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When I checked the information at night, I read Baidu Tieba, and there was a girl who opened a post about a live breakup, and it took more than half an hour to chase it, and I found that all scumbags in the world have common characteristics, and silly girls also have common characteristics.
The common characteristics of scumbags are: sweet mouth, always talking, never doing, in the relationship between the sexes, what he pays is a mouth and a hanging.
The characteristics of a silly girl are: to humble herself for love, to be a nanny who doesn't want money, a friend who doesn't want money, and to show that she is a woman in the new era, she doesn't spend men's money, and even spends a lot of money for men.
After the incident, the man was 28 years old and the girl was 18 years old and was in college. For the sake of this man, she reported a third-rate second book with a score line, in order to be in a city with a man. After a city lived together for a year.
The girl said that men usually don't even have money to buy vegetables at home, and she works as a tutor to earn money for men to go out to play (look at the post should be a Sichuan girl, there are many Sichuan dialects in it), the girl is pregnant, and the man's first reaction is not his. This girl is completely dead and proposes to break up. The man began to flirt, all kinds of good babies screamed, the girl almost forgave him, and the owners of all parties left crazy messages, trying to discourage reunion, saying that such a scumbag would never change for the better. He asked the girl to beat the child, all kinds of coaxing, the girl first said that she wanted to give birth to the child, and then I don't know if she was persuaded by the man's phone call, or if she had other plans, she decided to beat the child and break up with the scumbag. At this point, everyone thought that the incident was over, but they didn't expect the landlord to post again a day later, saying that the scumbag strongly requested to add back WeChat and contact information. There was a shout downstairs saying not to add it. The girl still added it, and then saw all kinds of coaxing of the scumbag, saying that it felt very solid to be with the girl, and then asked for an engagement, and said that she would write a letter of guarantee, promising that she would be good to the girl in the future, etc. The girl asked him to re-add friends in order to say this, broke up again, and blocked the contact information again. Now the people who follow the post are worried that the scumbag will be entangled with the girl. This is the end of the matter, and there is no follow-up to the update.
In this case, the girl's posture is humble. said that he knew early on that he was not worthy of this man, so he was kind to him in all kinds of ways, and the money he earned was spent by the man, and he changed himself for the sake of the man. After living together for more than a year, the man only took her to meet a friend of the man, and told others that he did not have a girlfriend, and he had all kinds of ambiguities with the woman outside. The girl said that she was 163 tall and weighed 110, and for the sake of men, she disliked herself for being black and fat, so she went to lose weight to 90 pounds and get whitening injections...... In short, she really lowered her posture to the dust in order to love someone.
What I want to say is that people are equal in any relationship. No one is born superior, no matter what the starting point is, and no matter what their own conditions are, loving themselves is the first. If you don't love yourself, who will love you? You are a person with an independent personality, and you can definitely support yourself in this kind of society, and there is no need to lower yourself for anyone.
Also, economic issues. Personally, I accept and even encourage AA in terms of money in love, but I don't encourage girls to pay for the cost of love. If a man is with you and doesn't even want to pay a penny, the relationship will not last. There are only two situations for such a man. In the first case, he has money but is not willing to spend a penny for you, which means that you are a free friend in his eyes, and he doesn't want to give anything, don't say any feelings. Second, he has no money, which means that he has no ability to earn money, and the future will be so long, a man who is not financially independent will not bring you happiness. There is no other way around.
I was so angry that I couldn't see this post today, and I don't know how many unmarried girls there are under the text, so I really remind you, let's keep our eyes open and stay away from scumbags!