Chapter 840: Concept, Song Family Rules
Song Cheng looked at the sleeping pine nuts, and then sat on the edge of the bed and wiped his half-dried hair.
Liu Qianzhou suddenly turned his head and looked at him with a very inexplicable look.
Song Cheng was inexplicably looked at by her, and slowed down the action of wiping his hair, "What do you want to say?" ”
Liu Qianzhou said: "I just want to ask, what, how old did you start to experience women?" ”
Song Cheng was slightly stunned, and immediately tightened his eyebrows after reacting.
"What did you say?"
Liu Qianzhou immediately laughed: "Is this question too private?" But it's been decades, so you shouldn't be embarrassed, right? ”
Song Cheng saw her playing haha perfunctory, a little angry.
"What about you?" He asked angrily.
Liu Qianzhou smiled and said, "Me? Then I have to ask you, I have experienced you as a man, what do you say? ”
Song Cheng wanted to speak and stopped, which sounded quite satisfied and proud of him.
Liu Qianzhou approached him and pushed Song Cheng's strong arm: "Eh, ask you, how old are you?" ”
"I don't remember exactly." Song Cheng's face darkened, and he responded in a deep voice.
"Can you not be so stingy? I just want to ask, as for being so stingy? Liu Qianzhou laughed.
"Why do you suddenly ask that?" Song Cheng asked her.
Liu Qianzhou thought for a while: "Fifteen or sixteen-year-old boys, do you have that impulse?" ”
"Fifteen or Sixteen Years ......"
Song Cheng couldn't help but think about it, he really couldn't remember what he thought in his heart when he was fifteen or sixteen years old, after all, he was forty-one years old.
"Ah, when you are fifteen or sixteen, do boys already have an impulse?" Liu Qianzhou asked.
Song Cheng raised his eyes and said in a deep voice: "Liao Baolai is fifteen or sixteen years old, isn't it more reliable for you to ask him than to ask me?" ”
Liu Qianzhou shrugged: "Yes, it's because I don't understand him, so I came to ask you." ”
Song Cheng raised his eyes, "What's wrong?" ”
She said that, what happened, right?
Liu Qianzhou sat beside him and sighed softly: "I don't know if it's good to tell you about this, when my mother washed Xiaobao's clothes today, she found that he had a condom in his clothes, he was only fifteen years old, and he was going to take the high school entrance examination next year. ”
Song Cheng was slightly stunned, no wonder she suddenly asked nervously about this.
"He's not too small, he has his own privacy. Don't make a public deal about this, save face for him. "Song Cheng Road.
"Well, I know, I've told my mom to pretend she doesn't know, I just went to Xiaobao and told him I found it, and then asked him where it came from. He said that it was a classmate's, put him there, not his. Liu Qianzhou said.
Song Cheng nodded, "Hmm." ”
Liu Qianzhou was a little surprised: "Do you believe it?" ”
Song Cheng raised his eyes, threw the towel that wiped his hair on the sofa, and then asked Liu Qianzhou: "What about you?" Don't you choose to believe him? ”
“…… Oh, yes, I chose to believe him. But I'm still worried, I'm reassuring my mom not to think about it, it's not a big deal, but I can't help but worry. Liu Qianzhou said.
Song Cheng thought for a while and said, "The matter is not so complicated and serious, don't worry too much." Today's children mature earlier and are more adept at dealing with their own problems than we think. Even if they are curious about this matter during their physical and mental development, it is normal. ”
The corners of Liu Qianzhou's mouth twitched slightly: "What do you say......"
"No matter how bad it is, even if it's his, don't people use it? You see, children know how to protect themselves, and they know no less than adults, so why do you have to hide in front of them? If they're generous, they'll not be so curious about that, will they? Song Cheng said seriously.
Liu Qianzhou opened his mouth and looked at Song Cheng unexpectedly: "I didn't expect you to be quite open, you actually think so open." What would you think if Matsuko found this thing at this age? ”
Song Cheng twisted his eyebrows unexpectedly, and after a while, he said: "Sex education should be popularized for her, but do we, as parents, set an age for her in sexual relations?" Boys can't control it, but they can't stop their daughters, but they must set an age, and they will never allow her to have sex under the age of eighteen. We can't stop it, it's an indispensable part of people's growth, but we need to restrain her from this behavior, isn't it? ”
Liu Qianzhou nodded: "Eighteen years old...... I think I can be constrained to be twenty years old, and before the age of twenty, they are all children. Boy, I can't control it, but if it's our family, we still have to restrain it...... Song City. ”
Liu Qianzhou's tone suddenly became serious and serious, she faced Song Cheng with a serious attitude.
"You say."
"Our family rules are set at the age of twenty, children, regardless of gender, before the age of twenty, no sex, okay?" Liu Qianzhou asked him.
Song Cheng was silent for a moment, probably thinking of his youthful years.
"Mandatory requirements are not very good, things that are too mandatory do not work for today's children, the more restricted you are, the more curious he is, and the more he wants to ......"
Song Cheng made a tactful suggestion, looked at Liu Qianzhou, and hoped that she could think about it: "Eighteen years old is about the same, eighteen years old just after the end of high school, entering college, college students, can you still force children not to fall in love, not to contact the opposite sex?" ”
"I don't have to say that you can't fall in love, you can't have contact with the opposite sex, I just want the children to know how to protect themselves and be responsible for what they do. Although this matter is not a taboo thing, it is necessary for the child to keep his mouth shut. However, I only hope that the next generation of us will not be too open on this matter. Men and women alike, it's too open-minded, it's not too serious, it's not good, isn't it? ”
Liu Qianzhou looked at Song Cheng, and there were some things she didn't say well.
For example, in Western countries, families and schools are very open to sex education for children, but when everyone thinks that this is a very common thing, both boys and girls feel that it doesn't matter, just like eating and drinking.
This kind of education has certain advantages, but in such an environment, too many unimaginable things can happen. Children in many places, fourteen or fifteen-year-olds have already had sex, and they have sex too early, which is also harmful to the body for teenagers who are still growing and developing.
Think about it, if junior high school girls can talk about sex quietly now, isn't it the end of the world?
China is a very subtle country, with a thousand-year-old cultural heritage, science and technology, and economy are following the developed countries of the West.
What needs to be sublimated is that it can be a little more open, but it doesn't have to be too open, and being subtle and introverted is the unique characteristic of the sons and daughters of Greater China.
Song Cheng pulled her to sit down, "We can't manage these things, it's even more useless to manage them, believe in himself, he is not small, and he knows what he does." ”
Even if you do something wrong, there is still time and opportunity to correct it. In the process of growing up, how can parents always carry and lead? If you don't let go, how will the child grow?
"I understand the reason, alas, forget it, I don't plan to care about him too much, go to sleep, I'm too tired." Liu Qianzhou fell to the bed.
Song Cheng looked at her, and suddenly remembered that their great cause of creation was not yet completed, and wondered if he had to hurry up.
However, when she came back today, she didn't stop running around all day, and she was a little distressed.
Song Cheng went to bed, and Liu Qianzhou looked at his hair.
"Won't you blow your hair? My hair is still drenched, so it's not good to sleep like this, and the moisture is all in my head. Liu Qianzhou frowned.
Song Cheng touched it indifferently: "It's okay." ”
Liu Qianzhou couldn't help but roll his eyes, "It's okay? How can it be okay, of course it is. ”
The words fell and pushed him: "Go quickly." ”
Song Cheng was helpless, she had become stronger now.
"Okay, let's go, okay?"
Song Cheng got out of bed, went into the bathroom to find a hair dryer and dried his hair. Outside, Matsuko was already asleep, and the light wind was blowing when he closed the door and opened it. This man does everything without showing his carefulness and warmth.
Liu Qianzhou turned off the headlights and lay on the side of the small cot by pine nuts, Song Cheng came back and asked her, "Do you want to turn off the bedside lamp?" ”
"Leave a little light." Liu Qianzhou said.
Song Cheng went to bed, Liu Qianzhou turned over and asked him, "Is it that you can't sleep with the bedside light on?" ”
"It's okay, you can fall asleep when you're sleepy." Song Cheng Road.
Liu Qianzhou said: "Why don't you turn on the bathroom light?" The light in the bathroom is on, and it doesn't affect this side, and the light is weak on your side. ”
Song Cheng looked at her with a smile, and Liu Qianzhou cracked his mouth and smiled: "What are you...... What do you mean? ”
"Why didn't I say it before I went to bed just now, and I have to say it after I got laid, toss?"
"Ah, I'm sorry." Liu Qianzhou spread his hands and said easily.
Song Cheng had no choice but to turn on the lights in the bathroom and turn off all the lights in the house when he came back.
Song Cheng leaned over to her and pulled her into his arms.
She originally wanted to push him away, but when she saw that he was just holding him and didn't make any other moves, she went with him.
Song Cheng kissed her forehead: "Sleep, there are still many things to do tomorrow." ”
"Hmm."
The moon and stars are scarce, the night passes, and the morning comes again, and the whole world is colder.
When Liu Qianzhou got up, Song Cheng was not in the house, and Songzi was not there, and the quiet room gave her a feeling of crossing.
Got up and wrapped in fluffy home clothes, then opened the curtains, pushed the doors and windows open, and a cool breeze blew in, instantly blowing away the warmth accumulated overnight.
"Wow...... Cooled down. ”
At the end of November, the clouds began to enter the winter that became too cold, she remembered that in previous years, November and December were still late autumn, but this year it was colder than usual.
After Liu Qianzhou washed up quickly, he went downstairs wrapped in loose clothes, but he didn't expect Song Cheng to leave yet, and he was still talking and laughing with Songzi at the table.
Liu Qianzhou subconsciously glanced at the time on the wall, it was almost eight o'clock.
"Not going to work today?" Liu Qianzhou asked unexpectedly.
Song Cheng nodded: "Don't go to the company, do you wash up?" We'll have breakfast after washing up, and we'll go out later. ”
Liu Qianzhou sat down and looked at Song Cheng: "Where are you going?" ”