174. The way of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
I asked Ah Ping, "Who is going to inform you?" ”
Ah Ping's eyes flashed, and the corners of his mouth slowly showed a smile, "In the end, you can't hide my daughter-in-law's eyes, since you had an accident before, I arranged people in the palace of the concubine, originally just in case, but today I am glad that I arranged this chess piece." ”
And so it was.
If it weren't for Ah Ping's internal response to come back in time, things might not be the way they are now. In the end, Concubine Lu still has prejudices against me, no matter what her purpose is, it makes me feel cold.
I didn't want to get pregnant before, but this time I used Yuan'er as bait to lure me into the game, and it was really as Ah Ping said, she had been wiped out of her conscience by this big dye vat, and she was full of only rights and desires.
It's about Yuan'er, I can't have the slightest tolerance for her, but as a mother, I can't if she doesn't miss her son. I don't want to become like the women in countless palace fighting dramas, from the initial pure kindness to the end to the end to become a scheming and ruthless person, words and deeds, Yuan'er will look at me.
"Ah Ping, do you think I'm wrong?"
"How so? Daughter-in-law, how can you have such an idea, you have always had a pure personality, no contention, and the fault is obviously not you. ”
I looked at him seriously: "Then why does your mother dislike me so much and have to embarrass me again and again?" "Ah Ping is speechless, I don't know how to reply to me. He took his hand and whispered, "Have you ever thought that the reason for this lies in you?" ”
Seeing that he was stunned, I knew that he was ignorant about this matter, and I said in a harmonious voice: "Ah Ping, do you know? All the disputes between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law in this world are not because they have any deep hatred and hatred, in the end, if I am not your wife, I and your mother are strangers, and there will be no intersection at all, how can you say that she will dislike me and calculate me? ”
"But...... I still don't understand. Ah Ping's eyes were at a loss, he didn't have a clue why, in the end, he was too young and had a high IQ, but his EQ was not enough.
"Let me explain to you like this, your mother must not have known me in this palace at first, let's push the time forward, her bad impression of me should all come from your nurse Liu Qing. It would be wrong if all the problems were attributed to Liu Qing, she and your mother generally don't hate me for no reason, and it's because of you. At first, you insisted on marrying me despite her objections, and then you quarreled with her several times for me, and even fought against her, until your imperial grandfather came to her to ask for her life to return to the palace, and then the resentment was deep and brought back to the palace, and also brought to your mother. ”
At this time, Ah Ping came to his senses, "So the root cause is that I didn't coax Qinggu in the first place?" ”
"I believe that even though you are very angry with her at the moment, you have never had murderous intentions, because you think of her nursing mother, you have raised you, and you have been by your side for many years, although you are a nursing mother, you are like your mother, and her hard work for you is also good for you from a certain point of view. If you had appeased her at the time, there would have been as many troubles afterwards as there are today. ”
Ah Ping was very annoyed after hearing this: "It's because my temper is too bad that it causes the vicious circle of things to be like this." ”
I sighed lightly, "I was also at fault for just watching things when they happened, and Antu was at peace with the current situation, but he didn't expect that the deeper contradictions would intensify in the future." "And how could I have thought that Ah Ping was behind the dynasty, but even if Ah Ping was not the emperor's grandson, I didn't do well in the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Ah Ping denied it: "Daughter-in-law, you are right, after listening to your reasoning, it will be transparent, I am your father-in-law, and the conflict with my mother should be mediated by me, not only did I not mediate, but I also added a fire to it, which made my mother angry, but I am her son, and it is impossible to really spill my anger on my head, so you have become the target of my mother." ”
Knowing that his man is not stupid, he can see through it at all. Indeed, if it is not his mother who is troublesome to me now, but an irrelevant person, then I can leave the matter to him, and I don't have to worry much about his position in the palace. But now that this person is his mother, do you really want their mother and son to become enemies and not die?
In the same way, Zhu Yuanzhang was not very happy with me at first, but now he has a harmonious relationship with me. It's not that I changed my opinion suddenly, but I dealt with it again and again, until I lived in this orchid garden, and then learned that it was Queen Ma's residence, so Zhu Yuanzhang didn't miss it and did what he liked, and the relationship slowly became harmonious.
I can be so attentive to Zhu Yuanzhang, why can't I use the same mind for Concubine Lu? Do you really have to wait until it is irretrievable to regret it?
I think Ah Ping is also hesitating and pondering, thinking about how to reverse this unfavorable situation. I am no longer worried about him, after following Zhu Yuanzhang to study politics for more than half a year, his mind has been so deep that it is unfathomable to me, just like the fact that he arranged chess pieces in Concubine Lu's palace I could not have imagined. and the thing I kept hidden, which is enough to prove that he is becoming more and more proficient in the art of power.
And I can't be too active in dealing with this matter, first, I can't pull off this face and stick to Concubine Lu's cold ass with a hot face, and second, Concubine Lu has a deep grudge against me, and everything is there, and it can't be passed in a day or two. As long as you cooperate with Ah Ping's actions, it will not seem too deliberate, and you may be able to achieve twice the result with half the effort.
After that, Ah would go to Concubine Lu's side every day and tell me about the situation when he came back. At first, the mother and son were disgusted with each other after the big quarrel, Ah Ping went and didn't speak, he also had the ability, so he sat there, and patted his ass and left after sitting for half an hour. I estimate that Concubine Lu must be so angry and helpless when she sees her son like this.
Later, I asked Ah Ping to order rice, and when he came back, he said that he had eaten today. I can't help but feel funny, pointing you to go at this time is to let you eat, you sit at the table, even if Concubine Lu doesn't say it, the palace people below don't dare not give you chopsticks. Almost three days later, Ah Ping came back later than usual with a stick of incense, and when he entered the door, the corners of his mouth rose and he said to me that his mother had spoken to him today, and when he left, he specially said a few words to Liu Qing who sent him to the door.
I asked what I was saying while dressing him, and he turned his head to look at me with a worried face, "Daughter-in-law, I really shouldn't be like before, it's okay for my mother to take good care of my mother, today I saw that Qinggu's hair was half white, and the wrinkles between her eyebrows were much deeper, and even her back was a little hunched." ”
Hearing this, I knew that I had not made a mistake in judgment at the beginning, Ah Ping still had feelings for Liu Qing no matter how angry he was, and he never forgot the grace of nurturing. I believe that the moment Liu Qing reveals Aping's true feelings, no matter how hard his heart is, he will soften it.
As I thought, this man is growing at an astonishing rate, he knows that his mother is the main reason for coaxing, and Liu Qing is definitely not a person who can be ignored, she has followed Concubine Lu for many years and has long been Concubine Lu's confidant, and many times her words next to her are much more useful than what he has done a lot of things. I believe that he did reveal his true feelings when he saw Liu Qing getting old at that time, but he also had his calculations.
Watching him grow up, I am relieved and worried, just like I have suffered losses in this palace again and again, and I have learned the truth of eating a trench and growing wise, so as to let go of the high and conform to the truth, growth needs to pay a price.
Yuan'er's full moon wine was held in Lanyuan, in addition to Zhu Yuanzhang, I also invited Imperial Doctor Jiang, and Ah Ping's side I asked him to personally invite Concubine Lu and Liu Qing. Whether you can invite it or not, it should be.
I was not surprised when Zhu Yuanzhang and Concubine Lu entered the door before and after, not to mention anything else, just on the occasion that even the emperor would come, how could Concubine Lu dare not come? Ah Ping followed the side and gently led people into the hall, Zhu Yuanzhang was first surprised and asked, "How can this house be so warm?" I was silent, I didn't want to steal the limelight, just let Ah Ping make a statement.
But Ah Ping's kid was afraid that others would ignore me, and after explaining the principle of floor heating in one breath, he said that it was all my idea, and he was just operating and executing. Zhu Yuanzhang looked at me after hearing this, and said in amazement: "This method is really unheard of." ”
I smiled lightly and replied: "Imperial grandfather, don't listen to Ah Ping's exaggeration, I just feel that the weather is too cold, I am afraid that Yuan'er will freeze, so I will ask him for advice, and he will go to discuss with the craftsmen when he turns around, he is busy with these things." ”
Zhu Yuanzhang stroked his beard and nodded: "Well, the craftsmen in our palace are indeed ingenious, and it is not easy to have this idea. ”
Ah Ping's eyes lit up: "Imperial grandfather, can you break ground at will over there in your bedroom?" I've always wanted to mention it to you, but I'm afraid you'll say I'm not doing my job. Zhu Yuanzhang scolded with a smile when he heard this: "Why don't you do such a thing, if the cost is not big, you can just let it go." ”
"The cost is okay, mainly because of the use of charcoal fire and coal to make heating. Its main principle is ......"
When I saw that Ah Ping was talking about this, I was very excited, and I pretended to mention casually when he said: "If the imperial grandfather approves you to break the ground, then help the concubine's bedroom together." ”
Ah Ping turned his eyes and smiled: "It's still a daughter-in-law who thinks thoughtfully." ”
Although Concubine Lu didn't move behind her, she couldn't help but look around my room twice, obviously feeling that the room was much warmer than the palace she was staying in.