"Is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law difficult to handle?"

Wang Shu was stunned and opened the conversation, "I'll tell you about my mother-in-law, she is an old lady who has never read, she and my father-in-law still lived in the countryside in the early years, we only go back once a year for the New Year, and each time it is only a few days, so there is no friction, but after my father-in-law left a few years ago, she moved in with us." -79-”

"It had only been more than two months since I lived there, and the space in my home was filled with scrap, and even my son's room was littered with old newspapers."

Xu Fangfang was puzzled and asked, "Have you saved too much to sell scrap?" ”

"Yes, if she saves too much, she will drag it out and sell it in batches, in fact, it is just some plastic bottles and waste paper boxes, and she can't buy a few dollars at all, but my mother-in-law is happy about it, but she is happy, but I am miserable! The originally clean house was full of waste products, which attracted flies and smelled bad, and there were cockroaches crawling out in the summer, which was really disgusting to me! ”

"And in the bathroom, since my mother-in-law came, she didn't let us use the 'pumping' water to flush the toilet, saying that it was a plain 'wave' water, and she didn't know where to 'get' the kind of plastic bucket used on the construction site, looking dirty, all the water for washing clothes and washing vegetables and dishes was accumulated to flush the toilet, our toilet itself was small and not very ventilated, and the water in the bucket was the same as the water, and it was a strange smell when you walked in."

"Stir-frying, too, the remaining oil in the bowl after eating in the morning is not allowed to be poured, you have to save it, and then use it for stir-frying after you have more!"

The first time I heard that someone had this habit, I was a little surprised, "Didn't you educate your mother-in-law about this?" ”

"Why is it not popular? I said that this is not healthy, and it is easy to get cancer for a long time! But she was fine, and thought I was cursing her, saying that she had been like this all her life, and that she was in good health. That time we had a fight, she cried and ran to her 'daughter', my husband quarreled with me that day, and the next day my sister-in-law came over and quarreled with me, damn, I really had plans to divorce at that time! I didn't cook that afternoon, I packed up my and my son's things and went back to my parents' house, my husband saw that my son and I were not there at work in the evening, and there were fewer clothes, so he was so frightened that he immediately ran to my mother's house, I ignored him, and led my son back after two days. ”

"After this incident, my husband told my mother-in-law and sister-in-law bitterly, but my mother-in-law was still playing tricks, and I had to pick her up, of course I didn't take it, and then after a week, her 'daughter' didn't want to see her, and it is estimated that the two also quarreled, and my mother-in-law came back by herself."

"I gave her a dismissal at the time, saying that if I found her accumulating oil in the bowl to stir-fry vegetables, then I would quit my job and cook at home, so that his son would work overtime until 12 o'clock every day to earn some money to support the family of four, my mother-in-law was afraid that after I resigned, her son would suffer alone, and she really never did that again."

"Later, I threw away all the waste she piled up in my son's room and living room, and she was so anxious that she quarreled with me again, I said that if you want to sell the waste, you can sell it on the same day, don't put it at home, if you like to pile up waste at home, I will ask your son to rent you a house outside for you to live alone, you can pile up enough!"

I asked her, "Is your mother-in-law short of money?" ”

Wang Shu rolled his eyes, "When my father-in-law died, he left more than 100,000 yuan in her hands, and she lived in my house to eat and drink, all of which I was spending, and she didn't even need to buy a roll of toilet paper, and occasionally I took her out to buy a few clothes, and my husband gave her 300 yuan a month to 'spend' money, this 300 yuan is her own, she doesn't like to play cards, and she has no other hobbies, so she likes to watch TV and listen to dramas at home, and go out at night to watch people dance square dances, all of which are not 'spending' money." ”

"There is money saved, but she is reluctant to 'spend', to save the money, we told her many times that she can't change it, so we went with her. But after I scared her that time, she basically didn't move the waste to the house, just some waste newspapers that didn't look dirty, and she put them on the balcony, so I turned a blind eye and couldn't see them. ”

Xu Fangfang said: "Although it is not a big thing to say it, the small things in life are the most annoying." ”

"Yes, and then my mother-in-law favors my sister-in-law, and secretly stuffs tens of thousands of dollars for my sister-in-law, she thinks I don't know, I just don't bother to say. What makes me most angry is that there is a New Year, because every New Year is in my house, my sister-in-law's family all came over, I ate and drank to serve a group of people, my stupid husband still thinks that everyone gets together 'very' happy, but I am alone, busy from morning to night, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law do not help anything, to the evening after eating the sister-in-law's family left, but also to take some food and drink back, after the people left, I have to be busy washing dishes and busy cleaning, really tired waist' It's not straight, but my mother-in-law says that she is old and going to sleep as if she can't see it, and it's like that every year! So one year I proposed to go to my sister-in-law's house for the New Year, and guess what? ”

"Your mother-in-law doesn't want to?" I guess.

"Yes!" Wang Shu almost flipped the table, "Do you know what she said?" The old woman actually said that there were eight people in the two families, and her 'daughter' would definitely be tired after so many people's meals, and I couldn't hold it back at the time, saying that I had someone to help me when I celebrated the New Year at my house two years ago? The old woman said that it was different, saying that her 'daughter' was not in good health and could not '' work! I explode at the time, her 'girl' is not in good health? When I quarreled, the 'door' was so loud that I could hear it in the 'door' guard room in my community! Later, my husband came to my sister-in-law and said that if I don't celebrate the New Year at your house this year, I deserve to be a mother and daughter, and my sister-in-law also said that she can't be burdened, and she still wants to spend the New Year at my house! ”

"After that time, I never agreed to the two families to spend the New Year together, I took the initiative to let my mother-in-law spend the New Year in my house this year, and go to the 'daughter' house next year, my husband was angry with his wife in his eyes after these few times, and acquiesced in my approach, now I am the boss of the family, and I have the final say in big and small things." Wang Shu was also angry when he said this, and sneered, "The 'female' person must be ruthless, if you are not ruthless, others will be cruel to you for you!" ”

I said to Xu Fangfang: "Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, some people are worried about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and some people are worried about love, but nothing is the whole of life. ”

"Su Ran is right, nothing is the whole of life, when I wanted to divorce my husband, I decided to take my son to live a good life in the future, what a bullshit husband and a bullshit mother-in-law!"

Xu Fangfang was bored for a while, and said faintly: "I just can't figure out why I haven't been able to meet a good man." ”

I looked at her and concluded, "Because you haven't been out of the circle that binds you." ”

She was stunned and didn't answer, looking thoughtful.

After a while, Wang Shu kicked me, "Mr. Fu is here." ”

I turned my head, and sure enough, I saw Fu Lingye enter the café, his eyes were searching for me, thinking that this man was really inexplicable, but he still beckoned to him.

Fu Lingye came over and asked us, "You and Wang Shu work together five days a week, the topic should have been finished a long time ago, right?" ”

Wang Shu smiled, "Mr. Fu, you don't understand this, there are always new topics between 'women', even if it is an old topic, we can also talk about new feelings." ”

"Then I'll set aside an hour a day for you to talk to?"

Wang Shu immediately heard the meaning of Fu Lingye's words, and immediately said: "After chatting, we have already finished talking, in fact, there is nothing to say, it is all nonsense, we have to leave a long time ago, but we are pestering us not to let us go, we will wait for you to come and pick her up." ”

Me: "......"

I saw in Wang Shu's body the way I used to face Fu Lingye, trembling, for fear of making the big boss angry, and constantly reminding myself that the sycophants that should be photographed must be photographed, and the sycophants that should not be photographed should be properly photographed......

Xu Fangfang came by car, so she sent Wang Shu home, and I was directly caught by Fu Lingye in the car.

After getting in the car, Fu Lingye was not in a hurry to drive, but stretched out his hand, "Give me the mobile phone." ”

I 'touched' my phone and handed it to him and asked, "What are you doing?" ”

He pressed it a few times and gave it back to me, saying, "I set an alarm clock for you at half past eight, and the 'door' will be closed at nine o'clock in the evening, and if you don't get home at nine o'clock, see how I punish you." ”

"Why? Then you sometimes come back in the early hours of the morning! ”

"I have to socialize, if you have the necessary entertainment, you can come back late."

It's so angry! Where will my assistant in the sales department have the necessary entertainment? Twice a month, I only occasionally go out with Wang Shu and the manager to talk about the list!

Angrily leaning back in his seat, he asked him, "Why are you urging me to go back in such a hurry?" I knew my aunt was coming, and I couldn't do anything when I went back. ”

Fu Lingye was unhappy at first, "Bai Suran, do you think what I am doing with you for?" ”

I smiled and asked him, "Then what are you here for me?" ”

"Maybe I want to watch you be stupid every day."

The smile on the corner of my mouth froze, and I was so angry that I wanted to hit him, but he grabbed my hand, and his voice softened, and said, "I always feel that something is missing when you are not at home, even in the study, I want to listen to the sound of you watching TV or doing something outside." ”

This heart was so warm, Fu Lingye said to himself in the next second: "Maybe my eldest uncle is here and needs love and care." ”

I'm going to laugh when a big man with a often indifferent face says something like this!