Chapter 253 Educational Methods
Han Fuda looked at his serious appearance and wanted to laugh a little, this is a new learning recently, he likes to pretend to be an adult, he is very active every time he helps the family, and then he likes to pretend to be an adult in the process of working.
Just like now, it is clear that Han Fuda knows what to do, but he gives him instructions with a broken heart, which is really funny, but it can't be laughed, it will damage the child's self-esteem.
Fang Cancan also said that it is a good thing for children to be motivated, and they have not done anything wrong in making trouble, but they just like to work and pretend to be adults to worry, these are all good things, and Fang Cancan and Han Fuda also cooperate with him.
So hearing him say this, Han Fuda nodded and replied, "Okay, Dad knows, thank you." ”
Nodding with satisfaction, "Okay, then I'll go and help my mother work first, Dad, you hurry up!" Otherwise, it will not be good if the rice is cold. ”
Han Fuda smiled and said, "Okay, I'll go now." ”
Noisy nodded, then went into the kitchen to continue to help, and after a while, came out with a few spoons, and after placing them on the table, he saw that several adults were washing their hands.
He ran to the house and took out a few clean hand towels, "Uncle Wang, Uncle Li, this is clean, you wipe your hands." ”
Wang Mingyue and Li Hanrong thanked him while taking it, waved their hands to show that they didn't need to thank him, and then brought his hand towel to their father, "Dad, wipe your hands." ”
Han Fuda nodded, "Thank you for making trouble." ”
I was happy, I always felt that I had done a great thing, and when Fang Cancan brought out the food, he shook his head when he saw him like this.
Maybe that's what children look like! I always like to be praised by adults, and I always feel that I have grown up, Fang Cancan also thinks it is very good, and is naturally willing to cooperate with his son.
"Trouble, have your father and two uncles finished washing their hands?" Fang Cancan asked.
Noisy nodded, "I'm done." ”
Fang Cancan then said, "Okay, you can take them to sit down quickly!" Take care of your guests, you know? ”
Hao's eyes lit up, nodded and said excitedly, "I know." ”
As he spoke, he walked in front, and then took the three adults to the table, and when the adults were seated, he sat down by himself, which was taught to him by Fang Cancan and Han Fuda, when there are elders, the elders must sit down first.
Then he took care of the adults and brought tea and water to them.
Han Fuda was afraid that his meal would be cold, so he asked him not to take care of the adults and hurry up to eat his own food.
But he waved his hand, "Dad, uncle is a guest, we are the host, we have to entertain guests well is what we have to do, and uncle brought us things when he came, we should treat guests well, so that people will like to come to our house!" “
Han Fuda's forehead twitched a few times, "Okay, leave the matter of taking care of adults to my father, you can eat quickly!" What if you don't wait for the food to get cold and you get sick after eating? ”
Fang Cancan also came out with the dishes at this time, and when he heard Han Fuda's words, he said to the trouble: "Son, you have done a good job, you can eat, you can't keep entertaining guests, otherwise excessive enthusiasm will make guests uncomfortable, do you know?" ”
Looking at her in confusion, Fang Cancan continued to explain, "You have to take care of the guests when you come to the house, but you have been taking care of the guests will make people feel too much, just like every time you want to play, but Dad pulls you to ask questions, do you also feel annoyed?" ”
Troublesome nodded, Han Fuda looked at Fang Cancan a little speechlessly, he just pulled the trouble to ask that time, because the trouble was going to play on the mountain with the children in the village, he kept asking if he was not at ease, and in the end, the children came to the house to make trouble.
Just because he didn't let the trouble go out, so this incident caused a lot of trouble at the time, and in the end he explained that it was because he was worried about him that the father and son reconciled.
As a result, now Fang Cancan has pulled this matter out again, if he is unhappy again, won't the father and son have a cold war again?
Fang Cancan gave him a reassuring look, and then said: "So, adults sometimes come over for something, even if there is nothing they want to talk to adults, so children can't keep disturbing guests, just treat them as their own family, you think about how you usually get along with your parents, you just treat the guests how you treat them." ”
Noisy nodded, "Mother, I understand." ”
Fang Cancan smiled and said, "Then you can eat your own food quickly, this egg custard is a reward for you, and you performed very well today." ”
He took it with a smile, and then obediently ate his bowl, no longer pestering adults to take care of others.
Li Hanrong and Wang Mingyue looked at the joke and smiled, and said to Han Fuda: "Brother Dazi, your son teaches very well, and I also understand, why is he so sensible, your husband and wife's education method is very strange!" “
Han Fuda nodded, "This is all what your sister-in-law said, you can't always treat children as children, you have to reason with them, and tell your children with examples if you are more esoteric, so our family is like this." ”
Li Hanrong and Wang Mingyue nodded, although they didn't have children yet, they both felt that this kind of education method was very good.
The three of them talked while eating, and Fang Cancan continued to cook in the kitchen, because the weather was cold, so she let everyone eat after making three dishes just now.
Then she makes her own dish and serves one to the out, so that she can ensure that there is always a dish that is hot and everyone can eat warmer and more comfortable.
At this time, a person came in from outside the door, Han Fuda glanced at the person who came and frowned, how did these two people know that the county order was in their house?
Wang Mingyue and Li Hanrong also frowned when they saw them, they just wanted to talk to Han Fuda and relax when they came over today, they didn't want to take care of other things, they didn't believe that these two people came for no purpose.
Han Fuda stood up and looked at Han Fuhou and said, "Big brother, why are you here?" Can I help you? ”
Han Fuhou smiled and said: "I made some meat at home today, I didn't want to send you some over, Tianhua also came back, he said that he wanted to come and see you, so I brought him." ”
Han Fuda nodded, "The family made meat today, why don't you take this back and eat it!" “
Han Fuhou smiled and said, "No, our family has also made a lot, so let's give it to you!" Saying that, he looked at the trouble, walked over and touched his head, "Trouble, is it okay to eat meat?" ”
He shrank his neck, glanced at Han Fuhou timidly, and then lowered his head to eat his own food.
Han Fuhou was a little angry when he saw that he was making trouble and ignoring him, this kid is really too uneducated, and when others talk to him, they are all like this.
Han Fuda understands the trouble, because of his previous experience when he was a child, so the trouble has always been a little afraid of the people of the Han family, even if he has not seen the Han family for a long time now, but the shadow of his childhood has always shrouded him.
Han Fuda felt very sorry for his son, the Han family was supposed to be his family, but he was actually afraid of the Han family, how ridiculous it was, the Han family didn't feel as good about him as the people in the village gave him.
Han Fuda walked over and glanced at his son and touched his bowl, "Your rice is cold, go to the kitchen and find your mother to ask her to make you a hot bowl again." ”
The trouble glanced at his father, then picked up his bowl and went to the kitchen, Li Hanrong and Wang Mingyue of course also found out that something was wrong, and watched Han Fuda break up his son, and understood that there must be something in this.
In the kitchen, Fang Cancan heard the movement in the yard, looked at her son who came in, she didn't say anything but touched his head, changed him a bowl of hot rice, and poured the rest into her own bowl.
Later, when she eats, add some hot rice to it, and then add some vegetables to her son, and let him sit on a small stool in the kitchen with a bowl to eat.
Han Fuda in the courtyard looked at Han Fuhou and said, "Big brother, if there are guests at home today, I won't leave you to eat, and wait for our brothers to get together again next time." ”
Han Fuhou was stunned, how could this be, the purpose of his coming here was not to have a small gathering with Han Fuda, but to come to the two people behind him, as for Han Fuda, he had never taken it to heart.
Han Tianhua heard Han Fuda's words, smiled, and hurriedly stepped forward, "Third uncle, I have to leave this afternoon, and Kao Xiucai estimates that he will not be able to come back until the twentieth day of the lunar month, so I will take the time to come and see you." ”
Then I was surprised as if I had just seen it, "Prefectural Order, why are you here?" ”
Wang Mingyue looked at his clumsy performance and suppressed the disgust in his heart, "I'm here to find my friend." ”
Han Tianhua smiled and said, "Is it the third uncle?" What a coincidence, I didn't expect to meet you here, we just met when my sister got married that day, and it was rude for us to say it, I was too busy that day, I heard that the third uncle didn't go to dinner with you. ”
Han Fuda didn't expect Han Tianhua to say such a thing, he glanced at him in some surprise, and then said: "Tianhua, I didn't tell you, the county order won't care, why do you still say it!" ”
Han Tianhua didn't care about Han Fuda's words at all, and continued: "County order, it's really rude for us, you are here today, you must make good amends to you." “
As he spoke, he sat down, and Han Fuhou also sat down, Han Fuda saw that the two of them had sat down, and there was no way, I couldn't let them watch everyone eat!
He went into the kitchen and brought dishes and chopsticks for the two of them, and also brought a bowl of rice, and Han Tianhua and Han Fuhou's goal was achieved at once.
The two happily sat down and talked to the county magistrate while eating, although most of the time they said that the county magistrate just ate his own food and ignored them, but they still ate with relish and talked freely.
Han Fuda was also helpless, so he could only eat his own food silently, and the atmosphere in the courtyard was not good all of a sudden.
On the Han family's side, the more Li Feiming thought about it, the more he felt that something was wrong, and the more he thought about it, the more he couldn't sit still, especially when the Han family finished eating, and Han Fuhou's father and son still didn't come back, so he was even more suspicious in his heart.