Chapter 261: Grandmother's Guidance
Yuan Chuying's whole person was stunned.
She covered her little head, took a step back, looked at Yuan Churou who was suddenly annoyed and angry, and then glanced away and looked at the old lady and Yuan Chuyao who couldn't suppress the laughter.
Suddenly I realized that I was in trouble.
"I ...... I ......" she stammered to explain, and finally looked at Sanshuang's funny eyes waiting for her to explain, she waved her hand: "Okay, I'm narrow-minded." ”
The old lady shook her head with a smile: "You girl." ”
Yuan Chuyao gave her a serious analysis: "The gifts don't necessarily have to be returned at the banquet, as well as birthday banquets, wedding banquets, and so on." ”
Anyway, as long as you have the heart, any time you count it, you will naturally return it.
Of course, there are also those greedy people, who think that they can make a fortune by receiving gifts, and deliberately give them to those who are slightly worse when they pay them back, and if they are really in trouble at home, they can still be forgiven once or twice, but if they are too many times, they probably won't continue to interact.
This is also one of the reasons why it is difficult to communicate with the nobles for a long time, and the difference between the families is reflected in many aspects.
If you want to integrate into the aristocratic circle, if you don't have the ability, you need a certain amount of capital, plus you can be a person, so you can gradually integrate.
However, if you have brains, it is also feasible to make a fortune through gifts sent by others.
Generally, the first gift, there is a meaning to lend a hand, with this money, let his powerful brother do some business, but if you are careful, you can keep up with the rhythm of others after one or two times.
However, doing business is as difficult as being an official.
Without a flexible mind and rich connections, it is difficult to get things done.
What really depends on merit, climb to a certain position, and money will naturally roll in.
Of course, what money can be collected and what money cannot be collected depends on whether I am flexible or not.
No matter what you do, you need to be sensitive enough to avoid risks and get on the right path.
In the end, it was her own granddaughter, and the old lady was reluctant to be ridiculed when they went out, so she deliberately told the three of them in detail about some ways to give gifts.
"Each family has its own avoidance, and before giving gifts, you must understand each other. ”
Yuan Churou only felt that her eyes were black when she heard this, and she couldn't figure out the doorway: "How can I know the other party's taboo?"
This Yuan Chuyao is good at it: "Between the conversations, the gossip in the other party's house, although some sources are not necessarily true, it is good to avoid them, and gifts do not have to be sent to the heart, but they must not leave a thorn in the other party's heart." ”
It's better to be ordinary than to poke people's hearts.
Of course, other people's preferences can also be investigated. Yuan Chuyao added.
The old lady took over: "But only by asking someone to do something, will you find out the preferences of the other party, which is called intentions."
But if you also inquire about other people's preferences with a little ordinary etiquette, there will be a kind of disgust that your secret mind is excavated. ”
Yuan Chuying shook her head and sighed: "It's really difficult, it's not cool to send it right." ”
Yuan Chuyao said with a smile: "It still depends on who the person is, if it is a sweetheart, or a friend, you will also feel that they are attentive, but if it is an unfamiliar person, you will feel that your mind is being spied on, and you will feel uncomfortable." ”
Yuan Churou nodded in praise: "Indiscriminately probe, it's like a girl walking on the street, and suddenly a self-righteous disciple comes behind her." ”
The old lady glanced at Yuan Churou more: "That's a good point, the first time you talk about proportion, it's all about proportion." ”
Familiar people can be casual, not to that extent, and it is better not to behave excessively.
"It's complicated. Yuan Chuying said with a headache, she didn't see that the old lady frowned slightly when she said this.
She folded her hands, flipped her two thumbs up and down, and after thinking for a while, she suddenly said: "Is this like doing a good deed, and you have to pick a time, in case the other party is in trouble, someone with an inappropriate identity suddenly appears to help, maybe she will be jealous." ”
Yuan Chuying's words made the old lady's evaluation of her impatient temperament dissipate instantly, looking at the impatient temperament of many things, she is actually a person who knows how to think.
The old lady immediately laughed: "Isn't that the truth, if you fall into the water, do you want someone you don't like to jump into the water to save you?"
Yuan Chuying nodded, and thought deeply: "So you have to learn to swim by yourself." ”
She is not only a thoughtful person, but also a child who understands the prevention of incidents at the source, the old lady thought to herself.
Who doesn't like smart kids, the rest of the little faults, based on this, are not so important.
Besides, I have to say that Yuan Chuying's habit also has the role of hiding herself, if she hadn't taken the initiative to ask questions, the old lady might have thought that this child was impatient and spoke without brains.
A line of old novels came to the warehouse with a smile, and Yuan Chuying and Yuan Churou opened their eyes again.
Yuan Chuyao is too, although she has been to the warehouse, she also knows that the things that can be received here are valuable items.
But why it is precious and what material it belongs to, she doesn't understand.
The old lady was different, very knowledgeable, and told them one by one the materials of these things, their origins, and the origin of some key objects, as well as what the fake ones would be imitated from.
Stuffed with knowledge points in his head, the memory ability trained by Yuan Chuyao almost collapsed.
It was the old lady who saw that their eyes were already dizzy, so she gave up.
In the end, the old lady asked them to try to choose gifts, and commented on their gifts, giving them suitable guidance, and then let them go.
On the way back.
Yuan Chuying's footsteps were vain: "Listening to my grandmother's teaching, it seems to go back to the first time I had a class in the house, and when the eyes of the teacher fell, I was frightened, and my grandmother's eyes swept over, and my legs were trembling." ”
Yuan Churou nodded frequently, and her delicate face was a little pale: "I never knew that there would be such a difficult time to learn things." ”
Yuan Chuyao laughed mercilessly: "You lack exercise, you can't stand for a long time, you are so tired, grandmother exercises every day, and your body is stronger than you." ”
I was still frightened and my legs were weak.
At most, the back of the neck is a little cold.
She touched the back of her neck with palpitations, her grandmother's majesty was not as clear as her grandmother's could see at a glance, it was simply moisturizing things silently, and she suddenly coaxed herself without knowing what was going on.
"However, the dizziness is real, and I have tried to write it down, and now I have forgotten some of it. ”
As soon as she said this, Yuan Chuyao was tired, and she felt that Fang Cai's troubled memories were all lonely, and a small half of her memories were empty, and she was as heartbroken as if she had lost her valuables.