Chapter 723: Refusal
Duan Tingting was angry with Liu Qianzhou's words, and she didn't think of how to fight back for a while.
It took a long time to go down, and it took a breath before finally finding his voice.
"I said Qianqian, you don't have to kick the ball to my parents. My parents dragged me to grow up, and now that I am married and have children, why should my parents help my friends raise children? It doesn't make sense, does it? ”
"Isn't this the end of it?"
Liu Qianzhou chuckled: "Tingting, people have always been like this, things don't fall on their heads, they think it's easy, but they really have to fall on their heads, whether it's easy or not, then I know." ”
Duan Tingting's face was still not good, and Liu Qianzhou didn't say much.
She has never been a white lotus who only compromises, even if she does good deeds, she has a degree.
"Tingting, you are kind-hearted and want to help Jin Chendan. But I don't have to be ruthless and ruthless. I just want to say that there must be a degree of help to others, Jin Chendan's children have not yet reached the point where they need us to be raised as friends. You also know why Jin Chendan got in, in order to make her children and her parents live a better life in the future, she must have saved money. Think about it, the money, she has saved it, and there are two old people at home to help take care of the children, and she has money to live, where can we get it? Even if the Jin family's parents can't do it, Duoduo's biological father is still there, and her grandfather is still there, do you say that our friends, are it our turn to take this responsibility? ”
I didn't understand Liu Qianzhou, but Liu Qianzhou moved Duan Tingting.
Duan Tingting sighed: "But you also promised Jin Chendan to help her take care of Duoduo." ”
"But what I'm talking about is to help Duoduo make ideas on major life events in the future, such as going on to higher education, choosing a major, such as dealing with a partner, such as marriage and family in the future, and I will help give advice in this general direction. As for life, I believe that Duoduo's grandparents will not treat her harshly. The child followed her grandparents out when she was young, and she didn't want to go to someone else's house because of her mother's rise for a while. Duoduo is now four or five years old, at this age, do you think the child doesn't understand anything? She follows her relatives, she is happy and secure, why should we be that wicked person? Liu Qianzhou said again.
Duan Tingting nodded lightly, Liu Qianzhou was right.
"I didn't expect that. Duoduo grew up with her grandmother Chen Xuemei, and I think that although her grandparents are from the countryside, they are very fond of their children, after all, they are also their own grandchildren. Regardless of who Duoduo is, he will not be at ease when he follows his grandparents. ”
"If only you figured it out." Liu Qianzhou said.
Duan Tingting sighed: "I just suddenly thought of Jin Chendan, and I remembered that she wanted to get rid of you." At that time, she cried when she saw me, and I really couldn't say anything else. After all, I thought, to live together, if there is no financial pressure, then what is there to refuse? And Duoduo and Songzi are the same age, and they can still be playmates with Songzi, so I thought there was nothing wrong with it. I didn't take into account the fact that your family is too busy. ”
Liu Qianzhou pressed his head lightly: "Jin Chendan, I know why she doesn't want her children to follow her parents, but she doesn't want to raise Duoduo into another Jin Chendan." She herself has already failed, so she tries her best to send Duoduo to someone else's house. This kind of mother, who gives birth to herself but is unwilling to be responsible, still relies on others to raise her children. In her life, how can she expect it. ”
Duan Tingting said in a low voice: "Qianqian, let's not talk about Jin Chendan, let's talk about something else." Said her, she was bored. Sometimes I think, after all, we are old friends who have known each other for ten years, ten years. But sometimes thinking about what she did, I really didn't want to pay more attention to her. ”
Liu Qianzhou smiled, Jin Chendan's matter, she will never regress and let go.
She resolutely does not oppose good people and good deeds, but this good person and good deeds must have a bottom line, right?
"Well, is the baby name ready?" Liu Qianzhou diverted the topic and asked.
"The nickname is good, the first thing my mother-in-law said was called Little Pearl, as soon as I heard Pearl, it wasn't the same name as your Song family's Miss Song. Quickly changed it again, and now it's called Little Goldfish for the time being, if it's a male treasure, it's a small leather ball. Duan Tingting said.
Liu Qianzhou couldn't help laughing: "Little leather ball, this is too cute." But it's good, it's just that if it's a male treasure, won't it be too skinny to call him a small ball? ”
"Huh?" Duan Tingting immediately raised her eyes and was stunned: "I really haven't thought about this." But I'm a little worried about that. My husband has a child in his relative's family, almost two or three years old, and the boy, that skin, is really a typical bear child. ”
Liu Qianzhou hurriedly said: "Don't worry too much, it's better for a boy to be skinny than to be stuffy and not speak." Children need to be liberated from their nature. ”
Duan Tingting waved her hand: "It doesn't matter if the skin is a little bit, I'm afraid that the child will grow into a bear child." I'll tell you about my husband's relative's house, as soon as we went in, the kid didn't carry a stool for us to sit on, he hit me in the stomach with a stool. Think about it, isn't that kid scary? We went in, we had to go out, let's have a meal together at noon, we had to eat, we had to go out, we were not allowed to eat, otherwise we would cry and grab the ground. I looked at their family, and they really raised that child too tricky, jumping around on the bed with shoes on, and my eyelids hurt when I saw it. When I came back, my husband told me that if our child was a boy in the future, he would be so disobedient and ignorant, so he slapped him directly without hesitation. ”
"That's what parents are used to, and my family doesn't think there's anything. Seeing that the child is too young, he can be good to the child and raise such a temperament. Liu Qianzhou said.
Duan Tingting immediately echoed: "Yes, isn't it that everyone else in the family is a girl, and he gave birth to a son in his cousin's family, so he treated that child as a treasure and raised him lawlessly." How old is that? It's only two or three years old, it's terrible, jumping and beating on his grandparents, and when he is older, if he doesn't stab his family with a knife, his family won't be held accountable. ”
Liu Qianzhou sighed when he heard this, "There are indeed some defects in domestic education, most of which are caused by the older generation. ”
Duan Tingting raised her eyes slightly, a little unhappy with Liu Qianzhou's words.
Because she seemed to hear a sense of superiority from Liu Qianzhou's words.
She couldn't help but say: "Qianqian, you are still Chinese, so you respect foreign countries?" Worship the foreign? ”
Liu Qianzhou had a few question marks on his head, and he didn't understand what Duan Tingting meant by this.
"I just mentioned it, how is it good abroad?" Liu Qianzhou asked rhetorically.
Duan Tingting said directly: "You just said, how is domestic education, and the implication is, how good is foreign education?" ”
"I don't say domestic, how can I say it? Yes, I probably have another layer in my words that recognizes the way foreign parents raise their children, but so what. We won't, turn our heads and learn from others, why don't we admit our shortcomings? Liu Qianzhou's tone was a little colder.
She is definitely a brain-dead fan of the motherland, even if she works abroad, she is absolutely wholeheartedly supportive of the motherland.
In such a long time abroad, she has never done anything to disdain or slander the Chinese people, and she is proud to introduce herself as Chinese in any introduction. She does not admire foreign flattery, but she recognizes the advanced ideological concepts and knowledge systems of foreign countries, and she recognizes that she is not as good as others to learn, and she also learns very carefully, because it is the Chinese themselves who learn back.
She will not be arrogant to think that I come from China with more than 5,000 years of cultural heritage, and I disdain to learn from your foreign things. No, Liu Qianzhou is definitely the kind of person who humbly asks for help.
I won't, I'm not ashamed, isn't she studying abroad just to learn more powerful knowledge from others?
Duan Tingting paused, put down her chopsticks and looked at Liu Qianzhou.
"Qianqian, let's talk about something else, I didn't mean that, you know?"
Xu Shixia said "um", "Okay, my tone is too rushed, it may have something to do with being too tired recently, and I didn't sleep well last night." I'm sorry, but you're about to give birth, and I'm sure I'm more anxious than I am. So, once we have a conflicting and ambiguous topic, we should stop it immediately, so as not to hurt each other's feelings, how about it? ”
When Duan Tingting heard this, the pent-up anger in her heart a moment ago instantly dissipated.
Silent and laughed, "Well, I've scolded many times in my heart for having no conscience, I came to you with such a big belly, and you still quarrel with me, if you fight with me again, I'm going to flip the table." ”
Liu Qianzhou smiled: "Okay, I'll let you, let you, okay?" ”
Duan Tingting also laughed: "Okay, I may have resigned and panicked at home, so I'm too irritable, you can take care of it." It's been a long time since we've seen each other, and I don't want to be unhappy when we meet. It is said that it is the friends who go to the end. We, how many friends we have when we enter the school gate, and we are left with each other as we walk. Qianqian, I hope we can always be like this and not separate. I hope that your work will continue well, that I myself will live happily and smoothly, and that our lives will be smooth. ”
"Okay, there's no need for the topic to become sensational again." Liu Qianzhou said.
Duan Tingting waved her hand: "Let's not talk about things related to us, let's talk about other people's things." Speaking of myself, I always feel very bad, let's talk about others. ”
"Well, I can also see that you have been bored for too long, if you hadn't come out with your child, I'm afraid you would have let yourself go a long time ago." Liu Qianzhou said with a smile.
Duan Tingting sighed: "Alas, I really want to let myself go, but who made me unable to fly at the moment." ”
"Bear with it, it's less than three months, and it's gone in the blink of an eye." Liu Qianzhou said with a smile.
Duan Tingting looked at Liu Qianzhou: "You said you came back this time, didn't you go back so soon?" That's because I'm going to stay in Yundu for a while, is it because of the Song family's affairs, that's why I stayed for so long? ”