Chapter 257: Prioritizing and Prioritizing

Han Shu looked at Mrs. Li and said: "Our Han family is from the countryside, you knew about this matter before we got married, so our Han family must have no way to help your family or anything, Han Tianjiao She married Li Feiming as a daughter-in-law, and some of them are nothing more than living a good life, you can also settle down yourself!" “

Mrs. Li frowned, "What do you mean by this?" “

Han Shu shook his head, "If you really have yourself, sooner or later you will get ahead, and it will definitely be unstable if you drill the camp, so it's best to use your mind on reading, of course, Feiming must have the strength to be admitted to the exam, believe in yourself!" ”

Because he is not his grandson, Han Shu is reluctant to say anything, he has no way to manage the Han family now, where can he care about other people.

Seeing that Mrs. Li still disagreed, he could only shake his head, "Okay, we have solved what your family did before, and we won't say much about the rest, you will live your own life in the future, if you really want to do something, go find someone by yourself, don't go through the Han family, we are just a countryman." ”

Mrs. Li frowned and wanted to say something, but Han Shu had already turned around and left, so she could only keep her mouth shut and think about what he said just now.

Zhang's side pulled Han Tianjiao into the house, stretched out his hand and hit her a few times, Han Tianjiao shouted "ah" above, and then asked loudly: "Mother, what are you doing?" ”

Zhang glared at her fiercely, "What do you say!" I ask you, are you stupid! What were you just talking about out there, huh? “

Han Tianjiao looked at Zhang innocently, "What's the matter?" I don't think there's anything wrong with it! “

Zhang sighed, "I said, how did you become so stupid now?" Your grandfather is the biggest in the family, don't you know? If you made him unhappy with what you just said, did you think about the consequences? ”

Han Tianjiao stopped talking, although Zhang looked at her and was cold just now, but now she was a little distressed, she was also someone else's daughter-in-law, how could she not know Han Tianjiao's thoughts.

When I was at home, I was spoiled by my family, and I just married into a strange home, I was not familiar with anything, and everything I did was smeared, so I thought of a way to integrate into that family as soon as possible.

And the Li family is completely different from theirs, Han Tianjiao's situation is even more difficult, and after the Zhang family understands all this, they are even more distressed for their daughter.

"Tianjiao, does my mother know what you want to do? I also know that you want to gain a firm foothold in the Li family as soon as possible, but if you don't do this, all this you do now is likely to bring you bitter fruits in the future. ”

Han Tianjiao no longer has the same appearance as before, and her face is dejected, "Mother, I know!" But what can I do if I don't? You don't know the Li family, there are a lot of rules at home, I don't understand many things, and the people secretly look down on me, I can't help it! ”

Zhang looked at the sadness and sadness on his daughter's face, and his heart was like a knife, this life is lived by people, and it must have been sad at the beginning, not to mention in a family like the Li family.

Even if it was the Han family, the first year she married in was not easy, and it wasn't until Han Tianhua was born that her life slowly improved, and the other concubines also entered the door, and the Liu family no longer stared at her alone.

Zhang sat beside Han Tianjiao, "Tianjiao, you have always been very smart, so my mother believes that you can gain a firm foothold in the Li family, so don't be so anxious, think of a way, people laugh at you, then you can do a few beautiful things, so that they don't dare to underestimate you anymore, Mrs. Li's face is okay, isn't she the most important thing to know?" ”

Han Tianjiao listened to Zhang's words and fell into deep thought, "Mother, are you saying that Xianggong is the most important?" ”

Zhang touched her head, "That's right! As long as you find a way to capture Feiming's heart, all this is not a problem, Mrs. Li only has one son, and she is also a widow, can she not value this son, as long as Feiming is towards you, then she will have to be more scruples in the future, and if you yourself have a stomach, then all this is not a problem. ”

Han Tianjiao's eyes rolled, "That means I have to get pregnant in a hurry?" ”

Zhang nodded, "Yes!" What you are doing now is useless, no matter how much you stammer Mrs. Li, it is useless, what she loves most is her son, you are just a daughter-in-law, you can't be compared with her son, so don't bother her. ”

Han Tianjiao listened carefully.

Zhang earnestly taught his daughter the experience, "You! It's too simple to think, why do you care about her, she will get older and older, and the Li family will be handed over to you sooner or later, so what you have to learn now is how to take charge of the housework, and there is also the right to give birth to a son to the Li family as soon as possible, and don't care about the rest. “

Han Tianjiao frowned and said, "Don't you care about Xianggong's affairs?" “

Zhang glared at her and said: "Then how can you not care, but what you have to do is to have a degree, not too much, and you can't pay but don't let Feiming know, what you have to do is to do things for him while letting him know what you have paid for him?" ”

Han Tianjiao frowned and thought, "Mother, I probably know how to do it." “

Zhang nodded, "It's good that you know, now that you just got married, you have changed from a girl to someone else's lady, you must be a little busy with this identity, but don't worry, don't worry, my mother believes that you can do all this." ”

Han Tianjiao nodded, "Mother, I know." ”

Zhang said with a smile: "Mother knows what you think in your heart, that's why she told you all this, remember, after you go back, you can get by with Mrs. Li's face, pretend to be weak when necessary, especially when there are many people, let others see that you are the one who is being bullied, don't slap her anymore, lest she always look down on you." “

Han Tianjiao nodded to indicate that she knew, "Mother, I understand." ”

Zhang nodded with satisfaction, "Grasp Feiming's heart and find a way to give him a son as soon as possible, this is more important than anything else, don't think so much about the rest, do you know?" ”

Han Tianjiao nodded, but she still felt a little shy when she thought of giving birth, but she had no secrets with her mother, so she had been listening to Zhang's words very carefully.

Seeing that his daughter understood, Zhang's spoke again, "Hasn't Feiming always wanted to have a relationship with the county order now?" You should be active at this point, don't come these days, your father and I have to get things done for your eldest brother first, and you wait until your eldest brother finishes the exam. ”

Although Han Tianjiao was a little dissatisfied with her mother's words, she could only nod her head and agree, because she knew that she was favored at home, but she had to rank behind the eldest brother and the younger brother.

Zhang saw her daughter's thoughts at a glance, and she said: "Don't blame me for looking at your eldest brother, you don't want to think that I can count on your eldest brother after your father, if you can count on us, we will definitely be towards you, so don't think anything about us." ”

Han Tianjiao shook her head, "No, mother, don't think so, I can understand it." ”

Zhang smiled and said, "It's good if you know, besides, your eldest brother is fine, aren't you also good?" So don't worry so much, you just need to know that you send someone to keep an eye on the county order later, if he comes to Hanjia Village, you will take Feiming to your third uncle's house, no matter what your third uncle's side does, you have to go with a dead face, this is not for anything else, but for Feiming to see, you can do anything for him, men are like this, you need to move them, they will be interested in you. ”

Han Tianjiao nodded, and Zhang continued: "As long as you do your best to help Feiming, it is impossible for him to be indifferent, besides, he has already taken a fancy to you, and it is easy to grasp his heart." ”

Han Tianjiao thought for a while and said, "Mother, I know." ”

Zhang said to Han Tianjiao earnestly: "The situation of our family is different from that of the Li family, my mother knows that your situation in the Li family is difficult, but you have to remember that people must first have dignity before they can be respected, our family is poor, but this is your mother's family, if you look down on it from the bottom of your heart, do you think that if you have anything in the future, who can help you?" ”

Although Han Tianjiao felt that she didn't need help from her family at all, and she didn't think that the Han family could give her any help, she also knew that what her mother said was right, so she could only nod and agree.

Zhang looked at his daughter and said, "Anything must not be concluded when it is not to the end, don't you know?" Are you sure that the Han family is your mother's family, and you can't rely on it in your life? is so anxious to offend your mother's family, do you think your mother-in-law can afford you? ”

When Han Tianjiao heard this, she was like a slap in the face, and she immediately understood, she really spoke inappropriately just now, the Han family will always be her root, if she looks down on herself, then the Li family will not look down on her even more.

Han Tianjiao slowly calmed down, she really felt that after marrying into the Li family, because she was picked on by Mrs. Li and discussed a few words by her subordinates, the whole person lost her former calmness, so she was a little underthinking.

Now that she has been taught a lesson by her mother, she understands that she is a little anxious, all this should be done slowly, how many years has the descendants of the Li family been at home, how long has she been married, and it is really not cost-effective to deal with them.

Besides, the identity of the next person is not the same as her! Why should she hold on to her subordinates, as long as she can gain a firm foothold in the Li family, who of these subordinates would dare to talk about her behind her back?

After thinking about all this, Han Tianjiao said to Zhang: "Mother, you are right, I was too nervous before, and I was in a hurry, so there was something wrong with doing things, but now that I have calmed down, I understand what you mean, I will pay attention to it in the future." ”

Zhang looked at her daughter and finally reacted, she nodded, "It's good that you know it yourself, my mother just wants you to live your own life, and the rest really doesn't matter." ”

Han Tianjiao nodded while holding Zhang's family with emotion, in fact, although Zhang's words were not explained, she knew that Zhang's was warning her, and Zhang didn't care about her mother's affairs.