Yechen complained a little, "There's something wrong with your reasoning, the bad thing about my daughter is that I don't educate well, but the good thing about my daughter is that you have a good foundation?" So are the foundations you give to your girls really good? Is there anyone like you? ”

Su Le saw that Yechen was talking to himself here again, and he lost every time!

For a while, Su Le was a little tired.

Now I'm talking about my daughter's affairs, and I feel like I'm not talking about Yechen!

What a failure!

After Su Le was silent for a moment, he changed the topic very neatly and said to Yechen: "I'm really thinking about things very seriously, can you go there for a while?" "It's better to think seriously about your own business.

Yechen just felt that the little wife was thinking about this, and it seemed that she had been very entangled.

What a big deal this is, the little wife still thinks about it so complicated and tangled.

Yechen didn't care: "It's a long time coming, there's no need to be so anxious!" ”

Su Le looked at Yechen's attitude and snorted, "You have this attitude towards your own daughter?" Isn't it okay to be in such a hurry about everything? Are you still Nuan Nuan's own father? ”

Su Le felt that after some problems in children, parents would generally be nervous.

It's like today when I realized something, my mind was full of these kinds of things.

But look at Yechen, this person's mentality is not too good! It's always been like this, it doesn't matter.

Su Le became a little unhappy.

Yechen looked at his little wife and immediately became unhappy, and patiently explained beside his little wife, "This matter is not a matter of one or two days, not to mention, hasn't your daughter been acting very well?" And now Nuan Nuan is still young, although now, may not think about money things so thoughtfully, but which child can think too deeply from an early age? Did you think so much about things when you were a kid? ”

Su Le was stunned for a moment...... It seems that I might as well be warm when I was a child.

Strictly speaking, Nuan Nuan doesn't know how much better than herself, so she really can't dislike her daughter.

It's just that Su Le then thought about it, Nuan Nuan is smarter than ordinary children, so naturally she has to pay more attention to some things than she did at that time.

You know, today's children are really getting smarter and smarter, but you can't use them as a model when they were young.

She and Nuan Nuan are basically two time period people.

Su Le stared at Ye Chen, shrugged his shoulders and said, "I know, this matter may really be a bit of a haste I am doing, at this age, how many rules can I follow, how many big truths can I know?" But...... I still hope that my little girl is a little more sensible than other children. ”

Although many parents say that as long as their children are healthy, as a mother, it is estimated that everyone will have a comparison mentality.

That's hoping that your own children, at least among children of the same size, will be smarter?

It's not her alone, is she?

Many parents are estimated to be like this, and they all hope that their children will be more outstanding.

After all, many parents feel that they are like this, so a lot of hope is pinned on their children, which is understandable.

And Su Le felt ......

Well, my future seems to be like that, and I naturally hope that Nuan Nuan will go farther than herself, and she will be happier than herself, and she can't help but have more expectations for Nuan Nuan.

What's more, Nuan Nuan was originally a little smart, and Su Le's idea was even worse.

Therefore, now Su Le really hopes that his children are more reasonable.

Naturally, Su Le also understands that in fact, compared to hoping that the little guy will become a talent in the future, the top priority is to become an adult.

The conduct of your own children is absolutely guaranteed!

So if you start being strict now, it doesn't seem like much of a problem, right?

After thinking for a while, Su Le said to Yechen: "Now I'm really in trouble, alas, don't toss me, okay!" Saying that, Su Le thought about it, "I don't want to erase some aspects of the little girl's nature, but I really hope that the little girl can understand more truths, so I thought of this point system." ”

Yechen understands Yechen's mind.

Such an idea is really understandable.

Yechen stared at his little wife, "Seeing that you were so entangled just now, it seems that you have reached some dead end, right?" "Come, talk to me, although I am worthless in the matter of bringing Nuan Nuan, but when I encounter some problems, the two of us think of countermeasures together, at least it is better than you alone." ”

Su Le thought about it for a while, and this is also the truth.

I'm struggling here alone, thinking about the idea of a point system, and it seems that I always feel that I lack something, so it's better to let Yechen help me.

Su Le said that he was difficult now, "This point system I used to be in a foreign educational institution, and now many families use it, I thought it was good, but no matter what the system, there are two sides, although the point system can mobilize the enthusiasm of children, but there are still a lot of negative effects, just like the popular pocket money reward system in our era, if you use this system, then many times children may only care about wanting to get points, so family communication, In particular, there are some problems with the promotion of feelings, and it feels like all things are done for the sake of points, and children are just mechanically completing some tasks to get points...... In this case, it feels even more detrimental to the child's growth. ”

In any case, this is a system that mobilizes children's mobility and enthusiasm, but there are still many shortcomings.

Especially now that Su Le has learned about it from the Internet, he feels that there may be some problems with this system.

After listening to what his little wife said, Yechen said lightly: "What is the reason why you want to use this system in the first place?" ”

Su Le said very realistically: "I really think this system is good, and it can mobilize children's hands-on ability!" It will also let children know what should be done and what should not be done, so that Nuan Nuan can be instilled with a correct concept of behavior. ”

Yechen nodded, pondered for a moment, and then said to his little wife: "If the purpose is only this, in fact, there are many other ways to mobilize Nuan Nuan's enthusiasm and regulate Nuan Nuan's behavior...... Therefore, the use of this system, how to say, there are still some imprecise purposes, and even if it is implemented according to this, the possible effect is not very good! Saying that, Yechen was silent for a moment, and then said to the little wife: "Actually, you can be regarded as understanding this little girl, and it is very reasonable, some things, in fact, as long as you talk to her once, she will know how to do it, I personally think that in the early stage, you may be able to use your so-called point system, you can cultivate some habits, and wait for her to have a certain degree of consciousness, then, this system can also be retired, but it has little effect, so it is in the early stage of children's growth, Maybe it's instructive. ”

Su Le also understands this truth.

Now using this system, that is, simple, first to give Nuan Nuan a concept.

In many cases, if a good concept is cultivated, then many things in the later stage, children will have this consciousness.

But only if it is......

How exactly does this point system work?

Su Le is really a little overwhelmed now.

"Before I looked at some of the implementation system of the points system on the Internet, the general points system is written out of the price mark, what is going to be done today, if you do it, it will be rewarded, if you don't do it, you will not be rewarded, and if you do something, the above is not allowed, then it will be deducted points!"

Yechen saw that his little wife was entangled over there again, so he directly clicked on his little wife's head, "It's okay to teach her according to her aptitude, your little girl is like this, she needs to make a list, what does she have to do every day?" ”

Su Le thought about it for a while, and it seemed to be true.

Because now Nuan Nuan actually knows what can be done and what can't be done.

Therefore, a detailed code of conduct, the significance of appearance to Nuan Nuan is not very big.

Su Le thought for a moment and said to Yechen: "So, if our family uses a point system, then this shouldn't completely follow the path of others and use any behavioral norms!" ”

Yechen nodded, "Yes!" ”

Su Le stared at Yechen, and became even more puzzled, "So, what should I do?" After all, Yechen has been with the little girl for so long, although the feelings of the little girl seem to be more sticky to her now, but the relationship between her and Yechen is really needless to say.

Therefore, Su Le felt that Xu is Yechen really had something to do.

Yechen shrugged his shoulders and said to Su Le: "Actually, this is also simple, let the little girl score herself every day, the lowest is zero points, the highest is ten, let the little girl evaluate herself, how she performs in a day, let the little girl score by herself, in this way, on the one hand, it is also to let the little girl develop the habit of consciously regulating behavior, and the flexibility of using the points system in this way is still relatively strong, if this point system is really useful, then the time for scoring in the future can be slowly changed to a week." , one month, three months, six months, one year...... In this way, even if the little girl grows up in the future, she also knows self-discipline in behavior, and when she does something, she will have a kind of thinking! ”

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