Chapter 897: Independent personality, uncompromising
Of course, according to Song Zhuzhu's own confession, he knew Mr. Ju before Feng Mincheng, and Liu Qianzhou heard that he had no contact with Mr. Ju in the middle, and it didn't seem to be the case for the past two years.
Mr. Ju Liu Qianzhou has seen it, but he has not been in contact with it, so he doesn't know who he is.
But if it comes to the company of children, this Mr. Ju must be a little more suitable than Yang Hujiu.
Mr. Ju's initial impression of Liu Qianzhou was that he was polite and very good at being a person. It's probably because I'm in the service industry, so I'm very attentive to people.
With that gentleman's carefulness and patience with people, Liu Qianzhou felt that it was absolutely enough for him to be Song Yiling's father.
However, with that kind of identity, I am afraid that the Song family will not accept it.
In addition to the Song family's acceptance, Song Pearl is afraid that she will not accept it.
Song Pearl looked at Liu Qianzhou: "I know what you have to say, but if it were you, who would you choose?" ”
Liu Qianzhou's eyes rolled left and right: "It's Mr. Yang and Mr. Ju, right?" No new candidates were added, were they? Do you want to hear my truth? ”
Song Pearl chuckled, picked up an orange and wanted to smash it at Liu Qianzhou.
Liu Qianzhou stretched out her hand and directly took the orange and put it aside, she said: "I must choose Mr. Ju, he is young and handsome, just with that figure and appearance, it is pleasing to the eye." Mr. Yang is not bad, but that kind of ambitious man, he and you, it is a deal. He must have a relationship with you, but how much does this relationship account for in his business? He will definitely weigh how much substantial benefits the Song family can give him after marrying you. For so many years, he didn't dare to get married rashly, and he didn't break off with you, isn't he just waiting to see your attitude? That kind of man, it's enough to provoke once when you're young, if you didn't provoke when you're young, and now when you need a family, just wave your hand, forget it, can't you live your happy little life? ”
Liu Qianzhou's words fell, looked at Song Pearl, and spread his hands.
"Well, you're not reconciled, aren't you? Aren't you stuck in the original entanglement with Mr. Xiaomi again? Mr. Ju knew each other before you and Mr. Xiaomi, and you and Mr. Xiaomi were just an accident. It seems that your life should be combined with the so-called life winners, so as to complete your Song Pearl's glorious life, isn't it? Liu Qianzhou said.
Song Pearl nodded and shook her head again.
"No, you're only half right. Yang Hujiu is watching, and I am also watching. I don't know how much of my feelings for Yang Hujiu are left now. However, such a bohemian man like a beast, I have not been tied back in my life, and I am just unwilling. ”
Liu Qianzhou nodded suddenly: "Understood." ”
Therefore, Song Pearl's choice is already clear to heart.
It's just that the reason why she is still hesitating is because she is ashamed of Song Yiling, after all, it is the meat that fell from her, her daughter's feelings, can she not feel distressed?
Liu Qianzhou said: "Actually, it's right, my choice will never be the same as your choice." You will choose Mr. Yang, this is your way of doing things. I will choose Mr. Ju, because of my personal growth and personality. It may be that I am not rich when I am a child, so it really doesn't matter whether there is money in the family or not. As long as the other half can support themselves, I think it's enough. Before I met Song Cheng, my imagination of marriage and family was that husband and wife worked together, went to work well during the day, ate, cooked and watched TV together after work, raised the family together, and took care of the housework and children together. In an ordinary family, family reasons are really rarely considered. ”
Song Pearl raised her eyebrows: "I understand the situation you said, and I also understand the reason why you chose that way." But I'm different, I knew what I wanted since I was a kid. The only time she was shaken was when Song Yiling's father appeared. However, after all these years, I am naturally relieved. ”
"So, you are still the former Song Pearl, even if you are troubled now, it is only from Song Yiling, not which man to choose to spend the rest of your life with. Isn't it? ”
Liu Qianzhou's words fell, and Song Pearl nodded: "Yes, it's good if you understand." ”
"So, you've thought about it so thoroughly, when will you and Mr. Yang get married? Even if you show it to Song Yiling, the two of you plan to be together in such a low-key way? Liu Qianzhou asked.
Song Pearl thought for a while, and then said: "Actually, Qianzhou, I don't agree with you returning to China from the bottom of my heart, and give up your future for the sake of the children." Do what you want to do, your life, you are not responsible for yourself, who will be responsible for you? The excellence of your husband and children can only add to you the icing on the cake, but not how brilliant your life will become. So, your children, they have their own lives, they grow up, no matter what kind of environment they live in, they are responsible for their own lives. Why do you want to give up what you insist on because of your children? ”
Liu Qianzhou was silent and said for a moment: "This is the result of thousands of years of cultivation of oriental culture, even if women are now independent, they will still take the initiative to give up everything they have worked hard for, return to the family, return to the children and husbands, and be willing to do so." That's why my teacher was willing to take me after thinking about it for a long time. Without his help, I might have been just an auditor at Harvard, and I wouldn't have gotten my diploma. ”
"Well, people have long seen through us international students in the East, especially female students." Song Pearl said.
Liu Qianzhou laughed and said, "Sure enough, they all encountered the same situation, this may be a phenomenon, my teacher said that many young and talented female students, who achieve certain grades, will return to China, even if they do not return to China, after getting married, they will focus most of their energy on their families." After marriage, Oriental women are like roosters that have lost their combat effectiveness, and they become regrettable. Teacher Q also said that he was very heartbroken when he met the students who were proud of him in the past, but now they are content with the status quo and cooking at home with their children, and he is very angry and unable to do anything. Western women's concept of parenting is very different from our country, and the idea of independence in the West is particularly important, and they even ask a young child who can't even stand on his feet to be independent. This has to be placed in China, whose mother is ruthless? This is the direct reason why young mothers abroad will still stick to their posts after marriage and childbirth, and will not be affected too much. But we, I really can't. I'll admit that I'm not free enough, and my family, my family, is a big part of my life. ”
Song Pearl raised her eyebrows, "Well, I understand." So, you will come back for the sake of your husband, children, family. But I won't compromise for Song Yiling and accept a man I don't have any feelings for. ”
"No feelings, you two have been together for so many years?" Liu Qianzhou asked rhetorically: "Can you eat without emotion?" ”
"Physiological needs that I can control?" Song Pearl asked bluntly.
Liu Qianzhou shrugged, "Okay, good, you cow, I really can't talk about you." However, the three words Song Pearl represent maverick, in short, I support you in whatever choice you make. ”
"You too, although you are still soft and kind, you have grown, and you feel a little bit like a needle in your mouth. In the past, when you were still a little white rabbit, Song Cheng was very protected, he must have said, don't let you get close to me, right? I'm afraid I'll lead you astray. Now, however, he doesn't stop it. Just because you are now very firm in what you want, no one can shake the persistence in your heart. ”
Song Pearl's words fell, and Liu Qianzhou's eyes rolled: "Yo, you guessed quite accurately." ”
"So, there's nothing wrong with anyone's lifestyle, as long as we live happily and we are free. Raising children or living, the most important thing is to be happy. Isn't it tragic that we've all been through so much that we can't control our mood to this day? Song Pearl asked.
Liu Qianzhou nodded, "People have been working hard and working hard all the time, just to be able to have the right to say 'no', to be able to do what they like, and to refuse what they don't like." ”
Song Pearl said lightly: "They came in." ”
Liu Qianzhou turned his head, and a group of people came in through the entrance.
"Everyone in the family is outside." Liu Qianzhou suddenly realized: "I said why is it so quiet today, it's all outside." ”
"It's all old mothers who have nothing to do, can you go out and watch?" Song Pearl spoke up.
Song Cheng came in and strode over, Liu Qianzhou moved to the side, and Song Cheng hurriedly said, "Sit down, get up and do something." ”
Liu Qianzhou said: "Give you a place, otherwise there will be no place to sit later." Liu Qianzhou asked Song Cheng to sit beside him.
The second wife who came in was still crying, absolutely amazing, I really admired her after crying for so long.
probably saw Song Cheng come back, and cried with Song Cheng again.
The eldest lady was still asking people to bring tissues and hand warmers for the second wife, Liu Qianzhou approached Song Cheng's side and asked in a low voice: "You know?" ”
Song Cheng gave her a slight look and nodded slightly.
Liu Qianzhou laughed, "And then?" ”
"What's then?"
Song Cheng's words fell, and the second wife on the other side had already sat down, and he couldn't chew his ears quietly with his wife in front of so many people, so he didn't speak again.
Liu Qianzhou leaned back slightly, expressing his reluctance to participate in the conversation, and his mobile phone had already been taken out, which was an obvious reaction to refusing to participate.
Song Cheng raised his hand, lightly covered her phone with his big palm, and looked at her.
Liu Qianzhou said, "What do you do? ”
"What kind of phone do you play?"
"You let me play for a while, I have nothing to do." Liu Qianzhou whispered.
Song Cheng no longer forced her, and Song Pearl also swiped her mobile phone, not ready to participate in this matter.
The second wife cried so much that her voice was already hoarse, but this time the choking did not stop.
Liu Qianzhou saw that Song Xinyue replied to the message on his phone, but Liu Qianzhou didn't reply, it seems that Song Xinyue should be about to arrive.
The second wife looked at Song Cheng, "Song Cheng, in the past, our Cambridge liked you the most, and he liked to follow you, he regarded you as his own brother, and he was closer to you than to our parents, as long as you said a word, he would go to you in a hurry, and he would listen to whatever you said." Song Cheng, second aunt, please, our Cambridge is already like this, you can't let his children still be left behind, can you? ”