Chapter 696: Heart-to-Heart Talk
"Some children are just different, and they all have more ideas."
Mrs. Yuan continued, these were all things she had already experienced, but now she thought back to her previous life with children.
"I was pregnant with a baby before, and it was difficult for him to be wireless, and I didn't like it, and I couldn't do it, although I knew that I didn't want to eat it because of my own reasons, but there was no way to control it."
"Yes, I feel this way now, I obviously don't want to care about it, but I can't help it."
Mrs. Yuan and Bai Zhufeng didn't say that they had the embarrassment of meeting for the first time, presumably Mrs. Yuan was like a big sister.
Bai Zhufeng didn't know how to express his current thoughts.
When the two of them were talking happily, suddenly Bai Momo came over, in fact, Bai Zhufeng didn't expect Bai Momo to come back today, and she was still a little worried about whether it would be unsuitable for such an atmosphere.
Now at this time, Bai Zhufeng is thinking more and more, obviously it is something he didn't care about at the beginning, and now he is also thinking about it. But it's useless to think about it, it's just a burden on yourself.
"Bamboo Wind ......"
Bai Momo doesn't know the person in front of him, he has always come to be introduced by Leng Zhi by his side, today Leng Zhi is suddenly not around, Bai Momo is a little unaccustomed, fortunately Bai Zhufeng is here now.
"Momo. Why didn't you come here too, why didn't you say a word to me when you came out today? ”
Bai Zhufeng was a little relieved to see Bai Momo, she really hoped that Bai Momo could attend such a party, maybe she could think of some of her own thoughts when she was not really alone in the face of coldness.
I can clearly know what I'm doing now, and I don't need to compromise for one person.
"I didn't know I was going to come here at first, but I didn't know until I came."
Bai Momo didn't explain so much, firstly, there were strangers there, and secondly, Bai Momo felt that he didn't explain too much to Bai Zhufeng now, and Bai Zhufeng would understand himself.
"By the way, let me introduce you, this is Mrs. Yuan, you came with Leng Zhi just now, you should have met Yuan Shao."
I would have felt a little embarrassed, but now that the three of us are better together, at least there will be no refrigeration.
"Hello, Mrs. Yuan, it's a pleasure to meet you."
Bai Momo greeted generously, some things may not be liked by me and I don't understand it, but Bai Momo still wants to show the best of herself in front of others.
Mrs. Yuan has attended various occasions, and it can be said that she has seen all kinds of people, and she still likes Bai Zhufeng and Bai Momo.
"There are no outsiders here, there is no need for so much etiquette, just be yourself."
Mrs. Yuan is like a big sister, so Bai Zhufeng and Bai Momo don't feel any pressure at all.
"Well, Mrs. Yuan, you have now lived with Mr. Yuan for seven years, but I see that your relationship seems to be very good, and there seems to be no problem at all."
For Bai Zhufeng and Bai Momo, this can be regarded as a science, after all, there are not many people who can persist in such a long relationship.
Mrs. Yuan gently took a sip of the coffee in front of her, and continued: "There are many problems in life, but there are not many real designs to feelings. ”
"Mr. Yuan is really a model, there are not many such people now, and more people can't find a sense of security, probably because the other half can't make a decision so easily."
Bai Zhufeng said that in the current world of feelings, the other party may want you to choose and do what you think because they like you and love you.
But sometimes, there is a deviation between our goals and what we think, and the other party can't understand it, and maybe one day we really separate, but we don't know why.
"What you said is not unreasonable, but this is not the active factor, many people break up because of insecurity. This is understandable. ”
Nowadays, people rarely have a sense of security, it is precisely this sense of security that they give themselves, and others can give very little, even if others are willing to give, but can you accept it wholeheartedly?
"Zhufeng, do you have a time when you don't believe in Mo Shao now?"
Mrs. Yuan continued, now that Bai Zhufeng is an extraordinary period, Mrs. Yuan wants to know all the thoughts about Bai Zhufeng, in this way, even if Bai Zhufeng is a little unwilling, she can help Bai Zhufeng.
Bai Zhufeng thought about it for a long time, and it seemed that there was no time when he didn't like Mojingshu, but every time he was bored and angry.
"I didn't."
Bai Zhufeng said with certainty, in fact, there are many emotional problems between two people, and they need to be solved by each other, and this is not something that a third party can help.
"Then you're okay, in fact, because you don't believe, don't care, and don't be satisfied, there are countless lovers who break up, but in fact, sometimes there is still a lack of communication, if you can communicate well, this kind of problem will not occur."
Mrs. Yuan is experienced, most people don't think about it when they break up, it's noisy, where can they still have the heart to calm down, think about what they want, why they want to quarrel now.
"Mrs. Yuan is right, how did you and Mr. Yuan meet?"
Bai Momo likes Mrs. Yuan very much, firstly, because she thinks this woman is smarter, and secondly, because she thinks there is something to talk about.
Mrs. Yuan was a little shy, this question was between the two of them, and she had never said it in front of her for so many years.
Mrs. Yuan began to fall into the memories.
At the beginning, Mrs. Yuan was a designer, just a college student, but Yuan Shao was just a rich second generation, studying in school, and was not the current company president.
It's a bit literary and artistic, and it's a little clear that Mrs. Yuan doesn't like the rich second generation like Yuan Shao, and even thinks this is a derogatory term.
For Yuan Shao's most request, she refused if she could, at the beginning, Yuan Shao may just have a playful mentality and didn't take it seriously.
But then I chased after it, and I seemed to feel that it was a habit, and it was a little uncomfortable not to see people for a day.
Mrs. Yuan didn't have so many thoughts at that time, if she liked it, she liked it, and if she didn't like it, she didn't think about Yuan Shao at all.
At that time, although I was not too rich, I had something I liked to do, and a person who could struggle, and I didn't want to think about feelings for the time being.
Yuan Shao is not the kind of person who will give up, if he can't do it once, he will come twice, anyway, after a long time, he will definitely accept it, this is a protracted battle, anyway, it must be Yuan Shao who wins in the end.
Just when he was about to know the answer, an accident happened, Yuan Shao's family suddenly his father was sick, and Yuan Shao had to return to China from a foreign country, in fact, Mrs. Yuan at that time already had Yuan Shao's shadow in her heart.
I was still thinking that if Yuan Shao confessed once when he was angry, Mrs. Yuan was ready to agree.
But after waiting for a long time, Yuan Shao didn't come back, and Mrs. Yuan was basically in a state of giving up, and she was a little unhappy in her heart.
even secretly swore that if Yuan Shao continued to pursue, he would definitely not agree.
Just a week after Yuan Shao left, Mrs. Yuan suddenly wanted to participate in a competition, and the whole competition was in the city where Yuan Shao was, but in fact, Mrs. Yuan didn't care much about this matter at the beginning.
Originally, I didn't want to participate, but because of the honor of the school, I had to give up, and Mrs. Yuan had no choice but to go.
But what I didn't expect was to meet Yuan Shao here, and when the two of them met, they were surprised and embarrassed.
Before Yuan Shao could speak, he explained why he left and when he would go back, and this belated confession came to an end in this small city.
Mrs. Yuan was done in this way, but the important thing is to get along with each other later.
In fact, it is very simple to get something, and it is important to maintain it. I just want it to be a relationship, if it's well managed, it can go far, and if it's not good, it may end at any time.
Bai Zhufeng felt that Yuan Shao and Mrs. Yuan's acquaintance was very exciting, and he was a little envious.
"So, are you feeling a little better now?"
Mrs. Yuan didn't want to talk about these things about herself, but seeing Bai Zhufeng smiling sweetly, she was relieved, so she didn't have any tendency to depression.
"It's much better, many things, I may be scared and overwhelmed, but when we really come, we still know how to deal with it."
Bai Zhufeng didn't know whether to comfort himself or want to explain something.
"So I told you that you don't need to be too afraid, if it is like this, the things you encounter will be very good, you will force yourself very tired, and you don't even know how to face Mo Shao in the end?"
Bai Zhufeng thought about it for a while, and what Mrs. Yuan said seemed to be correct, but these things that he could think of were so difficult to do.
Bai Momo is an eye-opener, and he agrees with what Mrs. Yuan said very well and the theory.
"I don't want to think about it so much now, I just want my child to be born healthy."
"As long as you're in a good mood all the time, your child won't be too bad."
Mrs. Yuan said, not waiting for Bai Zhufeng to respond, she continued.
"I can tell you a good way to release stress, just like now, when you come out for a vacation, you can let Mo Shao drive you out to blow the wind in the car."
It's different for everyone, but she prefers it.
Bai Zhufeng also figured it out, nothing is important now that there are no children, she has to take good care of herself.