Chapter 836: Indispensable self-confidence
A while ago, Songzi said that he wanted to raise pets in the back, and he also wanted to grow sweet potatoes and vegetables outside, which was obviously the idea of his mother Li Liyuan. Let Songzi tell Liu Qianzhou that Liu Qianzhou refused to have a pet and allowed a corner of the courtyard to grow vegetables.
So now the back of their villa is not like a small garden, but like a vegetable patch.
There is a rocking chair under the vine trellis, and there are small stone benches and stone tables in front of it.
Liu Qianzhou pulled Ping Zihua into the small courtyard and took him to sit on a rocking chair under the flower vines.
Ping Zihua looked left and right, he didn't know that there was a garden behind the house, and he suddenly felt magical.
And it's night, and the street lamps on the ground around the path of ground plants, hedges, and flower beds at night are very mysterious.
Ping Zihua didn't sit down, he walked around the courtyard by himself, and then sat on the stone bench opposite Liu Qianzhou.
Liu Qianzhou wanted to remind him that maybe the stone bench was not very clean.
Because the stone bench and stone table are not favored, it feels like an ornament, and the family members come out and sit in rocking chairs. That set of stone tables and stone benches, Liu Qianzhou wanted people to get them away a long time ago, purely to occupy space.
Liu Qianzhou said: "Zihua, aren't you very happy today?" ”
Ping Zihua shook his head: "No, I'm very happy, thank you, mother." ”
Liu Qianzhou looked at him and enlightened him with his heart: "Actually, I know that you may not be suitable for here for a while, after all, there are no friends of you here, and the only one you are familiar with is me, but I am not a boy." Zihua, although you are still a child, you are already eight years old, and you will be almost nine years old soon. In your village, eight or nine-year-old children are not small, right? So, from this moment on, you have to learn to really grow up and become strong. When I say powerful, I don't just want you to eat more and grow taller quickly. It's about being strong on your heart, and you have to be very confident. I would love to be your mother and share everything I have with you. What I give to Songzi, I am willing to give it to you without reservation. I have created much better conditions for you than you once had, in order not only to raise you as simple as that, I hope you can have a good life, and you can shoulder your responsibilities. Everything in the future, how far you can go, how high you can stand, it depends on yourself. We will remove all obstacles on your way to growth, but the road ahead still needs you to walk on your own. ”
Ping Zihua nodded: "I know, I will work hard." ”
"Do you mean to study hard? No, you have to be strong in your heart, you have to be very strong, very strong. Now you have to spend everything on your own. For example, if you come to this new environment, you will encounter a lot of things that you haven't encountered before. Fresh, funny, or unfair, angry, many, many. These things need to be digested by yourself, understand? Liu Qianzhou's words changed and went straight to the point she wanted to say.
Ping Zihua raised his eyes and looked at Liu Qianzhou blankly.
Liu Qianzhou paused for a moment, then continued: "For example, if you talk about tonight's incident, if a waiter says a few words, you will be hit with confidence, no, this is absolutely not good." You're going to buy something, have you ever heard a saying that 'the customer is God'? It means that the people we buy things are the people they buy things from, and I am God, so why do they say about us? They are not eligible. Zihua, you have to remember that even if you are nothing, you have nothing, you must be arrogant and not be slandered, because you are the son of Song Cheng, because you have regained your life, you have to be confident. In the future, you must not let any random person blow your confidence, understand? ”
Ping Zihua looked at Liu Qianzhou, thoughtful, and then nodded seriously.
"Good!"
Liu Qianzhou finally laughed: "You have to always remember what I say tonight." You are Song Cheng's son, how powerful Song Cheng is, do you know? ”
Ping Zihua shook his head and nodded, and Liu Qianzhou said: "You just need to remember that you have a very great father, who is a big man who built schools for your three towns and eighteen villages, then that's fine." ”
Ping Zihua was suddenly surprised, that legendary big man was his father?
He had always heard them call his father Boss Song, but there were so many bosses, and he never thought that the real boss would go to their poor and remote village.
Ping Zihua looked at Liu Qianzhou in shock, and only spoke up for a while.
"Remembered."
He will remember this for a lifetime, and he will remember it for a lifetime and will not forget it.
His father is not only his benefactor, but also their great benefactor in the entire Luohe Village. How could he have this opportunity to learn from his father and mother?
Ping Zihua secretly gritted his teeth in his heart, warning himself to remember the kindness of his father and mother for the rest of his life, study hard, and repay his father and mother in the future.
Liu Qianzhou smiled, and then asked: "So, do you know what to do now?" ”
Ping Zihua thought for a while and whispered: "Study hard, and ...... in the future."
"It's not." Liu Qianzhou couldn't help but interrupt him.
She looked at Ping Zihua and said seriously: "It's confidence, your self-confidence, if you have the confidence that you belong here, instead of showing that you are scared all the time, you have low self-esteem." You must not feel that you are unworthy, that you are not good, that you are not enough, that you can't. You are now my and Song Cheng's child, if you deny yourself, how can you let others look up to you? First of all, you have to look up to yourself, you know? ”
Ping Zihua nodded: "I know, I want to be confident." Mother, I won't be like that again, I'm sorry. ”
Liu Qianzhou looked at Ping Zihua, and finally felt a little relieved.
Then she said: "Another point of self-confidence is that you must be good at expressing your inner thoughts, what you think in your heart, you must be brave to say it, don't hide it in your heart and let the people around us guess." You see that each of us is very tired, if we all don't honestly say what we think in our hearts, isn't it tiring? Will everyone be particularly tired of getting along? ”
Ping Zihua nodded, "Yes." ”
After a moment of silence, Ping Zihua apologized in a low voice: "I'm sorry mother." ”
Liu Qianzhou shook his head: "I'm not sorry, because you went home on the first day today, so we can all understand that you have these reactions." But Zihua, I want to tell you very sternly, you are not a child as young as Sister Songzi, you have already understood a lot of truths. So, whether you are willing or forced, you have to find a way to adapt yourself to the new environment and everything here as quickly as possible. Remember? Treat anyone calmly and speak generously, so that no one can find fault with you. ”
Ping Zihua nodded: "I remember my mother." ”
"Okay, it's cold outside at night, let's hurry into the house, by the way, I'll let Xiaobao tell you about the common sense of life here, you come in with me." Liu Qianzhou said that he had already entered the house.
Liao Baolai was called into the room by Li Liyuan, and he was also asking Ping Zihua what was going on and what happened at night.
Liu Qianzhou stood at the door of his mother, "Mom." ”
Li Liyuan raised his eyes: "What's wrong?" ”
Liu Qianzhou looked at Liao Baolai: "Find Xiaobao, it's okay, you finish talking first." ”
Li Liyuan immediately asked his son to hurry up with his sister: "Go, your sister is looking for you." ”
Liu Qianzhou turned around and asked Ping Zihua to go back to the room to clean up, she would go over later, and then went directly into her mother's room.
"Xiaobao, for a while, you teach Zihua how to use the shower head, the bathtub, how to boil the water, flush the toilet when it is convenient, and use your own toothbrush for washing, etc., these things we will do by ourselves every day, you have to tell him little by little, and nothing can be left behind. Because if you forget to say something, he may not know what to do, so you must remember to tell him everything, okay? ”
Liao Baolai was a little surprised: "Eldest sister, where does his family live?" From an alien planet? Can't even turn on and off the water? ”
Liu Qianzhou said: "His family lives in a far, far away mountain, where the conditions are still very backward. He can't blame him for anything, because he doesn't have to do it in the environment he appears in. ”
"This is an exaggeration, even the water can't be boiled, so how far backward do you have to be." Liao Baolai said incredulously.
When Li Liyuan heard this, he suddenly raised his hand and smoked Liao Baolai.
Liao Baolai immediately got up and jumped away, "Mom, what are you doing?" ”
"You damn boy! You've had a good life with your sister in the past few years, and you've forgotten your roots, right? Have you forgotten that we had no place to sleep back then, and we slept in a bridge cave? It's not your sister who took you in, you are still sleeping under the bridge and cave, not to mention the third middle school, you went out to work and make money after finishing elementary school. Do you think you can make a good living? Don't look at others and think how noble you are, Liao Baolai, you are not superior to anyone, do you know? ”
Liao Baolai was blushing by his mother, and muttered softly: "I, I don't mean to look down on him, I just think it's incredible, my sister would recognize such a child as a son." Can't the eldest sister give birth to one of her own? ”
"Birth, birth, but giving birth to a child also has to talk about fate. It's not like we can be born if we want to, is it? Okay, don't say anything else, Xiaobao, when you talk to your Zihua later, you can't have a little impatience and contempt for people, you know? ”
Faced with Liu Qianzhou's advice, Liao Baolai carefully wrote it down.
This kid sometimes has a bit of a bad mouth, but his heart is really not bad.
"I know, I won't embarrass him, I can't afford to mess with him."
Liao Baolai saw his brother-in-law stand up for Ping Zihua with his own eyes, where can he afford to provoke him?
Even if he is not biological, Ping Zihua is now his sister's child, this is already an unchangeable fact, he really dare not mess with it.
Liu Qianzhou looked at Liao Baolai, and then asked: "If you have nothing to do, go to Zihua to talk, tell him about your usual life, be down-to-earth, don't say something out of tune." ”
"Got my sister." Liao Baolai shouted.
Li Liyuan immediately spoke up: "You kid, what kind of attitude do you have?" Speak well! ”