There is a real meaning in this Chapter 171 Your temperament at that time was much worse than it is now
During the period of recuperation in Dong Xu Hospital, the Xu family was not peaceful, the old man was in poor health, and the matter of recuperating in the hospital could not be concealed after all, the three brothers of the Xu family were in a harmonious face, but even the terminally ill old man could see the bloody atmosphere that permeated it. The last thing he wanted to see was going to happen.
The group of mercenaries who assassinated Xu Nanshan that night seemed to have evaporated from the world since that night, and Xu Nanshan sent someone to find it, but there was no news.
Until definitive evidence is found, it cannot be pointed out that Xu Qingyuan did it.
In order to be happy, the Xu family advanced the marriage between the Xu family and the Zhen family, and people outside probably guessed what this series of actions were.
The three brothers of the Xu family are in civil strife, the Xu family is in danger, and the family in City B will be in danger at that time. That's going to have to be reshuffled.
The old Xu family, Tang family, Zhen family, and Shen family can be said to be both prosperous and lossy, and they have been dominating this stage for too long.
Now, there are more people who are willing to watch them make a big deal about it.
It's the Lunar New Year soon. The old man went back to Xu's house, but everyone knew what this meant. At this moment, the old man was crooked on the soft couch, and Ying Ruyu was talking to him on the side, "I have some regrets...... I used to spend too little time with you. Do you blame me. โ
Ying Ruyu smiled, relieved smile, blame him?
When she was young, she married him at the age of twenty, and his man who was Chinese New Year's Eve eight years old and had a successful career thought that he was the most attractive to women, and she not only liked him, but also admired men by women.
It's not that she hasn't heard of it, and the reason why she chose her with a low background is because she is somewhat similar to her ex-wife.
Xu Jingyu and her ex-wife childhood sweetheart. Growing up together, it's very loving.
The eldest lady of the Tang family was a well-known beauty at that time, the first lady at that time, and anyone who had a little status who didn't want to marry home.
But who has the courage to compete with Xu Jingyu, compared to financial resources and strength, they are a lot worse than others.
At that time, Xu Jingyu used 5% of Xu's shares as a dowry, which shows the importance he attaches to his wife.
After marriage. The husband and wife were in love, and gave birth to their first child Xu Bonian the next year, because before giving birth to Xu Bonian, she was frightened and had a difficult birth, and Miss Tang fought for half her life to give birth to the child, and her body also fell ill at that time.
A woman giving birth to a child is equivalent to walking away in the ghost gate, so, after that, Tang Xinru did not get pregnant again, but she always regretted that she did not give the old man another daughter, so after eight years, she did not listen to the doctor's persuasion again, and gave birth to the second Xu Zhongchun, although she was not a girl, but the Xu family was also very happy.
It's just that Tang Xinru's body was indeed seriously damaged, and after three years, he finally went.
Xu Jingyu was devastated, his temper was violent, and he didn't recover from his wife's death for a long time.
It wasn't until five years later that Xu Jingyu saw Ying Ruyu at a chance party, in fact, they didn't look too alike, they looked similar but not alike.
Tang Xinru is graceful and docile, but Ying Ruyu's eyes, in addition to being young and jumping, are also stubborn.
The people around me didn't know how to leak the news out, and Ying Ruyu's brother knew about it.
Not to mention that the Ying family had fallen at that time, even at the peak, there was no way to compare with the Xu family, Ying Ruyu's brother was facing bankruptcy at that time, and I don't know where I heard that my sister was a little similar to Xu Jingyu's ex-wife, so I hit this idea.
The old lady of the Xu family is Xu Jingyu's mother, who knows about this, and can't bear to see her son sad, he is only thirty-eight years old, so it is difficult to be a widower all the time.
Although I don't like the practice of selling my sister for glory as the wind, this is not a good way.
If she can relieve her son from the pain of losing his wife, it will be her creation.
is only twenty years old, he has not graduated from college, and his temperament is not too supple, marrying into the Xu family, this university must not be able to study again, the age difference between the two is eighteen years old, if they go to study again, wouldn't it make people feel that they have married a child and come back.
A twenty-year-old girl is full of fantasies about love, and she is naturally unwilling to marry a man who is eighteen years older than herself, but she is the old daughter of her parents, and when she was ten years old, her parents were gone, and her brother raised her, and she can't watch the Ying family go bankrupt, not in front of her brother, but also in front of her deceased parents, and they don't want to do so.
Before Ying Ruyu had time to talk about a vigorous love, she married into the Xu family, and Ying Ruyu's life changed from a sunny day to a thunderbolt on a sunny day.
Since then, it has been covered with a layer of dust.
What impressed her the most was that since the day she married into the Xu family, she had never worn brightly colored clothes.
Cyan, gray, black, just like she did for the rest of her life.
However, one thing she has to admit is that in addition to repaying her brother's kindness, she has a little liking for this man.
However, this love has not had time to tell him, and it has not had time to burn, and it has been worn out in these long and boring years.
In the first few years of the Xu family, Ying Ruyu had a very bad life, a picky and strict mother-in-law, an indifferent and silent husband, and two stepsons who didn't need her to take care of, but they didn't have a good face, especially his eldest son was only six years younger than her.
Ying Ruyu wants to get some warmth from her husband, but the time they meet in a day is not even as good as that of the employees of his company.
Although the men of the Xu family are not competent husbands, they are definitely competent bosses.
Ying Ruyu sometimes thinks that his impression of her is not as impressive as that of the company employees he usually meets.
It may be that God pities her for being too lonely, less than a year after marriage, she became pregnant, and the old lady of the Xu family has been good to her since then.
She also gradually understood that she had just begun to truly integrate into the Xu family.
Now that I think about it, the first person in the Xu family who was really good to her was actually Mrs. Xu.
Although it was a little stricter, it was also a sincere teaching, but it didn't take long for her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have a happy day, and she went.
Ying Ruyu returned to that dead and silent day.
Xu Jingyu didn't treat her a little better because she gave birth to a son for him, on the contrary, she was even more taciturn when they were together.
Ying Ruyu couldn't figure it out at first, was sad, shed tears, and even wanted to ask him to question, but after all, she didn't do that.
The son has become all she has, love, love, or something, let it go, she was twenty-four years old that year.
It is the age when a woman yearns for marriage, but she has seen through all this, although there is no old lady Xu's advice, but she has never chosen clothes other than those three colors, she is only twenty-four years old, and her heart is already old.
Ying Ruyu was silent for a long time and didn't answer the old man's words, Xu Jingyu looked at her, a little regretful, the two of them have been together for so many years, and he didn't even look at her carefully.
It is said that she is similar to Xinru, he didn't think it was very similar back then, but now when he looks at it carefully, he still doesn't feel like it.
Her eyebrows are thicker, her eyebrows are bigger, her lips are thicker than Xinru, and her eyes are like spring water, quiet and gentle, and she will not be so stubborn.
It's just that the outline is a little similar, I have to admit that her beauty is more than good, if she hadn't married him, she might have married a husband who loved her, had children, and had a happy family, which would definitely not be like now.
Speaking of which, she has followed him for more than thirty years, and he rarely gives her a smile, anyway, he doesn't remember a time like that.
Ying Ruyu's expression did not have a trace of waves, "What's the point of saying these now, what's not to blame, it's all old husbands and wives." โ
The old man smiled, nodded and said, "Yes, even you are in your fifties......" Speaking of this, his eyes changed several times, looking at Ying Ruyu, "I always feel that the most sorry person in this life is Xinru, and now that I think about it, the most sorry person is actually you." โ
The old man's words were accompanied by a sigh, followed by a long silence, and the huge room, now like a tomb, exuded the smell of decay.
Should it be like jade? didn't speak, facing the old man's deep gaze, she suddenly didn't understand what his words meant, after so many years, she already knew the old man's temper, and she wouldn't be as smart as she was many years ago.
Ying Ruyu was also enthusiastic about him when she first married Xu Jingyu, since she was married to him, she naturally hoped that the husband and wife would be harmonious, and her friends also said that she would actually hurt people more than her eldest husband.
Her first birthday was three months after marrying him, she woke up in the morning and saw a jade bracelet on the bedside, she was only twenty years old, naturally she didn't like these golden and jade things very much, but this was the first birthday gift he gave her, although it was not in harmony, but she also liked it very much.
Pick it up and put it on your hand, although it is a little big, but it is still suitable, Ying Ruyu wore it on her wrist and shook it twice, the best mutton fat jade, in the morning light, it looks crystal clear, even if she is a person who does not understand jade, she also knows that this jade bracelet, although it cannot be said to be priceless, but it is definitely not cheap,
Ying Ruyu is happy, although he is a little indifferent, but he should like to give her such a precious thing.
After all, she is so young and ยทยทยทยทยท Ying Ruyu looked at herself in the mirror, and besides, she was still beautiful.
Especially in the three months since getting married, the youthfulness of a girl has faded, and there is a charm that only a young woman can have, but because of his youth, the youthful and charming atmosphere is perfectly blended together, and anyone who sees it will be moved.
Ying Ruyu looked at herself in the mirror, the sky was full of red clouds, and she covered her face and was shy for a while before going out of the room.
The Xu family has no habit of sleeping lazy, but fortunately, she has always gotten up early, and Xu Jingyu is also very restrained about those things, so Ying Ruyu has always been punctual.
Today was a little late, just sat down next to Xu Jingyu, and asked him what he wanted to eat in a good mood, Xu Jingyu was also used to it, and said what he wanted to eat, when Ying Ruyu reached out to take it, Xu Jingyu's face changed greatly, and Mrs. Xu hadn't reacted yet, Ying Ruyu had been dragged into the room by Xu Jingyu.
The door slammed shut, and Xu Jingyu took off the jade bracelet from Ying Ruyu's hand without pity.
His expression at that time, Ying Ruyu really doubted, if he couldn't take it off, he might cut off her hand.
Ying Ruyu was stunned, he has never liked to laugh, but he has never seen him lose his temper like this, a little girl who is only twenty years old, she can't hide things in her heart, so she is naturally afraid.
"Who told you to wear it?"
Ying Ruyu spoke hesitantly for a long time, looking at Xu Jingyu with a pair of clear eyes, full of puzzlement, "Isn't this a birthday gift you gave me?" โ
Xu Jingyu frowned, birthday gift? Is it her birthday? He had forgotten.
Ying Ruyu's tears swirled in her eyes, and just when Xu Jingyu thought she would cry, she found that the tears in those eyes never flowed out, but the eyes seemed clearer, like the sky after the rain, and since then, Xu Jingyu has never seen clearer eyes than this.
Xu Jingyu's hand holding the jade bracelet tightened, and after a while, he said, "This jade bracelet is not suitable for you, I have prepared a gift for you!" โ
Xu Jingyu didn't understand why he lied, but, looking at those eyes, he couldn't tell that this jade bracelet was his ex-wife's.
Ying Ruyu's eyes darkened, and she didn't say anything, she just hummed softly, Xu Jingyu was very angry when she pulled her up, and even had the idea of driving her out of the Xu family, but seeing her like this, she couldn't bear it after all.
"Let's go down and have breakfast!"
"Good!" Although Ying Ruyu is stubborn, she is very well-behaved, if she leaves others alone, even if she doesn't make a big fuss, where will she be so obedient, as if nothing happened. Remnant Bubba.
Mrs. Xu obviously felt that the atmosphere was wrong, but she didn't ask why, and the breakfast was quite unhappy.
It's just that Xu Jingyu rarely ordered the kitchen before going to work, today is his wife's twentieth birthday, and let the kitchen dinner be cooked according to his wife's taste.
Mrs. Xu was stunned when she heard her son's order, but in the end she didn't say anything.
Ying Ruyu hid in the room alone after breakfast, and finally couldn't help crying, she couldn't be discovered, she could only wipe her tears secretly, she was not a fool, and she naturally guessed from Xu Jingyu's expression that the jade bracelet must be his beloved thing, and it must be her ex-wife's thing.
In the evening, Xu Jingyu came back very early, a thirty-eight-year-old man, who had already passed the romantic time, proudly gave her a set of diamond necklaces, maybe more expensive than the jade bracelet, but Ying Ruyu didn't like it.
However, in front of Xu Jingyu, she still happily accepted it, but she didn't wear it.
Xu Jingyu naturally saw that she didn't like it, no matter how smart a twenty-year-old girl was, how could her mind be compared to him.
However, Xu Jingyu is not a person who likes to be angry, this matter is also his responsibility, it is a thing like a heart, he forgot to put it away when he took it out at night, who knew that she misunderstood it as a gift for her.
Xu Jingyu corresponded to Ruyu before this incident, except that she didn't have much impression except that she was young and beautiful enough to attract men, but this incident made him think a little more highly of her.
At least this non-noisy and noisy temperament is very much to his liking, there are more young and beautiful girls, but there are few smart and sensible ones.
For the first time, I felt that the old lady had chosen the right person.
"Why did you put it away, don't like it?"
Xu Jingyu's voice sounded behind Ying Ruyu, Ying Ruyu's body suddenly tightened, a layer of fine sweat appeared in her palms, and she turned around and said, "It's not that I don't like it, it's the first time I have received such a valuable gift, I'm afraid that I will accidentally break it!" โ
Xu Jingyu looked at her cautious appearance and showed a rare smile, "If it's broken, it's okay to buy it, no matter how expensive the gift is, it's not as valuable as others!" โ
Ying Ruyu raised her eyes to look at the man with a warm expression and a pleasant face at the moment, she couldn't connect him with the man who dragged her back to the room in the morning and wanted to beat him to death.
The doubt in Ying Ruyu's eyes matched her expression at the moment, it was completely the expression of a young child who didn't know what was going on.
Xu Jingyu was stunned for a moment, then coughed lightly, "What do you think?" โ
Ying Ruyu came back to her senses and shook her head, "I didn't think about anything!" โ
She actually wanted to ask if no one was precious, since no one was precious no matter how expensive the gift, why did he rudely snatch back the bracelet on her wrist, her wrist was pinched and swollen by him.
"Come here!"
Ying Ruyu didn't walk over immediately, obviously a little unable to guess his thoughts.
Xu Jingyu is not a good-tempered person, and when he said the second time, he was a little impatient, "Come here!" โ
Ying Ruyu saw him change his face, and he didn't dare to delay, so he hurriedly walked over, and the man looked at her face and asked for a full minute, "Angry?" โ
Ying Ruyu bit her lip, angry is indeed angry, no woman doesn't care about this, she is his current wife, since he can't forget his ex-wife, why marry her back.
As he said, no matter how valuable it is, it is just an object, comparable to the person standing in front of him?
I'm afraid, he doesn't remember her birthday at all, and the expensive diamond necklace was just bought at an expensive price, not his sincerity.
Xu Jingyu's face changed, and he knew that this woman was stubborn in her bones, just look at those eyes, and sure enough, she dared to give him a temper, he and Xinru married at the age of twenty until she died, she didn't dare to give him such a face.
Xu Jingyu didn't pity the jade and pinched Ying Ruyu's chin, "Say!" โ
A word carries a domineering spirit that cannot be refused, and it is even more angry.
Ying Ruyu is not short at one meter six or five, but he is wearing slippers at home, but he has to raise his head when he looks at Xu Jingyu's eyes, and there is obvious anger in the man's eyes.
Furious.
She was a little scared, her eyes stared back at Xu Jingyu, and she said stubbornly, "No!" โ
"It was better to do so!"
Xu Jingyu didn't speak until a while, and let go of the hand pinching her chin, feeling a little funny in her heart, she was almost forty years old, what kind of anger she was with a little girl, and if she said something bad, she could be her uncle.
Ying Ruyu's skin was white, and Xu Jingyu's chin was pinched with an obvious red mark, Xu Jingyu frowned, looked at her and said, "You rest early, I still have some things to deal with!" โ
Ying Ruyu understood one thing at that time, this man didn't love her, and his heart was cold and hard, but she didn't believe in this reason, and wanted to warm up his heart and melt it, it took her four years, twenty to twenty-four, and finally saw a fact.
What she wants to do is Mrs. Xu, who keeps to herself, not Xu Jingyu's favored wife.
Four years is enough time to smooth out all her edges and corners, making her a perfect stand-in for Tang Xinru, who is really gentle and sensible, without a trace of waves.
If Xu Jingyu had said this to her earlier, maybe she would have been moved to tears and speechless, but now, everything is downplayed, and it doesn't matter what kind of love or love is.
She's going to be a grandmother soon, and she's worth it, I'm sorry, what's the matter.
The two looked at each other for a moment, Ying Ruyu smiled unfazed, there was no trace of waves in his eyes, and then the first half of the old man's words said, "Yes, I'm fifty-six, this time flies so fast!" โ
All her good years have been wasted in this Xu family mansion.
Here gave her a woman's superficial glory and wealth, but it drowned her entire youth, which was like a day for decades.
"You still blame me!" Xu Jingyu sighed, if it was him, he would be blamed, perhaps, back then, he shouldn't have married her, he had wasted her for so many years, he was really bad to her and her son.
"The old man is wrong, I don't blame you!" Everything is your own choice, what's so weird.
If she is allowed to choose again, she will still choose to marry him and live such a life, but if she returns to that time, she will not pay her heart wrong, and only enjoy the wealth and glory that Mrs. Xu deserves, in the final analysis, she is still greedy.
The old man sighed, "They all say that you are like your heart, but I don't think it's like it, and your temperament is even more dislike, she has a docile temperament, but you are soft and strong, these more than 30 years, you have also worked hard, and you may not be able to bear it if you change her......"
Ying Ruyu was stunned when she heard this, this is the first time in more than 30 years that the old man mentioned his ex-wife in front of her, Ying Ruyu cried when she heard the old man call out those two words, and her heart still felt like she was stabbed by something, and the feeling was indescribable.
The old man looked into the distance, his expression was very calm, "For many years, thanks to you by my side." โ
In fact, in terms of husband and wife, he and Ying Ruyu have been husband and wife for 35 years, which is longer than the time he has known Tang Xinru.
He really can't remember Xinru's appearance now, every time he thinks of her, he sees Ying Ruyu's face in front of him.
They don't look alike, but I don't know why, they've always been wrong all these years.
Ying Ruyu smiled, "We are husband and wife, and I should accompany you." โ
The old man turned his head, stared at Ying Ruyu carefully, and there was a bit of tenderness in his eyes, Ying Ruyu couldn't help but be stunned, so he also looked at the old man, at this moment, the two of them were speechless.
The old man sighed to himself, "In the past few years, I always think of when you first entered the Xu family...... Alas......"
At that time, if he had been kind to her, would she not have been so alienated from him over the years, and he didn't remember when she started calling him old man like everyone else.
I remember that when she first got married, she would pretend to be mature and call him Jingyu, and when did she refuse to even call his name.
Actually, he didn't mean to snub her.
After getting along for a long time, there will always be some feelings, and he is no exception.
Especially after the birth of the youngest son Xu Nanshan, everyone thought that the youngest son of the Xu family would be his future heir.
After all, how does that sentence say, if there is a stepmother, there will be a stepfather, and the children left by the ex-wife can be better than the mother who has the wind blowing by the pillow.
At that time, Xu Bonian was already fifteen years old, a very well-behaved and sensible teenager, when his youngest son was full moon, he hid in the yard and cried, his appearance inherited Xinru's appearance, except that his eyes were somewhat similar to him, eyebrows, and nose were very similar to his ex-wife.
At that moment, Xu Jingyu felt sorry for Xinru and didn't take good care of their children.
Xu Jingyu patted Xu Bonian on the shoulder, "Bonian, you will always be your father's favorite child, this Xu family is your father's coming-of-age gift!" โ
Since that day, Xu Jingyu has deliberately snubbed Ying Ruyu's mother and son, and even the older Xu Bonian gets, the more this snub will be.
Xu Jingyu is a good talker, and at the age of eighteen, Xu Bonian officially entered the Xu family and became the youngest shareholder of the Xu family.
Xu Jingyu took him by his side to teach in person, and went in and out of various occasions, and suddenly, the identity of Xu Bonian's heir to the Xu family was clear.
Marrying a wife at the age of twenty and giving birth to a son at the age of twenty-one, every step of Xu Bonian's life is to follow his father's steps, the heir of the Xu family has always been an early marriage, and he is a blind man who can see that the old man is praising him.
At the same time, after the death of the old lady of the Xu family, the status of Ying Ruyu's mother and son plummeted.
A powerful stepson and a deliberately snub husband, Ying Ruyu is really heartbroken.
As soon as Xu Bonian got married, she handed over the housekeeping rights to Fang Rou early, and since then she has no family affairs except for her son.
And he did all this in exchange for Xu Jingyu's words, you did this very well.
Ying Ruyu said with a smile, "Young people always have to exercise more!" โ
When she said this, she seemed to have forgotten that she was only twenty-eight years old, but she had become the old lady of the Xu family.
She went from Mrs. Xu to the old lady, but it took less than eight years, is this a winner in life?
Hehe!
Ying Ruyu stared at Xu Jingyu, "Old man, do you remember how I just married into the Xu family?" โ
The old man smiled, with a little apology, "Why don't you remember?" You were much worse then than you are now. โ
When a woman doesn't even bother to throw a tantrum at you, then your position in her heart is really dispensable.
Ying Ruyu also laughed, but it was a little similar to back then, and now Ying Ruyu rarely has such a true temperament smile, and her gestures are with everyone's demeanor, "Don't say it, I forgot, I also had a temper when I was young, did I give you a headache at that time, and annoyed you." โ
Therefore, she was snubbed, and there were very few beds, remember, not long after she gave birth to Nanshan, he went to be sterilized, she didn't know, when she walked through the door of the old lady's room, she heard the mother and son arguing inside, and at that time Nanshan was almost a year old.
Ying Ruyu couldn't remember what mood she was in at the time, she only remembered that she kicked over the flower pot at the door when she turned around, and when she woke up, she was already in her room.
Xu Jingyu didn't explain a word, she stared at him for a while, after all, she was defeated, she could fight with the living, rob, but no matter what, she couldn't fight for a dead person.
That's fine, it's enough for a child to be snubbed by him, and if another child continues to be snubbed like this, she is afraid that she will really not be able to bear it.
The old man's eyes flashed with a little tenderness, and he looked at Ying Ruyu, "Actually, I made you angry and sad, I really didn't do a good job." โ
"Don't say that, old man, where in this world is the best of both worlds, if you want to keep your sincerity to Sister Tang, you naturally have to do that, and if you figure it out, you won't be sad!"
Ying Ruyu said it was simple and light, and if she figured it out, she wouldn't be sad, but who could figure it out so easily, she used all her good times to get this sentence.
The old man reached out to hold Ying Ruyu's hand, this was the first time he held her hand like this, his hand was small, his fingertips were a little cold, with the softness of a woman, "Over the years, it was actually you who have been by my side." โ
Looking at each other, Ying Ruyu laughed softly, "It should actually be my honor to be by the old man's side and give birth to the old man." โ
She thanked him for giving her such a good son, if there were no children, then she was afraid that she would have gone early, day by day, without hope, it was really better to live than to die.
"I've been married to the old man for thirty-five years, and Nanshan will be thirty-four years old after the New Year, and he's not a child anymore." Ying Ruyu looked at Xu Jingyu's eyes, with the initial stubbornness and stubbornness in her eyes, and the words stopped at the most critical place, and looked at him like this.
Xu Jingyu lowered his eyes to look at her and said, "What do you want to say?" โ
Ying Ruyu's expression became a little serious, "The old man should have known about this incident a long time ago, if it weren't for leisurely begging Zhongchun for help, I'm afraid that my only son wouldn't be able to keep it, I really lived in vain in the Xu family for many years." โ
Xu Jingyu guessed that she was going to talk about it, and sure enough, she still spoke.
Ying Ruyu said: "The old man has loved Dafang for many years and makes no secret of it, but what Dafang has done, the old man won't really know it, right?" โ
The second child's car accident, Jingwen's child couldn't be saved several times, and Nanshan's assassinations over the years, how many times, doesn't the old man know who did it?
Xu Jingyu didn't speak, his eyes were complicated, although he was a little cloudy, but he was not confused.
The reason why he did not completely delegate power is also because of this, when he was alive, the boss could not tolerate these brothers, and if he died, wouldn't it be even more intolerable to them.
He had already said that this Xu family would give it to him, but he couldn't bear it, among the three sons of the Xu family, he had the most shares, although the second child had it, but it would not affect him, and even in order to take care of his emotions, Xu Nanshan is now in his thirties, and he has no Xu shares in his hands.
Speaking of which, he, as a father, really didn't treat his children equally, and he owed too much to the third child.
But even so, Bonian is still not satisfied, doing that kind of thing, is he going to let him die without turning a blind eye?
Ying Ruyu looked at the old man's expression, and finally couldn't help it, "I only ask the old man if he has Nanshan as your son?" โ