"Tell me, what's wrong with you?"

Her eyes were red, obviously crying, and now when I asked her, her eyes were full of tears, but she shook her head and didn't speak. Fastest update access: щщщ.79XS.сОΜ.

"Did you quarrel with Yue Yang?"

She shook her head.

I guessed again, "Is that a fight with your mother-in-law?" ”

She bit her lip and didn't move.

"Tell me why we quarreled? Is it because of something before? ”

After all, she couldn't help but shed tears and said, "Sister, I can't give birth!" ”

I was stunned for a moment, and quickly asked, "Did you think it yourself or did you go to the hospital to check what the doctor said?" ”

Zhang Guoguo cried, "I have been married to Yue Yang for almost a year, and we had sex together before we got married, but my stomach has not moved at all so far, I went to the hospital for examination, and the doctor said that I was fine, but I just couldn't conceive a child!" ”

After listening to this, I thought for a while, and asked tentatively, "Did Yue Yang go to the hospital for a check-up?" ”

Zhang Guoguo nodded, "It's normal, he was afraid that I didn't tell me that I had done an examination because I was stressed, but then I turned the report out when I cleaned up the room, and I thought it was my problem after I knew it, but the results of the examination were not abnormal, the doctor said that as long as we relaxed, let the two of us not have too much pressure, we will always get pregnant, but after another half a year, my stomach still hasn't moved!" ”

"Guoguo, since the doctors have said that you are fine, then you are normal, the pregnancy should go with the flow, you can't be in a hurry, the baby will come when she is willing to come, this is also a kind of fate."

Yue Yang said the same thing, but his mother didn't think so, and she insisted that it was my problem, she said......" Zhang Guoguo cried even more, "She said that I, like Yiyi, must have fought with other men many times before before and the child will never be able to conceive!" But I never talked about a boyfriend before Yue Yang, and my first time was also for Yue Yang! ”

"Guoguo, don't cry, you tell me if Yue Yang has explained this matter to his mother?"

She nodded and said, "I said it a long time ago, but his mother didn't believe it, saying that now that medicine is so advanced, making up a "co" is a matter of several hundred yuan, saying that I ...... Said I went to the hospital to make up for ......," Zhang Guoguo couldn't stop crying when he said this.

I frowned, feeling that Yue Yang's mother had gone too far when she said this. This is not only questioning, but also humiliating and slandering!

"So you quarreled with your mother-in-law again today because of the child's problem?"

Zhang Guoguo nodded, tears also fell down in large pieces, I took a tissue to her, and listened to her cry and said: "His mother is really too much, not only scolded me in front of me for being a 'chicken' who can't lay eggs, but also talked about Zhang Yiyi everywhere with the neighbors in the community, saying that our two sisters are not good things, and now the people in the community are pointing at me when they see me!" ”

"I really don't know what his mother thinks, even if it's really that I can't give birth, I shouldn't go around talking about it! And Zhang Yiyi's matter has been going on for so long, why does she keep saying it? She didn't listen to how I explained to her, and the more I explained, the more she felt that I wanted to cover it up, and people said that the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, but she was afraid that other families would not know about us! ”

"Didn't Yue Yang stop it?"

"I used to, but in the past few months, he has been busy with promotions, often working overtime, I get off work early, and every day when I come home, I have to look at my face, and a few times I said two sentences to her, and she ran downstairs to cry to others, saying that I scolded her and yelled at her, I told Yue Yang, he did a few ideological work with his mother, but it was completely useless, and then gradually Yue Yang didn't bother to say it, just let me ignore it, but those gossips kept throwing at me, how could I ignore it?"

"Guoguo, there will always be a solution to things, the doctor is right, you are just too stressed, coupled with the problem of the living environment, this may be the reason why you can't conceive, have you discussed moving out with Yue Yang?"

Zhang Guoguo shook his head, "I mentioned it once, but it was accidentally heard by his mother, and his mother ran to Aunt Yue Yang to cry, saying that we thought she was too old to take care of her, and his aunt immediately called us and scolded us severely, and we didn't dare to mention it after that time." ”

"I'm so depressed every day now, I don't know what to do, I'm in a bad mood every day when I get off work, at first I didn't want to go back, I always walked outside late, but his mother had something to say, saying that I must have something outside, suspecting me of stealing people outside, otherwise how could I go back so late every day?"

Zhang Guoguo sniffed and looked at the sky, and the tears on his face were very clear under the illumination of the light.

I wiped her tears with a tissue and asked her, "Did you run out after a fight today?" Yue Yang is not at home? ”

"He went out with his friends, and during this time he always came home late, either working overtime or drinking with friends."

"So he didn't know you ran out?"

Zhang Guoguo choked up, "I don't know if his mother called him to say, maybe it's useless for him to know, for more than half a year, his mother and I must quarrel every other day because of this matter, and he has long been tired of persuading him." ”

"Guoguo, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and I personally think that in addition to his mother, you and Yue Yang have done something badly in this matter."

"What did I do wrong? Am I not enough to back down? I never quarreled with his mother, and I rarely even talked back! It's always been patience and forbearance, endless forbearance! ”

"Your endless forbearance is wrong!"

She was stunned, and her crying stopped, and she looked at me with teary eyes.

"From the very beginning when you got married, you were giving in, the house didn't have your name, and Yue Yang's salary had to be 'handed over' one-third to his mother, and at that time his mother had completely controlled you. At the beginning, it was for marriage, so I won't talk about these things. Let's talk about now, you and Yue Yang should go to the hospital together for a check-up, and you should also bring his mother and ask the doctor to explain the reason to her, if she suspects that you and Yue Yang have had a child before, then the doctor can best prove your innocence. In addition, his mother preached everywhere in the community that you can't give birth, so why should you swallow your anger? Don't think that the pure ones are self-purifying, the kind of aunts don't believe in this, they believe in Yue Yang's mother's nonsense of painting 'color' and adding oil and vinegar, do you think you can eliminate his mother's anger by swallowing your anger? And Yue Yang, when he got married, didn't he promise that he would face it with you no matter what happened in the future? How long has it been? I don't believe he has to work overtime every day, and his friends don't have to drink every day? I think he's running away from the problem, from the argument you have with his mother. ”

"So what should I do? I'm really 'confused' and miserable now, I don't want to go back to that home at all, and I really haven't been happy for more than half a year! ”

"Guoguo, this marriage is your own choice, you have to learn to solve problems when you encounter them, instead of escaping like Yue Yang, I think his mother doesn't like you This matter is deep-rooted, even if you are pregnant now, his mother may treat you well for the sake of the child in the past few months, but what about after the child is born? What if their family prefers sons over 'women', and you happen to have a 'girl'? Then you're only going to get more noisy in the future! ”

Zhang Guoguo nodded with red and swollen eyes, "His mother really wants a grandson, although his mother was still a little troubled with me because of Zhang Yiyi's matter when we first got married, but I thought that there would be children soon, so it was okay for me, but then my stomach didn't move, and his mother began to change from cold words to mean words, and finally evolved like this." ”

"I think if Yue Yang and I had a child, but gave birth to a 'girl', his mother might not be much better than now."

"I always thought that as long as I was a good wife and daughter-in-law, one day his mother would really like me, but now I think about it, I just thought about the future too well, and my imagination and reality are completely incompatible, I am so naïve, it turns out that marriage is not only about love."

I asked her gently, "Except for the child's matter, how does Yue Yang usually treat you?" ”

"He is still very good to me, just like when we were not married, just because his mother quarrels with me every day, maybe he is also a little annoyed, not very comfortable with me as in the past, and he has recently been 'obsessed' with games, and his mother and I went to the room to play games at the beginning, and no matter how hard and ugly his mother scolded outside, he couldn't hear me crying so sadly, but when the quarrel was over, he would still pull me back to the room to comfort me not to cry."

"I can't tell how he's doing sometimes......"

I sighed, I couldn't imagine that marriage was more complicated than I knew, and that marriage was really not a matter of two people, but of two families.

"Maybe like you said, he is tired of persuading and persuading, but it is not a way for him to escape and leave you alone to face his mother, the two of you still have to communicate well, if it goes on like this for a long time, maybe you will lose interest in this marriage."

I looked at her and said, "Guoguo, you call Yue Yang now and ask him to come and pick you up." ”

She nodded, took out her mobile phone to call Yue Yang, and it took a while to answer, Zhang Guoguo said: "Mom scolded me again just now, I ran out in anger, will you come to pick me up?" ”

"Well, I'll be waiting for you right here."

After reporting the address, Zhang Guoguo hung up the phone, remembered another thing, and said to me: "Yue Yang's cousin is coming here to find a job, and he will live in our house, maybe after his cousin comes, his mother will be afraid that someone will not scold me like that again." ”

I wondered, "What kind of person is his cousin?" Do you get along well? ”