Chapter 1048: Realm and Mentality
Duan Tingting said with a smile: "Wang Yuwen, don't be embarrassed, those rich people, who invites an aunt so casually?" Besides, you can't let Qianqian ask who is short of nannies next to each other? You're asking too much. Your husband with a pillow of his own won't help you like this, you come to ask for Qianqian? Don't forget, Qianqian can come today because she doesn't plan to worry about you anymore. Don't worry about it, you'll have to make inches again. ”
"I don't have to ask Qianzhou to help me find a nanny job, doesn't it happen that someone needs her there?" Wang Yuwen said.
Duan Tingting said: "All the job search depends on your own ability, you, go to find it yourself, go to the housekeeping company to register, you are a graduate of Yunnan University, there will be a rush that you are highly educated." ”
I'm afraid that this kind of highly educated nanny is not used by anyone.
Wang Yuwen said: "I think if someone recommends the introduction, it may be easier, and I look for it myself, I am worried about whether it will be ......."
Duan Tingting said with a smile: "Everyone is looking for a job like this, if it is a friend, they are afraid of troublesome friends, are you afraid that you will not be able to trouble your friends, right?" ”
"But when it comes to finding a job, aren't all friends helping to introduce you?" Wang Yuwen said.
Duan Tingting no longer paid attention to Wang Yuwen, and directly bumped into Liu Qianzhou: "Your family really doesn't have such a high salary as a nanny?" You said that I want to be a nanny, our family Ji Hanliang is still promoted and raised, and now he only has 10,000 yuan a month, how can your family give such a high salary to his subordinates? ”
Liu Qianzhou said: "Now those who do housekeeping are not professional, and those who have not undergone professional training go directly to work to help people do things, and there is no way to do things." What our family requires is to be professional, talk less and do more, and my mother and I can't see outsiders at home, so my aunt must do her job well, and then try not to hang outside. You can't be idle, and you can't have bad intentions. Character first, professionalism second. The most important thing is to think about this family wholeheartedly, and you have to be with the owner. ”
This is a really high requirement.
Even if the thing is done, you still have to ask for a heart with the master?
The daughter-in-law who marries into the door does not necessarily have the same heart as the family, and you ask a nanny to have the same heart as your master's family?
Duan Tingting opened her mouth slightly: "Wow, it's indeed a bit demanding." ”
"Because many aunts lack professionalism now, as soon as the host turns around, they don't know how to make trouble at home, how to abuse children, and the elderly, so I'd rather give a few thousand dollars more to put an end to these problems." Liu Qianzhou said.
"That's right, it's a lot of people now, alas! I don't know what the mentality is, it's probably not good, I only saw the news two days ago, the nanny is abusing babies and young children at home, and there is a nanny with the owner's child, one second ago she smiled and greeted the owner, and the next second she entered the elevator and beat the child, which was inhumane. Duan Tingting said.
"But some people, no matter how high your family's salary is, she has a bad heart, and you can't put an end to it." Wang Yuwen said: "Now people can't say for sure, who looks at your family and doesn't blush?" ”
Liu Qianzhou said: "There are monitors in every corner of the house, there are no dead ends, once found, she will be expelled and no longer hired, and it is difficult for her to mix in Yundu." ”
Liu Qianzhou paused, and then said: "However, people who do service work should not be so stupid." Everyone wants to work longer, sign a labor contract and become a regular employee, with such a high salary, and not much to do, no matter how bad the mind, it will be bad for themselves, and they will not joke with money. ”
In other words, who offended the Song family?
Duan Tingting shrugged: "That's right, even if there is no threat or anything, who would treat such a good job as a child's play?" It will only be doubled to do well. Now it's really difficult to find a job with a decent salary and a good salary, and we have not been promoted from a prestigious school, but we are still wandering in the 5,000 to 8,000 range. We want to raise wages, 12,000, it's too difficult. ”
Wang Yuwen looked at Liu Qianzhou enviously: "If only I could help you do something." ”
Liu Qianzhou just didn't hear it, isn't it funny?
Duan Tingting leaned back, subconsciously ate another piece of lotus root, and drank more than half of the juice for the spicy taste.
Wang Yuwen suddenly asked Duan Tingting: "Tingting, your husband is now 10,000 yuan a month?" ”
"Well, he has been promoted and raised, and he is also in his thirties, and the man has not been promoted and raised at this age, so he will have no chance in the future." Duan Tingting said.
"I know, but, wow, 10,000, that's a lot." Wang Yuwen sighed: "In my life, I may not be able to get so much money, and your husband can give you 10,000 yuan a month." ”
Duan Tingting couldn't help but say again: "Not only that, he sometimes goes out to run Didi at night, and the money he earns, he usually keeps two hundred yuan on his body, and he gives me the other five yuan." ”
"Wow!" Wang Yuwen's eyes were full of envy: "Doesn't he spend money himself?" Your husband is so good. ”
Liu Qianzhou's happiness is not enviable, but Duan Tingting's happiness can be seen by ordinary people.
Where is she worse than Duan Tingting? Why is her husband like that, and Duan Tingting can live so happily?
"My husband really doesn't spend a lot of money, he said I gave him a baby, and I had nothing to do for a day, so it was boring. I didn't feel secure when I didn't go to work, and because I didn't make money, I gave all my income and let me use it. It doesn't matter if you give him money or not, whether you give it to your parents or not. Just to give me a sense of presence and reassure me. Duan Tingting said.
"Then the more than 10,000 yuan, can you spend it casually? Can you spend it all? Wang Yuwen asked.
If it's just for her, it doesn't seem particularly good.
Duan Tingting said: "Give it to me, that's mine, whatever I want to spend, I want to give the family a little more living expenses, and everyone can eat better." I can also buy my own clothes, shoes, etc., and do it myself. But I'm done, I've already done all this when I used to work, so I don't want to toss anymore. Now I haven't recovered my figure, I bought so much, and I can't wear it after I lose weight, so I just wear a few pieces. After giving birth, do you still dress up? Anyway, I don't have that idea. ”
Wang Yuwen nodded: "Me too, I'm not so willing to dress up anymore, and I didn't dress up much before." As soon as my son was born, I was even more reluctant to toss about that. I envy that your children are born late, and you know how to maintain them, and now you and Qianqian are still so young and beautiful. My child was born so early, but now, the skin has long been out of sight, alas, it should be maintained for two more years. ”
Liu Qianzhou said with a smile: "The problem of skin maintenance, it has nothing to do with whether you have a child or not, even if you give birth to a child and become a grandmother, you can also maintain it." ”
"That's the way it is, but as soon as the child is born, he doesn't feel that way. I don't want to dress up when I go out, I don't want to clean up after myself, I feel like I'm all children, and there's nothing to toss. Wang Yuwen said.
Duan Tingting said: "Actually, there is still no money, if you have money, you can toss everything." However, I just gave birth to a child, and I was so busy that I didn't even want to wash my face one day, and in the blink of an eye, it was dark. ”
Liu Qianzhou laughed and said: "Tingting, your family is okay, your in-laws can help take care of the children, can you be so busy, can you stay by the children's side all the time?" ”
"It was only after the child was a little older that she brought it to her grandparents. When he was young, when he was as old as your family Song Tang, could he leave you? It's not like you're holding it in your hands most of the time, is it? Duan Tingting said.
Duan Tingting is indeed a little easier now, and she really focused on the child before.
One moment I'm hungry again, the next I've got to change diapers, the next I've got to get dressed, I've got to change my clothes, and anyway, all the time I have a pair of eyes on the child.
After the most grinding half a year passed, everyone finally breathed a sigh of relief.
"By the way, Qianqian, do you feed at night?" Duan Tingting asked.
Liu Qianzhou nodded: "Yes, the child will wake up by himself." He doesn't feed until he wakes up. ”
"Yes, if you don't wake up, you won't drink, and he won't give it until he's awake. Generally, children can sleep for the whole night, so let him sleep, and the little baby needs to sleep to grow faster. It's good to get through half a year old, he can at least move, and he has a little reaction. Within half a year old, it is a small ball of meat. Duan Tingting said.
Liu Qianzhou looked at Duan Tingting when she said this, and saw the mother's love on her face.
Everyone has become mothers, time flies, and when I think back to the ignorance and yearning I first entered the university, it seems like yesterday.
Liu Qianzhou sighed softly: "Everyone has grown up. ”
"Tingting, your husband is good to you." Wang Yuwen suddenly sighed: "I heard you say that your husband is so good, I want to divorce again." ”
"As for you, if you want a divorce, then leave, don't procrastinate. The matter of divorce to scare the other party can only be useful once, and the second time it will not work. So think about it, if you really want a divorce, be decisive and simple. Don't keep it in mind, but tell lies on your lips. Men don't eat you, and when the time comes, you will get divorced directly, and only you will regret it. Duan Tingting said.
Wang Yuwen was silent, feeling that he was a failure.
Think you can at least compare to Duan Tingting, right? At least her husband is richer than Duan Tingting's husband's family, but now that she thinks about it, what's the use of her husband being rich? I give 2,000 yuan a month, and sometimes if my son is sick, he won't have any money left.
It's only 2,000 yuan a month, she used to do a job casually, and it was more than 2,000 yuan, but now the salary is different from before, the salary used to be low, and now even if she goes to do nail art again, it will have to go up to 4,000. Moreover, when she was not married, she spent the money alone, and now she has to take care of her son, mother-in-law, housework, laundry and cooking.