"I think it's delicious at first glance, I don't know how much Song Yiling's girl eats, the pancakes in the morning, I see that your family Zihua has eaten a whole, our family Song Yiling has eaten two bites and put it aside, she has never eaten cakes or anything." Song Pearl said.

Li Liyuan said: "You will see it later, she will definitely eat it." I usually don't eat at home, and I don't have a companion. The child wants to be with the children, and she can eat a lot. ”

"There is still a little prince at home, why don't you have a companion?" Song Pearl said.

Liu Qianzhou asked, "Does she eat in kindergarten?" ”

"I would eat a little, and the teacher still had a way to let her eat more, but she always ate the last one, or the teacher coaxed her with sugar." Song Pearl said: "I don't give sugar at home, but in kindergarten, she can eat sugar as long as she eats, so she will eat it reluctantly." But when we're at home, we can't tempt her with sugar, right? ”

Li Liyuan twisted his eyebrows and said, "That child in Yiling is four years old, right?" They can't eat too much sugar, and they have to change their teeth. ”

"We rarely give sugar to children at home, pine nuts are fine, she eats everything, she eats whatever adults eat, and she can usually eat some fruit. We often tell her that she is still young, she is not qualified to be a picky eater, and when she grows up and can make money on her own, then she is qualified to choose what she likes to eat. Now, adults give what to eat, because she can't make money and is not qualified to be picky. Liu Qianzhou said.

When Song Pearl heard this, she immediately gave Liu Qianzhou a thumbs up: "This is good, I'll try it when I go back." It's time to force her to eat, otherwise she will miss the time to grow her body violently, how can she grow up without nutrition? ”

Liu Qianzhou asked funny: "What you said about forcing her to eat, how did you force her?" ”

Song Pearl said: "I don't know now, if I don't eat when the time comes, I'll tell my aunt to give her a good beating." ”

Liu Qianzhou said: "Can you give it up?" ”

"If you really want to beat her, then you have to hurry, you have to beat her once, so that she can remember it for a while. In the future, she will never dare to skip meals again, and at this age, the effect of beating is far more effective than reasoning. At the age of the child, how can you reason with her? Does she listen to you? She couldn't listen. Li Liyuan said.

Song Pearl is embarrassed, the Song family is not a stick education, the Song family is an extremely strict education.

But when it comes to her own children, strict education no longer works, and she no longer has so much time to discipline her, she is unwilling to let the older generation discipline her own methods to poison her children, and she can't find time to spend with her children, this is the contradiction of their generation.

"Everyone wants their children to learn well and grow up healthy, who wants their children to be naughty and disobedient? But there are some faults that have to be corrected once they are discovered. If you find any bad habits in your child in the future, you should correct them in time. Otherwise, if you don't correct it the first time, she will think that this thing can be done, and she will make mistakes one after another if she is so harmless. However, when you really can't see it anymore and you correct it, can you still correct it? Li Liyuan asked.

"I understand the truth, but sometimes I think, I rarely accompany her at home, she is also very bitter, although she is young, she will be very lonely, and she wants her mother to accompany her. Whenever I get angry and want to punish her heavily, she says that she wants her mother to accompany her, and I have already compromised with one sentence, what else can I do with her? First of all, my mother is not qualified, how can I care about her? Song Pearl sighed, "I know she has a lot of problems, but I can't put down my work and go home to teach her, right?" ”

Li Liyuan said: "Also, the burden on your Song family is too heavy. But you have to learn to let go, and your heart will not be so bitter and tired. Before the child grows up, the responsibility on his shoulders has not been discharged. They are all parents, and everyone understands this feeling. ”

Liu Qianzhou smiled and said, "So, why don't you consider finding a virtuous helper who can help you take care of the relationship between your family, children and parents?" You should find a companion for your child and a warm support. In the family, without the role of the father, there will always be something missing in the life of the child's growing up. Of course, everyone has their own focus on making choices, and I don't have to listen to me, I just want you to think about it, take a step back, in fact, your life is infinitely possible. You are willing to live a life in the countryside, why can't you compromise and take a step back now to make your life easier? ”

Li Liyuan heard something from these words, but she was an elder, so it was not easy for her to ask about it.

So let the aunt over there make a fire, and she started the pancakes first.

"Auntie, don't you have to make this cake first?" Song Pearl asked.

Li Liyuan shook his head: "No, after the pot is hot, just put it into the pot directly, you don't need to pinch it into a ball and flatten it, it's too time-consuming." ”

"My mom, professional." Liu Qianzhou said proudly.

Song Pearl patted Liu Qianzhou's head, "I know, Auntie is a professional." ”

"What kind of professional amateur, I just have been around the stove for decades, and I can always sum up some experience in a few decades, most of which are practice makes perfect." Li Liyuan said.

Aunt Zhang made a fire over there, and the whole house was filled with cigarettes, and in a short time, several people couldn't smoke it.

"Qianqian, you go and help, why hasn't the fire been lit yet." Li Liyuan's hands are clean and can't be touched.

Liu Qianzhou hurriedly stepped forward: "Auntie, I'll come." ”

Aunt Zhang blew the fire, but fortunately it caught fire in the back.

After the pot smoked, pour sesame oil down, spread the oil on the pot noodles, then pinch the dough into the pot, gently press it into a cake, and the whole pot will be full in a while.

After the cakes were put into the pot, Li Liyuan still copied the spatula and began to turn over the cakes from the beginning of the pot, and the heat was mastered very well.

Liu Qianzhou stood on the side, and when he put the sesame oil just now, he had already smelled the incense.

She asked, "Mom, is this fragrance the same as the one I bought from Luohe?" ”

Li Liyuan laughed: "You are also smelling, what do you say, is the fragrance the same?" ”

Liu Qianzhou said: "It seems to be, fragrant, thinking of exploding." ”

Turned to Song Pearl: "Isn't it?" ”

Song Pearl nodded: "The fragrance is indeed very fragrant, but the taste of this vegetable oil is not as good as that of animal oil." ”

"Really?" Liu Qianzhou is a little more wooden, so she can't really eat such details.

Li Liyuan said: "That's ah, where can vegetable oil be compared with animal oil, after all, animal oil is meat, and vegetable oil is vegetarian." ”

Liu Qianzhou suddenly realized, "Oh, that's what it meant." ”

Song Pearl also felt a little stunned when she heard this theory, "Auntie explained it like this, there is nothing wrong, it may really be like this." So animal oil grows fat, vegetable oil is fine. ”

When Liu Qianzhou heard this, he hurriedly asked: "Mom, was the oil used in our family vegetable oil or animal oil?" ”

"Plant, right? Isn't olive oil a plant? Li Liyuan said.

"Oh oh, yes, I forgot about it for a while." Liu Qianzhou turned to Song Pearl and said: "The oil used in our family during this period was sent by me from the Luohe River, and I bought a lot of local products from the mountains, which are also pure farm products, which are more pure than here." Because the people over there are not as rich as here, they won't spend more money to cultivate, everything is primitive, truly primitive. Liu Qianzhou said.

Song Pearl suddenly said: "No wonder your pine nuts are willing to eat, the things at home are delicious." ”

"It should be my mother who is very good at doing it, and she does it for her in different ways. She's clamoring for fries, my mom can toss it for her, what else can't be done? Liu Qianzhou smiled and said: "Her father doesn't eat those fast foods." ”

Song Pearl suddenly said, "Auntie, do you still lack a daughter?" You accept me as your daughter. ”

Liu Qianzhou bumped into her: "You have it, don't you mess with the generation?" ”

Song Pearl said: "This is just the relationship between me and my aunt, and all of you will not be the same." ”

"So what do you want to do? Want to take advantage of my mother? If you think, then move in and live together, and let grandpa and your mother move in with you and live closer. Liu Qianzhou said with a smile.

Li Liyuan wanted to interject several times, but after listening to her daughter's words, she smiled and said, "I want to invite the Pearl family to live in our house." It turns out that this is the meaning, it is good to live closer, and it is convenient for the two families to come and go. ”

Liu Qianzhou laughed: "If they all move to our house, they will definitely not be able to live." However, the house we lived in before was a little smaller, but it was okay, why don't you move in once in a while? ”

Li Liyuan smiled and said, "How can it be done?" It's still a little bit smaller. The Pearl family is two families together, and the side where we originally lived is still a lot smaller. ”

Liu Qianzhou nodded: "Sister-in-law, you can do this by yourself, otherwise, change your current big villa to next to our house?" ”

"You've thought well, why don't you change your house to mine?" Song Pearl asked rhetorically.

"It's a little more convenient for me here." Liu Qianzhou said with a smile.

Song Pearl thought for a moment: "It's not that it's impossible, but there are too many things, and it's a little difficult to sustain when you move." For example, don't the old man and the old lady have a Tai Chi Association? People have to sign in every day, and you ask them to move their nests? How's that going to work? ”

"Oh, grandpa can't move there." Liu Qianzhou understood: "The old people are really nostalgic, and they are reluctant to move around." ”

"Yes, it's not just the old man's business, how close is my home to the company?" Song Pearl said: "Moving to Yungong Tianque, how long will it take to get to the company?" ”

"But you said this, if we move to your side again, Song Cheng will be far away from work. Not only is it far away to work, but it is also far away to go back to Song's house. My mother-in-law had been lobbying us before, telling us not to go home and live together, so we would buy another set to live next to. Song Cheng and I both refused, but did not agree. So, if I hear that I'm going to move to you, what will my mother-in-law think? Liu Qianzhou said.

Song Pearl asked rhetorically: "Why are you unwilling to move back to the Song family?" It was nice to live next to it. ”