Chapter 788: It's rare to have a lover

"Yes, but aren't we about to graduate, we are still in the stage of thinking about each other, I don't know if there will be a result." Li Yuanyuan said with a lonely expression.

Li Yuanyuan was very shy a second ago, but at this moment, she was so lonely, it seems that she is really trapped by love.

"Can you guess that you are here because of this incident?" Liu Qianzhou asked.

Li Yuanyuan raised her eyes, and then sighed softly.

"So, Sister Qianzhou, how good it is to be lovers together. No need to be separated, always together. Like you and Brother Song, they have known each other for ten years, and he is still by your side, and he will cook and wash dishes for you. It's really not easy for a big man like him. ”

Liu Qianzhou looked at the child and asked in a low voice, "What's wrong?" ”

Li Hang on the side didn't like to talk about these children's feelings very much, so he went directly to the kitchen to participate in the discussion.

Li Yuanyuan squatted in front of the house, and Liu Qianzhou sat directly in front of her with a stool: "If you want to say, just tell me?" ”

Li Yuanyuan said: "My boyfriend is not from Yundu, so he wants to go back to his hometown after graduation." ”

"Is it out of town?" Liu Qianzhou asked.

Li Yuanyuan nodded, "It's quite far away, in the northeast, it's far away, he said that he will go back to his hometown to develop, even if he buys a house, it is impossible to choose to be in Yundu." Because the housing prices in Yundu are really expensive, he wants to go back to his hometown and get closer to his parents. ”

Liu Qianzhou held her chin to listen to Li Yuanyuan's emotion, and then she said: "Men have such thoughts, in fact, they can understand, they want to be close to their parents, and they don't have the conditions to take care of their parents when they just graduate." In fact, I have never wanted to see the wanderer go away, the ancients had a saying, the family has parents, do not travel far. Now how many people will fall into the sad situation of 'children want to be raised, but not their relatives'. He wants to go back, there is a hometown calling for him, you shouldn't tie her up here. ”

"But he may have promised me that he would always be with me, why did he break his word?" Li Yuanyuan asked rhetorically.

Liu Qianzhou was silent for a moment and said, "Then are you willing to go with him?" ”

"Impossible, my home is here, I'm from Yundu. The development of Yundu is better than that of his hometown, whether it is for his personal development or living conditions, right? Li Yuanyuan asked.

Liu Qianzhou said: "You have a home, he also has a home, this is the reason why he wants to go back." ”

"But he still came to Yundu to go to school. If he is really so reluctant to his hometown, why doesn't he go to school in the north? Wouldn't that be closer to home? If he hadn't been here, I wouldn't have fallen in love with him! Li Yuanyuan said angrily.

Liu Qianzhou smiled lightly and said: "Yes, but the attachment to home is the same, and we have no right to influence anyone to not want their hometown." It's unethical. ”

"But what about me? I knew that he shouldn't be asked to stay in Yundu, and I knew that he shouldn't be forced. However, I really don't want to give up on the feelings between us. Sister Qianzhou, he and I have been living together, and we have been living together for a year. My parents didn't know that I didn't live in the school, but that you rented a house with him. Sister Qianzhou, I've known him for so long, the best everything has been given to him, and now that he's leaving, I feel that he is just irresponsible to me! Sister Qianzhou, I am a more traditional girl, I hope that my first man is my last man, and I hope to be able to be with him all the time, so that I will be satisfied. Li Yuanyuan whispered, her face full of despair.

Liu Qianzhou pressed his eyebrows, and the most difficult thing to break was his feelings.

"You like him so much that you don't want to go with him to his house, what about him? Have you tried to find a job first? Liu Qianzhou asked.

Li Yuanyuan shook her head, "He didn't look for it, he was waiting to go home directly after graduation, because the family was already arranging a unit for him, and his father was from a public institution, so his family was trying to find a way to let him enter a public institution as well, an iron job bowl, stable." He said that he didn't want to give up such a stable life. Staying in Yundu, everything has to start from scratch, and many companies don't look at academic qualifications, only experience. He also went to an internship, but eventually came back. ”

"Is your boyfriend in the same grade and class as you?" Liu Qianzhou asked.

Li Yuanyuan shook her head: "We are different departments of the same level. ”

Liu Qianzhou raised his eyebrows, this problem is just incidental, but it has nothing to do with it.

Liu Qianzhou nodded slowly: "Therefore, he didn't find a suitable job in Yundu, and he felt that the competition in Yundu was too great, and he was under too much pressure in his heart." If you go back, everything will be easy, right? ”

Li Yuanyuan nodded: "Yes, although he refuses to admit that he failed to find a job, he wants to go back, which should have something to do with an easy life." When he returned to his hometown, he had a house at home, and he could easily buy a car and a ready-made job at home. In Yundu, all of this needs to be done by yourself. ”

Liu Qianzhou asked softly: "He doesn't want to stay for you, is he?" ”

"To put it bluntly, that's it. He refused to stay in Yundu to work hard, and I refused to go back with him, so the two of them were in a stalemate. I'm here just because I don't want to see him. Li Yuanyuan finished speaking, smiled again, and buried her head.

Liu Qianzhou suddenly looked carefully at Li Yuanyuan's dress, although the clothes were not big brands, they were neat and clean, and the fabrics were not bad. The shoes are running shoes that are a thousand years younger, and she doesn't wear any jewelry, but the bag she carried yesterday is of excellent quality, and that bag shouldn't be cheap.

Suddenly, she said: "Yuanyuan, your family conditions should be good, your parents didn't mention it, you can help your boyfriend find a good job through relationships?" ”

Li Yuanyuan shook her head: "My parents won't care about this, my parents don't agree with me being with him." He had to make some achievements on his own, and my parents would agree. So, he wants to leave and break up, and my parents are hoping that we should break up quickly. ”

Liu Qianzhou pressed his eyebrows: "Okay, I understand." What about you, what do you think? ”

Li Yuanyuan shook her head: "I don't know, I didn't think about it." From the moment he asked to go home, I knew that he didn't love me that much at all. He wasn't willing to stay for me at all, he wasn't willing to work hard at all. Such a man is not worthy of my trust at all. ”

"You've figured it out, so what are you hesitating about?" Liu Qianzhou asked.

"But isn't that what women are like? Thinking too much, knowing that it is inviolable, but still doing it. I know what is best for me, but I still can't bear to let him go. Why are girls so pitiful in their relationships? We can sacrifice so much for love, but men don't care about it at all. ”

Liu Yuanyuan lowered her head, which was subconsciously unwilling to admit what she said.

It's good to be able to see through, at least with a clear mind, so that you can make the right choice.

If your mind is so fresh and you make the wrong choice, you won't regret it later.

"Some men will also take their feelings very seriously, but he has to really love you." Liu Qianzhou said.

Li Yuanyuan suddenly raised her head and said, "So Sister Qianzhou, you have Brother Song, you are really lucky, you really have to take advantage of it." You know? It's not easy to be someone who can be with you for ten years. ”

"I know, you, you haven't figured out your own business yet, and you still come to me. Come to think of it, it's also a big event in your life, a big choice. Liu Qianzhou said with a smile.

"Well, actually, Sister Qianzhou, when I came here, I already thought more clearly. Because, if you don't see him, you will see him more thoroughly. ”

Li Yuanyuan's words fell, and then asked, "Sister Qianzhou, don't you have any suggestions for me?" ”

Liu Qianzhou thought for a while, and she said: "There is no suggestion, but what I want to say is that every relationship should be loved seriously, so that even if there is no result, I will not regret it." Because I've already tried my best. Then, in every relationship, you will naturally be very reluctant to use your heart. But there is nothing that time can't save, and after a long time, the original love fades. So, if you are very clear and know that you can't be stupid and follow him. Then you have to be firm in your thoughts and follow the right path in your life. Later, you will thank yourself. No matter how memorable, it will pass, don't be too sad, you know? ”

Li Yuanyuan raised her eyes, "But I want to let go of him, I'm very reluctant, when I think of breaking up with him, my heart will hurt very much, I'm a person who can't cry very much, but when I think of breaking up with him, I will cry to death." But I also know very clearly that I can't be swayed by him anymore. He was not the high-spirited person he was in school, he was negative and loose about the future, and he didn't care about me. That's enough for me to give up, but the thought of giving up still hurts my heart. I also know it's not worth ......."

Liu Qianzhou looked at the tears hidden by her hanging face, and the girls who love seriously deserve to be treated gently with affection.

So, the only thing you have to do is to keep yourself awake and control yourself not to make the wrong choices. You still have your own parents, even though they are against you emotionally, but they are against it, they must feel that in some way, you are not suitable, and they use their wisdom to see that problems may arise in the future. There is no one in the world who is more willing to expect the happiness of their children than parents. So, listen to your parents' advice. Liu Qianzhou said.

"I know, I understand the truth, but I ......" Li Yuanyuan lowered her head and murmured softly.

Liu Qianzhou gently patted her shoulder: "Time will make your life easier, but it's not a matter of time or time." ”

"I know, thank you, Sister Qianzhou." Li Yuanyuan forced a laugh.

Liu Qianzhou smiled, and Xie Xiaojie and the others finally came over.

"Qianzhou, I brought you a small snack, I heard that they are all small snacks that are only available in this township, try them?" Xie Xiaojie said.

"What is it? I'll take a look, but we've just had dinner. Liu Qianzhou laughed.

"You go eat and see, maybe you should like it." Xie Xiaojie said.

Liu Qianzhou quickly ran into the kitchen, "My brother Song, why haven't you finished brushing the dishes and chopsticks?" Just the two of us, how have you rubbed it up to now? ”