Chapter 862: Persuasion
"Tingting, I can use all my abilities to meet the needs of you and your children. But this is within my ability, beyond what our family can afford, and I want to give it to you, but I can't give it. We can't slap a swollen face and become fat, okay? Ji Hanliang said in a consultative tone.
Duan Tingting smiled and shook her head: "I was just thinking about why I can't give what others can give to children." I can't enjoy it myself, but I want my children to be able to enjoy it. Ji Hanliang, this money is not spent on yours, why do you need to say it here? I didn't spend a penny on you, I wanted to buy something good for me and my children, so I bought it. Otherwise, I will follow you and I will eat poorly and wear poorly, and you will still let my baby suffer with a father like you who is reluctant to spend money for him? You are willing, I am very reluctant, Ji Hanliang I will tell you, the child is mine, I have the final say on what I want to give him, I don't need you to point fingers at me. If you think I'm spending too much money, and you want me and the baby, you can make money for me, and raising a family and children is your man's business. Even if you don't have the ability, you still limit me? ”
Ji Mu immediately stepped forward and said, "Tingting, how can you say this?" You are our daughter-in-law, and your money is our family's money. The money that Han Liang made by getting up early and greedy for darkness is, of course, yours. Tingting, think about it, our family is not rich, but since you entered the door, as long as I can get something out of my family, which one is stingy? Everything that is good is left for you, a piece of ribs is left for you to eat, and the best things are for you. It's so inappropriate for you to say such things now. I am your mother-in-law, not your own mother, if you say this in your mother's house, think about it, how much will it hurt your parents' hearts? ”
What Ji Mu meant by this was that they were very sad now.
Isn't this just raising a white-eyed wolf?
Whatever good things were given to her, what about her? Now the family is still speaking two words.
Ji's mother was very disappointed, thinking that after Liu Qianzhou appeared today, she persuaded her that it would be better, but she didn't expect it......
It has intensified, and it is more chilling than in the past.
Duan Tingting looked at the family in front of her, and sneered in her heart, this baby in her belly is really a trump card, at such a time, the whole family has to revolve around her.
But she only communicated with Liu Qianzhou today, and her way of hurting her family and regretting herself was wrong, and she knew that she had to change.
She was silent for a long time, then took a deep breath.
Ji Hanliang also calmed down for a while, and then said, "Tingting, let's talk about ......."
"Are you still eating barbecue? If you don't eat it, forget it, I'll go back to my room and sleep! Duan Tingting said angrily.
When Ji Mu heard it, "Do you want to go out to eat barbecue?" ”
Father Ji's heart hurts, he has already spent so much money today, and he still wants to go out to eat barbecue?
Ji Hanliang said: "Yes, didn't I call you specifically to tell you?" We don't have to cook both of us, we're going to go out to eat. Mom, did you cook ours? ”
Ji's mother opened her mouth, she knew that she was going out to eat, but she thought it was the whole family going out to eat, and she didn't hear it clearly. It turned out that the two of them went out to eat by themselves, and Ji's mother sighed.
"I didn't cook it, you called and said, can I still cook it? Isn't it a waste if it's boiled and no one eats it? ”
Now in this situation at home, how can it be wasted casually.
It's just that she wanted to say something, and she didn't pay attention to the whole family.
Ji Hanliang looked at Duan Tingting again: "Tingting, listen to me, huh?" Let's leave something behind and return if we don't need to, okay? ”
Ji Hanliang has a very compromised attitude, in the past, he would definitely slam the door and leave, and he might be able to do it.
Duan Tingting's eyes were cold: "Then what are you saying that it's useless?" I picked an afternoon and everything was very important. I've been very restrained in bringing these things. ”
Ji Hanliang pointed to the crib and said, "That small bed, I can assure you that the child will not be used for two or three years after birth." ”
"How could it not be used? Don't babies have to sleep, they are held 24 hours a day? You can hold it for 24 hours, okay, we'll go back, but what if your family can't hold it for 24 hours? Sleeping on the couch? Duan Tingting retorted.
Ji Hanliang was stunned: "Little fool, you are willing to let our children sleep on the sofa, I don't want to." If you think about it, the two of us have such a big bed, of course the child sleeps with us. Who do you see babies and toddlers sleeping on their own? Before children go to kindergarten, they sleep with adults. Only after he is sensible will he develop his independence. Those who sell products, just to sell you something, can say anything. Think about it, are you willing to let such a small baby sleep alone in a small bed? Babies are the most insecure when they first make a sound, and they must sleep with their parents, or their grandparents, do you understand? ”
When Duan Tingting heard it, yes, that's the truth.
How can a baby sleep alone when he is so small?
She had already thought about this problem when she bought it, and she didn't seem to have heard of any toddler sleeping on their own.
"However, even if the baby is three years old, the small bed can be sleeped, I just bought it in advance." Duan Tingting said.
Yes, that's what Liu Qianzhou said.
Liu Qianzhou said that a bed can accompany a child throughout his childhood, since he was a child.
Their pine nuts still sleep in her small bed, and they can sleep for more than three or four years, as long as the height of the child does not exceed the length of the bed.
Ji Hanliang said: "Put it at home for a few years, put sundries?" Wife, listen to me, this thing is placed at home, first, to occupy space, and second, to be vacant for three years, and it is very likely that it will rust when it is used again. A cot is definitely needed, but why not wait for your baby to grow up and buy it when you need it? Our house is not very spacious, and if you think about it, if you really stay, it will only be on the balcony. Such an expensive thing, are you willing to put it on the balcony? ”
Duan Tingting's eyes straightened, and she shook her head: "No." ”‘
"So what? Shall I return it? Ji Hanliang said again.
Duan Tingting was silent, and then nodded slightly, "Okay, it's okay to buy it after you return." But I'm afraid that if I buy it later, I won't have such a good opportunity and such a good bed. I'll tell you how good this bed is, it also comes with a Bluetooth speaker, and there are various modes, sleep mode, a lot of functions......"
"Okay, okay Tingting, I know. There is already such an advanced small bed today, and this small bed will definitely be popular in three years, and it will be cheaper, and the cost performance will be higher at that time, mainly until then we need it, don't you say? Ji Hanliang interrupted Duan Tingting.
"Okay, then let's get back." Duan Tingting spread her hands and compromised.
Ji's father and Ji's mother were overjoyed, and nodded as if they looked at each other, or their son had a way.
Duan Tingting said again: "Then you can only retreat this small bed, and nothing else can be retreated." ”
Ji Mugang's smiling face instantly became gloomy again.
Ji Hanliang took a deep breath: "I think this milk powder has to be returned, let's keep a can, or don't have to keep it." The child is born with breast milk, when can the milk powder be drunk? ”
"Qianqian said that it can be drunk with milk powder......"
"Liu Qianzhou, she has never given birth to a child, has their daughter been adopted home and drank a sip of breast milk? It's all milk powder. ”
Ji Hanliang couldn't help but speak, but as soon as these words came out, he then lowered his tone.
He said: "Tingting, it's not that I want to talk about you, I don't mean that." But you must know that our children have the condition to drink breast milk, and only if the mother is sick and cannot feed the child breast milk, the doctor will recommend drinking milk. I haven't heard of newborns who drink breast milk or not, but drink milk powder, don't you feel distressed? Resistance and immunity are in breast milk, which cannot be given even the best milk powder. ”
Duan Tingting stopped talking, she knew that what Ji Hanliang put on the bedside was pregnancy knowledge, parenting books, early education, etc., what he said was still credible.
Before she was pregnant, Duan Tingting had also heard that breast milk was much better than milk powder, and some breastfed until she was four or five years old, and she thought it was very exaggerated when she heard it.
Ji Hanliang said: "So, this box of milk powder has to be returned." This milk powder is sold so expensive, it must be a very good thing. But no matter how good things are, they are not as good as breast milk, Tingting, don't be taken by Liu Qianzhou, she is not a real mother, what does she know? A local tyrant like their family, she doesn't buy what others recommend, she hasn't experienced it, can she know? ”
Duan Tingting raised her eyes and looked at Ji Hanliang, she was not happy that Ji Hanliang had this tone every time he talked about his friends.
Who are you to comment on others? What confidence do you have to look down on others?
But this time, Ji Hanliang's words do have a certain amount of truth.
"If you can do it, don't talk about my friend." Duan Tingting said.
Ji Hanliang looked at her: "Did I mean to say her?" I'm just not happy that she took my wife into the ditch. She is not a normal mother, she has never given birth to a child herself, all the so-called experience is hearsay, and you can't listen to what she says. ”
Ji's mother hurriedly interjected: "Tingting, that child in Qianzhou is enthusiastic and kind, and I like it very much." But when it comes to childbirth, she really doesn't understand. If a woman has given birth to a child, she is not strictly a mother. You see, she was very honest and lovingly adopted a child. But you see that her children are all three years old and go to kindergarten, what has she done for her children? Didn't you put it at home for her mother? Tingting, just ask yourself, if after the child is born, let you leave the child to find a job in another city for work, will you go? ”
Duan Tingting didn't speak, but it was absolutely impossible for her to agree in her heart.
She wants to go somewhere else to make a living, and unless she takes her children with her, she can't really leave them behind.
Liu Qianzhou has been abroad for most of the past two years, so ruthlessly can leave the child, perhaps a big reason is that the child is not biological.
It's not that she doesn't love children, it's that she doesn't love enough, there is no blood thicker than water, and there is no kind of life bond, so she walks chicly, so she can say that she loves children very much and leaves at the same time.