(Girls' Literature)

After being in the hospital for twenty days, Su Le was discharged.

She's recovering well, and Nuan Nuan is healthy, and she doesn't want to be stuffy in the hospital all the time.

In the days that followed, Su Le took good care of Nuan Nuan at home.

Because it was not easy for Nuan Nuan to come, I thought that I would make up for it if I could, and try to take care of her as much as possible.

So after Nuan was born, Su Le made up his mind to work hard to bring Nuan Nuan well.

And Su Le felt that taking care of Nuan Nuan was to do his part well.

So Su Le hopes that since Nuan Nuan was born, he can stay by her side, take care of her, and accompany her growth.

But after more than five months, Su Le found that in her life, she can't just take care of children, she also has her own value to realize.

Moreover, although Nuan Nuan was noisy at first, when I took care of her every day, I felt that my head was big.

But after a few months, Nuan Nuan is much more obedient and docile than before.

Now my mother is taking care of her at home alone, and she can also take care of her, but she has become a burden next to her, and she can't help her mother do much housework, and Nuan Nuan's side is also her mother, who knows more and takes care of her better.

In the past few days, she has been thinking seriously for a long time.

Su Le felt that women should still have to do their own things.

To be honest, she's not really a person who can be at home with peace of mind.

Especially when I saw some relatively big news, my mind had already flown out, and I wanted to go out and do something.

So now, I want to go to work.

It's just that she doesn't dare to say this thought easily.

Yechen hopes that she will stay at home and accompany the little guy more, hoping that she can witness the little guy's growth.

Even before he said that the most important thing for children is the education of the first three years old.

Listening to Yechen's tone, she actually hopes that she will stay at home for the past three years, take care of the children well, and be a full-time wife.

It seems that her main responsibility is to educate the children well.

Su Le also agreed with Yechen's words.

It is important for children to be educated before the age of three, and it is best for parents to take them with them.

So isn't it true that there are many women who quit their jobs after giving birth and stay at home to concentrate on taking care of their children?

Because they have put their minds on their children, they hope that they will put more effort into their children's education.

Su Le actually had this idea at the beginning, but after comparing with his mother, Su Le felt that his mother was really much better at education than himself.

Those women who quit their jobs after giving birth and want to concentrate on taking care of their children and give their children a good educational environment actually have a big reason, that is, they are not worried about their elders.

There is a big gap between the elders and the younger generation when it comes to children's education.

It is for this reason that many people are not worried about their elders taking children.

However, she doesn't need to think about this at all, because she fully believes that her mother can bring Nuan Nuan and educate Nuan Nuan well.

On the contrary, she is not as professional as her mother in some things.

Since I am very relieved that my mother brings Nuan Nuan, and she is really at home, it is not of much use.

Then, I want to go out and work even more.

This kind of thought has been around for a long, long time, but now I don't know how to say it to Yechen.

Although Yechen is a person who laughs and laughs on weekdays, and there is no serious one with him, he actually thinks that sometimes Yechen is also quite machismo.

If not, there wouldn't be so many things to hide from her, isn't it because of his machismo?

Because he always feels that he can deal with some problems, he always thinks that he can resist anything for her.

Yechen wants her to be a little woman quietly.

Therefore, Su Le thought about it seriously, in fact, she still had to take the initiative to deal with some problems first.

Su Le also had some calculations in his heart, took out his mobile phone, and contacted the eldest sister Su Zheng.

In the afternoon, Su Zheng left work early because he wanted to see his little niece.

Generally, when there is no big news, those of them who have already reached the position of editor-in-chief can leave work early.

In order to come over to see Nuan Nuan before, Su Zheng also got off work several times in advance, but this time he came here in advance because of Su Le's call.

After coming here, I went to see my niece first, and now Nuan Nuan is getting more and more cute, and Su Zheng likes it too.

Su Le was also a little surprised to see Su Zheng's heartfelt love for Nuan Nuan, the little guy.

Before, Su Le felt that the eldest sister, a strong woman in the workplace, should be a person who doesn't like children very much, if not, the marriage with Yu Ming and the two would not have dragged on, and in the end they were both thirty.

The most unacceptable thing is that neither the eldest sister nor Yu Ming had a good result in the end.

Some things are not delayed for the better, but because they drag on for longer, they lead to some bad results.

Su Le dispersed the single-minded thoughts in his heart and took the initiative to walk in front of the eldest sister.

Su Zheng came over today and knew that her little sister must have something, otherwise why would she call her when she was taking the child.

And she vaguely guessed some reasons.

But he didn't deliberately put it out, and he still had to wait for his little sister to take the initiative to speak.

These things about Su Le himself, Su Zheng felt that Su Le also needed to make his own decisions.

After all, she is now married, has a husband and a family, and is different from before.

When she was in the company before, she helped everywhere, but Su Zheng just felt that this should be something that my sister should be able to do, not an obligation.

What's more, she now has Yechen by her side.

Therefore, after having a husband, her eldest sister should not interfere too much.

Now she lives her own life, and she does things by herself.

Su Le was restrained for a while and said, "Eldest sister, there is something I want to discuss with you. ”

Su Zheng nodded, "Let's talk about something directly!" ”

"That, didn't you say before, when I went abroad with Yechen before, you helped me find an excuse so that I could come back to Lu Hai to continue working...... Now that I've given birth and it's been half a year, I wonder if I can go back to work now! ”

Su Zheng knew that Xiaomei would talk about this.

When I came to see Su Le these days, I obviously saw that her mind flew out a little.

When you start taking care of your child after giving birth before, you may still be a little overwhelmed.

However, the bigger the child, the better it is, after the first three months, as long as the child is full every day, he will generally play there by himself, as long as someone is watching, there is not much to worry about.

What's more, there is also a mother who is taking care of her here.

At that time, the two sisters were raised by their mothers, so their mothers have a lot of experience in raising children.

On the contrary, every time I come over, I see my little sister, who is still very young with children.

Su Zheng also understands better, the age of the little sister is here, she is only in her early twenties this year, and she has children in less than a year after graduating from college.

At my little sister's age, I haven't played enough! It's completely at the youngest and most youthful age!

However, she has already taken the lead in becoming a mother, and there will definitely be many things that she doesn't understand as a mother at such an age.

It's actually enough to have a mother here.

And the mother is not rigid, she just uses the past way to educate and manage the child, and she has also been exposed to a lot of new-age things to educate children. In terms of bringing children, it is really no less than the confinement lady invited outside.

Moreover, the confinement lady outside may be a little uneasy to use.

Haven't there been many reports on the news recently that confinement sisters-in-law abuse babies in various ways when adults are not at home? There has even been news of the abuse of dead babies.

If it's your mother's own, don't worry at all.

How can a grandmother do bad to her own children!

So for many reasons, Su Zheng felt that Xiaomei would definitely not be a full-time mother at home all the time, and she would definitely want to go out to run some news.

When Xiaomei was in college, she was quite enthusiastic about the journalist and media industry, otherwise she wouldn't sneak out to do some secret visits every summer and winter vacation.

Xiaomei has a great interest in this aspect, how can she say that she will let go!

Naturally, children are also important.

But at Xiaomei's current age, Su Zheng feels that when the child is taken care of, it is also possible to develop a career, and a career is also more important for women.

After Su Zheng heard Su Le say this, he stared at her, "Are you sure now?" ”

Su Le originally thought that the eldest sister would say something against her, but now looking at the eldest sister's expression, she thought to herself, I guess she was thinking too much, and seeing that the eldest sister was like this, she was quite supportive of her going out to work.

"I've been thinking about it for a long time, Nuan Nuan has my mother to take care of me, and I'm more at ease, so I think I'm still young now, and I also want to do some of my own things, and I can't really stay at home and be a full-time housewife."

In the past few days, he has also thought about it, being a full-time housewife at home, a husband and children, and worrying about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea...... It's really not her pursuit.

At the beginning, when the little guy was not born, Su Le actually thought that after giving birth to a child, a woman really can't be a housewife, because a woman also needs to have her own career, and if she throws herself into the family all her life, she is always a little unwilling.

I have been in school for so many years, but I am not a full-time wife just because I have graduated from college, otherwise I have worked so hard in college and learned so much knowledge, will I have to use it to take care of children?

What's more, the knowledge she learned in college didn't teach her how to take care of children!

Therefore, when his mother came over, Su Le had some small calculations.

Her mother is retired, so it is also a good choice to help her take care of the children and go out to work by herself.