038 I can't persuade my bitter wife
Bai Xuan cried again when she said this: "Do you know...... When I heard these words, I really felt like a knife, I felt that he was too cruel, so I couldn't be tactful, was I really so bad in his eyes? Sister, do you think he dislikes me for not being beautiful enough? ”
"Look at your worthless appearance!" I glared at her in hatred and scolded, "Can't you give me some backbone?" Do you have to hang yourself on his crooked-necked tree?! Now that he refuses directly, you can immediately withdraw your cheap tears and cheer me up. ”
I grew up with Bai Xuan, and I have always treated her as my own sister, and I have never seen her bullied since I was a child. I remember when she was in elementary school, she was scolded and pushed by a classmate, and I always had to stand up for her to "avenge her hatred" and throw that classmate to the ground and cry with my own hands......
"Sister, it's useless for you to say this," Bai Xuan shook her head and said with a sigh, "I can't cheer up at all now, my heart hurts so much, I can't eat, I can't sleep, and I don't have motivation to work...... I even wanted to quit my job, I didn't want to run into him every day in a company. ”
"You're crazy, you went to such great lengths to get into the airline, and now you want to quit for a dog man, you really want to do it. Are you worthy of your uncle and aunt? ”
"Sister, don't scold him like that." She wiped her tears with a tissue, and said with a sob, "I just feel that I am too self-conscious, the conditions of others are so superior, all the flight attendants in our company want to pounce on her, how can he put me in his eyes?" ”
"Then you know, you are still a moth to the fire, I really want to kill you."
"But I ......," she said, the more excited she became, and she couldn't control herself, "I really like him, I can't let it go at all, and I don't want to give up...... After reflecting for a long time, I still think that the fundamental reason is that I am not beautiful enough, I want to go for plastic surgery, put my nose a little higher, and open the corners of my eyes, and then this face will be perfect...... Sister, you can lend me money for plastic surgery! ”
"Shut up! The more you talk about it, the more outrageous it becomes! Let me tell you, if a man doesn't love you, you will become Li Jiaxin, and he will not love you. Besides, you're pretty enough now...... All you can say is that you're not his dish, and he can't find that feeling from you. Xuanxuan, you are twenty-four years old, not a little girl, don't be so dizzy when doing things, calm down! ”
"But once love happens, it's completely involuntary."
"What kind of love are you, it's just wishful thinking!"
"Hey," she propped her head in distress, "sister, you see I'm half dead, so don't hit me." I can't get out at all now, and I don't plan to give up on him, I'm coming to you, not for you to enlighten me, but for you to help me find a way,"
"What else can I think of for you?"
"Help me think about how to catch up with him...... Bai Xuan's state was simply stunned, "Sister, you are so experienced and smart, you will definitely be able to give me good advice." I don't think happiness is something you have to wait for, you need to take the initiative to grasp it. ”
I was speechless for a moment, and I felt like I was playing the harp to a cow, trying to wake up a man who was pretending to be asleep......
Seeing that I was silent, she muttered to herself: "He once told me that he would not find a colleague to be his wife. I'm just thinking about changing careers, anyway, my job is a youthful meal, and I don't have to be laid off when I'm old in a few years. Otherwise, sister, you can help me find a stable job. When I change jobs and enrich myself, maybe he will consider me? ”
"Xuanxuan, do you want to be so humble." I really can't listen to it anymore, "You have no self-esteem like this, don't talk about him, even I look down on you." The best advice I can give you is to give up on this person. ”
"What you said is the same as not saying it,"
"Don't you think about your parents? They are just such a precious daughter as you, if they know that you don't eat, drink and work all day for a man, and still find a way to chase after you, how can they stand it?! Originally, my aunt was a person who wanted to love face, do you want to be angry with her? ”
"Then don't tell them," Bai Xuan's expression softened, and muttered to herself, "Anyway, he is so good, tall and handsome, and he is still a pilot, I guess my mother will know about it and encourage me to chase it." ”
I suddenly thought that Gao Renfei also belonged to their airline, and hurriedly asked: "By the way, Xuanxuan, does your company have a name-"
As soon as I said this, I stopped in time......
"What's it called?" She asked.
"It's nothing," because it suddenly occurred to me that if she knew that I was familiar with Gao Renfei, she would definitely encourage me to let Gao Renfei convince the pilot she liked, and then it would be a mess, so forget it.
"Sister, you gave me some constructive advice, what should I do next? Anyway, I'm not going to let go, I must chase him, you can give me an idea! ”
Hearing this, I was a little annoyed: "You've said everything to this point, how do you want me to give you ideas?" It's like there is a cliff in front of you, you want to jump down, I told you not to jump, you don't listen, you have to let me tell you which method to use to jump down smoothly? ”
"Am I that bad? I've just confessed, maybe after a long time, let him understand me better, everything will be different again......"
"Then why are you still asking me why," I drank some tea depressedly, and the more I thought about it, the more angry I became, "I said last time, you really like a man, don't sleep with him easily, once you become a purely carnal relationship, and want him to fall in love with you, it's wishful thinking." I know too much about men's psychology......"
"Well, since you're so opposed, I really can't talk to you anymore. I thought you were my sister and could solve my problems, but now it seems that I can't count on anything. ”
"Then you go after it, I support you with both hands and feet, anyway, you won't turn back if you don't hit the south wall. Hit your head and bleed again, come to me and cry, I just beg you not to think about suicide......"
After eating a meal, she persuaded a lot of bitter words, but she didn't listen to a word, and the whole feeling was that it was a dog. That's it, anyway, she's my sister and not an outsider, even if she was half angry at the time and didn't want to pay attention to it, I had to worry about her afterwards.
**
Since yesterday's board meeting, Sail Group has quickly issued a notice to all employees regarding my appointment as general manager in the company's internal system. I officially replaced Wei Lianhai and settled in his office. For several days in a row, there was no more opposition from Liang Xiuxing's side, and Wei Lianhai had not come to the company to make trouble, so I seized the time to familiarize myself with all the important documents about Sail Group.
Once I was immersed in my work, I realized that I didn't have the energy to worry about other things at all, and even Wei Lianheng didn't have time to dwell on it. He called me and said that he was going to Kuala Lumpur tomorrow on a business trip for about a week, and asked me to regularly attend some of the meetings that he needed to attend and meet with a certain partner according to his secretary's schedule......
I had to say yes one by one.
It seems that he arranged the position of general manager for me, purely to facilitate him, the president, to be absent from work and lazy at any time, anyway, those unimportant, trivial and annoying work, he can push me to solve, and then go to have a good time. Well, that's a good wishful thinking.
At this time, I received a text message from my college counselor, Mr. Liu, saying that the day after tomorrow was her wedding day and hoped that I could attend.
When I saw this, it was a ...... It is not an exaggeration to describe it as "five thunderstorms". What year is it, and there are too many people getting married, right? I just went to Beijing not long ago, and now it's a red bomb from Shanghai, it's really endless.
Actually, I don't know if I'm stupid or if I have too much money to burn, but whenever someone sends me this kind of invitation, even if it's just a very shallow acquaintance, I will generously send a red envelope to the other party, at least 500 yuan...... If you send too much, you will inevitably get annoyed.
But this time it was the college counselor who got married, and I couldn't rely on it anyway.
Anyway, the counselor was only four years older than me, and he had a very good personal relationship with me back then, and he was half of my best friend. She often took advantage of her position to help me get various benefits and awards from the college, for example, one year when my professional class grades were not the first in my grade, but this counselor added a lot of points to me in other aspects, so that I successfully won the national award of 8,000 yuan...... There are other little things like this, and the list goes on.
So her marriage this time is still a late marriage, if I just take a red envelope and people don't go, it's really not good. After taking stock, except for the little things arranged by Wei Lianheng recently, he was not very busy, so he decided to fly to Shanghai.
The night before leaving, I took a shower and lay on the bed, holding my mobile phone and scrolling through the circle of friends as usual, and saw a large number of wedding photos, babies, and show affection...... The more I watched, the worse my mood became, so I simply retreated and closed my eyes in a daze.
There are still two years to go. At my age, both men and women, are normally married or about to get married, but I, except for being sober at work, live a chaotic life on weekdays, and I have never even thought about who to marry and have children.
I think that tomorrow night's counselor's wedding will definitely invite a lot of college classmates, and when everyone gathers at the table, it will be equivalent to another class reunion. After so many years, everyone must have started a family and dragged their families, and it is estimated that I am the only one.
After all, I was also a school flower in school back then, if I was still alone at this age, maybe how many people secretly laughed, those boys who chased me, those girls who were jealous of me, and all the people who wanted me to be unlucky...... Didn't you just find the point to laugh at me?
There has never been a moment when I am so ashamed of being single, especially when I am going to see someone else's sweet wedding tomorrow, I think that if others do not abuse me, I will also be abused by this environment of the whole world showing affection.
So I came up with a way --