The war between men, I have always disdained to nag with my own women, even if Liang Wenhao and I compete with each other, I don't want her to have any pressure, using her private power to influence her, this is my confusion, it is a mistake worthy of criticism, and as a public figure, I made her feel troubled.

When I learned that the reporter found her, where did I dare to show any posture in front of her, Zhao Yang saw that I was restless, and said unknowingly: "Second brother, sister-in-law is so angry with you, you still think about her?" ”

Isn't this nonsense? It's normal for two people to close the door and make noise, after all, beating is scolding and love, but these media are different, they have nothing to do all day long, and they like to dig into other people's privacy, I'm used to it, I'm afraid she can't stand it.

I suddenly regretted it, regretted disclosing my identity as a shareholder of Hengyu, and regretted that when Hengyu fell into a crisis of trust, I still had an awkward relationship with her, but fortunately, we talked about it.

Emotions are really a bad guy sometimes, according to my experience with Yuan Xiaojie for several years of long-distance love running, once there is a misunderstanding between couples, the first thing to do is to communicate, but the little villain of emotions is too uncontrollable, and it pops up from time to time, disturbing the mood of the two people.

Of course, bad moods, but because they care.

After this reconciliation, I have thoroughly understood this problem, Zhao Yang is worried about Liang Wenhao's ascension and other incidents, it is really not a matter for me, I think, because I like it too much, so I am afraid.

My mind has already planned my future with this woman, and I am sensitive to the fact that even though she is in love with me now, she is stubborn to the point of pride in her bones.

I know how this girl grew up, and I can feel her low self-esteem. Perhaps it was the media hype that made her too self-preservation, in short, the gap between the two families is also a big problem for us.

I want to protect her self-esteem, and I know very well that in the future, she may suffer a lot in this regard.

I don't know if this protection is right or wrong, and if I could, I even thought that if the old lady insisted on going her own way, I would leave Hengyu.

I can't say these things to this girl, because her heart is too kind, so I can imagine that if she knew that I had made this decision, she would have stopped it, and would blame herself.

People are pursuing different experiences throughout their lives, and they are also meeting different people, and the probability of meeting people may be 1 in million, and the probability of falling in love is only 0. 00046, I didn't think that I would be crazy about love in this life, and her response also made me feel that it was all worth it.

Just as I was planning how to make the old lady accept this daughter-in-law willingly, another thing happened - her parents suddenly came to City A.

This is tantamount to directly preempting the phenomenon of our confronting each other's family situations.

Although it will take a long time for her to marry into the Zeng family, it will be the same for me. After all, even her college classmate Wang Huijuan's family situation is much better than this girl's family.

I don't mean to belittle any family here, I'm just saying that when I, a man, decide to be with Miss Yuan for the rest of my life, we must integrate into each other's families.

Many women are looking for a man with good conditions to reach the pinnacle of life, this kind of thing is very common in our circle, and there are also women who want to keep a man by a belly, and various ways are not uncommon, so at this time, I am cautious.

I could feel her rejection.

I can also perceive that Lao Yuan doesn't like me.

In this case, I was also under a lot of pressure. But when my father-in-law and mother-in-law came, I couldn't avoid it, I just wanted to use my strength to make them accept me as much as I could.

At this time, Wang Luoqi stood up, she said: "Cousin, as you have seen, my sister-in-law is not very suitable for the life of our class, her parents can be imagined, and you know the character of your aunt, I have to say ......"

I understood what she meant.

"I don't know much about some of the rules in China, what do you pay attention to this father-in-law and mother-in-law?"

"There are a lot of places to pay attention to, food, clothing, housing and transportation have to be worried, just a beautiful woman in our department, two days ago there was a divorce, because of what? Because she felt that her husband was too light on her parents, she ......"

I have long heard that there are many rules in China that are difficult for people to understand, and I was also in a cold sweat when I heard it, Wang Luoqi said: "Cousin, why don't I go with you, I am your sister, it is equivalent to my mother-in-law's family, we are in the same city, if we don't go to meet, I can't say it." In case my sister-in-law's family says that we despise them, it will be unreasonable at that time. ”

I didn't expect things to be so troublesome, so I called Zhao Yang and asked a little, it seemed that it was really complicated to meet my in-laws in China, so I agreed to Wang Luoqi and I went together.

The best hotel in this city is Dafugui, I booked a private room here, and the dinner table is also pleasant, although Wang Luoqi is sometimes a little rude, but the critical moment is also a lubricant, a meal down, the atmosphere is quite harmonious.

I thought she would be happy. But her eyes couldn't hide it from me, and I knew that some of my actions today still stung her self-esteem.

After I went back, I briefly said a few words to Wang Luoqi, and indirectly told her that the matter of entertaining my father-in-law and mother-in-law was still done by me personally, and she agreed, but at the end of the phone, she said to me: "Cousin, I feel that you are like a big tree now, and my sister-in-law is a small sapling growing under your branches, you always want to shelter her from the wind and rain, but have you thought about it, there are some realities, she always has to face." ”

For example, disparities between families.

As the old saying goes, the door is right, this statement is very consistent with my past values, I think, only the same thoughts, the same environment, in order to produce an efficient marriage, what we want is a strong combination, do not have to consider happiness or not, however, like a person, in fact, some deep-rooted values, will also change.

I know what it means to choose this girl, since our first intimate contact, I have never thought of changing this idea, there has always been a conflict between people, so I am ready to run in.

And what I didn't expect is that sometimes, in fact, the so-called true love will be smoothed out by contradictions, I have seen too many couples who are not together, material, spiritual and other problems, and she and I belong to the couple that will be smoothed out by reality.

That's what I'm worried about.

Yuan Xiaojie's dislike for Wang Luoqi was worse than I thought, and this intuition reminded me that it was time to tell her about Leizi.

In fact, I regret hiding some things from her, such as my divorce, such as Wang Luoqi's brother once saved me, such as my relationship with Wang Luoqi, etc., and the trust between us is also consumed bit by bit by these seemingly small concealments, I agree with what Yuan Xiaojie said, she said that a woman's disappointment in a man is definitely not a one-time arrival, she is through the accumulation of time, to the end of sadness and despair.

Before I experienced this relationship with her, I thought that my woman had to obey me and be centered on me, but after falling in love, I understood the importance of communication and trust, and I was not worried about my concealment from her, I naively thought that as long as it was true love, what was this deception?

But with more deception, less trust will naturally occur.

Love at first sight can indeed provoke hormonal explosions, but it takes two people to maintain it for a long time, if you want to give a woman happiness, the material foundation must be comprehensive, and accepting her is only the first step, accepting her family and understanding her past can make a relationship full of tacit understanding.

Of course, at that time, I didn't think about this, I stubbornly thought that she trusted me too little, I stubbornly believed that even if I hid something, it was because I loved her, and I even thought that everything I set for her was her best choice, however, it was not.

Because love requires two independent souls to go through continuous running-in and become one, you can't wear out her personality, but you also have to tolerate her personality. And from love to marriage, what is needed is for two people to stick to it together.

I confess that I didn't understand the truth when I handed over the ring, and I thought that since we loved each other, those trivial concealments, with a little explanation, she would have accepted them naturally, but why? Why do you want her to blindly tolerate you?

I'll admit I was furious when she slapped me in the same place where I set up my proposal, but then I thought about it, what if I said it all openly?

I confess that I was extremely disappointed when she angrily chose to leave, and I did not try to find out why she left at this time, if I knew that her parents were forcing her to take it from me, if I knew that she was afraid and frightened in this relationship, no matter how far I went, I would have run to it.

We are all naïve and lame primary school students in love, in love, collision and entanglement, quarrel and growth, and finally understand that the love that cannot be separated is the emotion worth waiting for.

Of course, if time could be repeated, I would definitely give up all the time I wasted and love each other.

PS: See you tomorrow.

Think about it, in fact, we have all gone through detours to know how to cherish, may you cherish the people in front of you like them.