Li nodded, and nodded thoughtfully, "Sure enough, there is such a thing happening, I am right...... Therefore, your husband may still be a little traumatized now, because that woman left an extremely important place in his heart back then, so that that woman has been influencing his thoughts and behaviors until now, causing him to be a little overprotective of you. As he spoke, his expression became slightly solemn, "You just said, and you don't know why he chose to be with you." ”

Xia An was a little nervous when she heard Luo Li ask this.

yes, that's something I didn't know from the beginning.

Why did Chu Ze choose his own in the first place.

Until now, Xia Anhao still hasn't figured it out.

And Chu Ze himself couldn't say a detailed reason, so he felt ...... Didn't Chu Zemo fall in love with himself at first sight?

But love at first sight, isn't this too unreliable?

At this moment, Luo Li seems to be agreeing one by one.

However, Cheyenne is now a little scared to hear such an answer.

Cheyenne was silent.

Luo Li also took Xia An's hand, just like an amiable big sister, "Don't be nervous, I'm just analyzing some things with you, you just said, you actually don't know, why is your husband with you?" In fact, if I think well, it may be because of the guilt he felt for that woman back then, and he always wanted to find someone to replace that woman to make up for the sacrifice that woman made to him...... Maybe, you have become a substitute for the woman he loved back then, and that's why he will protect you so much and love you...... Your husband has actually always wanted to make up for the guilt he felt about that woman back then! ”

Xia An listened to Luo Li's answer, and immediately shook her head, obviously rejecting such an answer, "This ...... It's impossible, my husband loves me very much. ”

Luo Li nodded, "He naturally loves you very much!" It's just that you can now determine whether his love for you is because of you, or because you are a substitute for that woman? At least from what I've heard from you now, and what I've learned, I think you might have made a substitute! ”

Cheyenne heard the categorical word "substitute", and her brain was buzzing.

How did you become a substitute?

It's just to complain, but if you say something yourself, you'll become a substitute?

How is this possible!

Xia Anhao stared at Na Luo Li and squeezed out a smile, "You...... You may have some misunderstanding, hehe, how can I be a substitute, and if the substitute is used, there are similarities, I and my husband's previous girlfriend, there is no similarity! ”

Luo Li shrugged his shoulders, "Are you really sure that there is nothing similar between you and the person he liked before?" ”

Xia Anhao: "......" Although she knows about Luo Li's existence, how does she know if she is similar to Luo Li? She hasn't seen Li Luo either!

However, as far as Luo Li said at the moment, why, it suddenly entered his heart.

I have been looking hard for the reason why Chu Ze likes him, which has never been clear.

However, Luo Li's rhetoric didn't know how, so Xia An felt that such a statement seemed to be able to explain the things he didn't understand before.

Cheyenne's look was ugly, it couldn't be like this!

How can I be a substitute.

Luo Li looked at Xia An's uncomfortable appearance, and reached out to take her hand, "Maybe, what I'm talking about is my own personal thoughts, hehe, I've not been a psychotherapist for many years, maybe something went wrong...... If you can, you can take your husband and go to another therapist to see if it's my problem! ”

said, his expression became a little serious, "But, I really don't want this to happen, I still hope that your husband just likes you alone, I don't want you to be a substitute for others!" ”

Cheyenne Hao's heart was pumped hard.

Although Luo Li said this, it may be that she was wrong in her analysis.

But why, I think she might be right?

Xia An was so uncomfortable, after a long time, he glanced at Luo Li, and was extremely nervous, "If it is...... If that's really the case, what should I do? My husband, is it really because of other people's women that he loves me so much and is so nervous about me? ”

Luo Li exhaled softly, and his expression became a little tangled, "When you encounter such a thing, I know you are very uncomfortable, we are independent individuals, naturally we don't want to be a substitute for others, if you really like your husband, you want your husband to know that you are not the substitute he wants......"

Cheyenne was a little confused, "What does this mean?" ”

Luo Li patiently explained, "You are going to do something that stimulates him more, and don't do it according to his ideas!" ”

Cheyenne frowned, "Do you mean that I don't go along with him?" ”

Luo Li nodded, "Didn't he protect you too much?" In that case, you should prove to him that you are protecting yourself, and his so-called protection is actually a constraint on you! Moreover, as you just said, there are a lot of things he doesn't let you know, so you go and figure out the things he doesn't let you know! It is to make him understand that you are not the one to obey him...... If you do these behaviors that stimulate him and do not follow his wishes, your husband may find out that you are you, not the person he loved before, and then in the future, he may gradually recognize you! It's going to stop confusing the two of you. ”