Li Liyuan said with a smile: "It's not that I'm here to cause trouble, after all, everyone is an adult, but they may all be people who do things, and there will be differences when doing things." But your wife is a broad-hearted person, and her attitude is really good at her age, so she should live well by herself, and don't bother her with anything else. But the children have already been born, so they should still be on their hearts, after all, they are their own blood. ”

Aunt Zhang smiled, "This is also true, but although the child is flesh and blood, it doesn't come out of his belly after all, right?" If you haven't experienced the pregnancy in October, you will naturally have less love for the child, because the child is too easy to come by, and it may be ...... Alas, this is also the wife's business, and it is really difficult for us to talk about it. ”

Li Liyuan said with a smile: "I understand, I can move the difficulties that your aunt does at home, you overstep your authority if you manage too much, and you don't fulfill your responsibilities if you manage less, in short, some people say you anyway." ”

Aunt Zhang felt that Li Liyuan was really right, "Not everyone understands this truth, the master hands over the child to you, not only wants the child not to be treated harshly, but also wants the child to be obedient and sensible, and will not understand us with children." Therefore, as a housekeeping nanny, taking care of children is the most tiring job, the most tiring work. This must be more tiring than going out to move bricks or something, this tiredness, it is not only tiring the body. I have to be blamed by the host from time to time, and we can't explain much. If you want to say that you don't care, if you don't give feedback to the host about the child's true situation, it will be too irresponsible for the child. But you want the host to take care of it, but the host wants you to be more responsible. You said that we are outsiders after all, how can we raise your children? ”

"Yes, there are difficulties." Li Liyuan answered.

It's really hard to say about the four-room thing, what can I do?

The old man is too old, you can't ask the two old men to come to see the child at this age, then the old lady of the Song family is eighty years old this year, you let an octogenarian old lady come to see the child? It's too unfilial.

Aunt Zhang sighed: "So how much of our work would rather take care of the elderly than take care of the children." As long as the elderly are not demented, they don't know anything, how easy it is, talk and chat with the elderly, go out for a walk together, right, how beautiful the life is. Only by taking care of such people can you do this work seriously, listen to songs, watch movies, read newspapers to the elderly, and exchange heartfelt services. But you have a lot of enthusiasm, and in the face of a three- or four-year-old child, you really can't do anything. ”

Li Liyuan smiled: "Yes, there is no place for it. She doesn't listen to the child, she doesn't listen, she just doesn't understand, it's rare to listen to your reasoning, she is happy to talk about it. I can understand, I heard you say this now, and I am worried about you. It's really difficult for you to be in this position, not to say that you are not doing well, but it is indeed very difficult. ”

Aunt Zhang said: "It's the same, but ah, the situation of the Song family is different, after all, Miss Song has to support the whole family by herself, there is no man in the family, there are two old people above, the situation of the Song family, I also know a little bit, the old lady only got Miss Song at that age, and now she just has a little prince." Only Miss Song and the little prince are of the same blood, so she has to shoulder the responsibility of taking care of her younger brother. However, before the child grows up, how much effort does it take. The old man of the Song family is old, Miss Song has to go out for the life of the family, the glamour in front of people is only one-sided, who can see what she looks like in the future? ”

Liu Qianzhou answered in a low voice: "Yes, my sister-in-law is indeed very tired, a strong woman, it's not that she has strong work ability, it's that she has a strong personality and refuses to admit defeat." She is willing to let go and take a breath by herself, and she will not let herself be so tired. is a very responsible woman, the Song family basically has this characteristic, and she is very affordable. ”

"Who's to say it isn't? The old lady can live there for a period of time with the children of each family, the old lady likes to be lively, you said that if Miss Song gets rid of the two old people at home, how relaxed will she be? I can also teach the children better by taking care of Yiling alone. Soon after the child was born, I came to the Song family, and I brought up this child, and I was reluctant to do so. But the wife refused to leave, she wanted to live with her daughter, and she was uncomfortable going to someone else's house. The old lady couldn't help it, whatever his wife said, he could only rely on it. Aunt Zhang sighed.

Li Liyuan asked: "Then why didn't the old lady persuade your wife?" The two of them should discuss this matter and don't add to the burden on the child. I lived in each house for three months and a half, and my life was very comfortable. Why is my wife unwilling? She didn't want to, and Old Lady Song should also persuade her more, stay with the pearl, and see how tired the pearl is, and how much pressure she has on her body. ”

Aunt Zhang thought for a while: "I am a domestic helper, I really don't know how the master's family thinks about it, but I heard the old lady say it once, he said that he has reached the age of knowing the destiny of heaven, and how long he can live depends on God's face." Therefore, he will cherish it if he can accompany his wife for one more day in his limited life, and he will follow whatever his wife says, no matter what he does. may just feel that he doesn't have much time left, so he didn't persuade his wife, but just blindly followed his wife. ”

"The relationship between Mrs. Song and his wife is also enviable." Li Liyuan sighed.

"Who's to say it isn't? The old lady was worried that after he left, no one would follow the old lady like him, so he now used everything to follow the old lady. Aunt Zhang said.

Liu Qianzhou couldn't help but say: "Listening to my tears, it's so good, at the end of life, there is a lifelong love by your side, with the end of your life, this is the happiest feeling in the world." ”

Aunt Zhang sighed: "Because of this situation, I endured it when I heard Miss Song say some complaining words." I'm also wronged, when I hugged her for the first time in Yiling, it was so big, and now I can't hold it. The child is like my own granddaughter, can I not hope that she will be well? I definitely want her to be good, but I can't be too my child. The child is innocent and cute, and she still has no idea what is good for her and what is bad. I murdered her today, she didn't think it was for her good, she would think that I was murdering her and abusing her, and she immediately sued her when she saw her mother......"

Aunt Zhang sighed, looking at Song Yiling's eyes were all distressed, it was really emotional.

Liu Qianzhou held his face and said: "Actually, the child is obedient, but the problem of eating is not solved well." Can we all eat at the same table? Together with my wife and grandfather, please forgive the two old people, the children are their own. ”

Aunt Zhang waved her hand: "Mrs. can't see that the child is disobedient, she really doesn't want to care about that." ”

Liu Qianzhou sighed slightly at the moment, "Yes, it's mainly the attitude of the little lady." She may really love her because the child didn't come out of her belly. I don't know if she had the same attitude when she gave birth to Aunt Pearl, shouldn't it be, the little lady was still young at that time. ”

Li Liyuan said: "Women in the world will become soft after becoming mothers, which is indeed true." But there are also a small number of people who are indifferent to their children. Not only to other people's children, but also to her own children, she is also indifferent to her own children, as is the case. Or she didn't get much love when she was a child, so she didn't care enough about her children. ”

Aunt Zhang smiled: "This is my wife's business, I'm a domestic helper, it's not easy to say." ”

Liu Qianzhou said in a timely manner: "Auntie, although you are working in this family as a domestic helper, you will be a part of this family from the day you enter this family." Don't always talk about yourself with such an attitude, you are also a member of the family, don't treat yourself as an outsider in the future. I don't think my aunt ever treated you as an outsider, let alone the children. If you don't believe it, ask Song Yiling, who is in the family. ”

Li Liyuan smiled and called Song Yiling, who was eating happily over there: "Yiling, Yiling, grandma asked you, who are you in your family?" ”

Song Yiling was poking the chicken leg with Songzi, and when she heard someone calling her, she turned her head to look over, paused, and counted her fingers one by one.

"Mom, aunt, me, and grandpa, grandma, and Song Yu." Song Yiling laughed, and Song Yu said, "And my Aunt Yuan." ”

Song Yiling nodded: "And Aunt Yuan." ”

Gesturing his hands, "There are so many." ”

Liu Qianzhou nodded: "It's okay, let's eat quickly." ”

Looking at Aunt Zhang again, Aunt Zhang was moved to tears, "I knew that this child was sensible, Yiling this child is very smart, I remember one time, I was cooking noodles for her, she took the tomatoes to be boiled and gnawed, I was going to take it and cut it, and I found that I took a bite of it, so I asked her if it was her, and she admitted it." When I used a knife to cut off the place where she was gnawing, I cut my hand, and blood came out all of a sudden, and then Song Yiling saw it and cried there. Say, 'Auntie, why are you bleeding?' How are you bleeding? Will you die, you don't want to die, I don't want you to die', really crying and shouting, very sad. I was funny and helpless, but my heart was really warm. Sometimes my own children don't do that to themselves, but Yiling will care about you so much, care about you. Sometimes I tell her to be disobedient, and I can't help it, so I just walk away, not planning to discipline her more. She played by herself for a while, then came up to me, whispered to me that she would never be naughty again, told me not to be angry, patted me on the shoulder, and coaxed me like she was sleeping. It's heartwarming to think about it now. People have feelings, I have taken her for so long, she treats me as family, and of course I treat her as my little granddaughter. “

Liu Qianzhou was emotionally moved when he heard this, and suddenly said to his mother: "Mom, in fact, sister-in-law, they can really consider moving me closer to us, right?" In the future, it will be the same as now, the children will eat with us, and my wife will not want to go to other houses, but she should have nothing to worry about our family, and it should not be too uncomfortable to live close to us, right? ”